Michelle is a freelance finance journalist living in London who realised one day that her profession did not really make her an expert with managing her own finances. Embarrassed and disappointed with living life king-size, she decided to live an entire year without spending anything. Yes, that is right - not spending a single penny except for essentials. She paid her mortgage, household bills, and a little over £30 a week for essential toiletries, household goods and groceries.
What went out of the window - conventional entertainment, travel, beauty regimen, gifts, shopping, partying, drinking - pretty much everything.
I read Michelle's article about her no-spend year challenge long back in a newspaper column and I was impressed that she lived a whole year on a weekly grocery bill of £30. I was inspired enough to set a no-spend challenge on apparel for my family (successfully in the fag end of its 10th month which is increasingly getting creative!) but when I saw her book on Kindle for 99p I thought of giving it a go. I guess it would be more relevant to people who would like information on mortgages, tax-planning, investments and planning for a retired life as Michelle touches upon all this in the book. I skimmed through all of this as there frankly wasn't anything to learn or adopt( mainly because she gives very basic general information) but the 2 reasons I picked this book was to see how far she went to keep up the challenge and to pick up tips on travel and entertainment without burning a hole in your pocket. And I wasn't disappointed on both counts.
Michelle has given a number of ideas on how to have a fun day in the expensive city of London if you are ready to be a little creative and get outdoors on your feet. I enjoyed reading these and aim to experience the life a bit with my family and hopefully, inspire in my children the spirit of enjoying the outdoors in rain, wind, sun or cold. But what really blew my mind away is that Michelle lived an entire year with a zero budget for travelling! Everyday travelling!! She has earned my respect for keeping up with it the whole year in spite of all the problems she faced (lost and torn shoes, hundreds of miles cycling and walking - even to the countryside for a holiday, turning up for client meetings with sweaty and smelly underarms, late for meetings, giving up some parties etc). I can't imagine living a whole year like that, its probably insane, I wouldn't do it, but that doesn't take away the commitment Michelle shows for her cause. Admirable.
Another thing that comes out of this book is that if you are committed to a cause, however insane it might seem to others, people who care for you and love you will root for your success in whatever you choose to do. Michelle's husband, family, friends and colleagues have all played an important role in her life in the no-spend year and rooted for her, even though they did not adopt her lifestyle. Michelle is humble in thanking all those who stuck by her and made her difficult year worth it.
This book is not path breaking, nor is it a literary delight. Not very engaging either, but what it does is give you and me something to think about. I have always thought that it is great to know that you can afford quite a bit of things in life, but it is even more satisfying to know that you can make do with much lesser. I would rather that I teach my kids to distinguish between needs and wants from the beginning than berate them about it later when you see them taking their life for granted. It is horrifying to know that when I compare the 8 year old self from yesterday with my 8-year old child today, I realise that I was more efficient and practically adept/useful because of the way I was brought up. There are just too many unnecessary choices in life today that do not teach us anything of value. And face the truth, we collapse under the sheer glitz of it all. Minimalism is not so much about cutting bills but more so about not letting consumerism get the better of you - 25 types of mayonnaise, 20 types of kitchen cleaners, fancy spa treatments and holidays, costly branded clothing and accessories and insanely expensive gadgets that do nothing but make you dependent on them - do we really need these?
Michelle also shows you the value of picking a cause dear to you and sticking to it, however insane it might sound to others. Michelle overpaid close to 10% of her outstanding mortgage at the end of the no-spend year - I guess she got her reward. We might not find it appealing to live a life like this, but surely there are things that we can emulate - getting out of doors more often for simple delights without spending a penny, walk around town and meet and learn from strangers if we are only willing to experiment and most importantly, not give in to the blatant consumerism all around us.
Living independently means different things to different people. To me, financial independence is very important. Many of the money-saving ideas that Michelle had adopted in pursuit of her challenge are things that I have lived out - difference being that we had to do it due to financial difficulties. But lesson learnt - there is such a thing called a rainy day, you still have to plan for it. It makes infinite sense in cutting down unwanted expenses, irrespective of the price involved and adopt a frugal or prudent lifestyle. We all talk about retiring at 40, living a life for ourselves at some point - how many of us are working towards it? Many of us in our late 30s and further are nowhere financially secure as compared to our parents or grandparents at a similar age - even though they earned much lesser than us. The difference obviously is not in the money earned - it is in the way it was spent and saved. I do not recall being denied anything essential by my parents or not being taken on holidays or denied gifts or surprises - they provided for everything we needed. Clearly, we are not emulating the lessons laid out by them if we still find ourselves scrambling to make savings and fill up our piggy banks.
If I have to stick to a job that I do not enjoy or one that doesn't satisfy me creatively or if it disallows me to enjoy my children's growing up years, it is not worth the money I get for doing it. I would rather have a little less money and learn to live within those means. A spouse or a parent with a lifelong desire to branch off independently in his or her chosen field will find themselves pinned down with responsibility - mortgage, children, exotic holidays et al. What better way to do it than to live frugally and be happy to break free of societal pressures and find your calling one day and live blissfully knowing that you gave it your all and did not deny your dependents anything of value? After all, you live but once, isn't it? And you totally deserve to get what you desire if you work for it. Don't we all know someone like this in our lives? Look at it this way - living frugally doesn't involve giving up things you'd rather have - it gives you the independence to live exactly how you want, when you want and to choose what you want.
All in all, a good read, though not essential. It all depends on how you approach this topic and what your intended takeaway is. Michelle has learnt a life-changing lesson for herself and has shared it with us. I wish her all the very best in future.