Swipe Right: The Life-and-Death Power of Sex and Romance

by Levi Lusko

Did you know that God wants you to have amazing sex? Join pastor Levi Lusko for a unique and compelling understanding of the power and the pleasure attached to God’s plans for relationships.

There is nothing more powerful on earth than the forces of love, sex, and romance. In fact, relationships are a matter of life-and-death importance. But as apps like Tinder foster no-strings-attached sexual encounters, sex is being stripped of any emotional or spiritual significance.

So how can you train today for the relationship you want tomorrow? In Swipe Right, Levi Lusko shares with raw honesty from his own life experiences and God’s Word how

Resist settling for instant pleasure by discovering what your heart really longs forLearn how to avoid and treat sexual scars by careful living todayRegret-proof your marriage bed and your deathbedTransform a stagnant marriage by trading predictable nearness for mind-blowing intimacyWith equal parts prevention and cure, the book is not just a list of rules to live by but something to live God’s powerful plan for our lives. To get there we must learn how to swipe right—to live up in a left, right world—because what we do with sex and romance is one of the most important choices we’ll make.

God’s dreams for your life are not intended to kill your joy but to enhance it. Whether you’re fed up with dating and hooking up as usual, tired of being single, numb because of porn and casual sex, or curious about how to improve your marriage, this book is for you.

Genres: Christian, Nonfiction, Faith, Relationships, Christianity, Marriage, Christian Living

239 pages, Kindle Edition

First published February 21, 2017

About the author

Levi Lusko is the founder and lead pastor of Fresh Life Church, located in Montana, Wyoming, Oregon, and Utah and everywhere online. He is the bestselling author of Through the Eyes of a Lion, Swipe Right, I Declare War, Take Back Your Life, Roar Like a Lion, and The Last Supper on the Moon. Levi also travels the world speaking about Jesus. He and his wife, Jennie, have one son, Lennox, and four daughters: Alivia, Daisy, Clover, and Lenya, who is in heaven.

Reviews

[Nathan Farley · Rating 5 out of 5]

Levi does such a great job at communicating the importance of purity while simultaneously reminding those who have gone too far of the grace Jesus brings. Every middle school student should be required to read this book with a mentor before going into high school. It's that important.

[Sarah · Rating 5 out of 5]

The wisdom in this book is profound and absolutely crucial for all to hear. Lusko presents the truth about sexual purity in a honest, powerful voice (and includes scripture!!). As a believer walking with Christ, I find this book super helpful for those of us who struggle to honor God with our actions, as we view love, sex, and relationships through the twisted lens of the fallen world. A desperately needed message for our generation, Swipe Right calls us to integrity, purity, and fidelity in our lives and to allow God to prepare us and to remember that he is preparing someone for us.

Some key points: 1) sex is something to be valued, and something God wants us to enjoy; 2) don't trade the ultimate for the instant; 3) live for God and love Him; 4) temptation and lust "promises" relief; 5) you'll never be right with your mate until you're right with your maker.

[Rafaela Claussen Hoffmann Gomes · Rating 4 out of 5]

gostei bué, mas é um pouco repetitivo às vezes

[Brooke Shadbolt · Rating 4 out of 5]

LOVE Levi’s writing

[Ryan Rouse · Rating 5 out of 5]

Levi has so much wisdom and an easy reading writing style

[Helen Pugsley · Rating 1 out of 5]

CW: Scather
I'm sure the author has helped tons of people, but I actually found a lot of viewpoints harmful.

First of all, this book won one star when it put down gay folks. It was only one sentence, but I will not give a platform to hatred.

This book had a lot of wonderful points, and things I really liked. The rest was opinions for the trash.

It felt like most of the authors talking points were "Sex unless bad-wrong." "Premarital sex will leave you with irreparable scars". He's not wrong about emotional scars, we as a society don't talk about it that much. How many memes have you seen that are like "That's it. *Unsucks your dick*" I think every single one of us has a sexual experience we wish we could take back! But I don't feel like he hit the "God wants you to have a good sex life" like he was shooting for.

This was 200 some odd pages of guilt. And shame. This is a prime example of beginning to feel like your church family is actually a sex cult. This is the seemingly harmless prelude.

Look, we, as Christians, talk a lot about indoctrinating children in to the world of sex-- in a negative way. I don't know how many times I've heard gay folks are all pedophiles, and they want to "turn your kids gay". Would someone care to explain to me what exactly giving a five year old a purity ring is?
I shared it in the notes I took while reading (they're somewhere on this website.) But I was assaulted when I was four. An older boy said he loved me. I thought I was Cinderella. I was supposed to wait for love. I had found it. I laid down and let him touch me. I still carry those scars today, and never trust any man I just met. I can't. I don't remember what not being afraid feels like. We're going to have more kids with more stories like that if we keep up this bullshit. (The best alternative I've heard is from Tik Tok and it's "sex is not for little bodies")
That story has a happy ending however. God has blessed me with amazing friends, who buy me beer, and food, and have never once tried to kiss me. Platonic love is slowly healing me. I thank God for the men in my life, who are often married to other women, every single day.

My generation, which is now growing up, marrying, and having children, quietly talks in coat rooms about how hard it was to actually enthusiastically participate in sex. Because from the time we were children, we were told that it is not for us. Then suddenly "No, no, no" became "wifely duty". We have to examine the scars purity culture left on our sex lives too.

Look, telling children (0-18) that sex isn't for them, isn't wrong. But I don't see why everyone should be so concerned with picturing their sons and daughter in their marriage bed on their wedding night. It's disgusting.

Furthermore, those children grow up. Then they're paralyzed. With fear. Of sex. Actual, loving, consenting, enthusiastic, sex.

This book also perpetrated the disgusting idea that "Whoever your partner slept with, you also sleep with when you sleep with them." Leaned heavily on STDs to back up this point too. This is crazy, but I don't think sex is a way to bind yourself to someone permanently. I wish I had been told that as a young girl, instead.

As an aside, I didn't like the tangents the author got on. It felt like he was avoiding talking about himself. Sometimes I wondered how [Vice President] Biden had anything to do with spirituality

This has nothing helpful for a married person. If you're single and you have a shame kink, go for it, bud. I recommend 'Dancing In The Arms Of God Instead'

I do have to say: I feel like I know my own mind better after reading this book. Thank you, God, for putting it in my path.

[Jonathan Beigle · Rating 4 out of 5]

At times I loved this book; at other times I was confused. This was my first Levi Lusko, and I was looking forward to some lighter reading with some funny moments after reading several intense books in a row. Levi brought that will several witty one-liners and stories. However, I was confused about what the key point of the book was. I didn't know if the book was supposed to focus on sexual purity, porn/lust, dating, marriage, or something else. I think it would have been better if he focused on a narrower topic and went a little deeper. The book had some great quotes though and I did enjoy it for the most part.

Favorite quotes:
p. 15 - "The devil...knows that if you are a believer, he can't take you to hell; but if you let him, he will keep you from living for heaven."
p. 18 - "Now yells louder, but later lasts longer."
p. 62 - "It's possible to have a saved soul but a wasted life - to have been given everything and to have done nothing with it."
p. 70 - "It's not having a sex drive that is the problem; rather, it's letting sex drive and doing whatever you feel like."
p. 86 - "Grace...is so powerful and so all-consuming that it seems too good to be true. If it doesn't make you uncomfortable, it probably isn't accurately portrayed. Truce grace is shocking and seems so comprehensive that it's almost absurd."
p. 97 - "It only takes 15 minutes to look at a Playboy but fifteen years to forget what you saw."
p. 105 - "Do something drastic to your sin, or sin will do something drastic to you."
p. 151 - "You will never find time for the most important things in life; you must find time."
p. 159 - "If you don't date your mate, the devil will find someone who will."

[Amanda Anger · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wow, what a great book! When I was only half-way through, I recommended it to another friend who started it and loves it as well. The author deals with this much-avoided subject with the perfect amount of frankness, Scripture, humor, and pop culture. Even if you think you already have a good Biblical view on the topic of sex and romance, you will learn something and benefit from reading this book!

*edit* Second time reading this, and it's so relevant and applicable. Will continue to recommend!

[Jenee Antoniu · Rating 4 out of 5]

My boyfriend and I read this together. We thought it would make for some deep thoughts and healthy conversation. While the content was very good, it wasn't quite what we were expecting. This is a GREAT book for teenagers to help them understand the significance of sex. While not specifically written for teenagers, the writing style seemed more geared toward that age group. Lusko uses personal stories with cultural references to make his points. The reason I didn't give it 5 stars was because I thought some of the writing was "extra" - in particular the overuse of cultural references (which will quickly become outdated). I would recommend this book for parents of pre-teens and teenagers to read first and then maybe even read with their kids.

[Luciano Villegas · Rating 4 out of 5]

Read this book simultaneously with my girlfriend. Leading up to this read I had the idea to search out a book on relationships and this stood out based on reviews, title, and cover art (in that order). Found some good relevant biblically-based material in Levi's book. Also found the book riddled with millennial references (which may soon become outdated) which I think the book is geared towards. Overall, I would recommend this to any parent of an adolescent/teen, to be used as an aide to have "the talk". 8/10 recommend.

[Leanne McElroy · Rating 5 out of 5]

I believe this book is a much needed conversation to be had during our times. The author is heartfelt, funny, and serious about his walk with God. This book isn't so much the how to of sex and more so how as believers we are to approach sexuality.

When one hears the world pure in today's age, they think of strict rules and impossible standards. However, true biblical purity isn't so concerned with the outside but the inner. Sex revolves around the inner being more than we realize, as in our media and culture, many esteem pleasure and the physicality of it over the emotional and spiritual.

Yes, sex is pleasurable, but not stewarded properly, can have disastrous consequences. I like that the author is tackling these ideals and standards and the “why" questions head on. He uses a hip, modern kind of voice to explain God's desire for our outlook on sex. There is nothing graphic in here, yay! The author uses metaphors instead to get his point across. I think it's a solid read and worth picking up.

The cover is so pretty, I love art. While covers aren't always a reflection of a book's content or value, I think it certainly helps that this one pops with simple colors, giving it a slick contemporary feel.

Some quick critique:

It definitely is for believers though, not for non-believers. I know the author tries to make it seem like this book is also accessible to non-believers, but I guarantee you they'd rip this book apart. They don't understand the wisdom nor the principles behind our values usually. It's easy to expect them to crap all over books like this, even though people like me get great insight and enjoyment out of them.

I think the author tries a tad too hard in trying to be relatable and fun, where he reaches for connections and makes pop culture references that don't always work for the subject he's trying to approach. Sometimes his references are super niche and hard to understand if you aren't familiar with what it is he is referencing to. One or two of the references I had no idea what he was talking about even after googling several times, nothing came up. I was left hanging on what he was going off about.

Otherwise, great read. I know some people will find the content hard to swallow, but it is biblical and solid, scripture backed.

[Karoll · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think that this is my favorite book about life, death, sex and romance. This book change my perspective about death and relationships.
I love the way Levi explain things and how he uses common or simple things to connect us with the word of God. I feel so regretful for this book, I really enjoyed it. I laugh and cry (a lot).
Y truly recommend this book, it's like journey.

[Aleisha Hicks · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book made me laugh more than I thought I would while talking about sex and relationships. Levi used his experiences along with the Word to bring veracity behind what he says about this topic. This book was so helpful! So real.

[Annabeth · Rating 4 out of 5]

i certainly did not agree with everything in the book (in fact some things were harmful), but i found reading between the lines gave me amazing advice and showed me things i do agree with. i was open to hearing out some different povs.

i highlighted many quotes throughout reading it in one sitting. beautiful story and taps into your spirituality. however, this book will quickly become outdated and not transcend time as he heavily relies on current cultural references and jokes. he was quite witty at times though. this was one of the first books in a long time i did not want to put down after months of a reading rut and that counts for something.

[Nigel Ivy · Rating 5 out of 5]

In my opinion, one of the best books on relationships and marriage.

[Claire · Rating 5 out of 5]

An incredible communicator; a super-easy read. This book is for anyone and everyone.

[Christopher Armstrong · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is a much needed read for young adults today. The topic of sex is somewhat of a taboo in the Christian world and that is a shame. Thankfully, Levi Lusko charges straight in and provides truth that is indispensable.

[Lisamarie Landreth · Rating 5 out of 5]

My favorite book on Christian relationships; tied with The Wait.

[Mara · Rating 4 out of 5]

I recommended this book. I cant say where you are in life but i found this speaking to me and i wish i read this when i was younger.

[Mary Catherine Smith · Rating 5 out of 5]

"I know this has been painful and inconvenient but it will all be worth it when your crown gets here"

[Roman · Rating 5 out of 5]

Sometimes you read a book that tells you truths that you didn't even know you needed to hear. "Swipe Right" is exactly that book. Among the jokes and easy going nature of the writer (and Lusko is a funny writer), reading the book imparted me with so many truths and revelation I wish I had heard growing up as a teenager. Tackling the big issues of sex, pornography and more, Lusko never feels like he is condemning or accusing you but rather taking a journey with you to show you the true nature of these issues, and how to be free today. I would highly recommend for anyone of any age, since there is so much in the book for everyone. An important book in this day and age.

[Deja Roden · Rating 5 out of 5]

Every person should have this is their library. Married, single, young, old, bitter, joyful, virgin or "seasoned" (lol) this is for you. I already gifted one of my good friends with this book by Lusko, and I hope it changes her life, like it has mine. My perspective for sex and romance and dating has dramatically been shifted. Lusko doesn't just give the textbook biblical answers for the "should nots" but rather he explains the "why." And if anyone knows me, I'm all about the "why." I appreciate Lusko for being obedient and pouring his heart out, I know it is going to bless so many souls. Please, whatever you do, make sure it includes buying this book.

[Robert Cooke · Rating 5 out of 5]

Best book on this topic I've ever read

I'd never heard of Levi until I heard Greg Laurie mention him and this book. Once I opened the book I couldn't put it down. Written by a man with personal knowledge on this subject and even more importantly; knowledge of the scriptures and of our Great God who can and will change lives. Biblical truth combined with humor and illustrations. This is a must read for every parent, teenager, and college student. I can't wait to recommend this to all my friends.

[Kayce · Rating 5 out of 5]

There are a ton of people who could write this book and sound like a prude condemning anyone who has sexually sinned to damnation. This book is the exact opposite. Filled with Biblical truth and scriptural references, Levi takes a refreshing and encouraging approach. No matter your past, you can change the direction of your future. Often laugh out loud funny and very relatable this is one of the best books I've read in a while. Married, single, raising children or not, there's truth here for everyone. I never keep books after reading them; I make very few exceptions. This one is a keeper.

[Colleen · Rating 4 out of 5]

It took me a while to get through bc I’m more of a story person, but it was still really good! It’s a great reminder of why I made this decision when I was younger & why I’ve stuck to my guns! You don’t have to have been raised in the faith, or be super acquainted with the Bible to appreciate this book, it’s filled with all sorts of nuggets of wisdom that I highlighted the heck out of! Even though I’ve heard this general message a number of times, I feel like Levi was able to put his own spin on it & bring something new to the table!!

[Laura · Rating 5 out of 5]

My oldest child is only seven, but in this crazy world where early elementary-schoolers already talk about "going out" with each other, and kids frequently discuss whom they plan to marry, it doesn't seem too early to start thinking about how I'll approach this topic as a parent. I want to do so through a biblical lens, but also to be culturally relevant and convincing that God's standards are timeless. Plus, if you decide to read a non-fiction Christian book, you could certainly find a less interesting topic, and I enjoy Levi's blurts on K-Love radio.

This work was both hilarious and heart-wrenching. The statistics are disturbing, and I also cried a lot over the parts about his daughter. At the same time, I didn't expect it to be so funny! I read some of the Devil Crock-Pot chapter aloud to my husband as I was also reading it for the first time, and we had such a laugh. The way Levi told what ensued after he gulped the Red Bull also greatly tickled me, and I enjoyed his fresh, smart style. As my husband and I are around his age, we appreciate the many pop culture references, but I don't know if my son will get them by the time he's old enough to appropriately read this book.

While it does not overtly set forth a plan for how to talk to younger children about sexual things, it definitely has some broader concepts you can tune to your comfort level and their maturity level. In fact, much of the book is about deeply important truths of life (vs. strictly sexual topics), spelled out with scriptural examples and then summarized into clever phrases. However, in the Winter chapter, there are some encouraging affirmations that I had previously seen linked to Priscilla Shirer ("You are the head and not the tail. You are from above and not beneath. You are a leader and not a follower."), and it made me uncomfortable that she wasn't referenced there or in the notes, as they are written in the exact same order as in her blog post: http://www.goingbeyond.com/blog/speak...
I recognized them because I have spoken them over my son several times! (Thanks, Amy!)

Overall, I found it really interesting (48 highlights on the Kindle) and well-done, though I'm sure it was a staggering challenge to take on, especially with today's messed up barometer of what is acceptable. I'm a relatively young person and am shocked by what's allowed on prime time tv now. It's truly time to put your guard up and get ready if you have little ones to guide. There could have been more that speaks to girls and women, like about being careful with what some are suggesting by how they dress. I have a daughter as well, and often see even Christian women dressing overtly immodestly. Admittedly, maybe there is something like that in the book and I just forgot, since I read it over the course of three weeks, but as he's gifted with words and humor, this could be communicated in a way girls are likely to receive.

Levi, I really hope you write more books and fill them with your funny and powerful anecdotes. Austin, Texas could really use you if you ever decide Montana is too cold!

[Christina Brandsma · Rating 3 out of 5]

Helpful. Pithy. Honest.

This felt like a neutral-good book on topics related to sexuality and marriage. Levi's words are pithy and easy to read in a young/fun way. I'd recommend this to a zoomer or millenial that wants to enter the conversation on these topics in a light, but real way. There were parts I disagreed with, but generally I appreciate the conservative and realistic perspective this offered to the existing milieu of "Christian" books on sex and romance.

Things I underlined:
Intro:
-You can't burn a fire in your lap and not burn your pants. Proverbs 6:27 (MSG)
-If I compromise, I could do in minutes, what I'd regret for decades.
5:
-Technically sex was the first gift God gave to Adam if you don't count the nap.
7:
-I saw. I coveted. I took. I hid. (a pattern of Adam, David, etc.)
-Gazelle have chambers where inhaled breath cools down the blood before it gets to the brain - greater endurance. The body's temp goes up, but the brain's temp stays cooler. A gazelle can keep running when the cheetah overheats - it escapes because the cooler head prevails. Shouldn't we limit the things that get our blood pumping and make our faces flush?
8:
-I believe that Jesus can restore to you days that sin has eaten
-If you give God the space to be God, He will bring new stubble from the rubble.
-Sampson's eyes never grew back, but his hair did heal - make the devil pay for what he has taken away - at your darkest, shine your brightest
-It's not about how hard you can hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward
-The Lord doesn't get any pleasure out of your paying penance for things Jesus has already paid for
-Seek the peace of the city where I have caused you to be carried away captive. If you can't live in the city of peace, bring peace to the city you live in. Beautify your Babylon.
11:
-If you're not careful, this bitterness can turn into a victim mentality and a wounded spirit. You can let it control you and give you your name. It's easy to be defined by your dysfunction, but it's not necessary. You have been called out. Jesus has called us out into His marvelous light with His precious blood.
Conclusion:
-The same nerve endings that allow you to feel the pain of searing loss also allow you to feel God's presence and His glory. He'll meet you there and allow the great trough of your sorrow to become a reservoir full of His presence. Matthew 5:4 - Blessed are those who mourn.
-Anyone can count the seeds in an apple, but only God knows the number of apples in a single seed.
-Activity flows from identity. It is in knowing we're pilgrims and sojourners that we have the power to abstain from fleshly lusts.
-There's no stronger motivation than anticipation. Clinging to your true destination will also change the way you view trials. If your vision is long-sighted, as its supposed to be, your problems are mere speed bumps on the way to glory.

-levilusko.com/swiperightverses

[Cindy Navarro · Rating 5 out of 5]

Swipe Right: The Life-and-Death Power of Sex and Romance (Thomas Nelson) by Levi Lusko: Love, sex, romance and relationships are powerful, but too often are treated as trivial and disposable in today's society. In this book, Lusko, pastor of Fresh Life Church, a multisite church in Montana, and the founder of Skull Church and the O2 Experience, shares how to go beyond meaningless sex to a lasting relationship that is much more fulfilling.
Some of the things Levi Lusko shares with honesty from both his own life experiences and God’s Word are:

regret-proof your marriage bed and your deathbed
resist settling for instant pleasure by discovering what your heart really longs for
learn how to avoid and treat sexual scars by careful living today
turn the clumsy “sex talk” with your child into dialogue that leads to wise choices
transform a stagnant marriage by trading predictable nearness for mind-blowing intimacy

God created sex, so His plan is for sex to be a pleasure, but also a part of a committed relationship between a husband and wife. Lusko has written a powerful book that is honest, relatable, and often funny. Going beyond the physical act, he also speaks on emotional intimacy, porn, and how we sometimes block God's best for us by answering the voice that yells, "NOW!" rather than waiting.

This is also a book for those who are thinking, "Too late for me now." Yes, this book is better to read when you are young and willing to commit to God's standards, but there comes a time when you recommit to a standard and set out on a new path. "Sampson's Hair Began to Grow" is one of my favorite chapters. Sampson's story has always been one of my least favorites, but I have been learning a lot lately from this man who was one of God's chosen...yet chose his way over God's every time. Yet, in the end, God was able to use him.

My only issue with the book is also one of the reasons I will absolutely recommend it to others. Sometimes I simply did not have a clue what the man was referencing! I am a Pop Culture illiterate. I have never heard of dating apps like Tinder...and I certainly was not going to Google it. I don't watch television, seldom see secular movies, don't play computer games and rarely use my phone. So, I was often puzzled, but have no doubt my children and grandchildren would totally understand. I also loved the section, "Things I Really, Really Want You to Remember." Perfect...even for those who don't like to read.

I received a copy of this book from BookLook in exchange for a fair and honest review.

[Denise · Rating 5 out of 5]

Swipe Right: The Life-and-Death Power of Sex and Romance is Levi Lusko's answer to the modern culture's view of sex, relationships, and romance. Playing off of the Tinder app's "swipe right/swipe left" feature, Levi uses modern terminology and illustrations to bring to live God's ancient, but always relevant, plan for sex, romance, dating, and marriage. The back cover says:

"God wants you to have amazing sex

There is nothing more powerful on earth than the forces of love, sex, and romance. In fact, relationships are a matter of life-and-death importance.

So how you can train today for the relationship you want tomorrow? In Swipe Right, Levi Lusko shares with raw honesty from his own life experiences and God’s Word how to regret-proof your marriage bed and your deathbed
resist settling for instant pleasure by discovering what your heart really longs for
learn how to avoid and treat sexual scars by careful living today
turn the clumsy “sex talk” with your child into dialogue that leads to wise choices
transform a stagnant marriage by trading predictable nearness for mind-blowing intimacy
God’s dreams for your life are not intended to kill your joy but to enhance it. Whether you’re fed up with dating and hooking up as usual, tired of being single, numb because of porn and casual sex, or curious about how to improve your marriage, this book is for you."

Swipe Right is SUCH a needed book right now. This book should be in the hands of every teenager, college student, dating couple, engaged couple, married couple, single lady or man. The culture has degraded sex and romance so much that hookups, polyamory, homosexual relationships, and more are not only considered normal but the usual - and people who don't participate in sinful sexual relationships and acts are considered the weird ones. Swipe Right speaks to millenials in their own language, while standing on the truths of God's word in an uncompromised way. I highly recommend that youth leaders, small group leaders, and church leaders pass this book out to their church members. We need to take a strong stand for morals in this immoral day.

I received a copy of this book from BookLook Bloggers in order to provide an honest review. All opinions are my own.

[Bethel Grove · Rating 5 out of 5]

Our culture’s view of sex and romance is totally messed up, but most of us don’t realize it. We come into relationships (or lack thereof) primarily concerned about our rights and our needs. We are more concerned about being “in love” than we are about pursuing those feelings in a God-honoring way. We get caught up the conveniences of this digital day and age, even when it comes to relationships. Apps like Tinder make it possible to you to start a relationship with someone you only seen in the app with a simple swipe left of your finger. It makes it hard for us to understand and pursue a biblical understanding of sex and romance when the culture around us pretends to have the answers. It makes us ask the question: How can I prepare for the relationship I want tomorrow?
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​In Levi Lusko’s book, Swipe Right, he brings a fresh biblically grounded perspective on sex and romance that can help anyone prepare for the relationships they want tomorrow, regardless of what stage of life you are currently in. With the premise of desiring to help prepare you for the relationship you are not yet in, Levi walks through many profound truths about God’s design for sexuality and how we can navigate in a society that treats sex as something digital or disposable. With relevant stories from his own life and marriage, he shares about how God’s desire to us to wait for marriage and keep sex within marriage is about wait for God best for us. He shares many familiar stories from Scripture and presents them in a modern light that is engaging and enlightening. So much truth is packed in bits and pieces throughout this book, in a style that is somewhat similar to that of author Bob Goff.

​As a single young woman, I found this book to be extremely valuable to me, and I personally believe that this book could be of great value to anyone that is single, dating, or married. I recommend this to teens about 15 or older, as well as parents that want to find ways to explain sexuality to their children in a way that honors the Lord and helps them avoid the pitfalls of our culture. I also recommend it for anyone that read and was moved by Levi’s first book, Through the Eyes of a Lion. Although this book was written on a different topic, I believe that is an excellent companion.