You can be do and have anything you want as long as your work matches your want. This book is the guide to getting everything you want. A rubber band is only good for something when it's being stretched. If it's just laying around, not being stretched, not being productive then it's not living up to its potential and is useless. Are you being stretched? Are you being productive? Take off the limits. Life is really simple, figure out what you want then figure out what you're willing to give up to get it, and then do it.