Infidelity does not have to be the end of your marriage. Your marriage can recover and thrive after an affair. But only when you get to the roots of the problem, solve the issues, rebuild trust, and learn to move forward. Unfortunately, many marriages end needlessly after infidelity. Often, this is a result of not knowing there is another option. This is complicated by not having access to tools and understanding that can heal a marriage. In fact, those tools can help a marriage move toward greater health than was there before the affair. Dr. Lee Baucom provides a roadmap for dealing with physical or emotional infidelity. His book can provide guidance on how to confront an affair, how to understand the reasons behind the affair, and how to move forward through a healing process. His approach gives resources to both the person who had the affair and the spouse. Additionally, Dr. Baucom provides a special Question and Answer bonus to readers that covers common questions from other readers. Your marriage CAN survive an affair. In fact, it can be stronger than before the infidelity. You just need the tools and guidance to get there. Find those tools in this book.
For the past 15 years, I've been answering the question, "Why am I here?" You and I, we both have a purpose. One that is bigger than whatever it is we are doing right now.
We are here to make a difference.
When I had a health crisis 15 years ago, I thought my time to make a difference was over. Gone. Before I was even 40 years old. I was fortunate. I recovered. And now, I am living in what I call "Bonus Time." The time I thought I wouldn't have.
Up until then, I was a therapist, doing my best to help people who came into my office. But I wasn't asking the question. I was doing my job.
Now I know that you and I, we only have a certain amount of time. We can spend that time without tapping into our purpose. Or we can find out what matters -- what really matters -- and we can do that.
My hope is that my writing unlocks a bigger life for you... a Thriving Life, full of meaning, purpose, significance, and IMPACT.
I chose this book based on reviews. I recently discovered my husband had an emotional affair and I needed something to help me understand and continue fighting for my marriage. This book helped me understand what is needed from both of us to move past this.
I found the content this book very easy to read. It was full of useful and helpful information. It was easy to understand. I feel like I can successfully apply all the suggestions to my life. I didn't want to put it down. It gave me hope.