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Strains of Silence
Music was her driving passion and the truest expression of her faith, but three months before her wedding, twenty-year-old Kasia Bernolak can't even pick up her guitar. Feeling like a fraud who will ruin her dad's pastoral reputation, she can barely meet his eyes. When Kasia finds the strength to break off her engagement, she still doesn't realize the dangerous Blake Hamilton isn't ready to say goodbye. And he'll do whatever it takes to keep her.Alexander "Zan" Maddox has seen what a domineering man can do to an unsuspecting woman, and Zan is sick of injustice. He gave up a college baseball scholarship so he could protect his sister from her abusive husband. When he rescues Kasia from her ex-fiancé, he instinctively appoints himself her personal bodyguard. Now, all he has to do is keep from falling for her himself.Kasia and Zan become fast friends, but true healing and justice might cost more than either of them is willing to pay.
426 pages, Kindle Edition
Published July 21, 2017
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Bethany Kaczmarek
1 book99 followersBethany loves a home filled with family and friends. Word gets around that—at the Kaczmarek house—food is abundant, conversations are real, and anything is up for discussion. She and her clan are fans of laughter, indie music, sonic screwdrivers, and superheroes. Home is wherever in the world they're all together.
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November 27, 2017
This is one of my favorites.
When I first read this story, I didn't know what to expect with a Christian romance. I’ve avoided the genre a bit because it makes me worry it'd give me expectations about my own life and relationships, as most romantic fiction I have read does. My silly brain does that. I wanted to read this and find out for myself, though and I didn't expect for a love story to impact me this deeply.
This book totally passed my expectations.
Strains of Silence follows the story of Kasia Bernolak and Zan Maddox, who become fast friends as Kasia is healing from a broken relationship. Through brokenness and tension, battles both internal and external, all resulting from an abusive past, everyone involved has to do a bit of learning, hard as it is.. It's not just about Kasia, Zan, or any hugs, kisses, or warm, fuzzy feelings (though there's a nice balance of that).
Even if you haven't faced the same circumstances, this might make you realize where you’ve let lies in and where you’ve buried things needing uncovering. It's heavy at parts, but very true; sometimes life is like that. We have to take it with awareness, but not dwell in a prison of pain there. We need to move forward with grace. At a certain hard bit *spoilersss* I had to skim and read the book like that. But even the pain in SOS allows the beauty of the story to mean much, much more. You will root for not Zan or Kasia in the story, but God and what He does with her and all the characters' lives.
This is a teaching about God's grace above all. It’s about real love over hidden lust and abuse, truth over lies, and glory from ashes.
SOS allowed God to do healing in my heart where I was broken before reading. I didn't just learn about relationships with others, but this book gave me an honest, hard-and-important, yet homey telling of God's love. His love is everywhere in this book and I hope, upon picking it up for a read, it points you to the love of God surrounding you right now, wherever your broken is.
<3
(Round 2)
Alrighty, this was my second reading of this book since last summer. Heavy parts were still heavy, and happy parts still made me smile. But something different encouraged me this time around: Zan actually became a character I loved even more. This book really caught my attention in the way Christians talk to Zan before he becomes a believer. It taught me things I needed to have enforced and relearned, like listening, asking questions, and not forcing conversations. Also, to remember you are not above someone who isn't a Christian. You are just as much a sinner as them. There's a grace for Zan I didn't identify with until later, and I have a deeper appreciation for my relationships and those who have been my punching bag and best friends over the years (even though I definitely haven't been through what Kasia has). I love how God has used this book!
When I first read this story, I didn't know what to expect with a Christian romance. I’ve avoided the genre a bit because it makes me worry it'd give me expectations about my own life and relationships, as most romantic fiction I have read does. My silly brain does that. I wanted to read this and find out for myself, though and I didn't expect for a love story to impact me this deeply.
This book totally passed my expectations.
Strains of Silence follows the story of Kasia Bernolak and Zan Maddox, who become fast friends as Kasia is healing from a broken relationship. Through brokenness and tension, battles both internal and external, all resulting from an abusive past, everyone involved has to do a bit of learning, hard as it is.. It's not just about Kasia, Zan, or any hugs, kisses, or warm, fuzzy feelings (though there's a nice balance of that).
Even if you haven't faced the same circumstances, this might make you realize where you’ve let lies in and where you’ve buried things needing uncovering. It's heavy at parts, but very true; sometimes life is like that. We have to take it with awareness, but not dwell in a prison of pain there. We need to move forward with grace. At a certain hard bit *spoilersss* I had to skim and read the book like that. But even the pain in SOS allows the beauty of the story to mean much, much more. You will root for not Zan or Kasia in the story, but God and what He does with her and all the characters' lives.
This is a teaching about God's grace above all. It’s about real love over hidden lust and abuse, truth over lies, and glory from ashes.
SOS allowed God to do healing in my heart where I was broken before reading. I didn't just learn about relationships with others, but this book gave me an honest, hard-and-important, yet homey telling of God's love. His love is everywhere in this book and I hope, upon picking it up for a read, it points you to the love of God surrounding you right now, wherever your broken is.
<3
(Round 2)
Alrighty, this was my second reading of this book since last summer. Heavy parts were still heavy, and happy parts still made me smile. But something different encouraged me this time around: Zan actually became a character I loved even more. This book really caught my attention in the way Christians talk to Zan before he becomes a believer. It taught me things I needed to have enforced and relearned, like listening, asking questions, and not forcing conversations. Also, to remember you are not above someone who isn't a Christian. You are just as much a sinner as them. There's a grace for Zan I didn't identify with until later, and I have a deeper appreciation for my relationships and those who have been my punching bag and best friends over the years (even though I definitely haven't been through what Kasia has). I love how God has used this book!
January 21, 2018
4.5 stars
Strains of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek is intensely emotional and doesn’t shy away from the rawness of abuse, an important story in this age of #MeToo and the newly empowered female voice. It paints a picture of horrific victimization but, in so doing, the author applauds the women who are no longer content to be victims and who bravely speak out and seek safety. And in the middle of this novel’s depictions of fear, betrayal and pain, there is an abundance of grace, mercy, love and hope.
The structure of Strains of Silence is really divided into two parts. In the first half of the novel, we follow Kasia and Zan as individuals, watching their paths intersect on more than one occasion, getting the foundation for what will be a pivotal relationship for each of them. We watch Kasia head to Peru to teach English as a Second Language (a mission close to my heart), and we’re there as she renews her relationship with God and begins to find her song again. We watch Zan work through his own personal struggles – his disillusionment with God, his dissatisfaction with life, and his concern for his sister – and we see how God pursues him by surrounding him with Christians. (I love God’s sense of humor!) We also see – before Kasia and Zan do – that they share a common pain. Both are affected by domestic abuse – Kasia at the hands of her increasingly abusive ex-fiance, and Zan because of his beloved sister who has just left her violently abusive husband. This shared understanding of the grittier side of life gives them such a beautifully tender connection when their paths align more closely.
Getting that inside peek to Zan’s first newborn-calf-wobbly-steps as a child of God is one of my favorite parts of this novel. He doesn’t always get it right, but he’s trying. And it’s so evident that God has changed him while also preserving those things that make Zan ‘Zan’, those elements of himself that God breathed into him long before he was even born. Part of that is his tender heart, especially sensitive toward Kasia and her needs. In my very favorite conversation between Zan and Kasia, he tells her:
"If you wake up and need to unload at three in the morning, I’ll listen. If you get angry, I’ll take whatever punches you need to throw. When you’re finally ready to cry, I’ll hold you if you’ll let me. And when you’re ready to dance, I’ll be there."
Bottom Line: Strains of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek is a powerful novel about restoration, redemption and hope. Yes, there’s an exquisitely sweet romance, too, but this story is much deeper than falling in love. It’s a portrait of grace in the middle of life’s darkest moments, of friendship, of family, and of faith. Kaczmarek’s writing style is engaging and hits all the feels, and the characters are vividly-drawn and layered. I loved the ethnic diversity and the cultural diversity present here. Please be aware … It’s not an easy read – it deals with a lot of emotionally raw stuff. But at the same time, there is joy and humor and you can’t put it down because you’ve become so invested in these characters. It reminded me so often of his Matt Maher lyric – “Where sin runs deep, Your grace is more.” Not Kasia’s sin or Bailey’s sin (Zan’s sister) but the sin of their abusers … it runs deeps in parts of this novel, affecting more than just the men or Kasia & Bailey. But… Jesus’ amazing grace abounds.
(I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.)
first seen at Reading Is My SuperPower
Strains of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek is intensely emotional and doesn’t shy away from the rawness of abuse, an important story in this age of #MeToo and the newly empowered female voice. It paints a picture of horrific victimization but, in so doing, the author applauds the women who are no longer content to be victims and who bravely speak out and seek safety. And in the middle of this novel’s depictions of fear, betrayal and pain, there is an abundance of grace, mercy, love and hope.
The structure of Strains of Silence is really divided into two parts. In the first half of the novel, we follow Kasia and Zan as individuals, watching their paths intersect on more than one occasion, getting the foundation for what will be a pivotal relationship for each of them. We watch Kasia head to Peru to teach English as a Second Language (a mission close to my heart), and we’re there as she renews her relationship with God and begins to find her song again. We watch Zan work through his own personal struggles – his disillusionment with God, his dissatisfaction with life, and his concern for his sister – and we see how God pursues him by surrounding him with Christians. (I love God’s sense of humor!) We also see – before Kasia and Zan do – that they share a common pain. Both are affected by domestic abuse – Kasia at the hands of her increasingly abusive ex-fiance, and Zan because of his beloved sister who has just left her violently abusive husband. This shared understanding of the grittier side of life gives them such a beautifully tender connection when their paths align more closely.
Getting that inside peek to Zan’s first newborn-calf-wobbly-steps as a child of God is one of my favorite parts of this novel. He doesn’t always get it right, but he’s trying. And it’s so evident that God has changed him while also preserving those things that make Zan ‘Zan’, those elements of himself that God breathed into him long before he was even born. Part of that is his tender heart, especially sensitive toward Kasia and her needs. In my very favorite conversation between Zan and Kasia, he tells her:
"If you wake up and need to unload at three in the morning, I’ll listen. If you get angry, I’ll take whatever punches you need to throw. When you’re finally ready to cry, I’ll hold you if you’ll let me. And when you’re ready to dance, I’ll be there."
Bottom Line: Strains of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek is a powerful novel about restoration, redemption and hope. Yes, there’s an exquisitely sweet romance, too, but this story is much deeper than falling in love. It’s a portrait of grace in the middle of life’s darkest moments, of friendship, of family, and of faith. Kaczmarek’s writing style is engaging and hits all the feels, and the characters are vividly-drawn and layered. I loved the ethnic diversity and the cultural diversity present here. Please be aware … It’s not an easy read – it deals with a lot of emotionally raw stuff. But at the same time, there is joy and humor and you can’t put it down because you’ve become so invested in these characters. It reminded me so often of his Matt Maher lyric – “Where sin runs deep, Your grace is more.” Not Kasia’s sin or Bailey’s sin (Zan’s sister) but the sin of their abusers … it runs deeps in parts of this novel, affecting more than just the men or Kasia & Bailey. But… Jesus’ amazing grace abounds.
(I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.)
first seen at Reading Is My SuperPower
January 15, 2018
This book could have been good, but for me it was very preachy. It almost crammed religion into every thought and every action in the book. It is a good reminder, that it should be on your mind, but it really detracted from the plot.
I received this copy from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
I received this copy from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
January 10, 2018
The book sends a powerful message about abuse that many suffer through. Do you remember dating in high school? There was this one guy I wanted to be with so bad. My friends said he was bad news, but of course I didn’t listen. I found out like Kasia that he was possessive and dangerous. I even gave up being in the band for him. He told me that it wasn’t cool to be in the band, so I put my clarinet away and followed my heart. Kasia thought she had found the perfect guy in Blake. When she decides that she has had enough of his anger and abuse she breaks it off. Sometimes it is hard for someone to let go and they feel this need to torture the person emotionally. Kasia is a strong young lady but at times I think she made bad decisions which found her in situations that were harmful.
It is hard when you suddenly realize you have become isolated from friends and you slowly turn away from your faith. I’m glad she decides to go on a mission trip. That trip opened her eyes and grew her back to her family and faith. As parents it must have been so hard for them to see their daughter scared of her ex fiancé. Blake reminds me of a person who won’t take no for an answer. His jealousy of not having Kasia becomes dangerous and threatens her well being. Will she find someone to protect her? Can she depend on God to protect her?
The book has some scenes in it that may bother some people, but I think the author does a great job of showing how dangerous abuse is if you don’t take action. I’m glad the author wrote about young adults because it happens alot to them and many are afraid to speak up. The book is good but I did have a hard time with the polish words and thought maybe the book was a bit long. I appreciate that we were exposed to Kasia’s heritage which helped me to understand her upbringing. Overall a good book with a tough subject that was handled with grace.
I received a copy of this book from Celebrate Lit. The review is my own opinion.
It is hard when you suddenly realize you have become isolated from friends and you slowly turn away from your faith. I’m glad she decides to go on a mission trip. That trip opened her eyes and grew her back to her family and faith. As parents it must have been so hard for them to see their daughter scared of her ex fiancé. Blake reminds me of a person who won’t take no for an answer. His jealousy of not having Kasia becomes dangerous and threatens her well being. Will she find someone to protect her? Can she depend on God to protect her?
The book has some scenes in it that may bother some people, but I think the author does a great job of showing how dangerous abuse is if you don’t take action. I’m glad the author wrote about young adults because it happens alot to them and many are afraid to speak up. The book is good but I did have a hard time with the polish words and thought maybe the book was a bit long. I appreciate that we were exposed to Kasia’s heritage which helped me to understand her upbringing. Overall a good book with a tough subject that was handled with grace.
I received a copy of this book from Celebrate Lit. The review is my own opinion.
January 26, 2018
This is one of those fictional stories that is 100% real to a reader. You are feeling the emotions, you are thinking beyond the scenarios and seeing these issues in current society. I was unsure what to expect when I signed up to review this book, but I am so glad I chose to, it is a book that hit close to home and one that I think many should read.
Characters
There is a lot of characters in this book, females and males that are suffering through the darkness of abuse in some form. Some are the abusers, some are those that rise up from being the sufferer. I choose not to call Kasia a victim, because those that have ever suffered from abuse, harassment or any unwanted attention should not be called victims, they are stronger than that. I also really enjoyed watching Zan go from drowning his sorrows to rising like a phoenix.
Enjoyable Moments
I will certainly say that as mentioned in the guest post this book can seem heavy, I felt hopeful from reading it. It gave me hope that maybe more stories like this that are enlightening will emerge to guide us all. I would say I really enjoyed seeing Zan and Kasia grow closer. It was also nice to see Kasia grow stronger in herself, she was seeing her worth finally. I also loved her dad in this book, he was a constant gentle soul and loving source. The family dynamics in this story were amazing.
Synoptic
Overall, this is a story that will take you a day to read and a lifetime to absorb (in a good way). It was like reading about society in its most intimate moments, it brings to life and to mind a story that many have truly lived. As I said before I felt hopeful reading this, there is hope and light after the darkness. Silence doesn’t need to be an answer. Trust me, all readers young and old can take something from this story, it will speak to many hearts.
Characters
There is a lot of characters in this book, females and males that are suffering through the darkness of abuse in some form. Some are the abusers, some are those that rise up from being the sufferer. I choose not to call Kasia a victim, because those that have ever suffered from abuse, harassment or any unwanted attention should not be called victims, they are stronger than that. I also really enjoyed watching Zan go from drowning his sorrows to rising like a phoenix.
Enjoyable Moments
I will certainly say that as mentioned in the guest post this book can seem heavy, I felt hopeful from reading it. It gave me hope that maybe more stories like this that are enlightening will emerge to guide us all. I would say I really enjoyed seeing Zan and Kasia grow closer. It was also nice to see Kasia grow stronger in herself, she was seeing her worth finally. I also loved her dad in this book, he was a constant gentle soul and loving source. The family dynamics in this story were amazing.
Synoptic
Overall, this is a story that will take you a day to read and a lifetime to absorb (in a good way). It was like reading about society in its most intimate moments, it brings to life and to mind a story that many have truly lived. As I said before I felt hopeful reading this, there is hope and light after the darkness. Silence doesn’t need to be an answer. Trust me, all readers young and old can take something from this story, it will speak to many hearts.
July 21, 2017
Strains Of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek is a contemporary Christian novel that tackles the subject of domestic abuse. It is a gritty read and while there are no explicit scenes, Bethany Kaczmarek does not shy away from the damage and impact on lives.
Domestic abuse may be verbal or physical. It may start small and escalate or it may start big. It is never the victims fault and it is always wrong. The pain is huge affecting every area of life - waking or sleeping- and all members of the family.
The novel shows the support given by both family and friends, who show unconditional love and offer protection.
Victims feel guilty. Or angry. Or worthless. They need help - both professional and personal to heal. And they need to know God. God who stands by us, who weeps when we weep, who hurts when we hurt and who whispers "beloved", "my child", and "beautiful" over us. We need to know who we are and whose we are. We need to listen to God's voice and drown out all the competing voices.
In spite of our past, God can still use us. Our experience will ultimately strengthen us and will enable us to walk alongside others in a similar position, offering love and support.
Strains Of Silence was a powerful read and grounded in God. It was a distressing read at times but we must not shy away from worldly issues.
Thank you Bethany Kaczmarek for highlighting an area that is not often talked or written about.
I received this book for free. A favourable review was not required and all views expressed are my own.
Domestic abuse may be verbal or physical. It may start small and escalate or it may start big. It is never the victims fault and it is always wrong. The pain is huge affecting every area of life - waking or sleeping- and all members of the family.
The novel shows the support given by both family and friends, who show unconditional love and offer protection.
Victims feel guilty. Or angry. Or worthless. They need help - both professional and personal to heal. And they need to know God. God who stands by us, who weeps when we weep, who hurts when we hurt and who whispers "beloved", "my child", and "beautiful" over us. We need to know who we are and whose we are. We need to listen to God's voice and drown out all the competing voices.
In spite of our past, God can still use us. Our experience will ultimately strengthen us and will enable us to walk alongside others in a similar position, offering love and support.
Strains Of Silence was a powerful read and grounded in God. It was a distressing read at times but we must not shy away from worldly issues.
Thank you Bethany Kaczmarek for highlighting an area that is not often talked or written about.
I received this book for free. A favourable review was not required and all views expressed are my own.
October 13, 2017
This is the first book I've read by Bethany Kaczmarek, and I think I've found a very talented writer. This romance is in a timely branch of the romance genre, abuse and stalking. While it's definitely uplifting, you can still feel the threads of emotions in the young women who are so terrorized by the ones who should be honoring and protecting them.
Kasia Bernolak is engaged to a young man who dominates her and has wrecked her self-esteem. He's pulled her away from God and from her family, shame tearing those precious bonds apart. She gathers up her remaining courage to break the engagement and leave the country, literally. She goes to Peru for a summer-long mission and begins to find herself and her God again--but terror haunts her dreams every night.
When she returns home and then back to college, her worst nightmares begin to happen. Blake, her now former fiance', is now her stalker. She makes a decision to go nowhere alone; three guys and her roommate take turns shepherding her from class to home to the place she helps youngsters with their homework. But will it be enough?
Apparently not always. What can she do?
Find out by getting the book from Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or your local bookstore! Well worth the cost of the read!
I received a free copy of the book from the author. The review and evaluation are my own opinions.
Kasia Bernolak is engaged to a young man who dominates her and has wrecked her self-esteem. He's pulled her away from God and from her family, shame tearing those precious bonds apart. She gathers up her remaining courage to break the engagement and leave the country, literally. She goes to Peru for a summer-long mission and begins to find herself and her God again--but terror haunts her dreams every night.
When she returns home and then back to college, her worst nightmares begin to happen. Blake, her now former fiance', is now her stalker. She makes a decision to go nowhere alone; three guys and her roommate take turns shepherding her from class to home to the place she helps youngsters with their homework. But will it be enough?
Apparently not always. What can she do?
Find out by getting the book from Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or your local bookstore! Well worth the cost of the read!
I received a free copy of the book from the author. The review and evaluation are my own opinions.
January 9, 2018
This was a hard-hitting and deeply-felt novel—so much more than ‘just’ a contemporary romance. In fact, for the first half of the novel, the focus of the story is squarely on Kasia’s and Zan’s individual lives—on Kasia establishing herself with a new group of friends and getting her focus back on God (including a trip to Peru as an English teacher), and on Zan’s disillusionment with his current life, his concern for his sister (who has just left her abusive husband), and his gradual transition from being anti-religion to seeking Christ. And yet the chance meetings that take place between Kasia and Zan during this half of the novel set the stage well for the friendship that develops in the second half.
Despite dealing with the difficult subjects of physical and sexual abuse, there is a lot of hope and grace in this story, and one of the most beautiful scenes in the novel is a scene where Zan, in his unsteady steps as a new Christian, reminds Kasia of that hope and grace. But what warmed me to Zan most of all was his heart for Kasia. He was there for her all the way—to the extreme in one particularly emotional scene—but he was very aware that he needed to take his cues from Kasia: “You deserve to dance—and climb. And if you’ll let me, I’ll help you...If you wake up and need to unload at three in the morning, I’ll listen. If you get angry, I’ll take whatever punches you need to throw. When you’re finally ready to cry, I’ll hold you if you’ll let me. And when you’re ready to dance, I’ll be there.” <3 <3 <3
Yes, there's some tough stuff in this novel, particularly as things come to a head for both Kasia and Bailey in the second half of the story, but there is healing, too, and genuine love. An excellent debut, and well worth the read.
I received a copy of this novel through Celebrate Lit Tours. This has not influenced the content of my review, which is my honest and unbiased opinion.
Despite dealing with the difficult subjects of physical and sexual abuse, there is a lot of hope and grace in this story, and one of the most beautiful scenes in the novel is a scene where Zan, in his unsteady steps as a new Christian, reminds Kasia of that hope and grace. But what warmed me to Zan most of all was his heart for Kasia. He was there for her all the way—to the extreme in one particularly emotional scene—but he was very aware that he needed to take his cues from Kasia: “You deserve to dance—and climb. And if you’ll let me, I’ll help you...If you wake up and need to unload at three in the morning, I’ll listen. If you get angry, I’ll take whatever punches you need to throw. When you’re finally ready to cry, I’ll hold you if you’ll let me. And when you’re ready to dance, I’ll be there.” <3 <3 <3
Yes, there's some tough stuff in this novel, particularly as things come to a head for both Kasia and Bailey in the second half of the story, but there is healing, too, and genuine love. An excellent debut, and well worth the read.
I received a copy of this novel through Celebrate Lit Tours. This has not influenced the content of my review, which is my honest and unbiased opinion.
January 9, 2018
This is my first book by Bethany and she has done a marvelous job of bringing out the emotions in these characters! It's like a roller coaster ride of emotions!
Music is the Love love of my Heart and Soul just as it does kasia.
I play viola in our orchestra and it was passed down from my mom, to me, now to my son.
My son is third generation string player.
I couldn't imagine my life without music.
I also enjoyed reading about God's grace and loving us no matter what you do.
This book wasn't my cup of tea even tho I kept reading until the end. However; it might be yours. I do recommend this book.
I received this book for free.
No compensation was received and all opinions are my own!!!
Music is the Love love of my Heart and Soul just as it does kasia.
I play viola in our orchestra and it was passed down from my mom, to me, now to my son.
My son is third generation string player.
I couldn't imagine my life without music.
I also enjoyed reading about God's grace and loving us no matter what you do.
This book wasn't my cup of tea even tho I kept reading until the end. However; it might be yours. I do recommend this book.
I received this book for free.
No compensation was received and all opinions are my own!!!
January 14, 2018
I’m going to give you fair warning. This book is not a light-hearted, feel-good read. It deals with some difficult subject matter and subsequent feelings of guilt.
Yet, Strains of Silence is a poignant story of a young woman coming to terms with the injustices done to her, the innocence stolen from her.
When she reaches out to them, Kasia’s friends and family surround her with the protection, support, and love she’s cut herself off from. And in the end, despite the rocky road getting there, God’s faithfulness and forgiveness pave the way for healing and hope for a future filled with joy.
Disclosure statement:
I receive complimentary books from publishers, publicists, and/or authors, including NetGalley. I am not required to write positive reviews. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255.
Yet, Strains of Silence is a poignant story of a young woman coming to terms with the injustices done to her, the innocence stolen from her.
When she reaches out to them, Kasia’s friends and family surround her with the protection, support, and love she’s cut herself off from. And in the end, despite the rocky road getting there, God’s faithfulness and forgiveness pave the way for healing and hope for a future filled with joy.
Disclosure statement:
I receive complimentary books from publishers, publicists, and/or authors, including NetGalley. I am not required to write positive reviews. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255.
March 24, 2018
Abuse stalking, assault and rape and healing are the themes of this intriguing novel. How do the victims deal this these things? How can friends help and support them? How can one stop being a victim or feeling guilty? This novel tries do give christian answers to these questions in a language appealing to young readers.
The main character has got some incredibly good friends and a supporting family that can be examples for all of us.
The main character has got some incredibly good friends and a supporting family that can be examples for all of us.
January 9, 2018
This is a very intense book. This goes in to how a family handles an abusive boyfriend or spouse. This helps show what the person being abused feels and the people surrounding that person feel. This was well done. I laughed a bit and cried some in this story. I received a copy of this book from Celebratelit for a fair and honest opinion that I gave of my own free will.
May 20, 2018
Strains of Silence is a story dealing with abuse and the effects of date rape. The cast of characters are believable and charming. Kasia struggles with ending her caustic relationship with her boyfriend, Blake. Through it all, her friends and family were there for her. My favorite part is Zan's journey to finding God.
August 12, 2017
Bethany Kaczmarek’s debut novel, Strains of Silence, deftly balances the dark and light—how subtly we can become bound in relationships not good for us—with how we can find paths out, and fearlessly take hold of what truly sets us free.
Twenty-year-old, Kasia Bernolak, is engaged to a guy who has gradually distanced her from everyone and everything she loves most in the world. But she is unwilling to accept it any longer. Strains of Silence takes on the serious issue of abuse that too many young adults face in dating and marriage today, and how the worst part is that many don’t even recognize the abuse for what it is.
Bethany’s writing is honest and heartfelt, and the characters feel like friends—well except for the bad guys, who I’d like to give a nice right-cross. (Maybe that sounds too much like promoting violence? So be it. That’s how I feel.)
In following Kasia’s quest to rediscover who she really is, and what real love looks like, it makes me want to further explore the Indie Christian music scene, and volunteer for a mission trip to South America.
Strains of Silence is an important book. Like other works of great fiction, it carries a tremendous amount of emotional truth.
Twenty-year-old, Kasia Bernolak, is engaged to a guy who has gradually distanced her from everyone and everything she loves most in the world. But she is unwilling to accept it any longer. Strains of Silence takes on the serious issue of abuse that too many young adults face in dating and marriage today, and how the worst part is that many don’t even recognize the abuse for what it is.
Bethany’s writing is honest and heartfelt, and the characters feel like friends—well except for the bad guys, who I’d like to give a nice right-cross. (Maybe that sounds too much like promoting violence? So be it. That’s how I feel.)
In following Kasia’s quest to rediscover who she really is, and what real love looks like, it makes me want to further explore the Indie Christian music scene, and volunteer for a mission trip to South America.
Strains of Silence is an important book. Like other works of great fiction, it carries a tremendous amount of emotional truth.
August 7, 2017
Strains of Silence brings to life heart-grabbing characters and an enthralling plot. The authentic style and tone kept me captive to the very last page. Truth, compassion, and rescue oozed into my soul.
Thank you, Bethany K. I'm already waiting for the next two titles.
Thank you, Bethany K. I'm already waiting for the next two titles.
January 10, 2018
Before I even get into this review there are disclaimers that I need to provide. This book could be a ginormous trigger on several issues for some readers. I say ginormous because while it is triggering it is also redeeming. A book of hope and overcoming through faith. This book tackles the very heavy topics of dating/domestic violence, stalking, and sexual assault. It’s not graphic but it’s not cozy either. Statistically, if these topics don’t affect you personally they definitely affect people you know. Christian’s are not immune from these traumas and they are not set aside to just those ‘of the world’ so to speak.
I loved this book. It was told with a refreshing honesty and depth that is hard to find in Christian fiction that deals with heavy topics. I’ve read more than my fair share of glossy ‘Jesus heals all’ books, both fiction and nonfiction. Guess what? Jesus helps you heal, he doesn’t do the hard part. Jesus gives you hope, he doesn’t take away the need for hope. Jesus gives you love, even when you feel unlovable. Jesus is not a magic wand that lets you say a prayer and come away ‘fixed’. Before I get too deep into all the ways I loved this book I want to tell you why it’s only 4 star for me. You know the idea that people of a like mind tend to find each other? Yeah, that. Every character in this books seems to be touched, in some way, by the topics of this book. Roommate? Similar experiences. New love interest? Sister in a similar situation. Roommate’s boyfriend? Yup, murdered sister with a potentially similar situation. Outside of Kasia’s family everyone is healing their own situations. It felt a lot overdone. Statistically, completing possible but it was too much for fiction. The other meh thing for me was that while I appreciated that the story didn’t drag it’s feet getting into the heart of the matter, it did lack a lot in overall character development and even some areas of story development. I wasn’t given enough of that magical ‘it’ factor to fully fall head over heels for the characters and situations. I loved them, I embraced them, I cried with them and rejoiced with them but I wasn’t all in so to speak.
I loved that, while this book was deeply rooted in a foundation of faith, faith wasn’t treated as a cure all. While there was a conversion or two, the individuals didn’t walk away with their worlds all figured out. I get very frustrated at the books that set a person up to give their life to Christ and then suddenly they are reading the Bible like it’s a novel and it all makes sense and the truths of the gospel are embedded into their entire being and prayer and understanding are like a light switch that was turned on. That’s not how this works, it’s not how any of this works! I love that Zan determined to understand instead of instantly understanding. I love that he tried to figure it out and admitted he didn’t quite get it all. I love that it wasn’t an insta-faith but a growing faith. I loved that when Kasia learned to embrace the love and understanding of her friends and family it wasn’t an insta-fix. She still struggled to accept that they loved her despite what was done to her and what she chose to participate in. Let’s face it, that is more true than any of the insta-s out there. Insta is for fiction that isn’t confident in honesty.
The truth is that this book takes a negative relationship and shows the struggles and obstacles that are blocking the path to healing. This book takes the truth that even those with deep faith can struggle. This book provides the idea that with the love in God and from God struggles can be overcome. It doesn’t have to be struggles like domestic violence and sexual assault. Every hurt that we struggle with lends itself to the need to fall into God’s arms and his love and his acceptance. I loved this book. The healing appeal has a relevance in both a Christian and secular world. The message that healing is hard work but can be done. The idea that to truly heal you must face what you fear most (whether within yourself or from an external source). The idea that God won’t take it away but he will help you through.
I was provided a complimentary copy of this book by CelebrateLit, NetGalley. I was not compensated for this review and all thoughts and opinions expressed are my own. I was not required to write a positive review.
Originally published at https://fizzypopcollection.com/strain....
I loved this book. It was told with a refreshing honesty and depth that is hard to find in Christian fiction that deals with heavy topics. I’ve read more than my fair share of glossy ‘Jesus heals all’ books, both fiction and nonfiction. Guess what? Jesus helps you heal, he doesn’t do the hard part. Jesus gives you hope, he doesn’t take away the need for hope. Jesus gives you love, even when you feel unlovable. Jesus is not a magic wand that lets you say a prayer and come away ‘fixed’. Before I get too deep into all the ways I loved this book I want to tell you why it’s only 4 star for me. You know the idea that people of a like mind tend to find each other? Yeah, that. Every character in this books seems to be touched, in some way, by the topics of this book. Roommate? Similar experiences. New love interest? Sister in a similar situation. Roommate’s boyfriend? Yup, murdered sister with a potentially similar situation. Outside of Kasia’s family everyone is healing their own situations. It felt a lot overdone. Statistically, completing possible but it was too much for fiction. The other meh thing for me was that while I appreciated that the story didn’t drag it’s feet getting into the heart of the matter, it did lack a lot in overall character development and even some areas of story development. I wasn’t given enough of that magical ‘it’ factor to fully fall head over heels for the characters and situations. I loved them, I embraced them, I cried with them and rejoiced with them but I wasn’t all in so to speak.
I loved that, while this book was deeply rooted in a foundation of faith, faith wasn’t treated as a cure all. While there was a conversion or two, the individuals didn’t walk away with their worlds all figured out. I get very frustrated at the books that set a person up to give their life to Christ and then suddenly they are reading the Bible like it’s a novel and it all makes sense and the truths of the gospel are embedded into their entire being and prayer and understanding are like a light switch that was turned on. That’s not how this works, it’s not how any of this works! I love that Zan determined to understand instead of instantly understanding. I love that he tried to figure it out and admitted he didn’t quite get it all. I love that it wasn’t an insta-faith but a growing faith. I loved that when Kasia learned to embrace the love and understanding of her friends and family it wasn’t an insta-fix. She still struggled to accept that they loved her despite what was done to her and what she chose to participate in. Let’s face it, that is more true than any of the insta-s out there. Insta is for fiction that isn’t confident in honesty.
The truth is that this book takes a negative relationship and shows the struggles and obstacles that are blocking the path to healing. This book takes the truth that even those with deep faith can struggle. This book provides the idea that with the love in God and from God struggles can be overcome. It doesn’t have to be struggles like domestic violence and sexual assault. Every hurt that we struggle with lends itself to the need to fall into God’s arms and his love and his acceptance. I loved this book. The healing appeal has a relevance in both a Christian and secular world. The message that healing is hard work but can be done. The idea that to truly heal you must face what you fear most (whether within yourself or from an external source). The idea that God won’t take it away but he will help you through.
I was provided a complimentary copy of this book by CelebrateLit, NetGalley. I was not compensated for this review and all thoughts and opinions expressed are my own. I was not required to write a positive review.
Originally published at https://fizzypopcollection.com/strain....
January 17, 2018
My Penny's Worth
We all bear secrets and shame in some form or other. I have a littered life of disasters that have followed me on my journey. Each requiring revelation and forgiveness. Nothing good can grow in the darkness of fear!
Opening up
I welcome Strains of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek as it opens up a can of worms that needs to see the light of day. Indeed in England, there is a campaign to educate young men and woman about what ‘no’ means in a casual or seasoned relationship. I am glad that the secrets and shame of my generation are being met head-on in the younger age groups.
A controlling nature
This book is heavy at times, but then the topic is not light-hearted. The two characters involved in this sordid mess are Kasia Bernolak and Blake Hamilton. The needs of Blake are overwhelming and controlling, so much so that Kasia seems unaware of his true nature. I have met a few of these young men in my time – not a pleasant experience. But Blake takes Kasia’s snub to a higher level.
At times I empathised with Kasia as she struggled with others taking control of her situation, all with good intentions, but sometimes stifling. The men in her life want to protect her as if she were a delicate plant. I think I would have wanted to run away to Peru too even with her secrets and shame following her.
Biblical words
Bringing in Bible verses to show Kasia that she is worthy in God’s eyes helped reveal an essential element in this story. So often we feel we are not worthy of God’s Grace and Mercy because we have messed up. Those who have lived through the same experience as Kasia need to know how much God loves them no matter what, especially when they are Christians – we are all fallen.
The other characters
There are a lot of different people to help make the story flow, each bringing a distinct flavour to the mix. Some, in my opinion, are just extras and feel forced to make the storyline neat. Nonetheless, I think Kasia is very fortunate to have so many men running around wanting to protect her. I doubt this is the norm.
What I felt was lacking
Strains of Silence is a book of glimpses. A brief insight of Peru, a slither of Polish life, a hint of culture, the promise of music all lead me to want more. Yes I know the book is of secrets and shame. However, I felt denied as though this extra material, were an eye in the keyhole. In the blurb, it stated there would be lots of music, but I couldn’t hear it. I wanted more, to taste, smell and inhale the food and culture.
This book is not for everyone as it deals with sexual assault – I think it important to state this to give the reader a heads up.
*I received this book for free. No compensation was received, and all opinions are my own.*
We all bear secrets and shame in some form or other. I have a littered life of disasters that have followed me on my journey. Each requiring revelation and forgiveness. Nothing good can grow in the darkness of fear!
Opening up
I welcome Strains of Silence by Bethany Kaczmarek as it opens up a can of worms that needs to see the light of day. Indeed in England, there is a campaign to educate young men and woman about what ‘no’ means in a casual or seasoned relationship. I am glad that the secrets and shame of my generation are being met head-on in the younger age groups.
A controlling nature
This book is heavy at times, but then the topic is not light-hearted. The two characters involved in this sordid mess are Kasia Bernolak and Blake Hamilton. The needs of Blake are overwhelming and controlling, so much so that Kasia seems unaware of his true nature. I have met a few of these young men in my time – not a pleasant experience. But Blake takes Kasia’s snub to a higher level.
At times I empathised with Kasia as she struggled with others taking control of her situation, all with good intentions, but sometimes stifling. The men in her life want to protect her as if she were a delicate plant. I think I would have wanted to run away to Peru too even with her secrets and shame following her.
Biblical words
Bringing in Bible verses to show Kasia that she is worthy in God’s eyes helped reveal an essential element in this story. So often we feel we are not worthy of God’s Grace and Mercy because we have messed up. Those who have lived through the same experience as Kasia need to know how much God loves them no matter what, especially when they are Christians – we are all fallen.
The other characters
There are a lot of different people to help make the story flow, each bringing a distinct flavour to the mix. Some, in my opinion, are just extras and feel forced to make the storyline neat. Nonetheless, I think Kasia is very fortunate to have so many men running around wanting to protect her. I doubt this is the norm.
What I felt was lacking
Strains of Silence is a book of glimpses. A brief insight of Peru, a slither of Polish life, a hint of culture, the promise of music all lead me to want more. Yes I know the book is of secrets and shame. However, I felt denied as though this extra material, were an eye in the keyhole. In the blurb, it stated there would be lots of music, but I couldn’t hear it. I wanted more, to taste, smell and inhale the food and culture.
This book is not for everyone as it deals with sexual assault – I think it important to state this to give the reader a heads up.
*I received this book for free. No compensation was received, and all opinions are my own.*
January 16, 2018
"Only God can change you. But I know He hasn't given up on you. Nor have any of the rest of us. You jump, and your family will meet you where you land."
The above quote from the book is a prominent theme throughout the book. This is the first book by the author I have read and it was a difficult book to read because it dealt with profoundly emotional issues. It is a very well-written book with beautiful characters and strong storyline. It also has a solid foundation of faith running through the book, as most of the characters are Christian not afraid to voice their Christian perspective based on the Bible. The dialogue is real and down to earth and quite funny at times.
The story revolves around Kasia and Zan. Kasia is a college student, a talented musician, and a daughter of a pastor who finds herself in a relationship she does not want and breaks off her engagement. Zan is a college baseball player, trying to find ways to protect his older sister in an abusive marriage while trying to salvage his ball career and his father's approval. Their paths cross multiple times and their friendship takes a long time with carefully measured steps to develop. They both have broken pasts and uncertain present and future but realize that dependence on God is the only certainty they can have in life. Zan's faith journey is powerful and his friend Jayce's real-life explanations of salvation and life with Jesus are profound, powerful, and moving.
This is definitely a find-yourself kind of journey that 20 year olds take. It is geared toward a younger generation. Unfortunately for me, these main characters are closer to my children's ages than they are to me so I empathized more with Kasia's parents than with Kasia or Zan. However, the book is so well-written and emotionally moving that I became invested in all the characters' well-beings. Reading this book made me more aware of the things of this world that my children face on a daily basis and how mistaken they could be about a parent's love and God's love though they may have grown up in a loving Christian home. I'm reminded to pray for my children more fervently and to pray that they will know and understand God's unending and merciful love and also understand that my love for them will not waver regardless the mistakes, falls, regrets.
I received a copy of this book from the author/publisher through Celebrate Lit Tour. I was not required to write a favorable review. All comments and opinions are solely my own.
The above quote from the book is a prominent theme throughout the book. This is the first book by the author I have read and it was a difficult book to read because it dealt with profoundly emotional issues. It is a very well-written book with beautiful characters and strong storyline. It also has a solid foundation of faith running through the book, as most of the characters are Christian not afraid to voice their Christian perspective based on the Bible. The dialogue is real and down to earth and quite funny at times.
The story revolves around Kasia and Zan. Kasia is a college student, a talented musician, and a daughter of a pastor who finds herself in a relationship she does not want and breaks off her engagement. Zan is a college baseball player, trying to find ways to protect his older sister in an abusive marriage while trying to salvage his ball career and his father's approval. Their paths cross multiple times and their friendship takes a long time with carefully measured steps to develop. They both have broken pasts and uncertain present and future but realize that dependence on God is the only certainty they can have in life. Zan's faith journey is powerful and his friend Jayce's real-life explanations of salvation and life with Jesus are profound, powerful, and moving.
This is definitely a find-yourself kind of journey that 20 year olds take. It is geared toward a younger generation. Unfortunately for me, these main characters are closer to my children's ages than they are to me so I empathized more with Kasia's parents than with Kasia or Zan. However, the book is so well-written and emotionally moving that I became invested in all the characters' well-beings. Reading this book made me more aware of the things of this world that my children face on a daily basis and how mistaken they could be about a parent's love and God's love though they may have grown up in a loving Christian home. I'm reminded to pray for my children more fervently and to pray that they will know and understand God's unending and merciful love and also understand that my love for them will not waver regardless the mistakes, falls, regrets.
I received a copy of this book from the author/publisher through Celebrate Lit Tour. I was not required to write a favorable review. All comments and opinions are solely my own.
January 16, 2018
I’m honestly not entirely sure where to start. Though it took a chapter or two, I found this story so utterly compelling. It kept me up much too late more than once and the further I read, the less I wanted to put it down. I had to know how everything was going to work out! I believe this is Bethany Kaczmarek’s debut novel and I will be anxiously awaiting the opportunity to read any future releases!
There’s a quality of authenticity within Ms. Kaczmarek’s writing that I so appreciated. I found the characters came to life on the page and invited me into their stories. I don’t know how she did it, but they quickly became dear friends, and I had to pause more than once and remind myself that they were fictional. This story isn’t a light, easy read. More than once I had to pause and wipe tears from my face, at the pain the characters were experiencing. Much of the story focuses on the topic of physical abuse and while I’ve never faced that situation myself, I trust she portrayed it accurately. So much so, that I actually found myself becoming frustrated with Kasia’s behavior toward the guy abusing her, though I understand that it’s most likely true. And my heart just broke for her and others like her.
I also really enjoyed getting to know Alexander “Zan” Maddox and especially how Ms. Kaczmarek portrayed his faith journey. The honest questions he asked, the debates and struggles. Again, so very authentic. I confess that I didn’t quite like Zan much, at first. But he definitely grew on me as the story progressed. I felt as though I knew Kasia and Zan quite well, but the other characters remained a bit one-dimensional, which was a little disappointing, because I would’ve so enjoyed getting to know their friends much better. Though I do realize it probably would’ve made the book even longer, and it was tipping at over 400 pages (which flew by for me!). I so enjoy stories that challenge me or pull me out of my world and into the characters’ lives, both of which this book did easily. It isn’t a perfect story, with perfect characters, but there is so much of the author’s heart on each page and I appreciate the hope I found within a tale that could have otherwise been so very dark.
Highly recommended!
*My thanks to the author for my complimentary copy of this book! I was not required to write a positive review and have not been compensated for it in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.
There’s a quality of authenticity within Ms. Kaczmarek’s writing that I so appreciated. I found the characters came to life on the page and invited me into their stories. I don’t know how she did it, but they quickly became dear friends, and I had to pause more than once and remind myself that they were fictional. This story isn’t a light, easy read. More than once I had to pause and wipe tears from my face, at the pain the characters were experiencing. Much of the story focuses on the topic of physical abuse and while I’ve never faced that situation myself, I trust she portrayed it accurately. So much so, that I actually found myself becoming frustrated with Kasia’s behavior toward the guy abusing her, though I understand that it’s most likely true. And my heart just broke for her and others like her.
I also really enjoyed getting to know Alexander “Zan” Maddox and especially how Ms. Kaczmarek portrayed his faith journey. The honest questions he asked, the debates and struggles. Again, so very authentic. I confess that I didn’t quite like Zan much, at first. But he definitely grew on me as the story progressed. I felt as though I knew Kasia and Zan quite well, but the other characters remained a bit one-dimensional, which was a little disappointing, because I would’ve so enjoyed getting to know their friends much better. Though I do realize it probably would’ve made the book even longer, and it was tipping at over 400 pages (which flew by for me!). I so enjoy stories that challenge me or pull me out of my world and into the characters’ lives, both of which this book did easily. It isn’t a perfect story, with perfect characters, but there is so much of the author’s heart on each page and I appreciate the hope I found within a tale that could have otherwise been so very dark.
Highly recommended!
*My thanks to the author for my complimentary copy of this book! I was not required to write a positive review and have not been compensated for it in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.
January 13, 2018
"Strains of Silence" by Bethany Kaczmarek is a novel of hope and healing. This book tells a story of spousal abuse and rape and abuse by an ex fiancee. This story has a few words that aren't really encouraging words, words that described a loose woman, and followers of my reviews know I dislike curse words in the books I read but I am going to say these words in this books fits the story and the tone of the plot, so I am not giving this book a less rating as I normally do.
I said in the above statement what the story is about but more than what I have already said I need to add the story is more about what keeping silence about abuse does to the victim and the victim's family.
The book is full of inspiring quotes that makes this book seem like it could be real instead of fiction. This is done without being preachy. I especially like pages 174-175 and 239-240 and 242 and 301. Now this is the first review that I have mentioned pages numbers in a review but reading these pages will give you hope if you are suffering and finding it hard to understand what you are going through. I am going to include one quote in this review and it is from page 118 " Forgetting what lies behind, I press on" Try to drill into what God has in store for you, Kasiu. Don't miss out on His best because you're sifting through the sawdust."
I would recommend "Strains of Silence" by Bethany Kaczmarek to anyone that needs reminding that God is love and cares about us even in the midst of trials. I know this is weird to write this but if a reader just reads these few pages I believe that they would be encouraged. I know not all fiction books can do that but I feel this book does. Of course, I hope readers read the entire story.
I really encourage you all to read the guest post from the author. And if anyone is suffering from abuse of any type, Remember Silence makes it worse.
I say what a wonderful debut novel and I hope there are more books from Bethany Kaczmarek. As far as 2018 this is my favorite novel so far, I know it is early in the year but I think to change the status of this statement, the next book will have to be exceptionally outstanding.
I was given a complimentary copy of "Strains of Silence" by Bethany Kaczmarek by the author and Celebrate Lit. These opinions are my own. This book is definitely fiv
I said in the above statement what the story is about but more than what I have already said I need to add the story is more about what keeping silence about abuse does to the victim and the victim's family.
The book is full of inspiring quotes that makes this book seem like it could be real instead of fiction. This is done without being preachy. I especially like pages 174-175 and 239-240 and 242 and 301. Now this is the first review that I have mentioned pages numbers in a review but reading these pages will give you hope if you are suffering and finding it hard to understand what you are going through. I am going to include one quote in this review and it is from page 118 " Forgetting what lies behind, I press on" Try to drill into what God has in store for you, Kasiu. Don't miss out on His best because you're sifting through the sawdust."
I would recommend "Strains of Silence" by Bethany Kaczmarek to anyone that needs reminding that God is love and cares about us even in the midst of trials. I know this is weird to write this but if a reader just reads these few pages I believe that they would be encouraged. I know not all fiction books can do that but I feel this book does. Of course, I hope readers read the entire story.
I really encourage you all to read the guest post from the author. And if anyone is suffering from abuse of any type, Remember Silence makes it worse.
I say what a wonderful debut novel and I hope there are more books from Bethany Kaczmarek. As far as 2018 this is my favorite novel so far, I know it is early in the year but I think to change the status of this statement, the next book will have to be exceptionally outstanding.
I was given a complimentary copy of "Strains of Silence" by Bethany Kaczmarek by the author and Celebrate Lit. These opinions are my own. This book is definitely fiv
January 10, 2018
To be honest, I have a lot of mixed feelings about this book that I received as a gift from the author. I really liked the characters even though some of them were a little two-dimensional, enough that I had a hard time putting the book down because I wanted to know what happened to them. But there were several things about the book I really didn’t enjoy while I was reading. The thing is, in the days since I finished it, I think I’ve come to understand why those things were necessary for the book to accomplish the author’s purpose and so I’ve grown in respect for the author the more I’ve thought about what she did in this book.
I’ll try to explain without giving any spoilers. My main annoyance with this book was that it seemed to meander a lot and not move in a tight linear way. I’ve heard a number of authors and editors say that if a scene doesn’t move you along your plotline, it needs to be cut. But there were many scenes in this book that didn’t seem to serve much purpose as far as plot went; they didn’t move things along. Along the same lines, the other thing that annoyed me was that Kasia, the main character, didn’t always make sense to me. I would think she’d had a break-through but then she would make decisions that were more in line with her thinking before the break-through. Her growth throughout the story was painfully slow and there were many setbacks.
The more I thought about this, I realized that even though those things might not make for what our culture deems a great book, they were startlingly true to life. The people in my life who have been through abuse never heal as quickly as I want them to or in nicely paced straight lines. There are always setbacks and times I think we’ve had a huge breakthrough only to have them make the kinds of decisions they were making months ago.
So the more I think about this book, the more I appreciate it. While it has some flaws, I think it is a powerful story that can prove very helpful to those of us who haven’t experienced this kind of abuse. I think reading it has made me a more compassionate and understanding person, and for that, I am thankful.
I’ll try to explain without giving any spoilers. My main annoyance with this book was that it seemed to meander a lot and not move in a tight linear way. I’ve heard a number of authors and editors say that if a scene doesn’t move you along your plotline, it needs to be cut. But there were many scenes in this book that didn’t seem to serve much purpose as far as plot went; they didn’t move things along. Along the same lines, the other thing that annoyed me was that Kasia, the main character, didn’t always make sense to me. I would think she’d had a break-through but then she would make decisions that were more in line with her thinking before the break-through. Her growth throughout the story was painfully slow and there were many setbacks.
The more I thought about this, I realized that even though those things might not make for what our culture deems a great book, they were startlingly true to life. The people in my life who have been through abuse never heal as quickly as I want them to or in nicely paced straight lines. There are always setbacks and times I think we’ve had a huge breakthrough only to have them make the kinds of decisions they were making months ago.
So the more I think about this book, the more I appreciate it. While it has some flaws, I think it is a powerful story that can prove very helpful to those of us who haven’t experienced this kind of abuse. I think reading it has made me a more compassionate and understanding person, and for that, I am thankful.
July 22, 2017
I didn't realize just how much I needed to read this novel. But I did. Not only is it written by a dear friend who's talent inspires me to write, but it's also a beautifully crafted story of genuine characters with complicated histories who make difficult, flawed decisions and ultimately learn that joy, peace, hope, love, and redemption are found only through a relationship with Christ.
Not afraid to tackle the hard things- broken relationships, abuse, fear, shame, and more- Strains of Silence captivates, tugs at the heart strings, and encourages the hurting and heartbroken by bringing the light of the Gospel into the darkest of circumstances.
Humorous, witty, serious, sweet, sorrowful, encouraging - SOS is all of those adjectives and more, artfully crafted into a rich novel full of personality and unique quirks. From the infusion of Polish heritage, to the references of indie Christian artists, and every detail inbetween, the story is wonderfully developed. And, unlike the vast majority of young adult novels that elevate the protagonist or their love interest, the hero of this story is Christ from beginning to end.
I steeped in every scene, relished in the depth of Kasia and Zan's story, a story not their own, but God's. There was purpose that arose from pain, beauty created from brokenness; God worked everything together for good. His sovereign plan contrasted by our incredibly limited perspective displays His glory all the more. Life need not be perfect to behold the majesty of our Creator, and the conclusion of the novel displayed just that. Problems still exist, but so does praise. Questions surface, but faith reigns. "If it meant brighter stars, she would follow God through darkness."
Whether you've struggled with abuse and situations similar to Kasia's or not, we all need to hear of the beautiful redemption possible through Christ. We all need to face our deepest heartaches and brokenness so that we can begin the process of healing. It's not quick or easy, but, when God's in the midst of it, it is certainly good.
Not afraid to tackle the hard things- broken relationships, abuse, fear, shame, and more- Strains of Silence captivates, tugs at the heart strings, and encourages the hurting and heartbroken by bringing the light of the Gospel into the darkest of circumstances.
Humorous, witty, serious, sweet, sorrowful, encouraging - SOS is all of those adjectives and more, artfully crafted into a rich novel full of personality and unique quirks. From the infusion of Polish heritage, to the references of indie Christian artists, and every detail inbetween, the story is wonderfully developed. And, unlike the vast majority of young adult novels that elevate the protagonist or their love interest, the hero of this story is Christ from beginning to end.
I steeped in every scene, relished in the depth of Kasia and Zan's story, a story not their own, but God's. There was purpose that arose from pain, beauty created from brokenness; God worked everything together for good. His sovereign plan contrasted by our incredibly limited perspective displays His glory all the more. Life need not be perfect to behold the majesty of our Creator, and the conclusion of the novel displayed just that. Problems still exist, but so does praise. Questions surface, but faith reigns. "If it meant brighter stars, she would follow God through darkness."
Whether you've struggled with abuse and situations similar to Kasia's or not, we all need to hear of the beautiful redemption possible through Christ. We all need to face our deepest heartaches and brokenness so that we can begin the process of healing. It's not quick or easy, but, when God's in the midst of it, it is certainly good.
January 19, 2018
For every person that has ever been abused, this book is for you. Yes, the topics are heavy. Yes, there are moments that will make you want to cry. Yes, there are moments that will make you want to hug your daughter, niece, sister, mother, best friend or whomever a little bit tighter. But above all of that, this book is filled with hope. Hope that you can move forward. Hope that God can turn something horrible into something beautiful.
Bethany has done a wonderful job of presenting real life problems in a powerful way. It is not common to see these topics in Christian fiction today, but I feel they should be out there. There was not one time I felt uncomfortable or offended in reading this story. Bethany was very tactful, yet real.
The beginning of the story was a little slow for my liking, however I do understand the meaning behind it. You really need to understand the back story for Kasia and Zan in order to understand the importance of them meeting and becoming friends. I just happen to be a fast paced reader at times. But once it picked up, I was hooked. Let me just say that Bethany did a fantastic job writing Blake's character. Let's face it, we all LOVE to hate the bad guy, and he was so easy to hate! But I couldn't get enough of his character, as odd as that sounds. He was just irritatingly fun to read about, especially during the last third of the book. Trust me - it'll be worth your time!
Overall this book was very moving, and one that I will share with my daughter. If you have a young woman in your life, consider sharing it with them too (after you read it for yourself of course!). Not only is it a good book, it's a great conversation piece as well.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. I was not required to write a favorable review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
January 16, 2018
Difficult read for me as I experienced abuse in my life. Kasia blamed herself for Blake's behavior. Blake convinced her it was her fault. She gave up all the things she loved to make him happy. But in reality, nothing could keep Blake happy and in the process, she lost herself.
Zan felt responsible for keeping his sister, Bailey, safe. Bailey was in an abusive marriage. Bailey was determined to change her life. She knew that she was not alone. She knew that GOD would be by her side throughout her ordeal and HE would keep her safe from harm.
A chance meeting between Zan and Kasia changed their lives. Zan was so busy trying to save his sister and Kasia. He failed to realize that he was the one who needed to be saved. Once Zan allowed GOD to enter his heart, he knew that "all things work together for good to them that love GOD". Roman 8:28
There were times in the book where I wasn't sure Keisha or Bailey would survive. Definitely a page turner!!!
I received this book for free to review.
About the Author
Bethany Kaczmarek loves a home filled with family and friends. Word gets around that—at the Kaczmarek house—food is abundant, conversations are real, and anything is up for discussion. She and her clan are fans of laughter, indie music, sonic screwdrivers, and superheroes. Home is wherever in the world they’re all together.
Giveaway
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To celebrate her tour, Bethany is giving away a grand grand prize a signed book, a Polish pottery mug with two of the main character’s favorite kinds of teas, 4 of her favorite albums (Josh Garrels, Waterdeep, The Gray Havens, and Andrew Greer), a box of chocolate butter cookies, and a $50 Amazon gift card.!!
Zan felt responsible for keeping his sister, Bailey, safe. Bailey was in an abusive marriage. Bailey was determined to change her life. She knew that she was not alone. She knew that GOD would be by her side throughout her ordeal and HE would keep her safe from harm.
A chance meeting between Zan and Kasia changed their lives. Zan was so busy trying to save his sister and Kasia. He failed to realize that he was the one who needed to be saved. Once Zan allowed GOD to enter his heart, he knew that "all things work together for good to them that love GOD". Roman 8:28
There were times in the book where I wasn't sure Keisha or Bailey would survive. Definitely a page turner!!!
I received this book for free to review.
About the Author
Bethany Kaczmarek loves a home filled with family and friends. Word gets around that—at the Kaczmarek house—food is abundant, conversations are real, and anything is up for discussion. She and her clan are fans of laughter, indie music, sonic screwdrivers, and superheroes. Home is wherever in the world they’re all together.
Giveaway
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To celebrate her tour, Bethany is giving away a grand grand prize a signed book, a Polish pottery mug with two of the main character’s favorite kinds of teas, 4 of her favorite albums (Josh Garrels, Waterdeep, The Gray Havens, and Andrew Greer), a box of chocolate butter cookies, and a $50 Amazon gift card.!!
January 5, 2018
As this is Bethany's debut novel, she is to be applauded on dealing with a very powerful, difficult, emotional subject in a sensitive, caring manner, while drawing the reader into the roller coaster life of the main characters. Abused women are a subject that is often addressed, however this author manages to do it in such a way that the book could be used as a counselling aid, as well as a novel to read for pleasure.
The plot stresses the importance and power of the support of both God and family. Our God truly can heal all hurts when we allow Him to guide us through our deepest challenges. The realism of the depth of mental and physical abuse of the victim, as well as the family, stays within the reader's soul long after finishing this book. God alone has the power to forgive and heal our hurts! This theme comes out loud and clear throughout the story.
The characters are so realistically and well described, that you immediately travel alongside them on their difficult journey of survival during the worst of times. Their hurts become the reader's , as well as the rejoicing when difficulties are overcome.
Bethany is to be congratulated on this five star book!! Waiting for this author's next creation!
This book was received as a gift. The thoughts and opinions expressed are honest and my own.
The plot stresses the importance and power of the support of both God and family. Our God truly can heal all hurts when we allow Him to guide us through our deepest challenges. The realism of the depth of mental and physical abuse of the victim, as well as the family, stays within the reader's soul long after finishing this book. God alone has the power to forgive and heal our hurts! This theme comes out loud and clear throughout the story.
The characters are so realistically and well described, that you immediately travel alongside them on their difficult journey of survival during the worst of times. Their hurts become the reader's , as well as the rejoicing when difficulties are overcome.
Bethany is to be congratulated on this five star book!! Waiting for this author's next creation!
This book was received as a gift. The thoughts and opinions expressed are honest and my own.
July 21, 2017
Where do I even begin? I am definitely fighting off the last vestiges of a book hangover on this one. This book contains one powerful message and Bethany knocked it out of the park.
First off, I need to applaud Bethany at getting this book SO right. Were it not for her ear tuned toward the Holy Spirit (no doubt in my mind you'll see it when you read it), this story could have gone all sort of bad. But she captured, so well, the process of grief as an abuse survivor (and as a believer). I'll be honest there were a few moments while reading that I was brought back to a very dark place in my own life. To be able to relate to Kosh so well - to weep with her amidst the agony of the abuse, the emptiness of the shame and guilt, the fragile hope at the beginning stages of healing - then to cheer Kosh on and rejoice in her victory, was truly wonderful.
And Zan. I'm going to be completely candid, I may have developed a bit of a book crush on him. His struggle, his questions, his uncertainty it was all palpable as the reader. Everything he felt was. His patience though, that's what did me in. 😍
This story is so well written. So very truthful (in a world packed with lies). And truly inspiring. A beautiful story about grace, redemption and the unconditional love of a Father.
First off, I need to applaud Bethany at getting this book SO right. Were it not for her ear tuned toward the Holy Spirit (no doubt in my mind you'll see it when you read it), this story could have gone all sort of bad. But she captured, so well, the process of grief as an abuse survivor (and as a believer). I'll be honest there were a few moments while reading that I was brought back to a very dark place in my own life. To be able to relate to Kosh so well - to weep with her amidst the agony of the abuse, the emptiness of the shame and guilt, the fragile hope at the beginning stages of healing - then to cheer Kosh on and rejoice in her victory, was truly wonderful.
And Zan. I'm going to be completely candid, I may have developed a bit of a book crush on him. His struggle, his questions, his uncertainty it was all palpable as the reader. Everything he felt was. His patience though, that's what did me in. 😍
This story is so well written. So very truthful (in a world packed with lies). And truly inspiring. A beautiful story about grace, redemption and the unconditional love of a Father.
March 2, 2018
Strains of Silence
by Bethany Kaczmarek
Pelican Book Group
Christian , Teens & YA
Pub Date 21 Jul 2017
I am reviewing a copy of Strains of Silence through Pelican Books and Netgalley:
Kasia Bernolak was once passionate and driven by music, it was her passion and truest expression of faith. Three months before her wedding she can't even pick up her guitar. She feels like a fraud and is afraid of ruining her Dad's Pastoral relationship. She feels so guilty, she can barely meet her Father's eyes. When Kasia finally finds it in her to break off the engagement but the dangerous truth is Blake Hamilton isn't ready to say goodbye and he will do whatever it takes to keep her.
Alexander "Zan" Maddox has seen what a domineering man like Blake can do to an unexpecting woman. Zan is sick of the injustice and pain men like this cause. He even gave up a college scholarship to protect his sister from an abusive husband. Now he finds himself rescuing Kasia from her ex-finance, even pointing herself personal body guard. Now he just needs to stop himself for falling for Kasia.
Kasia and Zan quickly build a friendship, but are they willing to pay the cost for true healing and Justice?
I give Strains of Silence five out of five stars!
Happy Reading
January 22, 2018
I feel very differently about the first half and the second half of this book. Bethany's writing is solid, the characters well developed, but the beginning is very slow. The first half of the book takes places over several months, and while this is necessary for the story (I don't think the reader would believe it if it went too fast) and you see a good amount of character development, I found myself skipping pages. A lot.
But, then I got around half way through and it took off like a shot. Without giving anything away, events escalated, the romance started to develop and the story pulled me in. The second half of the book takes place over maybe a monthish.
Overall, I think it's a good story, and would recommend it to others, with letting them know that the beginning is slow; the second half is definitely worth the read, even if you find yourself skipping over part of the first. I think Bethany did a fantastic job handling a tough subject (domestic abuse) giving it the weight it needed while balancing it with faith aspects to keep it from getting overwhelming.
I voluntarily read a complimentary copy of this book, but all opinions are honest and my own.
But, then I got around half way through and it took off like a shot. Without giving anything away, events escalated, the romance started to develop and the story pulled me in. The second half of the book takes place over maybe a monthish.
Overall, I think it's a good story, and would recommend it to others, with letting them know that the beginning is slow; the second half is definitely worth the read, even if you find yourself skipping over part of the first. I think Bethany did a fantastic job handling a tough subject (domestic abuse) giving it the weight it needed while balancing it with faith aspects to keep it from getting overwhelming.
I voluntarily read a complimentary copy of this book, but all opinions are honest and my own.
July 17, 2017
STRAINS..OF.SILENCE by Bethany Kaczmarek
Kasia the past year has choke almost the life out of her, wanting to break off engagement. She wanted freedom to climb her mountains, and to lose oneself. Her world, her expression of faith and life has been her music. Blake said that's what drew her to him, but he didn't want her in the limelight now. Someone put a nail in her tire, and Zan stops and help change it for her. What jerk would do that, someone like his sister was dealing with. His thoughts are of Bailey, his sister, and now of Kasia.
The inner beauty of Kasia is gone, the love of music and helping others is gone, her grandmother is telling her. Can these two women find the inner strength and friends to help them. His sister says friends helped her get out, and she was going to stay out this time. This is a strong, emotion filled story of abuse, that Bethany has written about. Very well done, characters were well defined. First for me of this author and will look for more. Given ARC for my voluntary review and my honest opinion.
Kasia the past year has choke almost the life out of her, wanting to break off engagement. She wanted freedom to climb her mountains, and to lose oneself. Her world, her expression of faith and life has been her music. Blake said that's what drew her to him, but he didn't want her in the limelight now. Someone put a nail in her tire, and Zan stops and help change it for her. What jerk would do that, someone like his sister was dealing with. His thoughts are of Bailey, his sister, and now of Kasia.
The inner beauty of Kasia is gone, the love of music and helping others is gone, her grandmother is telling her. Can these two women find the inner strength and friends to help them. His sister says friends helped her get out, and she was going to stay out this time. This is a strong, emotion filled story of abuse, that Bethany has written about. Very well done, characters were well defined. First for me of this author and will look for more. Given ARC for my voluntary review and my honest opinion.
August 2, 2017
This was a hard book to read. I didn't realize that it was going to deal so much with domestic violence and rape.
What I liked about the book:
The story was not left in a hopeless state. The theme throughout the book was about the healing that Jesus can bring. Zan (I love that as a nickname!) was a great hero and I loved the way he was so protective of his sister and of Kasia. I did also like the way the friends were so supportive, and Kasia's sweet parents. The writing was very good as well.
What I didn't like:
The overall tone of the book was angsty. Kasia didn't have any hope and that pulled down the tone of it. It was also a little overdone with the abuse and rape. Not only did Kasia deal with these, but Zan's sister was beat up by her husband and ended up in a medical coma with doubt that she would be able to walk again. And another character had also been raped (don't want to give a spoiler here). Somehow that seemed overdone. I would have liked this more if the tone wasn't so dark and without so many recountings of violence towards the women.
What I liked about the book:
The story was not left in a hopeless state. The theme throughout the book was about the healing that Jesus can bring. Zan (I love that as a nickname!) was a great hero and I loved the way he was so protective of his sister and of Kasia. I did also like the way the friends were so supportive, and Kasia's sweet parents. The writing was very good as well.
What I didn't like:
The overall tone of the book was angsty. Kasia didn't have any hope and that pulled down the tone of it. It was also a little overdone with the abuse and rape. Not only did Kasia deal with these, but Zan's sister was beat up by her husband and ended up in a medical coma with doubt that she would be able to walk again. And another character had also been raped (don't want to give a spoiler here). Somehow that seemed overdone. I would have liked this more if the tone wasn't so dark and without so many recountings of violence towards the women.
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