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Switched
Israel Ingham’s life has never been easy. He grew up in a house devoid of love and warmth. Nothing he ever did was good enough. The fact Israel is gay just added to the long list of his father’s disappointments.
Then a letter from Eastport Children’s Hospital changes everything.
A discovery is made, one of gross human error. Twenty-six years ago two baby boys were switched at birth and sent home with the wrong families.
Sam, Israel’s best friend, has been his only source of love and support. With Sam beside him every step of the way, Israel decides to meet his birth mother and her son, the man who lived the life Israel should have.
Israel and Sam become closer than ever, amidst the tumultuous emotions of meeting his birth family, and Sam finds himself questioning his feelings toward his best friend. As Israel embraces new possibilities, he needs to dissect his painful relationship with his parents in order to salvage what’s left.
Because sometimes it takes proof you’re not actually family to become one.
Then a letter from Eastport Children’s Hospital changes everything.
A discovery is made, one of gross human error. Twenty-six years ago two baby boys were switched at birth and sent home with the wrong families.
Sam, Israel’s best friend, has been his only source of love and support. With Sam beside him every step of the way, Israel decides to meet his birth mother and her son, the man who lived the life Israel should have.
Israel and Sam become closer than ever, amidst the tumultuous emotions of meeting his birth family, and Sam finds himself questioning his feelings toward his best friend. As Israel embraces new possibilities, he needs to dissect his painful relationship with his parents in order to salvage what’s left.
Because sometimes it takes proof you’re not actually family to become one.
269 pages, Kindle Edition
First published December 25, 2016
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N.R. Walker
133 books5,266 followersAuthor also writes as A. Voyeur
N.R. Walker is an Australian author, who loves her genre of gay romance. She loves writing and spends far too much time doing it, but wouldn't have it any other way.
She is many things; a mother, a wife, a sister, a writer. She has pretty, pretty boys who she gives them life with words.
She likes it when they do dirty, dirty things...but likes it even more when they fall in love. She used to think having people in her head talking to her was weird, until one day she happened across other writers who told her it was normal.
She’s been writing ever since...
https://www.facebook.com/N.R.WalkerAu...
N.R. Walker is an Australian author, who loves her genre of gay romance. She loves writing and spends far too much time doing it, but wouldn't have it any other way.
She is many things; a mother, a wife, a sister, a writer. She has pretty, pretty boys who she gives them life with words.
She likes it when they do dirty, dirty things...but likes it even more when they fall in love. She used to think having people in her head talking to her was weird, until one day she happened across other writers who told her it was normal.
She’s been writing ever since...
https://www.facebook.com/N.R.WalkerAu...
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January 1, 2017
What sorcery is this? Nic Walker waves her author wand and POOF!
Switched is magic:
- BFFs-to-lovers (Israel and Sam have been friends for more than a decade. Sam is the first person Iz turns to, always.)
- friendship (Israel and Sam's friends are supportive and hilarious. They call Israel "Captain" and sing the SpongeBob theme song as an inside joke. I don't recommend the song. I DO recommend friends who don't take life too seriously.)
- family (but not manufactured family DRAMA)
- love & sex (YES! This is one of Walker's steamier reads; I LOVED the slow burn and the scorching chemistry the MCs had together. That slow grind & dance was everything. HOT, baby!)
- enough angst for some real hurt/comfort, but balanced with humor and banter (I absolutely adored the interactions between Sam and Iz. Is there anything sweeter than falling in love with your best friend?)
- bestest epilogue (GAH! I read it three times.)
As the blurb states, Israel, raised by a series of nannies and gardeners, finds out he was switched at birth. This sounds très dramatique, but it's handled beautifully. Not for one moment did this story feel like a soap opera.
As Israel navigates the long road of meeting his birth family and coming to terms with the anger and resentment he feels toward the father (and mother) who raised him, Sam is Israel's rock, his constant.
The relationship between Sam and Israel is built on trust and respect. It doesn't hurt that Sam is kind of a bossy shit, and Iz secretly loves being ordered about a little. The way Iz and Sam came together was PERFECT and funny. Oh, yes, their friends enjoyed the show.
Strong writing, awesome MCs, and an interesting exploration of family dynamics made this book unputdownable (that's totally a word).
5 stars and then one more.
Switched is magic:
- BFFs-to-lovers (Israel and Sam have been friends for more than a decade. Sam is the first person Iz turns to, always.)
- friendship (Israel and Sam's friends are supportive and hilarious. They call Israel "Captain" and sing the SpongeBob theme song as an inside joke. I don't recommend the song. I DO recommend friends who don't take life too seriously.)
- family (but not manufactured family DRAMA)
- love & sex (YES! This is one of Walker's steamier reads; I LOVED the slow burn and the scorching chemistry the MCs had together. That slow grind & dance was everything. HOT, baby!)
- enough angst for some real hurt/comfort, but balanced with humor and banter (I absolutely adored the interactions between Sam and Iz. Is there anything sweeter than falling in love with your best friend?)
- bestest epilogue (GAH! I read it three times.)
As the blurb states, Israel, raised by a series of nannies and gardeners, finds out he was switched at birth. This sounds très dramatique, but it's handled beautifully. Not for one moment did this story feel like a soap opera.
As Israel navigates the long road of meeting his birth family and coming to terms with the anger and resentment he feels toward the father (and mother) who raised him, Sam is Israel's rock, his constant.
The relationship between Sam and Israel is built on trust and respect. It doesn't hurt that Sam is kind of a bossy shit, and Iz secretly loves being ordered about a little. The way Iz and Sam came together was PERFECT and funny. Oh, yes, their friends enjoyed the show.
Strong writing, awesome MCs, and an interesting exploration of family dynamics made this book unputdownable (that's totally a word).
5 stars and then one more.
July 14, 2024
Reread Sept. 2017 When real life goes to shit, NR Walker is my happy place.
N.R. Walker is so beyond talented it just doesn't seem fair to everyone else. She has a true gift of bringing out love and joy and intense emotions in me. I absolutely adore her books and Switch is no exception. This book is delightful and has everything I've come to expect from a N.R. Walker novel. Sam and Iz are hot as fuck and full of love and all things warm and fuzzy. I loved this book and HIGHLY RECOMMEND to all M/M romance fans.
Now that I've read her newest book, I feel like revisiting some of her older books. I've already read Point of No Return at least 5 times, so I'll probably start with Spencer Cohen, one on my top 10 books for 2016.
Read this one friends! You will love it.
This review is also posted at Gay Book Reviews
N.R. Walker is so beyond talented it just doesn't seem fair to everyone else. She has a true gift of bringing out love and joy and intense emotions in me. I absolutely adore her books and Switch is no exception. This book is delightful and has everything I've come to expect from a N.R. Walker novel. Sam and Iz are hot as fuck and full of love and all things warm and fuzzy. I loved this book and HIGHLY RECOMMEND to all M/M romance fans.
Now that I've read her newest book, I feel like revisiting some of her older books. I've already read Point of No Return at least 5 times, so I'll probably start with Spencer Cohen, one on my top 10 books for 2016.
Read this one friends! You will love it.
This review is also posted at Gay Book Reviews
February 7, 2017
4 Stars!!
N.R. Walker delivers a heartwarming read that totally warmed my heart. I’m a big fan of this author, so trust me when I say that 'Switched' was N.R. Walker at her best. If you are a fan of comfort/healing and/or friends to lovers stories, then you will enjoy this one. 'Switched' was emotional, gripping, with a cast of main and supportive characters you will like from the very beginning.
Israel is a twenty-six years old man who’s working for his father’s company as a junior executive manager. He had been groomed for his role in his father’s business, to fallow his footsteps, whether he wanted to or not. He had always been a constant string of disappointments to his parents in his youth, so as the only child, he accepted his obligation and duty and did his job. He’s good as what he does for a living, has some great friends, but sadly his relationship with his parents is not a good one or what Israel considers to be a “normal” parent-child relationship, especially since he has always been rejected by them in one way or another.
Israel’s life is turned out upside down, when he finds out he was switched at birth. From the moment he finds out about this error, Israel doesn’t know who he is anymore, what to feel and what to do about,...well, everything. Sam, Israel’s best friend, has been his friend since they were thirteen years old. He had been his only source of love and support, he had always been his lifeline, the one who saved him every time he needed saving. He had always relied on him in one way or another, every time he needed care or support. Now, that his life changed completely, Israel needs Sam more than anything, more than ever and Sam is more than willing to help his friend in every way he can. When Israel decides to meet his birth mother, his friendship with Sam becomes stronger than ever, Israel’s feelings towards Sam starting to change slowly into something more.
'Switched' was well written and liked I previously mentioned, quite emotional. This book made me feel so much – I sympathize with Israel, I wanted to give Sam a big hug for his love and support towards his best friend and I was rooting for these two from the very beginning. I liked how the two main characters were introduced, their portrayal and I liked them as individuals. Israel was such a great character to read about. My heart broke for him. Not only because in his 26 years he didn’t feel his parents’ love, but also because his life was turned upside down in such unexpected way. He was sweet, a little too dependent to Sam, but overall a nice, caring, good guy. As the story progressed, I felt his anger, his loneliness and how scared he was. At times, I wanted to give him a hug so badly…poor Israel. Sam was everything Israel needed and such a wonderful man. Even if the story is written just from Israel’s POV, I felt like I knew Sam. I loved his consideration and thoughtfulness, how protective he was at times, his need to make his best friend feel accepted and loved.
These two were so great together – as friends, but most of all as a couple. I loved them together. Their sweet times made me smile so much and their sexy times warmed my heart, because I felt how much they care for each other, but also their love for each other. The trust and respect between them were simply lovely and so great to read about. The slow burn relationship between them really worked for me and their chemistry OMG…N.R. Walker did such a great job with this aspect. These two were hot as hell together. Love all their sexy scenes.
The cast of supporting characters were wonderfully written and the epilogue was pure sweetness. Loved it! As for the family dynamics as the story progressed, I have to say that the author did a fantastic job, handling everything with so much care.
If you’re looking for a sweet and sexy healing/comfort read, low in angst and drama, with two wonderful main characters, then you don’t want to miss this one.
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June 21, 2020
I loved, loved, LOVED this book!
It's no secret that I'm a huge fan of this author, and the fact that I just met her for the first time at GRL, and that she was amazing to talk to and so goddamn sweet and funny.......had really nothing to do with my rating. Because this book will speak for itself.
Walker was a little more hush hush about this release of hers than some of her previous books. I remember seeing the blurb only very recently and reading Walker's words about it being a bit angstier than her norm. That was really all the prep I had. And I love me some angst, so hell yeah, I'm in!
Israel Ingham is 26, an only child, and has pretty much been told and shown how much of a disappointment he is to his parents for his entire life. He has no other family to speak of, so it's his group of friends, and Sam in particular, who bring the only light and sanity to Israel's life. Sam. Sigh. What a perfect boyfriend. We'll get to him in a moment.
Israel and his parents are summoned to his birth hospital, and a bomb is dropped. They think Israel and another baby boy were accidentally switched in the nursery 26 years ago. Israel is met with a plethora of emotions, but one stands out. Is this why he's never felt a sense of belonging in his family? Because he never really belonged with them to begin with?
His entire world turns upside down, and a woman who's his birth mother and her children want to meet him. He can't handle another rejection after what he's felt from his parents his entire life.
Enter Sam. Sigh again. Sam has been Israel's best friend since the ripe age of 13, and he isn't about to let Israel walk a step of this journey alone. He drops everything to be with him through the shit storm that has taken over Israel's life. Even with only Israel's POV, Walker wrote Sam's character so freakin' well. Sam is clearly pining for our Israel and wants to jump his bones something fierce, but poor Israel is completely clueless........until he's not.
The author takes us through Israel's three journeys: Israel and Sam, Israel and his biological family, and Israel with his parents.
This book has it all! The perfect amount of angst, best friends to lovers, amazing banter between not only our MCs, but their circle of friends as well, that left me laughing out loud, and shit-hot sexy times! That's right, my friends, Walker brings the dirty in this one, and I was fanning myself. I'll never listen to Give Me One Reason to Stay Here again without thinking of this book and a certain sexy grinding dance that had me panting.
I will also never be able to read the One Fish, Two Fish Dr. Seuss book again without thinking "I do not give one fuck, two fucks, red fucks, blue fucks."
5 glorious stars and a high recommend!
**PS - Take a moment to appreciate that cover because holy hell, that is beautiful!
It's no secret that I'm a huge fan of this author, and the fact that I just met her for the first time at GRL, and that she was amazing to talk to and so goddamn sweet and funny.......had really nothing to do with my rating. Because this book will speak for itself.
Walker was a little more hush hush about this release of hers than some of her previous books. I remember seeing the blurb only very recently and reading Walker's words about it being a bit angstier than her norm. That was really all the prep I had. And I love me some angst, so hell yeah, I'm in!
Israel Ingham is 26, an only child, and has pretty much been told and shown how much of a disappointment he is to his parents for his entire life. He has no other family to speak of, so it's his group of friends, and Sam in particular, who bring the only light and sanity to Israel's life. Sam. Sigh. What a perfect boyfriend. We'll get to him in a moment.
Israel and his parents are summoned to his birth hospital, and a bomb is dropped. They think Israel and another baby boy were accidentally switched in the nursery 26 years ago. Israel is met with a plethora of emotions, but one stands out. Is this why he's never felt a sense of belonging in his family? Because he never really belonged with them to begin with?
His entire world turns upside down, and a woman who's his birth mother and her children want to meet him. He can't handle another rejection after what he's felt from his parents his entire life.
Enter Sam. Sigh again. Sam has been Israel's best friend since the ripe age of 13, and he isn't about to let Israel walk a step of this journey alone. He drops everything to be with him through the shit storm that has taken over Israel's life. Even with only Israel's POV, Walker wrote Sam's character so freakin' well. Sam is clearly pining for our Israel and wants to jump his bones something fierce, but poor Israel is completely clueless........until he's not.
The author takes us through Israel's three journeys: Israel and Sam, Israel and his biological family, and Israel with his parents.
This book has it all! The perfect amount of angst, best friends to lovers, amazing banter between not only our MCs, but their circle of friends as well, that left me laughing out loud, and shit-hot sexy times! That's right, my friends, Walker brings the dirty in this one, and I was fanning myself. I'll never listen to Give Me One Reason to Stay Here again without thinking of this book and a certain sexy grinding dance that had me panting.
I will also never be able to read the One Fish, Two Fish Dr. Seuss book again without thinking "I do not give one fuck, two fucks, red fucks, blue fucks."
5 glorious stars and a high recommend!
**PS - Take a moment to appreciate that cover because holy hell, that is beautiful!
February 9, 2017
This story of a kind, sensitive soul being switched at birth into a cold, distant family has it all.
Friendship, longing, love, anger, resentment, the beginnings of redemption and a happily ever after.
This book was mostly love for me, especially in the first half of the book, before Iz and Sam got together; however, the pace seemed to slow a bit after that, but thankfully picked up again toward the end.
Although the story didn't really make me tear up, Walker broke my heart every single time that Israel said "thank you" to Sam. : (
I'd rate this one a solid 4 stars, but would have loved at least one extended scene between just Israel and Nick, getting to know one another on a deeper level and discussing significant events from each of their pasts.
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March 15, 2017
1,5 stars
Honestly..............I didn't enjoy Switched by N R Walker..........I know...be gentle here...
-Sam, Iz's best friend who becomes his lover............drove me absolutely bonkers....I was doing a lot of this whilst turning the pages...
I can't remember how many times (I gave up after a while...) Sam asked Iz..........
-Iz.......(OMG, I hated that name!!!! Seriously!!! Call me fickle, I don't care - Israel was bad but not as naff as Iz.)..okay, Iz......hell, the guy was a whiner deluxe..........
-I didn't feel the connection between Sam and Iz...maybe friendship but more...no couldn't feel that kind of love.
-I did like the author's writing style...but further than that...can't think what!!
This was my first book by this author and it wasn't a terrible story....it's just me......and although I am not recommending it, look at the other reviews and decide for yourself. You might actually like it.
Honestly..............I didn't enjoy Switched by N R Walker..........I know...be gentle here...
because I am in the minority.........but let me give a quick rundown on why I felt MEH about this story - I am not going too deep into the plot because it has been discussed on all the previous reviews.....so just a few pointers here!!!
-Sam, Iz's best friend who becomes his lover............drove me absolutely bonkers....I was doing a lot of this whilst turning the pages...
I can't remember how many times (I gave up after a while...) Sam asked Iz..........ARE YOU OKAY?????and again...
and again..................
...now you see why I was in a state of madness!!
-Iz.......(OMG, I hated that name!!!! Seriously!!! Call me fickle, I don't care - Israel was bad but not as naff as Iz.)..okay, Iz......hell, the guy was a whiner deluxe..........
Tears...more Tears.........Okay, I get it!! The people he thought were his real parents were so not nice to him.....I understand his pain and shock at discovering the switch........but he was more of a wet rag..I wanted him to show some gumption...........instead
OOh Sam.....I am so not okay....and of course, Sam babies him and babies him!!!!
-I didn't feel the connection between Sam and Iz...maybe friendship but more...no couldn't feel that kind of love.
-I did like the author's writing style...but further than that...can't think what!!
This was my first book by this author and it wasn't a terrible story....it's just me......and although I am not recommending it, look at the other reviews and decide for yourself. You might actually like it.
December 30, 2016
5 Stars.....obviously!
This book just made me smile.
Except the few times it made me tear up.
I just loved, loved, loved Isreal and Sam.
“Iz, I want to take you to bed. I want to have you, in ways I’ve only dreamed of. I want to be inside you, and I want to make you mine.”
This book just made me smile.
Except the few times it made me tear up.
I just loved, loved, loved Isreal and Sam.
August 14, 2023
“It has come to our attention, on the day of Israel’s birth, there was a mix up as a direct result of human error.” He steeled himself and looked at my parents. “Mr and Mrs Ingham, we believe the child you were given to raise as your own was not your biological child.”
I’m too tired to write a proper review, but I wanted to jot my notes down in case I ever want to re-read this story.
There is something about this authors voice that is so authentic. The conversations, the situations, the overall humanity of the characters. These feel like people you know with problems we all struggle with.
The friends to lovers trope was written so well here. I don’t know if it was because it was between two gay men who had been best friends since they were 14, or just the overall heart message that the story gave off, but it just worked.
Israel’s emotional pain with his father was clearly written by someone who has either experienced this, or done extensive research on asshole, absentee fathers.
Grown children learning that their parents are only human seems like a right of passage into adulthood.
The humor and the the friendships!
“Because as a gay man yourself, you seem to be confused about what we like.” I waited for him to smile. “We like dick, Sam. And arse and balls. And a whole range of masculine things. But mostly dick.”
I wanted to hear more from Sam, rather than him simply being a prop to hold Israel up. It also felt the issues with Israel’s parents resolved way too quickly.
I’m too tired to write a proper review, but I wanted to jot my notes down in case I ever want to re-read this story.
There is something about this authors voice that is so authentic. The conversations, the situations, the overall humanity of the characters. These feel like people you know with problems we all struggle with.
The friends to lovers trope was written so well here. I don’t know if it was because it was between two gay men who had been best friends since they were 14, or just the overall heart message that the story gave off, but it just worked.
Israel’s emotional pain with his father was clearly written by someone who has either experienced this, or done extensive research on asshole, absentee fathers.
Grown children learning that their parents are only human seems like a right of passage into adulthood.
The humor and the the friendships!
“Because as a gay man yourself, you seem to be confused about what we like.” I waited for him to smile. “We like dick, Sam. And arse and balls. And a whole range of masculine things. But mostly dick.”
I wanted to hear more from Sam, rather than him simply being a prop to hold Israel up. It also felt the issues with Israel’s parents resolved way too quickly.
August 29, 2020
Reread August 2020 for Ripped Bodice book club in the park
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This book gave me the warm and fuzzies. Friends to lovers isn't my favorite trope, but this one was done well <3
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This book gave me the warm and fuzzies. Friends to lovers isn't my favorite trope, but this one was done well <3
April 6, 2017
4.5 Stars!
Basically, the blurb says it all. Israel has had it rough, his life has been filled with no affection or love from his cold, unfeeling, and ambivalent parents. The only true sense of family he’s had is from his best friend Sam, who’s been there for him since they were teens. Now with the sudden revelation that has him questioning his entire identity, the only person he’s ever relied on becomes that much more important as his life starts to unravel.
This book is brimming with emotions. Israel is understandably shocked, but he finally has justification towards his feelings of never fitting in or belonging. He’s full of grief, guilt, frustration, and anger. The unfairness of it all and possibly being denied a family full of warmth and love, makes him hope for a semblance of acceptance with this new discovery. Walker gets the feels just right regarding this unbelievable circumstance, and I loved the evolution of the relationship between Israel and Sam while they struggle with this new situation, going from being the bestest of friends to oh so much more.
I’ve mentioned before that when I think of Walker, I don’t automatically think of smexy. She’s great with the fluff with a good dash of angsty thrown in, but I’m often left unsatisfied, always wanting more. However, like Imago, this had great chemistry, UST, and a natural organic progression, as two people realize that maybe they can move beyond friendship to something amazing. There was intimacy, a camaraderie, and an openness that only such close friends, and then lovers, could achieve, and I loved Israel and Sam’s banter and how they just continued to click with one another as their feelings changed.
So, in and amongst Israel coming to terms with his new situation and settling into a different dynamic with his best friend in all the right ways, he also begins a journey of personal growth - trying to find peace, making his voice known, and finally beginning to heal. Though quite angsty, there was minimal relationship conflict. It was beautiful and touching and sexy. I’m a very happy reader.
Basically, the blurb says it all. Israel has had it rough, his life has been filled with no affection or love from his cold, unfeeling, and ambivalent parents. The only true sense of family he’s had is from his best friend Sam, who’s been there for him since they were teens. Now with the sudden revelation that has him questioning his entire identity, the only person he’s ever relied on becomes that much more important as his life starts to unravel.
This book is brimming with emotions. Israel is understandably shocked, but he finally has justification towards his feelings of never fitting in or belonging. He’s full of grief, guilt, frustration, and anger. The unfairness of it all and possibly being denied a family full of warmth and love, makes him hope for a semblance of acceptance with this new discovery. Walker gets the feels just right regarding this unbelievable circumstance, and I loved the evolution of the relationship between Israel and Sam while they struggle with this new situation, going from being the bestest of friends to oh so much more.
I’ve mentioned before that when I think of Walker, I don’t automatically think of smexy. She’s great with the fluff with a good dash of angsty thrown in, but I’m often left unsatisfied, always wanting more. However, like Imago, this had great chemistry, UST, and a natural organic progression, as two people realize that maybe they can move beyond friendship to something amazing. There was intimacy, a camaraderie, and an openness that only such close friends, and then lovers, could achieve, and I loved Israel and Sam’s banter and how they just continued to click with one another as their feelings changed.
So, in and amongst Israel coming to terms with his new situation and settling into a different dynamic with his best friend in all the right ways, he also begins a journey of personal growth - trying to find peace, making his voice known, and finally beginning to heal. Though quite angsty, there was minimal relationship conflict. It was beautiful and touching and sexy. I’m a very happy reader.
March 19, 2025
I am torn with this book. I enjoyed reading most of it. But a few things annoyed me a bit too much in the last third. I therefore can't give it more stars, even if these “only” three stars are not meant negatively.
I really liked the structure of the story and especially the friendship between Iz and Sam. And I thought it was incredibly good to see them move on to a romantic relationship.
I also really like how the problems Iz has with his parents are portrayed and how the emotional side of it comes across, especially how supportive Sam is.
“I’m tired. I’m tired of never being good enough. I’m tired of being an afterthought. I’m tired of being wrong all the time. I’m so fucking tired of it all.”
I couldn’t explain the exhaustion I felt in my bones, the weariness that held me down. I was sick of trying to prove my worth to parents who were too cold to care. “I don’t want to fight any of it anymore.” 🥺❤️🩹🥺
In general, I actually like everything between Iz and Sam. A little less booze might not have gone amiss, but it was ok. The dynamic between them is definitely what defines the book.
“But if we’re gonna sleep in the same bed again, we should set down some ground rules.” He tried to be serious but the slight smirk gave him away. “If you’re gonna rub your arse against me, you could at least wear a jockstrap. Or just be naked… Actually, no. I’ll go with the jockstrap. And if you’re gonna hog the blankets and the bed, you better be good in bed, if you know what I mean.” 🤭💞🤭
I didn't like how the story became so rushed towards the end. It all felt too quick and lacking in detail, unfortunately.
And what I especially didn't like was the “reconciliation” with Iz's parents. I understand that the story wanted to create a fluffy positive outcome on all levels. It's actually quite nice too, as I prefer that sort of thing. But somehow it didn't really fit for me. Maybe it's just because it's presented too hastily. But I can't deal with the improved father-son relationship and I find the explanation for the mother, although plausible, OTT melodramatic.
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Minor spoilers probably ahead
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Content warnings: one MC was switched at birth, cold distant parents, belittling during childhood, homophobia, postnatal depression
Cheating between MCs: No
Other person drama: No
Breakup: No
Kinks: none
I really liked the structure of the story and especially the friendship between Iz and Sam. And I thought it was incredibly good to see them move on to a romantic relationship.
I also really like how the problems Iz has with his parents are portrayed and how the emotional side of it comes across, especially how supportive Sam is.
“I’m tired. I’m tired of never being good enough. I’m tired of being an afterthought. I’m tired of being wrong all the time. I’m so fucking tired of it all.”
I couldn’t explain the exhaustion I felt in my bones, the weariness that held me down. I was sick of trying to prove my worth to parents who were too cold to care. “I don’t want to fight any of it anymore.” 🥺❤️🩹🥺
In general, I actually like everything between Iz and Sam. A little less booze might not have gone amiss, but it was ok. The dynamic between them is definitely what defines the book.
“But if we’re gonna sleep in the same bed again, we should set down some ground rules.” He tried to be serious but the slight smirk gave him away. “If you’re gonna rub your arse against me, you could at least wear a jockstrap. Or just be naked… Actually, no. I’ll go with the jockstrap. And if you’re gonna hog the blankets and the bed, you better be good in bed, if you know what I mean.” 🤭💞🤭
I didn't like how the story became so rushed towards the end. It all felt too quick and lacking in detail, unfortunately.
And what I especially didn't like was the “reconciliation” with Iz's parents. I understand that the story wanted to create a fluffy positive outcome on all levels. It's actually quite nice too, as I prefer that sort of thing. But somehow it didn't really fit for me. Maybe it's just because it's presented too hastily. But I can't deal with the improved father-son relationship and I find the explanation for the mother, although plausible, OTT melodramatic.
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Content warnings: one MC was switched at birth, cold distant parents, belittling during childhood, homophobia, postnatal depression
Cheating between MCs: No
Other person drama: No
Breakup: No
Kinks: none
February 4, 2017
*** 3 Stars***
I love this author and it pains me to not give a stellar rate for the first time BUT!... if you are a fan like me, stay cool because it seems that this is clearly a case of “ Everybody loves it but me.”
My thoughts:
.)Their friendship was somehow off. Israel was extremely dependent on Sam and Sam liked to feed that need. In fact, he couldn’t accept to be left a side for a moment or give some space to Iz. For many readers, I believe it probably would work in an appealing way. To me, it was borderline unhealthy.
.)The too many blushing moments from Sam and “You OK, Iz?” drove me mad.
.)I can’t pin point what but something important was missing from that building up moment where best friends become aware that there is more to them. It was almost an overnight change for Israel. Not to Sam though, all the blushing gave him away.
.)Sam was a completely meh character to me. He was shallowly portrayed; who was he other than Israel’s walking stick? Ok, he was rich, had a nice family and a good job. That sums it up. I needed more from Sam. What made him thick? Perhaps getting inside his head would make this different to me.
What save this story to me was the refreshing theme approached by N.R. Walker. I think the focus given by the author to each character involved in that life shattering situation, showing how each person could react differently was realistic, sensible and touching. Very real, from the moment they are questioned if they want to know their other family until the implications that it would cause in their lives. The best one was Israel’s father. He was very convincing in his fears and emotions. I felt that.
I am clearly swimming against the tide here, so just ignore my ramblings and give this a chance.
February 1, 2020
5 Stars
When Israel Ingham finds out that he was switched at birth, his entire world becomes unglued. Part of it makes complete sense, seeing as how much of a stranger he’s always felt growing up in his own home, with parents who were distant and uncaring – but still, it’s a complete shock that rocks him to his core.
Understandably, Israel has a hell of a lot of questions he now wants answered: about himself, about his birth family, about his parents and why they have treated him coldly his entire life.
Through all the emotional upheaval in his life, the one thing Israel can unequivocally count on is his best friend, Sam. Sam is Israel’s rock; he’s loyal and loving, and completely uncompromising in his resolve to support Israel at every single turn.
Amidst all the emotional encounters Israel faces with his parents and meeting his newly discovered birth family, he and Sam grow closer than ever, and the lines of friendship begin to blur.
This story is one of great emotional depth and is full of poignant moments of self-discovery and love (so much love!). The drama and angst surrounding Israel’s discovery of his birth family, and subsequently all the heated exchanges that transpire between him and his family (particularly his father), were raw and emotional, leaving me quite wrung out by the end (like only a great book can).
The cast of characters are absolutely fantastic and need mentioning! Every single character is deliciously fleshed out, complex and real. I absolutely adored Israel and Sam. The depth of their friendship was clear as day, and their developing feelings unfolded at the perfect pace, without overshadowing Israel’s familial drama.
Needless to say, this is another stellar read by the always fabulous N.R. Walker. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED! <3
When Israel Ingham finds out that he was switched at birth, his entire world becomes unglued. Part of it makes complete sense, seeing as how much of a stranger he’s always felt growing up in his own home, with parents who were distant and uncaring – but still, it’s a complete shock that rocks him to his core.
Understandably, Israel has a hell of a lot of questions he now wants answered: about himself, about his birth family, about his parents and why they have treated him coldly his entire life.
Through all the emotional upheaval in his life, the one thing Israel can unequivocally count on is his best friend, Sam. Sam is Israel’s rock; he’s loyal and loving, and completely uncompromising in his resolve to support Israel at every single turn.
Amidst all the emotional encounters Israel faces with his parents and meeting his newly discovered birth family, he and Sam grow closer than ever, and the lines of friendship begin to blur.
This story is one of great emotional depth and is full of poignant moments of self-discovery and love (so much love!). The drama and angst surrounding Israel’s discovery of his birth family, and subsequently all the heated exchanges that transpire between him and his family (particularly his father), were raw and emotional, leaving me quite wrung out by the end (like only a great book can).
The cast of characters are absolutely fantastic and need mentioning! Every single character is deliciously fleshed out, complex and real. I absolutely adored Israel and Sam. The depth of their friendship was clear as day, and their developing feelings unfolded at the perfect pace, without overshadowing Israel’s familial drama.
Needless to say, this is another stellar read by the always fabulous N.R. Walker. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED! <3
February 6, 2017
4 1/2 SpongeBob and Patrick stars
What would you do if you found out you were switched at birth? For Israel Ingram, his world turned upside down, and rightly so. He grew up a privileged life, but with cold hearted, distant parents. Reading about the emotional journey he had to go through, was a beautiful, sometimes heart wrenching, story of finding your true self. But Izzy was stronger and braver than he ever thought he was and went with his heart with all of his decisions, especially with Sam by his side.
Through all of the ups and downs in Izzy’s life, he had the support of his best friend Sam Finch, and Sam’s amazing family. When his feelings change for Sam, it only adds more confusion for poor Izzy. Although Sam and Izzy are like to peas in a pod, is it really the right time to take a step towards relationship that is beyond “best friends”.
"Sam was the number one man in my life. He was the Will to my Grace."
This book was an emotional read, but not too angsty. I highly recommend this book to M/M fans. It is N. R. Walker, after all.
What would you do if you found out you were switched at birth? For Israel Ingram, his world turned upside down, and rightly so. He grew up a privileged life, but with cold hearted, distant parents. Reading about the emotional journey he had to go through, was a beautiful, sometimes heart wrenching, story of finding your true self. But Izzy was stronger and braver than he ever thought he was and went with his heart with all of his decisions, especially with Sam by his side.
Through all of the ups and downs in Izzy’s life, he had the support of his best friend Sam Finch, and Sam’s amazing family. When his feelings change for Sam, it only adds more confusion for poor Izzy. Although Sam and Izzy are like to peas in a pod, is it really the right time to take a step towards relationship that is beyond “best friends”.
"Sam was the number one man in my life. He was the Will to my Grace."
This book was an emotional read, but not too angsty. I highly recommend this book to M/M fans. It is N. R. Walker, after all.
July 16, 2021
Re-read July 2021
I still wanted more romance. It was still good though.
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Well, this was better than I expected even though I would have loved a bit more romance.
Israel has always felt he doesn’t quite belong. Brought up by cold parents, who never showed him love, he only has his best friend, Sam, to fall back on.
When he and his parents are asked to come to the hospital because they have some information they want to share, they find out Israel has been switched at birth, 26 years ago.
Israel feels even more lost now, but is happy he has his best friend for support. And Sam is there every step of the way.
When Israel admits to himself he has feelings for Sam, he tries to keep his distance, but he can’t keep this up for long. He just hopes Sam feels the same way..
This was a very sweet best friends to lovers story, and I just loved how Sam was always there for Israel. I was also totally engrossed in the story of the switch and how Israel, his parents, and the other family dealt with this.
I really liked how Israel’s parents started out as horrible parents, but were so shocked by the news of the switch, that they were trying to change. They wanted to build some sort of relationship with Israel, now that they felt as if they were losing him. They were not the best parents, but at least they were trying now.
And the new family was just great. The meetings were so emotional that I had to grab the tissues.
I loved how Sam was such a rock when Israel needed him. And I loved how there was no relationship angst. Just sweet loving all around.
I still wanted more romance. It was still good though.
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Well, this was better than I expected even though I would have loved a bit more romance.
Israel has always felt he doesn’t quite belong. Brought up by cold parents, who never showed him love, he only has his best friend, Sam, to fall back on.
When he and his parents are asked to come to the hospital because they have some information they want to share, they find out Israel has been switched at birth, 26 years ago.
Israel feels even more lost now, but is happy he has his best friend for support. And Sam is there every step of the way.
When Israel admits to himself he has feelings for Sam, he tries to keep his distance, but he can’t keep this up for long. He just hopes Sam feels the same way..
This was a very sweet best friends to lovers story, and I just loved how Sam was always there for Israel. I was also totally engrossed in the story of the switch and how Israel, his parents, and the other family dealt with this.
I really liked how Israel’s parents started out as horrible parents, but were so shocked by the news of the switch, that they were trying to change. They wanted to build some sort of relationship with Israel, now that they felt as if they were losing him. They were not the best parents, but at least they were trying now.
And the new family was just great. The meetings were so emotional that I had to grab the tissues.
I loved how Sam was such a rock when Israel needed him. And I loved how there was no relationship angst. Just sweet loving all around.
May 15, 2017
WOW WOW WOW! What an amazing book to start this new year! PERFECT! I don't wanna change anything about this! It's about: FAMILY! A story about a guy who has FOUR families <3. I always said family is not defined by blood. This book prove my point.
Israel was switched at birth with Nick. 2 guys, 2 family very very different from each other. When one grew up with more than love, the other didn't have that chance. BUT I've never, ever doubt that Is was loved by his parents. We saw them fight all along but in the end of every fight Is always want the love of the parents who raised him, who made him what he is. I loved that about him. The fact that instead of quit and say "goodbye i've finally found where i belong", he remained and fought so HARD to have it ALL. That guy deserves so much. I was really happy in the end to see that he got his HEA.
Sam was a perfect BEST friend! And Boyfriend! Such a big heart. If only we can all have a friend like him.
What i've retained is that : Blood doesn't defined your family. Your parents are the ones who brought you up, who took care of you. No family is perfect. No parent is perfect. No child is perfect. We all make mistakes. Knowing to forgive is essential. And, i want to say there are differents ways of loving: some are more obvious than the others.
HAPPY NEW YEAR to everyone! I recommend this book sooooo much <3 <3 <3. It really made my day.
Israel was switched at birth with Nick. 2 guys, 2 family very very different from each other. When one grew up with more than love, the other didn't have that chance. BUT I've never, ever doubt that Is was loved by his parents. We saw them fight all along but in the end of every fight Is always want the love of the parents who raised him, who made him what he is. I loved that about him. The fact that instead of quit and say "goodbye i've finally found where i belong", he remained and fought so HARD to have it ALL. That guy deserves so much. I was really happy in the end to see that he got his HEA.
Sam was a perfect BEST friend! And Boyfriend! Such a big heart. If only we can all have a friend like him.
What i've retained is that : Blood doesn't defined your family. Your parents are the ones who brought you up, who took care of you. No family is perfect. No parent is perfect. No child is perfect. We all make mistakes. Knowing to forgive is essential. And, i want to say there are differents ways of loving: some are more obvious than the others.
HAPPY NEW YEAR to everyone! I recommend this book sooooo much <3 <3 <3. It really made my day.
May 8, 2022
Felt like something was missing. I did kinda enjoy it but I also feel kinda meh about it. Super interesting premise with a rather flat execution. Pacing was off and boy does it drag. I never warmed up to any of the characters either so that could be it as well. I don’t think the bff to lovers trope worked super well for me here. Would have been more interesting to see the switched sons have a romance and for this to be a more angsty story.
March 28, 2017
DNF at 46%.
This wasn't for me. It's so clear that these two will get together, the whole back and forth just feels boring.
Now if this had been a romance between the two switched sons, it would have been interesting, but the best friends to lovers theme? It just didn't excite me at all.
2.5 stars
This wasn't for me. It's so clear that these two will get together, the whole back and forth just feels boring.
Now if this had been a romance between the two switched sons, it would have been interesting, but the best friends to lovers theme? It just didn't excite me at all.
2.5 stars
January 5, 2025
I would never have thought, after reading the blurb - which sounded quite melodramatic and telenovela worthy tbh - that this would be such a touching, tentative, beautifully angsty tale of love and friendship with one complicated question at its heart: what makes family, family?
The book answers this question in many different, multi faceted and satisfying ways and to be honest this was what kept me glued to the pages (or to my phone, because I listened to the audio, which was - again - narrated by Joel Leslie but I simply surrendered two audiobooks ago I think), maybe even more than the romance part?
Speaking of the romance. One thing to know about me, is that I’m a sucker for a good best friends to lovers trope. And it was done to perfection here in my humble opinion. I’d even go so far as to say that this might be one of the best best-friends-to-lovers romances I’ve ever read?!
The slow burn between Israel and Sam and their chemistry was scorching hot and full of beautiful feelings. I was swooning SO hard at the deep, loving bond, at the co-dependency, the hurt/comfort, the humour and at their sexual tension - I mean come ON these dance scenes?! Holy fucking shit 🥵💦
The story and all the relationship and character development on so many fronts kept its hooks in me and I wasn’t bored or impatient for one second. The entire thing was interesting and unique, it was beautifully developed, it was angsty, but the banter and humour diluted the angst quite a bit.
It was the best book by the author I’ve read so far.
I already can’t wait to reread this.
Wow, I would have never expected this to be my first 5⭐️ read of the year, but alas, it is.
Also: Yay to therapy as a healthy way to deal with your issues!
The book answers this question in many different, multi faceted and satisfying ways and to be honest this was what kept me glued to the pages (or to my phone, because I listened to the audio, which was - again - narrated by Joel Leslie but I simply surrendered two audiobooks ago I think), maybe even more than the romance part?
Speaking of the romance. One thing to know about me, is that I’m a sucker for a good best friends to lovers trope. And it was done to perfection here in my humble opinion. I’d even go so far as to say that this might be one of the best best-friends-to-lovers romances I’ve ever read?!
The slow burn between Israel and Sam and their chemistry was scorching hot and full of beautiful feelings. I was swooning SO hard at the deep, loving bond, at the co-dependency, the hurt/comfort, the humour and at their sexual tension - I mean come ON these dance scenes?! Holy fucking shit 🥵💦
The story and all the relationship and character development on so many fronts kept its hooks in me and I wasn’t bored or impatient for one second. The entire thing was interesting and unique, it was beautifully developed, it was angsty, but the banter and humour diluted the angst quite a bit.
It was the best book by the author I’ve read so far.
I already can’t wait to reread this.
Wow, I would have never expected this to be my first 5⭐️ read of the year, but alas, it is.
Also: Yay to therapy as a healthy way to deal with your issues!
August 12, 2022
***Re-read August 2022***
Love this story from the time when Nic was an unquestionable autobuy for me...not so much nowadays though unfortunately 😕. Still, we live in hope...
My original review 2016
First of all, many thanks to Nic for the ARC. Was it worth the wait?? You betcha!! 5 stars from me.
Best Friends to Lovers, one of my favourite tropes. Add to the mix an unusual subject matter [don't think I've read another story which features babies given to incorrect parents at birth 🤔, but don't quote me...], throw in a few steamy moments [unusual for Nic, but I loved how most of it was still left to your own imagination **waggles eyebrows**] and I was hooked!!
Israel Ingham [or Iz to his friends] and Sam Finch [ah, Sam 💜] made an adorable couple but weren't in fact together, although it was pretty obvious from the get-go that Sam wished they were. Sam had been there for Iz through thick and thin ever since they'd met at school aged 15; he had Iz's back, no worries...and thank God someone did!! His parents...well, let's just say you couldn't have met a more frigid and emotionless couple if you'd picked them up from a deep freezer. Israel grew up in a loveless house with a father to whom he was a huge disappointment, and a mother who was detached and vacant, and got more pleasure from her book-clubs than her son. Then one day, the world as they all knew it changed dramatically......
How Iz grew up to be as normal as he was is a great testament to his own character and that of his bestie Sam. I'm going to let you discover this sweet, slow-burn romance for yourself....enjoy!! Oh, by the way, the following picture is fairly relevant to the story too, hehe.....
Love this story from the time when Nic was an unquestionable autobuy for me...not so much nowadays though unfortunately 😕. Still, we live in hope...
My original review 2016
First of all, many thanks to Nic for the ARC. Was it worth the wait?? You betcha!! 5 stars from me.
Best Friends to Lovers, one of my favourite tropes. Add to the mix an unusual subject matter [don't think I've read another story which features babies given to incorrect parents at birth 🤔, but don't quote me...], throw in a few steamy moments [unusual for Nic, but I loved how most of it was still left to your own imagination **waggles eyebrows**] and I was hooked!!
Israel Ingham [or Iz to his friends] and Sam Finch [ah, Sam 💜] made an adorable couple but weren't in fact together, although it was pretty obvious from the get-go that Sam wished they were. Sam had been there for Iz through thick and thin ever since they'd met at school aged 15; he had Iz's back, no worries...and thank God someone did!! His parents...well, let's just say you couldn't have met a more frigid and emotionless couple if you'd picked them up from a deep freezer. Israel grew up in a loveless house with a father to whom he was a huge disappointment, and a mother who was detached and vacant, and got more pleasure from her book-clubs than her son. Then one day, the world as they all knew it changed dramatically......
How Iz grew up to be as normal as he was is a great testament to his own character and that of his bestie Sam. I'm going to let you discover this sweet, slow-burn romance for yourself....enjoy!! Oh, by the way, the following picture is fairly relevant to the story too, hehe.....
December 27, 2016
NR Walker + Best friends to lovers =
NR has written some great stories this year, but she has saved the best for last. This was NR Walker at her best. In Switched, she gave us the story of two best friends- one of which has recently found out that due to human error was accidently switched at birth. Israel was never close to his parents but has always found comfort in his best friend, Sam. Sam has been there for him through it all, and it was no different this time.
My highlights:
-The plot. It was different- we don't often get switched at birth stories, and then add a delicious slow burn with best friends to lovers- golden!
-Israel and Sam. Their characters and friendship were well fleshed out.
-The supporting cast- all of them. Their friends and family added substance to the story without overtaking it, and they also didn't add unnecessary drama.
-Narration. The dual POV lover in me didn't mind the first person in this instance. This was Israel's journey with himself, his best friend, and his family.
-The pace of the story is quick and smooth. You can read this in one sitting and not realize it.
-Angst. This story had the perfect amount of angst. It will pull at your heartstrings, but Sam was there to comfort
-Relationship development. It was exceptionally written. I could gush on and on about this. I was GI-DDY.
-Slow burn. It's not about the quantity of the sex scenes it's about the quality of well-written chemistry and sexual tension. In this case, it was perfection. I had butterflies in my stomach.
-Humor and banter- they will always get extra points from me.
-The end...♥
I can't recommend Switched enough, you guys! Gaaah! Writing this review is making me smile because it's bringing all the awesomeness that is Israel and Sam's story. 5+ Stars!
May 15, 2017
4 solid stars
I loved the second half of the book and the Epilogue! *dreamy, dreamy eyes*
This story was quite a journey. Iz and Sam were best friends since they were kids. They were always there for each other. When Iz found out about a human error that happened 26 years ago, him being switched at birth, everything he knew changed. And more than anything, he needed his best friend to hold him and make it bearable.
This story was a little slow paced for my taste and my biggest problem was the slow burning in the first half of the book. Iz had to meet his blood family but also build bridges with the only family he knew, until now. Some secrets were revealed, but everything ends in a positive note.
I really loved the ending, it gave me hope and it made me picture such a sweet family reunion. And sometimes having your family close is all you need, no matter if it's bound by blood or not.
I loved the second half of the book and the Epilogue! *dreamy, dreamy eyes*
This story was quite a journey. Iz and Sam were best friends since they were kids. They were always there for each other. When Iz found out about a human error that happened 26 years ago, him being switched at birth, everything he knew changed. And more than anything, he needed his best friend to hold him and make it bearable.
This story was a little slow paced for my taste and my biggest problem was the slow burning in the first half of the book. Iz had to meet his blood family but also build bridges with the only family he knew, until now. Some secrets were revealed, but everything ends in a positive note.
I really loved the ending, it gave me hope and it made me picture such a sweet family reunion. And sometimes having your family close is all you need, no matter if it's bound by blood or not.
February 3, 2017
3,5
Clean and decent. I enjoyed it....I think... Nice read only it felt a bit unreal, more 'too good to be true' something like that.
Sam was such a good friend it was a bit overdone it felt almost uncomfortable, helping and helping and understanding his friend. And Israel was so insecure and hurt which should be of course by his back ground. They were surrounded by great friends......sorry but predictable
His own parents awful and his family by birth great and understanding. Afterward his own parents became understanding and all.....Israel and Sam finally together and hot as hell....nice of course.......it felt to clean and too good to be true.
The writing style and progress was good, actually everything was good and I think just that was the thing that didn't work for me. I didn't 'feel' it
These should be the ingredients to be awesome and when I see all the 5 stars i suppose it is....only for me....not....sorry no offend because we all know N.R. Walker is a good author and I adored the Spencer Cohen trilogy.
So again....it's totally me. Don't look at my review, look at all the others.
Clean and decent. I enjoyed it....I think... Nice read only it felt a bit unreal, more 'too good to be true' something like that.
Sam was such a good friend it was a bit overdone it felt almost uncomfortable, helping and helping and understanding his friend. And Israel was so insecure and hurt which should be of course by his back ground. They were surrounded by great friends......sorry but predictable
His own parents awful and his family by birth great and understanding. Afterward his own parents became understanding and all.....Israel and Sam finally together and hot as hell....nice of course.......it felt to clean and too good to be true.
The writing style and progress was good, actually everything was good and I think just that was the thing that didn't work for me. I didn't 'feel' it
These should be the ingredients to be awesome and when I see all the 5 stars i suppose it is....only for me....not....sorry no offend because we all know N.R. Walker is a good author and I adored the Spencer Cohen trilogy.
So again....it's totally me. Don't look at my review, look at all the others.
January 2, 2017
A lot of great reviews and it’s well deserved.
A friend-to-lover story (Iz and Sam have been best friends for more than 10 years and you can feel it at each page), with an original twist (Iz discovers that his parents are not his biological parents because he has been switched at birth by mistake at the hospital he was born) and a HUGE dose of banter, scorching sexual chemistry and hot sex.
N.R.Walker doesn’t disappoint.
My highlights of this book : the strong relationship between Iz and Sam, the swooning declaration of Iz to Sam when he finally accepts that there is much more than friendship between them, and the path taken by Iz to “mend bridges, not burn them” and gaining 2 families in the process.
Recommended !!!
A friend-to-lover story (Iz and Sam have been best friends for more than 10 years and you can feel it at each page), with an original twist (Iz discovers that his parents are not his biological parents because he has been switched at birth by mistake at the hospital he was born) and a HUGE dose of banter, scorching sexual chemistry and hot sex.
N.R.Walker doesn’t disappoint.
My highlights of this book : the strong relationship between Iz and Sam, the swooning declaration of Iz to Sam when he finally accepts that there is much more than friendship between them, and the path taken by Iz to “mend bridges, not burn them” and gaining 2 families in the process.
Recommended !!!
February 4, 2017
*4,5 stars*
This could have easily turned into nothing but a shallow OTT drama, but N.R. Walker pulls the 'switched theme' off beautifully. The way things progressed felt real. Finding out, digesting the worst, making tentative contact with the biological family, getting to know them...
But I loved Iz's development most.
The man is marred by his loveless upbringing, never feeling good enough, always trying to please his father even though he hates himself for it. He is pretty messed up before the big revelation, but when it happens it opens gateways to change he could have never foreseen and to an emotional turmoil he can hardly cope with.
Just as well he has got Sam. His best friend for over 10 years. It is obvious to us that Sam is in love with Iz, but Iz is really clueless! Yes, he suddenly notices how good his friend looks and how hot he is, yes, he wonders what his lips might feel like (not to mention other things), but that's all only because his emotions are all over the place, right?
It takes a good kick up Iz' a*** to figure out what is going on, and the scene where he finally GETS IT and then goes and spills it all to Sam is wonderful and priceless and really lovely.
The UST and pining was very well done, and when the boys do get there, the sex is passionate and really hot. And their relationship is wonderfully tender and sweet.
What I really liked about this book:
.) I was emotionally involved right from the start. Iz's yearning for a family that loves him really hit me right where it matters most.
.) Despite everything his parents have put him through, Iz doesn't cut his ties with them. He is willing to work things out. He is offering a hand of forgiveness, but it is clear that this can't happen from one day to the next.
.) Really cute banter between the MCs and between the friends.
.) I loved Sam and IZ's friends. They are such a cheery and happy bunch (and the Sponge Bob thing they did was really funny)
.) Donna and her family, as well as Sam's family were excellent secondary characters.
One little niggle - I'm not sure what exactly caused Iz's father to change his attitude.
BUT: I cried. I laughed. I chuckled and ... ok, I really wanted to date Sam, but sigh...
Highly recommended.
This could have easily turned into nothing but a shallow OTT drama, but N.R. Walker pulls the 'switched theme' off beautifully. The way things progressed felt real. Finding out, digesting the worst, making tentative contact with the biological family, getting to know them...
But I loved Iz's development most.
The man is marred by his loveless upbringing, never feeling good enough, always trying to please his father even though he hates himself for it. He is pretty messed up before the big revelation, but when it happens it opens gateways to change he could have never foreseen and to an emotional turmoil he can hardly cope with.
Just as well he has got Sam. His best friend for over 10 years. It is obvious to us that Sam is in love with Iz, but Iz is really clueless! Yes, he suddenly notices how good his friend looks and how hot he is, yes, he wonders what his lips might feel like (not to mention other things), but that's all only because his emotions are all over the place, right?
It takes a good kick up Iz' a*** to figure out what is going on, and the scene where he finally GETS IT and then goes and spills it all to Sam is wonderful and priceless and really lovely.
The UST and pining was very well done, and when the boys do get there, the sex is passionate and really hot. And their relationship is wonderfully tender and sweet.
What I really liked about this book:
.) I was emotionally involved right from the start. Iz's yearning for a family that loves him really hit me right where it matters most.
.) Despite everything his parents have put him through, Iz doesn't cut his ties with them. He is willing to work things out. He is offering a hand of forgiveness, but it is clear that this can't happen from one day to the next.
.) Really cute banter between the MCs and between the friends.
.) I loved Sam and IZ's friends. They are such a cheery and happy bunch (and the Sponge Bob thing they did was really funny)
.) Donna and her family, as well as Sam's family were excellent secondary characters.
One little niggle - I'm not sure what exactly caused Iz's father to change his attitude.
BUT: I cried. I laughed. I chuckled and ... ok, I really wanted to date Sam, but sigh...
Highly recommended.
December 29, 2016
I always love a good "best friends to lovers" story and this was a great one !! But this book was so much more than a love-story.
Israel is 26 year old man, working for his fathers company. That however does not mean that his relationship with his father is a good one. The opposite is actually true. Israel has always been rejected by his parents in one way or another. They didn't really raise him, the nanny's did that. They didn't show him any kind of love and his father made it very clear that Israel is a disappointment to him.
The only one who has been there for Israel, ever since he was 13 years old, is Sam. Sam has always been Israel's rock and when Israel's world turns upside down...Sam is right there to catch him and stand by his side.
When Israel finds out he was switched at birth, Sam helps him with all the emotions he's struggeling with. Israel is such a mess. He doesn't know how to feel. Relieved, because he never felt part of his family, scared, because he doesn't want his birth mother to reject him as well, or alone, because maybe now he doesn't belong anywhere. Most of what he feels though, is anger. Anger towards his father, for treating him the way he did.
Even though we only get Israel's pov, it was quite clear that Sam had feelings for Israel, that went beyond friendship. This is a very slow burn, so it takes some time for Israel to look into Sam's eyes and see the truth that's hidden there. But once everything is out in the open, it's all so good and so sweet.
I absolutely loved this story. Both MC's were amazing. Did I mention the hotness yet ?? Damn these boys were hot together !! I also loved the ending, to me that ending was perfect !!
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Israel is 26 year old man, working for his fathers company. That however does not mean that his relationship with his father is a good one. The opposite is actually true. Israel has always been rejected by his parents in one way or another. They didn't really raise him, the nanny's did that. They didn't show him any kind of love and his father made it very clear that Israel is a disappointment to him.
The only one who has been there for Israel, ever since he was 13 years old, is Sam. Sam has always been Israel's rock and when Israel's world turns upside down...Sam is right there to catch him and stand by his side.
When Israel finds out he was switched at birth, Sam helps him with all the emotions he's struggeling with. Israel is such a mess. He doesn't know how to feel. Relieved, because he never felt part of his family, scared, because he doesn't want his birth mother to reject him as well, or alone, because maybe now he doesn't belong anywhere. Most of what he feels though, is anger. Anger towards his father, for treating him the way he did.
Even though we only get Israel's pov, it was quite clear that Sam had feelings for Israel, that went beyond friendship. This is a very slow burn, so it takes some time for Israel to look into Sam's eyes and see the truth that's hidden there. But once everything is out in the open, it's all so good and so sweet.
I absolutely loved this story. Both MC's were amazing. Did I mention the hotness yet ?? Damn these boys were hot together !! I also loved the ending, to me that ending was perfect !!
This review has been posted on Dirty Books Obsession
January 2, 2024
Reread April 2019
There is a reason I keep rereading this book. It's just a beautiful story. It's one of the best friends to lovers tropes I've ever read. It's full of pain and heartache, but it's worth it in the end. I'm sure I will be reading it again in the future.
This book was heartbreaking, but filled with flashes of hope. It was a great best friends to lovers story. However, it was the secondary plot of broken families that made me reread it. I'm sure I will be reading it again. I loved it.
There is a reason I keep rereading this book. It's just a beautiful story. It's one of the best friends to lovers tropes I've ever read. It's full of pain and heartache, but it's worth it in the end. I'm sure I will be reading it again in the future.
This book was heartbreaking, but filled with flashes of hope. It was a great best friends to lovers story. However, it was the secondary plot of broken families that made me reread it. I'm sure I will be reading it again. I loved it.
January 19, 2021
⋰⋱⋰⋱⋰⋱*Not For Me, I Guess*⋰⋱⋰⋱⋰⋱
The book centers around Israel ‘Cap’ ‘Captain’ ‘Iz’ Ingham (26), the junior executive manager of his father’s self-made consulting empire; iCon Inc., an e-based tech-consulting business, and his best friend Samuel ‘Sam’ Finch, a corporate lawyer. The story itself was... boring. It had it's moments of being funny with Iz and Sam joking with each other, but other than that, it was slow and not much happened. There was also a lot of emotions, yet nothing happened for me to truly feel those emotions. There's a lot of crying. For things I don't really see a reason to cry for. I get being emotional, specially under the circumstances, but still....
And all that blushing?! I mean, for a book that has so much depth, lack so much depth. It so hard to explain, but there's subjects that comes up that should've been felt more for us readers. However, it's more like we're on the outside looking in. Like Merrick and Julia Ingham, Iz's parents, were supposed to be horrible parents, yet I never felt it. All I felt was them trying. It just wasn't written right for me I guess. Overall, it was okay the first 50%, after that I struggled to keep myself from skimming. I needed the characters - at least one of the them - to be more dominant alpha male. Plus, the sex wasn't hot. That said, this wasn't a good M/M start for me in 2021.
Quick basic facts:
Genre: - (Adult) Contemporary Romance (M/M)
Series: - Standalone.
Love triangle? -
Cheating? -
HEA? -
Favorite character? - Samuel ‘Sam’ Finch.
Would I read more by this author/or of series? - Already have.
Would I recommend this book/series? - Not really.
Will I read this again in the future? - No.
Rating - 2 stars.
August 24, 2023
I'm conflicted about this one. One one side, I loved it. I loved the emotions, the MC's, the secondary characters. One the other side, I needed more. Yet I don't know what that more would be. I'm completely satisfied with how this book turned out and on the other hand feeling like I'm missing something. That I wasn't ready to let go and leave Israel and Sam and all the others behind. At points I felt that I needed more of the romance, which is part of this book but not really the main focus. But then again, the relationship between Israel and Sam is so obvious. So smooth. I never doubted that they fit. So what more could there have been? At other points I wanted more on the whole switched story line. I wanted to see how the relationship between Israel and his second family was working out. But if the author had gone down that route, there would have been even less of the romance part. There were parts when I wanted to strangle Israel. Yes, I'm talking about his stupid idea that he didn't need Samuel to go through his though time with him. But for the most part of the book I just wished he could finally get the love he so clearly needed. While writing this I think that maybe this should be a five star rating after all. Well, you see. Conflicted.
November 22, 2022
Loved it. Loved that nothing was a quick fix, that the relationship progresses so organically, that the story seemed real, but was still romantic as hell.
I want a Sam of my very own.
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I really enjoyed Joel Leslie's narration. He does such a great job conveying Israel's emotional rollercoaster, although it did highlight one of the parts of the book I had not been super happy with: when Israel kept pushing Sam away, but his emotional response narrating it made the whole thing understandable.
All in all, a great listen.
I want a Sam of my very own.
**~~**~~
I really enjoyed Joel Leslie's narration. He does such a great job conveying Israel's emotional rollercoaster, although it did highlight one of the parts of the book I had not been super happy with: when Israel kept pushing Sam away, but his emotional response narrating it made the whole thing understandable.
All in all, a great listen.
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