'You've got the bad statistics, but we treat kids one by one'
I'd been looking for a book about experiences in pediatric medicine ever since I've chosen pediatrics as a vocation five years ago, and finally, I was recommended this book by a colleague a few months ago.
Reading this book felt incredibly validating, as I found that many of my observations and aspirations for pediatric care were shared by Dr. Newman. I feel empowered to fight for change, just like he did at Children's National.
As pediatricians, we often like to gripe that "children are not young adults", but Dr. Kurt put a new spin on it: children are future adults. We definitely ought to think of them that way, for our interventions and the experiences children have under our care, can have lasting effects on their futures. I plan on adopting this mantra into my daily practice.
Honestly speaking, though it may sound superficial, I was a bit weary of the book being written by a surgeon, that wouldn't fully understand or convey how pediatricians think (I know, we sound like a cult). I had mentioned that jokingly to the colleague that had presented the book to me, but I'm sure that joke came from somewhere inside my head where my lovey-dovey pediatrician brain was reflecting on the stereotypes of surgeons I had in mind. I was very wrong. Dr. Newman is no ordinary surgeon, he's a pediatric surgeon. I quickly found out that my worries were unfounded when he addressed this point early on in the book, about how he had felt alienated by the practice of general surgeons, and found his calling with pediatric patients. Throughout his book, he embodied and conveyed every aspect of pediatric ideals and practice. To me at least, he's an honorary pediatrician.
Having put my prejudices aside (seriously I need to loosen up), I found that I couldn't finish the book in one sitting, I had to savor it. So, for the past six months, I read one or two chapters every couple weeks to a month, and tried to reflect on his insights, contrast and compare with my own, and build new heuristics and principles in my mind. It's as if I had found a mentor, and wanted to spend as much time as possible learning from him.
I recommend this book for all healthcare workers working with children, and all parents, new and old, especially parents of sick children.
I think this book will validate and empower you to make the right decisions, be it for your child, or patient. and after all, is there a difference?