The Far Away Brothers is a moving story about twin boys from El Salvador and not only their journey to the US, but also their life once they got there. Lauren Markham's writing of Ernesto and Raul Flores’s stories has moved me to think differently about the country we live in, my own life and opportunities, and how we view immigrants of all kinds.
As someone who has been born and raised in the US, it’s difficult to see every single aspect of this country. Raúl and Ernesto however, through their journey to the North and life afterwards, have changing perceptions of America. While still in El Salvador, their family was poor and their community was ravaged by gangs. They viewed the US as a place in which you could become anything and anyone no matter where you came from.“The North offered everything...success, belonging, respect, something better,”(pg 40). When the twins made it to the States, their view of the country began to lose its luster. They moved in with their brother Wilber. That in itself was the source of many issues. Not only did the twins have to go to school, they also had to get jobs. They were responsible for helping Wilber pay the rent and paying off the debt it took their family to get them to the US. Also, like all siblings, Wilber and the twins fought about many things, leading to both of them eventually moving out and getting their own places. All this mounted onto the haunting memories of their struggle through the desert led the twins to dig themselves into a financial and emotional hole. They were failing classes in school, harming themselves, and getting into unstable relationships. It got to the point that when their sister, Maricela, started to think about coming to the US, the twins thought she would be better off in El Salvador. Once the twins paid off their debt and got their green cards however, they started to feel much better about their life in the States. They had a clean slate to start over, both in school and in the workplace. Raúl and Ernesto once again saw the opportunities that America had to offer them and had hope for their futures. The stories of Raúl and Ernesto show their dramatic perceptions of the US and how they changed in just a few short years. It has shown me both the good and the bad parts of this country, both the truths and the lies that so many people believe. Being an American, you are constantly hearing just one thing about the US. You're taught the American Dream, that you can go to college, that you can be successful in life. You are told all of these things and so easily believe them. Not only is it harder for immigrants to achieve this dream, in some circumstances, they may not even believe in it a any more.
The Flores brothers’ stories has also led me to think differently about my life and the opportunities it holds for me. I am so blessed to live with parents who love and provide for me. When the twins moved in with Wilber, they had to start paying for rent and their debt. This on top of school became a mountain of stress for Rail and Ernesto. Wilber became their guardian, but as brothers, he and the twins got into arguments that caused rifts in their relationship. I am almost the same age Raúl and Ernesto were in The Far Away Brothers, and these are things I've never had to think about. I can't even imagine having that many responsibilities at once. I’ve always known that there are kids who have to balance these things on a day to day basis, but reading The Far Away Brothers makes that fact so much more real. It really makes you realize that yes, there are actually people out there who are living like this. For me, it's not just something that people talk about anymore, it's something that I realize actually happens to thousands of people.
Finally, The Far Away Brothers has changed the way that I view immigrants. We constantly hear the same stories and and ideas about immigrants. For instance, a generalized idea is that immigrants are coming to the US for a better life. Yes this is true in most cases, but what is actually pushing these people out of their beloved home countries? “... No one wanted to leave their home, their parents, for no good reason,”(pg 170). In the Flores’ case, the fact that America would provide a better future for them wasn’t enough, because going to the North cost not only money, but in some cases your life. In order to get to the States, the twins’ lives had to be threatened. The gangs in El Salvador eventually leaked into their family. Their own uncle threatened to kill them, driving Raúl and Ernesto to make it to America. This also brings to light the sheer determination that immigrants possess. Simple walls or laws put in place will not stop them from journeying here. “People migrate now for the same reason the always have: for survival. The United States can build a wall, dig a two-thousand mile trench, patrol with drones and military grade vehicles and machine guns, and put thousands more guards on the border. Desperate migrants will still find another way,” (pg 271). Ernesto knew this and wrote, “The police officer and the government they can not stop the children to cross the border, every children know that it’s dangerous, but they want a better life for them, and for their family,”(pg 177). The Far Away Brothers proves that immigrants are determined not only to find a better life in the US, but also to escape the problems in a home country that they love.
In conclusion, like Raúl and Ernesto, my perceptions of America have changed and grown to fit a more global perspective.The Far Away Brothers has taught me about immigrants, myself, and how we all fit into this country.