Fix That Shit: A Couples Guide To Getting Past The Sticky Stuff

by Chantal Heide

Motivational Speaker Chantal Heide helped you pick the right partner in No More Assholes, taught you how to keep little things from becoming big issues in After The First Kiss, and is now here to help unpack the emotional baggage you've been lugging around before it becomes a destructive force. Filled with the advice you need to rise above drama and become the emotional leader in your relationship, Chantal teaches you how to care for yourself and develop the ability to help your partner unpack too. You'll create a relationship fortified against pain and fear and free from the fights that develop from misundstandings, and set the example for lasting, functional love. Whether you're just starting out and seeking to avoid downward spirals or dealing with struggles that are decades old, you'll learn the tools that help you calm your minds, avoid conflicts, communicate effectively, and come together with love and intimacy even after the biggest fights. It's never too early or too late to break through hurt and anger and keep the magic of love at your fingertips. Are you ready to savor the happiest relationship you've ever experienced, filled with joy and appreciation? Then this is the guide for you.

Genres: Self Help, Relationships, Nonfiction

274 pages, Paperback

Published December 7, 2016

Reviews

[Iloha Najmuddin · Rating 5 out of 5]

Must read!

What an amazing book. I might have teared up at the end. The book teaches to forgive, to love and to be better. It will help women who are with a good man to understand men better, know what they want and how to treat them with the same love and respect we want from them. A must read!

[Jamielipowski · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved the reminders and tips that author gave. All may seem simple but the little things do make a difference and sometimes it's nice to read about it to stay on track!

[Jena Brooks · Rating 5 out of 5]

Changed my Life

Chantal is literally a genius. She managed to address every single issue I’ve ever had in my otherwise healthy relationship and I am SO THANKFUL. Highly recommend if you are in a very loving and healthy relationship that needs some TLC.

[Bailee Lamb · Rating 4 out of 5]

I read this book twice. While in two very different emotional scenarios. I think the techniques and advice in this book can be helpful for anyone, even outside of a relationship. This book highlights the importance of patience and meditation, something that I know I need to work on. I'm not saying this book is a fix for every strained relationship, but it's a good start; it's a better start for reforming yourself and the way you react to people and scenarios thrown vour wav.

[Pamela L. Robinson · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the book that can change YOU!

For the better, then your partner can follow your lead. WIN WIN!
Break through the stand off and egos in your relationship.
I love Chantal's cIear outline of cause and effect.

[Jenna Pfeiffer · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have bought so many self help books , I’ve even gone to certain self help meetings when really I just needed to come across Chantal Heide! I don’t have much spending money but you get what you pay for and I WILL have her whole collection one day!

[Ashley Rivera · Rating 5 out of 5]

Bought the audio! Love love love! Has helped me with my relationship. Thank you!

[MysticMissyReads · Rating 5 out of 5]

Really good advice. I took the meditation recommendation and it was life changing for me personally.

[Madison Kozeny · Rating 2 out of 5]

This book does include a lot of actionable advice, but is absolutely riddled with distracting and irritating pseudoscience. Take what you can and leave the rest.

[Chelsea Mitchell · Rating 5 out of 5]

Awesome Book!!!!

I absolutely loved this book and can’t wait to try the strategies that were suggested! Hands down one of my favorite books!

[Aurah Gqunefere Whitethorne · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is the book that made me dump my ex. It helped me REALLY start visualizing what I wanted my relationship to look like. To realize my partner was not even trying to meet any of my needs, and that both of us were playing hoping games. This book will rock your world. I honestly feel it also helped me improve my platonic friendships as well. Chantal is a fantastic author, an amazing person, and the best coach you could ask for. Seriously worth every penny I’ve spent both on her books and the coaching session!!!