In the middle of July, I grew very fond of a man who I met on Twitter (@dailystoic). If alive, he would have been about 2000 years old today. I would have asked him out on a date, but then he would have certainly dumped me, horrified by my sense of humour ("Avoid trying to be funny", he wrote). Anyway, he lived mostly in solitude and taught philosophy in Greece. Marcus Aurelius was also his fanboy.
Epictetus, was his name.
I procured two translations of his discourses, compiled as Enchiridion, or The Handbook. This one, The Good Life Handbook: Epictetus' Stoic Classic by Chuck Chakrapani is available for free on Kindle and is surprisingly good. The other one is by Sharon Labell, which I will review soon. Epictetus had many good things to say. One of my favourite lines from this book is:
Treat your critics with compassion
"When someone criticizes you, they do so because they believe they are right. They can only go by their views, not yours. If their views are wrong, it is they who will suffer the consequences. Keeping this in mind, treat your critics with compassion. When you are tempted to get back at them, remind yourself, “They did what seemed to them to be the right thing to do." "