I’m only slightly disappointed with this book, mostly because I feel like I didn’t learn anything groundbreaking from it. From the little I understand of Stoicism (which seems to be focused on an acceptance of the reality with which you’re presented), I would say it’s incomplete because of the fact that it doesn’t take into account the LH view of reality, which strives to better the conditions on the ground of life, and it also seeks to distance itself from the body, a ‘disembedding’ mistake which I certainly don’t seek to emulate. Our intelligence is intimately connected with our body, even if we aren’t ultimately our bodies. But anyway. What I loved was Aurelius’ focus on the ‘whole’ and on proper action in light of this understanding.
In what follows I’ll provide some of the quotes that stood out to me, perhaps offering a few words here and there where I feel like doing so.
““Don’t waste the rest of your time here worrying about other people—unless it affects the common good. It will keep you from doing anything useful.”
“Forget everything else. Keep hold of this alone and remember it: Each of us lives only now, this brief instant. The rest has been lived already, or is impossible to see. The span we live is small—small as the corner of the earth in which we live it. Small as even the greatest renown, passed from mouth to mouth by short-lived stick figures, ignorant alike of themselves and those long dead.” (He goes on a lot about the NOW and how we forget the present at our peril.)
“It was for the best. So Nature had no choice but to do it. That every event is the right one. Look closely and you’ll see. Not just the right one overall, but right. As if someone had weighed it out with scales.”
“Many lumps of incense on the same altar. One crumbles now, one later, but it makes no difference”
“Poor: (adj.) requiring others; not having the necessities of life in one’s own possession.” (Here I would have to take exception; this definition pathologizes dependency, the rock upon which we all rest. Yes, I understand the need to be independent up to a point, but not where you would describe as poor anyone who ‘requires others’. I think it’s wrong to say this.)
“Everything fades so quickly, turns into legend, and soon oblivion covers it.
And those are the ones who shone. The rest—“unknown, unasked-for” a minute after death. What is “eternal” fame? Emptiness.
Then what should we work for?
Only this: proper understanding; unselfish action; truthful speech. A resolve to accept whatever happens as necessary and familiar, flowing like water from that same source and spring.”
“The world as a living being—one nature, one soul. Keep that in mind. And how everything feeds into that single experience, moves with a single motion. And how everything helps produce everything else. Spun and woven together.”
“What follows coheres with what went before. Not like a random catalogue whose order is imposed upon it arbitrarily, but logically connected. And just as what exists is ordered and harmonious, what comes into being betrays an order too. Not a mere sequence, but an astonishing concordance.”
“If anyone can refute me—show me I’m making a mistake or looking at things from the wrong perspective—I’ll gladly change. It’s the truth I’m after, and the truth never harmed anyone. What harms us is to persist in self-deceit and ignorance.”
“The ocean: a drop of water.
Mount Athos: a molehill.
The present: a split second in eternity.
Minuscule, transitory, insignificant.”
“Keep reminding yourself of the way things are connected, of their relatedness. All things are implicated in one another and in sympathy with each other. This event is the consequence of some other one. Things push and pull on each other, and breathe together, and are one.”
“All of us are working on the same project. Some consciously, with understanding; some without knowing it. (I think this is what Heraclitus meant when he said that “those who sleep are also hard at work”—that they too collaborate in what happens.) Some of us work in one way, and some in others. And those who complain and try to obstruct and thwart things—they help as much as anyone. The world needs them as well.”
“What injures the hive injures the bee.”
“Everything is interwoven, and the web is holy; none of its parts are unconnected. They are composed harmoniously, and together they compose the world.
One world, made up of all things.
One divinity, present in them all.
One substance and one law—the logos that all rational beings share.
And one truth . . .
If this is indeed the culmination of one process, beings who share the same birth, the same logos.”
“Look at the past—empire succeeding empire—and from that, extrapolate the future: the same thing. No escape from the rhythm of events.
Which is why observing life for forty years is as good as a thousand. Would you really see anything new?”
“A better wrestler. But not a better citizen, a better person, a better resource in tight places, a better forgiver of faults.”
“When you have to deal with someone, ask yourself: What does he mean by good and bad? If he thinks x or y about pleasure and pain (and what produces them), about fame and disgrace, about death and life, then it shouldn’t shock or surprise you when he does x or y.
In fact, I’ll remind myself that he has no real choice.”
“Everything in flux. And you too will alter in the whirl and perish, and the world as well.”
“You participate in a society by your existence. Then participate in its life through your actions—all your actions. Any action not directed toward a social end (directly or indirectly) is a disturbance to your life, an obstacle to wholeness, a source of dissension. Like the man in the Assembly—a faction to himself, always out of step with the majority.”
“To follow the logos in all things is to be relaxed and energetic, joyful and serious at once.” (The logos is just the Tao by another name; they’re the same thing.)
“Continual awareness of all time and space, of the size and life span of the things around us. A grape seed in infinite space. A half twist of a corkscrew against eternity.”