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We tend to get bored by the most amazing things. We have lost our sense of wonder.
The people closest to us are usually the first we take for granted. We do this all the time with Jesus too. He saw it coming. “No prophet is honored in his hometown.” (Mark 6:4)
The web of pain we all weave through our self-centeredness is staggering. No sin is committed in isolation. And anyone who flaunts the fact that they have “no regrets” is either ignorant of their connectedness with humanity or doesn’t care if they hurt others.
Hawaiian islanders have a unique way of greeting one another. They touch foreheads and breathe in deep through their noses. They share breath, a symbol of life itself. The word aloha means “with breath.”
Sometimes white people are referred to as “haole” in Hawaii. Haole means “without breath.” When Hawaiians met the first Europeans, instead of being greeted with a shared breath, the Europeans extended a hand and shook, thus earning the name.
The intimate greeting of the Hawaiians lends insight into what communion between people is all about. And that what we are so often lacking.
We tend to let our acquaintances remain shallow, our work or even church relationships remain corporate, our family lives centered around a million activities. But do we stop to share a breath? Share life? Do we become friends?
It doesn’t take much time to forge deeper connections. We just have to be intentional about it.
The days I wake up and ask myself how I can make her the happiest wife on earth, I end up being the happiest husband on earth!
Think small. We often undervalue small acts of service, but really, life consists of small things. If we accomplish anything great by the world’s standards, it is usually the result of a million small things. If there is a cathedral, then it is because a million bricks were laid, one at a time.
In the eyes of God, even small acts of kindness, like opening a door for a person at work who bothers you, are important.
Jesus spent the vast majority of his life working, loving, and serving in ways no one noticed. He was giving us an example.
Serve the poor. Jesus made it pretty clear that if we don’t do something to care for the poor we can’t enter the kingdom (Matthew 25:31-46). You don’t have to do everything. But everyone can do something.