300 Arguments

by Sarah Manguso

A brilliant and exhilarating sequence of aphorisms from one of our greatest essayists

There will come a time when people decide you’ve had enough of your grief, and they’ll try to take it away from you.

Bad art is from no one to no one.

Am I happy? Damned if I know, but give me a few minutes and I’ll tell you whether you are.

Thank heaven I don’t have my friends’ problems. But sometimes I notice an expression on one of their faces that I recognize as secret gratitude.

I read sad stories to inoculate myself against grief. I watch action movies to identify with the quick-witted heroes. Both the same I’ll escape the worst of it.

—from 300 Arguments

A “Proustian minimalist on the order of Lydia Davis” ( Kirkus Reviews ), Sarah Manguso is one of the finest literary artists at work today. To read her work is to witness acrobatic acts of compression in the service of extraordinary psychological and spiritual insight.

300 Arguments , a foray into the frontier of contemporary nonfiction writing, is at first glance a group of unrelated aphorisms. But, as in the work of David Markson, the pieces reveal themselves as a masterful arrangement that steadily gathers power. Manguso’s arguments about desire, ambition, relationships, and failure are pithy, unsentimental, and defiant, and they add up to an unexpected and renegade wisdom literature.

Genres: Essays, Nonfiction, Poetry, Memoir, Philosophy, Writing, Adult

105 pages, Kindle Edition

First published February 7, 2017

About the author

Sarah Manguso is the author of nine books, most recently the novel LIARS.

Her previous novel, VERY COLD PEOPLE, was longlisted for the Wingate Literary Prize, the PEN/Jean Stein Book Award, and the Mark Twain American Voice in Literature Award.

Her other books include a story collection, two poetry collections, and four acclaimed works of nonfiction: 300 ARGUMENTS, ONGOINGNESS, THE GUARDIANS, and THE TWO KINDS OF DECAY.

Her work has been recognized by an American Academy of Arts and Letters Literature Award, a Guggenheim Fellowship, and the Rome Prize. Her writing has been translated into thirteen languages.

She grew up in Massachusetts and now lives in Los Angeles.

Reviews

[Roxane · Rating 3 out of 5]

Just not my cup of tea, but full of wit and wisdom. Most people will love this book. It's me, not the 300 arguments.

[Hannah · Rating 3 out of 5]

I read Sarah Manguso's Ongoingness a few months ago and absolutely, positively adored it; enough to decide I want to read everything she has ever written. 300 Arguments appealed to me because I really happen to adore Manguso's style of micro-micro-essay (some of them only being one sentence long). I have to admit that it did not completely work for me - I found some of her thoughts dazzling and thought-provoking but others weak and maybe kind of superficial. It took me way too long to finish this book, given that it is tiny and only 96 pages long (and the pages are half empty). I still really love what Manguso is doing but it might take me a bit longer to pick something of hers up the next time.

[Paula Mota · Rating 3 out of 5]

3,5*

Instead of pathologizing every human quirk, we should say, By the grace of this behavior, this individual has found it possible to continue.

Sarah Manguso, como se comprova pelos agradecimentos finais, pertence à geração de escritoras da moda americanas ou a residir nos EUA, como Sheila Heti, Miranda July e Zadie Smith, e é mais conhecida como memorialista.

On the page, these might look like the stones of a ruin, strewn by time and weather, but I was here.

“300 Arguments” funciona melhor para quem gosta de obra fragmentárias, como é o meu caso, mas limita-se a ser um apanhado de apontamentos que oscilam entre o trivial e o pertinente, alguns revelando uma inesperada franqueza ou sagacidade, outros que parecem só lá estar para fazer realmente… número.

Vocation and ambition are different, but ambition doesn’t know the difference.

Sarah Manguso expõe exatamente esse número de raciocínios sobre a vida em geral, a idade…

So many things I’ll never try again. People my age who are still trying—I don’t know where that energy comes from. Perhaps they’re unhappy. Perhaps I’m happy, but I never thought happiness would feel like this.

...a escrita…

I write in defense of the beliefs I fear are least defensible. Everything else feels like homework.

…o amor…

Like a vase, a heart breaks once. After that, it just yields to its flaws.

...a (in)felicidade…

There’s nothing wrong with being unhappy if you don’t consider unhappiness a pathology.

…as relações humanas…

Choose one: chronic disappointment or lowering your expectations to the point where nothing can disappoint you. But consider also that you might miss feeling disappointed.

…e, naturalmente, a maternidade:

After I became a mother I became at once more and less lonely. I feel less lonely when I consider the nameless others, the unknown billions, who have participated in this particular loneliness.

[Vincent Scarpa · Rating 5 out of 5]

I always drop everything to read the latest from Sarah Manguso, for she has never written anything but a brilliant book. 300 ARGUMENTS is no exception. She has a mind I'd follow anywhere, any time. We are lucky to be alive at the same time she is producing such vital work. And lucky that Graywolf continues to provide a home for work like this.

[Jon Nakapalau · Rating 5 out of 5]

Through this tapestry of life runs the thread of connection - all our efforts to connect with others to make our existence bearable. Glad to have found this talented writer.

[Kevin · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a reader, I want to quote from this little book like other people quote from The Bible. As a writer, this is a medicinal read. Meaning--whenever I'd read a chunk of these mini-essays, I'd find my brain thinking in the same watery depths and loose wisdom. Like the best work of Diane Williams or a really gifted poet, these words made me want to write, and when a book does that, I can't resist loving it. A miniaturist's delight.

[Mary · Rating 4 out of 5]

More like a 3.5, really, but I don't want Vincent to think poorly of me.

"Think of this as a short book composed entirely of what I hoped would be a long book's quotable passages."

I want the long book. Or the medium book.

There are a lot of quotable passages here--advice, anecdotes, dreams--but not quite enough context for me.

[Lauren · Rating 3 out of 5]

Middle of the road - some aphorisms/prose poems elicited an "ooh", and others just felt like a diary of the mundane.

[Chris]

I expected to love this book when I first got it--looking forward to smoothly distilled aphorisms--and then when I started it I began to expect that I would hate it--because trying a little too hard to be perfect, to be profound, to put things neatly into short sentences--and I ended up neither loving it or hating it but strongly liking it. It reads like a diary (a lot like the Susan Sontag diaries that were published a few years ago), or like a long Lydia Davis piece with less narrative arc. There were a bunch of gems, and more imperfect snippets that felt like real life than I first thought there would be--which was a good thing. It was conscious of its form and repeatedly brought in questions of what this kind of form can mean. That could've been grating if it stayed too long on the self-reflection or insisted too much on the rightness of the form, but it remained questioning and genuine, which brought me into the reflection rather than shoving it down my throat. I do kind of think that the auto-fiction/self-writing renaissance has come to the end of its line and needs to go somewhere new to be interesting, but this was a nice bridge from what has become familiar into something formally new, interesting, and broadening. Plus, it only took an afternoon to read!

[Ben Loory · Rating 4 out of 5]

There truly are two kinds of people: you and everyone else.

Biographies should also contain the events that failed to foreshadow.

You can choose your friends but not your friendships.

Aspiring to fame is aspiring to a life of small talk.

Everything has to be paid for, especially money.

The first beautiful songs you hear tend to stay beautiful because better than beauty, which is everywhere, is the memory of first discovering beauty.

[Louise Aronson · Rating 4 out of 5]

She is brilliant, simple as that. You could think about each of these for a day, a year, forever.

[Sarah Weatherby · Rating 1 out of 5]

300 moments of pretension...

[Daisysbookmusings · Rating 2 out of 5]

An underwhelming mix of thoughts that has left me with no real desire to write an intelligent or witty review based off the 10% of this book that I liked.

[Deb (Readerbuzz) Nance · Rating 3 out of 5]

Aphorisms. By Sarah Manguso. Three hundred of them.

Read a few at a time.

Still.

Weak.

Doesn't apply to me.

Weak.

Irrelevant.

And then, suddenly, brilliant.

Maybe just me.

Here were two I liked very much:

"The greatest commitments are to experiences with no known end points: friendship, marriage, parenthood, one's own life."

"Instead of pathologizing every human quirk, we should say, 'By the grace of this behavior, this individual has found it possible to continue.'"

[Wendy Wakeman · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you like this kind of thing, and I do, then you'll love 300 Arguments. I'm having trouble thinking of what to call "this kind of thing." Arguments, taken from facing pages, include "I want to shed my fears one by one until there's nothing left of me," and "There once was another Sarah Manguso. She lived in Colorado. Then she changed her name and disappeared from the internet. I miss her." Or this one: "A false compliment can land if the recipient wishes it were true." So, poetic, smart, unexpected. I delighted in it the way I delighted in Bluets by Maggie Nelson and Letters to Wendy's by Joe Wenderoth.

[Matthew · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is everything I want from a book. Poetic, detailed, eccentric, and thought provoking. How can you not love a book filled with 300 passages not necessarily related to the previous passage? This book covers depression, writing, affairs, motherhood, jealousy, and more. For similar reads: Bluets, Wittgenstein's Mistress, and Dept of Speculation.

[Kate · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book...
- contains kernels that cannot be condensed
- is a collection of profound tidbits
- contains 300 passages that the author hoped would be a long book’s quotable passages
- is thoroughly enjoyable

[Trin · Rating 1 out of 5]

Rupi Kaur for people who think they're intellectuals.

[Chris · Rating 5 out of 5]

One of the aphorisms from the middle of 300 Arguments reads:

Think of this as a short book composed entirely of what I hoped would be a long book's quotable passages.

And they are that, quotable. Reflections, insights, memories that each capture some truth about life. They are aphorisms, each a self-contained, poetic, miniature essay.

I used to write these while playing hooky on what I hoped would be my magnum opus. Assigning myself to write three hundred of them was like forcing myself to chain-smoke until I puked, but it didn't work. I didn't puke.

Yet, while they are each self-contained and complete, they are arranged in a sequence that tells a story. They are dots that can be connected to get a sense of a person behind them. While some are purely general,

Shame needs an excuse to feel ashamed. It apologizes for everything, even itself.

others convey common experiences with specific memories,

In ninth grade I was too afraid to speak to the boy I loved, so I mailed him a black paper heart every week for a year. I wasn't afraid of him; I was afraid of my feeling. It was more powerful than God. If we'd ever spoken it might have burned the whole place down.

and still others simply capture personal moments and feelings:

The most fervent kiss of my life was less than five seconds long more than ten years ago with someone else's husband. It still hasn't quite worn off.

Most are confessional on at least some level, particularly when connected with those surrounding them. Many echo, complement, and supplement previous thoughts from different perspectives. Themes emerge: desire, loss, ambition, writing, intimacy, suffering, vulnerability, marriage, parenthood, and mortality among them.

A person emerges: a passionate artist who has succeeded on at least some level as a writer, who has experienced many relationships before finding contentment in becoming a wife and mother, who has struggled with chronic illness, and who is reflecting on all of it from the perspective of a premature, voluntary end of life.

It is a book that asks if unfulfilled yearning is enough, in and of itself.

There were people I wanted so much before I had them that the entire experience of having them was grief for my old hunger.

And it is a book that hints at the hints of fulfillment a particular person has found.

And it accomplishes all of that in a spare, minimal, efficient, and original manner. It is quite a writing feat.

On the page, these might look like the stones of a ruin, strewn by time and weather, but I was here.

[Amorak Huey · Rating 5 out of 5]

One essay? 300? A novel hiding under a pile of aphorisms?

Reminds me of Rachel Zucker’s The Pedestrians. Of Elise Gabbert’s The Self Unstable.

If someone boiled my reading aesthetic until there was nothing left but salt at the bottom of the pot, the salt would be this book.

Brilliant. Funny. Smart. Kinda heartbreaking.

[Isabel · Rating 4 out of 5]

"More bad writing from real life: I tried to run into someone every day for four months, then gave up. Four days later I ran into him without trying. Four hours later, I ran into him again and we went to a diner and shared a slice of pie" (59).

[Jennifer Louden · Rating 2 out of 5]

I mostly found this book sophomoric. Or maybe I am just too old? But then every now and then I was blown away by her thinking. But over all I kept cocking my head and thinking "Nope. Not buying that" and "What does that even mean?" Which is probably a poor reflection of me but there you have it.

[Alvin · Rating 4 out of 5]

These aren't so much arguments as notions, aperçus, and admissions. Some are brilliant, others merely clever, a few just OK, but collectively they're a terrific stimulus to thought and a pleasure to read.

[elbren · Rating 5 out of 5]

most accurate back cover blurb ever:
"Think of this as a short book composed entirely of what I hoped would be a long book's quotable passages.”

[Amelia · Rating 1 out of 5]

Some great lines, but presented without context. Two hours later, I can't recall a single one.

[Veronica · Rating 5 out of 5]

Leiam Sarah Manguso. Em pequenas observações, ela descortina a existência em detalhes que mal percebemos; traz à baila aqueles pensamentos tão fugazes, mas que acabam nos perseguindo como fantasminhas aos quais sequer cogitamos dar voz.

[elsa · Rating 3 out of 5]

Hay tantísimas buenas razones que nos da Sarah Manguso... pero me quedo con la siguiente: “No sabrás nunca por lo que pasó tu madre”.

[Casi ! · Rating 2 out of 5]

A collection of sentences that are meant to stand alone. Felt like a slightly upgraded version of my notes app. So short that I finished it but didn’t do much for me at all except one sentence that said “it depends on your erotics of helplessness” which I’ve been thinking abt a lot.

[Grace Kao · Rating 4 out of 5]

Quick read. Some fragments hit hard. Some I won't remember. Still glad I picked it up.

[Shari Strong · Rating 5 out of 5]

How did something so small just break me open so wide? Speechless.