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128 pages, Paperback
First published October 1, 1997
…a person can’t love you if he or she can’t love him- or herself
Of all the needs (there are none imaginary) a lonely child has, the one that must be satisfied, if there is going to be hope and a hope of wholeness, is the unshaking need for an unshakeable God.
Prejudice is a burden which confuses the past, threatens the future, and renders the present inaccessible.
How can you truly respect yourself if you do not know or understand the struggles and trials your people surmounted for you to be here?
Each one of us has lived through some devastation, some loneliness, some weather superstorm or spiritual superstorm; when we look at each other we must say, I understand. I understand how you feel because I have been there myself.
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Love liberates. It doesn’t just hold-that’s ego-love liberates!
There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.
Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give yourself.
I think we must surrender the despair of unexpected cruelties and extend the wonder of unexpected kindness to ourselves and to each other…We deserve each other and each other’s generosity.
Have enough courage to love.
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be un-lived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
If one has courage, nothing can dim the light which shines from within.
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.
One must contrive to keep innocence in one’s life, how else is one to continue to enjoy the simple things such as sunrises, sunsets, or the acknowledging smile of a passing stranger?
Being a woman is hard work. Not without joy and even ecstasy, but still relentless, unending work….but to become and remain a woman command the existence and employment of genius.
Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.
The idea of overcoming…is fascinating because few of us realise how much energy we have expended just to be here today. I don’t think we give ourselves enough credit for the overcoming.
If we have someone who loves us-I don’t mean who indulges us, but who loves us enough to be on our side-then it’s easier to grow resilience, to grow belief in self, to grow self-esteem. And it’s self-esteem that allows a person to stand up.
I have a certain way of being in this world, and I shall not, I shall not be moved from doing what I think is right by jealousy, ignorance or hate.
…Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humour to lighten the burden of your tender heart.
Since a price will be extracted from us for everything we do or leave undone, we should pluck up the courage to win, to win back our finer and kinder and healthier selves.
There is no failure as long as you learn from your experience, continue to work, and continue to press on for success.
The composite of all our efforts can have an effort. Good done anywhere is good everywhere.
If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.
There is a place in you that you must keep inviolate, a place that you must keep clean. A place where you say to any intruder, “Back up, don’t you know I’m a child of God.”
Stand up straight and realise who you are, that you tower over your circumstances. You are a child of God. Stand up straight.
Joy is an important element of happiness. It is sometimes the difference between striving and thriving. One must nurture the joy in one’s life so that it reaches full bloom.
Dignity doesn’t just mean being stiff and composed. It means a belief in oneself, that one is worthy of the best.
What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. Don’t complain.