Sexo y la Supremacía de Cristo

by John Piper

Es imposible pensar en un regalo de Dios que haya sido más abusado y mal utilizado que el sexo. Lo que tenía el propósito de ser una imagen asombrosa, pura y terrenal de las realidades maravillosas y eternas del cielo, ha sido pervertido y transformado en un dios atractivo, pero falso, que en realidad es una caricatura grotesca del Dios verdadero.

Este libro nos insta a que nuestra vida y forma de pensar sean cautivas a la supremacía de Cristo y reflejen deleite en nuestra sexualidad junto a nuestro esposo celestial.

Genres: Marriage, Christian, Theology, Christian Living, Nonfiction, Christianity, Sexuality

512 pages, Paperback

First published June 14, 2005

About the author

John Piper is founder and teacher of desiringGod.org and chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary. For 33 years, he served as senior pastor at Bethlehem Baptist Church, Minneapolis, Minnesota.

He grew up in Greenville, South Carolina, and studied at Wheaton College, Fuller Theological Seminary (B.D.), and the University of Munich (D.theol.). For six years, he taught Biblical Studies at Bethel College in St. Paul, Minnesota, and in 1980 accepted the call to serve as pastor at Bethlehem.

John is the author of more than 50 books and more than 30 years of his preaching and teaching is available free at desiringGod.org. John and his wife, Noel, have four sons, one daughter, and twelve grandchildren.

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Reviews

[Julie Bradley Atkinson · Rating 1 out of 5]

I was very discouraged when reading the section for women. Doing your hair and putting on lipstick to inspire sexuality from your man seems so far from the Garden of Eden and what God's Word has taught me about sex. It saddened me that these sections seemed to objectify sexual encounters more than it promoted the mystery of being one flesh, in God's presence. However, I have to admit that I only read the sections on men/women/sex - I just couldn't bear to read more.

[Jason · Rating 4 out of 5]

I recommend this book as a solid resource for churches, Christian leaders and individuals to teach and understand a total view of practical and Biblical teaching on human sexuality. Even though the book is a group effort of twelve different writers, it is comprehensive enough to challenge every Christian to grasp the concept that sexuality is not only good, but a God ordained creation for living as the creatures that he has made.

While merely having the word Sex as the first word of any title of a book is sure to gain access to more eyes than not having it there, the title for the interested reader would be best The Supremacy of Christ over Sex. This being a book that comes with John Piper's name as an editor means that the focus will be on what he has termed Christian hedonism and the pleasure of enjoying God's creation, under his redemptive will in Christ, to the fullest extent lawful, to honor God to the greatest extent possible.

Sex, in our time especially, seems to either be either an act of selfishness, guilt or, like the Gnostic heresy of old, a complete separation for the Christian between holy living and action. The purpose of this book is to remind, encourage and develop thought and action in people to embrace sexuality as part of God's world. Even the failings, brokenness, and sin that develop through sex can be redeemed.

The book is divided into five sections covering the theological applications of God and sex and sin and sex in the first two sections. The middle sections of the volume deal with more practical concerns that men and women at various times of life regarding sex, and the book ends with very intriguing histories of Martin Luther and his wife and how the Puritans understood and applied sexuality.

he last section holds interest to me as a reader of history, including church history. The Protestant Reformer Martin Luther's marriage to the former nun Katherine von Bora is described with all its unique joys and foibles. The Luther's are presented as a couple that married out of duty and grew in deep love as their family grew. It is a delightful tale worth checking, especially for what would be shocking to us, 16th century German wedding customs. The book concludes with an attempt to explain the 17thcentury Puritan approaches to sexuality and marriage written by Washington's Capitol Hill Baptist pastor, Mark Dever. Probably no other group suffers today from historical misrepresentation as the Puritans and Dever attempts to change the record a bit by explaining how revolutionary the Puritan approach to marriage was that we are still the beneficiary of it. His attempt to explain the Puritan approaches as a revolution against medieval asceticism helps to explain why marriages in the West developed from loveless matches to passionate matching. Probably no one in history valued the role of the wife towards the success of the growing passion between a Puritan husband and wife.

[Randy Alcorn]

Sex is a wonderful gift from God; but it makes a terrible idol, brutal and unyielding in the misery it inflicts. These authors are a breath of fresh air, because unlike our culture’s self-proclaimed sexperts, they respect biblical authority and warmly embrace the Lordship of Christ. Hence, they can lift up the torch of divine truth and expose the enemy’s lies about sex that have penetrated not only the darkest corners of our culture, but of our churches. I pray Sex and the Supremacy of Christ will demonstrate to readers that Christ being Lord of all means that He must be Lord of all we think, say and do about sex...and that in His lordship we will find deliverance and joy.

[Daniel · Rating 3 out of 5]

A thoughtful discussion of sex and marriage and their role in the Christian life. Especially appreciated the variety of contributors and topics. A marriage done right really is an appropriate illustration of true Christianity in the selflessness, sacrifice and love required to sustain it. Praying that more Christians would switch over from "defending marriage" to "defining marriage" through their lifestyle and choices.

[Jo · Rating 3 out of 5]

Great essays. I skipped part four on men, I particularly liked reading about Martin Luther and the puritans. I read this on the heels of reading "Momentary Marriage" so I may have given it a higher mark, but in comparison - I like "Momentary Marriage" because of its reflection of marriage in the light of its shadow to the Divine Marriage.

[Courtney Huskisson · Rating 4 out of 5]

As a collection of works from many different authors, this edition is a great survey of the subject. The outline is simple and really helpful. Part 1 begins with God's purpose and creation of Sex, part 2 shows the effects of the falseness of humanity and sex (as well as it's redemption), parts 3 and 4 turn to speak directly to men and women respectively, and then ends with part 5 and historical teachings of marriage and sex from prominent voices of the reformation and puritans.

This book is certainly more of an 'academic read' and takes attention and thoughtfulness to get through. I think what this book offers in strength is the footnotes and further resources. This is a book to begin a biblical study of this subject & offers help for further research. Each chunk is also applicable to real-life however, and there are clear gems in every section. However, my favorite section was the chapter written by David Powlison titled "Making all things New: Restoring Pure Joy to the Sexually Broken." His explanation and walk-though of sanctification is powerful. The best thing I've read on the subject.

As far as a recommendation, I would recommend this to those who are looking for a deeper study, or would like to have as a resource -- different chapters could be really applicable at different times. Although, I still think the BEST book on the subject for EVERY Christian is still Paul Tripp's "Sex in a Broken World.

[Daniel · Rating 1 out of 5]

This book (from 2004) is unfortunately aged. There are some interesting parts to it. But much of it comes across as disappointingly shallow or just random (an extended examination of how Puritans viewed sex? Why?). But when I say it's aged even the viewpoint feels off now. Joshua Harris is mentioned multiple times as an exemplar which really hurts - he's divorced and both he and his ex-wife have abandoned the faith, really bad look. But even his viewpoint (not just his example) I think is widely seen now as being more harmful than helpful. C.J. Mahaney also figures largely in the book and is now thought to have covered up sexual abuse in the church - another really bad look. All these things that have happened since this writing makes it difficult to read now.

[Angie · Rating 5 out of 5]

The reality is that if the church continues to ignore (the people of God) the supremacy and intentionality that God bestowed in humans by creating sex, we will continue to allow our children, college students, & generations to walk in darkness.


Culture is already shaping the mind of all people. Culture is twisting a gift that is intended to bring God glory, so church, let’s speak up!



The greatest take away from this book is that truth will set you free, truth will encourage you to speak about freedom with love. Truth will encourage you to move, speak, and act for the glory of God! When we UNDERSTAND the supremacy of Christ we begin to live, to really live!!!

[Marcus Whitson · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was great! If you have ever had any sort of libido, this is a MUST READ!!!

Paired with Heath Lambert’s book “Finally Free,” this book is changing my perspective on life.

These authors have been faithful to God’s word and, and encouraged me. They broke me down, exposing past sins I’ve never dealt with, and current ones that I wasn’t aware of. I highly recommend at least Powlison’s chapter “Making all things new; Restoring Pure Joy to the Sexually Broken,” and all four of the chapters to men and women.

You will be confronted, and broken in sin, the authors will build you up in Christ, not in your own achievement, truly making Christ Supreme in our world full of sex.

[Melina · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book gives a very broad perspective on the subject. Often sex is just viewed technically or otherwise as apart from everything else, but here it is dealt with holistically: Sex and the glory of God, sex and gender, homosexuality, history, singleness. Therefore this book is recommendable for men and women, for single and married people and those in or almost in a relationship. One can find helpful guidelines and background information.
Personally, I have found this book a great eye opener, very honest and easy to read.
Also, it answers the important question of how to approach sex.

[Kylee Washington · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think this may be the most impactful read I’ve had in a long while, while I was but let down by the section targeted for women (the typical proverbs 31 info), I think as a whole this book is an incredible tool to guide and empower all!

“Sexuality is designed by God as a way to know Christ more fully”
“Knowing God is a way of guarding and guiding that sexuality.”

By knowing fully who Christ is and who he calls us to be, we can suffer with joy for purity and for the sake of loving others well
Also this book is free sooooo y’all should read or give it a skim 😁

[Balakumar · Rating 4 out of 5]

interesting and motivating. in the midst of chaotic understanding of sexuality such books stands challenging. followers of Christ needed to be more of a witness to what God has revealed in His holy scriptures for the human living. and today sexuality is one of effective area where in which it's possible. the authors were very intentional and specific about the issues which they addressed. those who interested in the classic Christianity will be much benefited.

[Frederick Chapman · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was a very refreshing look at sex and how far we've strayed from Gods intent for our pleasure in our sexuality. As I read, I was convicted of my short comings in the flesh. I was pleasantly surprised to find the audio presentations of this book, at The desiring God Confrence from 2004. I found myself motivated to do better at referencing scripture to help with bringing my flesh under subjection of The Holy Spirit.

[Jesús Ramos Cardona · Rating 5 out of 5]

Un libro que vale la pena re-leer, este es un compendio de pensamientos sobre el sexo de autores de gran peso con C. J. Mahaney, Mark Dever, David Powlison, Piper, entre otros. Recomendado tanto para hombres como para mujeres, por su contenido tan amplio y completo. No deje de leer el último capítulo: "Los puritanos y el sexo", podrá adentrarse para su beneficio en varias de las mentes más brillantes del siglo XVII.

[Chris Braudis · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great read, very informative.

I picked five out if five because this book helped me think about sex and sexual desires in a healthy way. I realize that God made me with these desires and there should be no shame in that, but to be careful of sin that distorts those desires! Very good read. Enjoyed the various authors taking on different chapters.

[Sipho · Rating 3 out of 5]

Pretty much reflects the American, evangelical view of sex, marriage and gender.

Which...ok.

I'll say this: I'd have felt differently about this book if I'd read it 6 or 7 years ago.

Now, I guess I have more questions and reservations, especially with regards to Piper et al's views on marriage and gender roles.

Also, some of the contributors to this work have since been involved in sexual scandals.

Which doesn't necessarily take away from the validity of their points.

It just taints them somewhat.

That said, to its benefit, this book is incredibly biblically grounded and Christ-centered.

[Lucas Nosal · Rating 4 out of 5]

Used this as a resource for a sermon series I am doing on marriage and family. It was a helpful book for thinking through the deeper meanings of physical intimacy. There are also a few sections on advice for men and women, whether single of married, that I thought were beneficial. It is a compilation of essays, so some chapters are better than others.

[Elijah Abanto · Rating 5 out of 5]

I thank God for this book for teaching me so many things about sex through a biblical, practical, and godly point of view that addresses everyone: single men, single women, married men and married women. Sex is a gift of God, and we must appreciate it in the context that God commands.

[Sydni · Rating 4 out of 5]

Solid!! Read in college but it was obviously much more impactful now that I'm married. Love how every point each author makes is scripturally-based, and that everything points back to knowing Christ, treasuring Him, and looking forward to our marriage with Him in eternity.

[Josiah · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is an excellent read. The chapter by Powlison alone makes this book worth getting. Not all of the chapters are equally commendable (e.g., the ones by C.J. and Carolyn Mahaney) - but overall this book is excellent.

[Ferry · Rating 5 out of 5]

Crucial Message in Sex & Relationship

Im today age, sex is elevated into a ground that presumably more “liberating” and yet ever increasingly dissatisfying. Biblical, God centered sex is the key to everlasting joy and satisfaction. God designs it after all.

[Paul · Rating 3 out of 5]

Really relevant book. Bit too American in places and could have been edited down a bit more. However it was a wonderful and insightful read especially the chapters for women, Puritanism and Martin Luther.

[Isaac · Rating 3 out of 5]

Generally good, but the multiple author problem here is that when the really good ideas pop up, they are left undeveloped. Piper’s two chapters and their ideas could have done with multiple chapters of exposition in themselves. Recommend listening to conference audio over reading.

[Elizabeth Salamanca · Rating 5 out of 5]

Ha sido el mejor libro que he leido sobre el tema de la sexualidad desde una perspectiva Biblica

[Karen Kilwake · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great perspective.

[Coram Deo Church]

Sex and the Supremacy of Christ is not currently available at local libraries.

[Mallory · Rating 5 out of 5]

Essential for every church library and Christian home library.

[Jarl · Rating 4 out of 5]

A well written anthology covering a variety of topics, but with a consistant message: we should let Christ reign supreme over all the good things that God has given us, including our sexual life.

[James Passaro · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good from what I remember

[Charles Carter · Rating 4 out of 5]

A friend lent me this book so I could read Mahaney's chapter on Song of Songs. It was so good I bought a copy of the book and then re-read that same chapter, using it for a synthesis class of OT Poetry (or Wisdom Lit). Years later I would go on to read, and greatly benefit, from the rest of the book. In addition to Mahaney's chapter on SOS, my marriage was especially blessed by the chapter his wife wrote. Personally, I enjoyed the chapters by Patterson and Powlison, there were also a few interesting things re the Puritans, by Dever, toward the end of the book. In fact, I'd say the Powlison chapter is particularly rewarding at a personal level. All in all, a book well worth reading.