Background:
Leadership experts Angie Morgan, Courtney Lynch, and Sean Lynch show how you can become a Spark by cultivating key leadership behaviors, grounded in research and packed with real-world stories from inside companies like Facebook, Google, and Boston Scientific, and from the authors’ experiences serving in the U.S. Armed Forces. “Sparks” are the doers, thinkers, innovators, and key influencers who are catalysts for personal and organizational change. They are not defined by the place they hold on an organizational chart but rather by their actions, commitment, and will.
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Succinct Personal Review:
The book, although a bit repetitive at times, expressed notable qualities and real-life examples on how to develop personal leadership skills to influence those around them into better versions of themselves, rather than relying on their perceived power, prestige, rank, and authority.
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Defining Leadership:
A leader is someone who influences outcomes and inspires others.
Leadership isn’t about authority, it’s about building credible influence with others.
Being a person of sound character, someone whose values and actions are in alignment, is essential.
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Spark Qualities:
Credible
Accountable
Service-oriented
Solid character
Trustworthy
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Excerpts on Spark Qualities:
“Spark qualities include being credible to others so that they trust you, holding yourself accountable to your challenges, making good decisions when you’re feeling pressured to act, expressing your confidence in clutch moments, and bringing a group of individuals together to form a full and cohesive team.”
“Sparks are the thinkers and the doers who envision what a better future looks like and take actions that lead themselves – and others – towards it. The action piece is key. There are plenty of dreamers in this world who’ve never honored their ideas with effort. Sparks differentiate themselves by having the discipline and the fortitude to execute, even when they aren’t sure what to do next.”
“They were the ones initiating action and creating conditions for success, both their own and that of others.”
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Excerpts on Personal Leadership in the Workplace:
“Leadership isn’t what you expect from others, but what you demonstrate to those around you.”
“As a leader you can be tough, you can be aggressive, you can have demanding standards – but if you can’t be compassionate, empathetic, and caring, you’re never going to build a team of people who feel valued and connected.”
“We grant followership to those people in our organization we perceive as authentic – that is, the people who aren’t playing politics, who aren’t always trying to say the “right things” to whomever they’re talking to, who aren’t seeking popularity in exchange for their integrity.”
“Of the great ones, I felt like my colleagues cared about me, my boss respected my initiative, and my daily actions connected to the organization’s success.”
“At every level of communication, the big boss’s intentions – what he or she wanted to happen – were passed along. But we were never instructed in how to achieve the result. That was on us to figure out… that person relied on us to perform in a way consistent with expectations… They gave us a lot of room to take initiative without losing sight of the goal.”
“It’s not about egos, it’s about performance… When there are problems between two colleagues, rather than escalating the situation, they just discuss the missed expectations and work to resolve the problems together. No drama. No mess. A quick conversation, followed by tweaks, and everyone can get back to work with a focus on improving.”
“Leaders also need to be open to feedback that will allow them to shore up their weaknesses. A high level of candor between ourselves and others generates self-awareness.”
“At its core, service is selflessly acting on behalf of others to ensure their success. Service is the essence of an unselfish act. And when you act selflessly, you can be the Spark who transforms a group of individuals into a team.”
“When we expand our mindset and become service-based leaders, we don’t often worry about getting the biggest slice. We actually find ourselves in a position to collaborate more effectively than we initially imagined. We effectively help grow the pie, making sure the team wins.”
“Everyone is a keeper of the culture. Everyone is prepared to mentor and to coach leadership development. That’s an important lesson to be learned. Plus, blending operations with leadership helped us learn, grow, and develop at a much faster rate.”
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Excerpts on the Downfall of Poor Personal Leadership:
“When you’re unable to honor your intentions with action, your level of consistency begins to fall to the wayside. When this happens, you become frustrated with your inability to follow through, and you disappoint others by your lack of predictability.”
“Those who are inconsistent break trust with themselves, their good ideas die on the vine, and their self-reliance crumbles… Inconsistency can quickly lead to lost opportunity, to a lack of hope, and to despair… What’s worse, not being able to trust yourself raises an important question: why should others put their trust in you?”
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Excerpts to Foster Personal Leadership Development:
“You can’t be a Spark without a solid understanding of your values and how these manifest in your character, which determines whether or not people trust you.”
“I’ve benefited from having many ‘truth-brokers’ in my life who haven’t held their opinions back and have helped by challenging me, being constructive, or presenting an alternative point of view… I value honesty and candor in my relationships, and I’ve grown the most by listening to the people who have pushed my thinking and guided me toward a better result.”
“Confidence is about seeing yourself clearly, appreciating your abilities, and having a solid foundation on which to build when presented with challenges.”
“You start to explore your untapped potential as your confidence grows.”
“Focus on responding, not reacting.”
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My Personal Values:
Be true to myself, my character, and to others.
Be honest, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Give it your all, 100% of the time.
And, treat everyone with respect, no matter a person’s position on the organizational chart.