Okay, I thought this book was fine, but I didn't love it. It may not even be the author's fault. I might have liked it a lot more if it was the first book I read about de-cluttering, and before I had gutted 75% of my house last spring.
I have another book that I loved 100 times more. It was more detailed, more convincing on why to de-clutter, and totally funny. And inspiring. I read it, and I stayed up until midnight for days on end, went without sleep, food or exercise in favor of cleaning out our junk room, and filled up my recycle/garbage bins to overflowing, plus all of my neighbor's cans.
That book is "Clutter's Last Stand: It's Time To De-junk Your Life!" by Don Aslett.
It doesn't seem like emptying your house out of stuff could make you so much happier when you first contemplate it, but it's like losing 50 lbs. Instead of fitting into a new pair of skinny jeans again, you instead finally feel like you can fit in your house. And you don't even realize how much crap you have accumulated until to trash it and breathe freely without it.
You know how you walk through a model home and it looks soooo nice, way nicer than most real homes you see (like yours)? I used to think it was just because of all the nice decorating. Now I think it's more because those houses have zero clutter anywhere. There are no papers stacked on the counters, no toys on the floor in the hall, and the books in the bookshelf have plenty of room to be viewed, plus space for cool looking bookends on each row.
In our house, I accidentally let my mother in law give us a big stack of old church books (from my husband's grandpa's house, which my father in law picked up when nobody else wanted them after his death, and my mother in law didn't want either and offered to us). I am mainly the only one who reads at my house, unless you count my husband's bi-annual book and reading internet articles about stock we own, so you'd think I could pick which books stay and which go.
We have crammed our bookcases with too many books. My first thought is to send all of the ancient church books to D.I., like our ten copies of "Jesus the Christ" and the Book of Mormon (having more copies doesn't make us even a teeny bit more righteous, I swear). But my husband says NO! to ridding ourselves of ANY church books. What the crap?
Me: "Dale, what about this book? It's a book about finding your ancestors and doing family history work. We don't do any family history work, and it was written in 1962, long before computers or any of the things we would use to do it nowadays. Toss, right?"
Dale: "No."
Me: "Huh? What? Why keep it? It's definitely a toss. You're joking, right?"
Dale: "NO!!!"
Me: "What about these books? "History of Utah" (missing the last 60 years of its' history), and "Biblical Sites in Jerusalem". Don't those sound boring? I'll never read them. If I never read them, you will definitely never read them."
Dale: "No!"
Me: " AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!"
Every box we send to D.I. or garbage can we fill makes life a little sweeter. I totally encourage you to get rid of half of the clothes in your closet (half of it you never wear or think you look fat in when you do), dump any books in your house you've already read or probably won't ever read. Get rid of extra pillowcases and sheets your are storing in your closet but never use. Put away (get rid of) half of your kid's toys and clothing. Send food from your pantry you don't like to a food bank. Go through the stacks of papers you have saved (like old Ensign magazines, school work from when you were a kid, old ward directories from places you no longer live, instruction manuals for devices you know how to work (like the vacuum), old wedding announcements (I found some where the people have been divorced a couple years now!), and everything else you can think of.
There's so much crap in our houses we store for no reason, but don't need. If we DO need it again someday, we can buy it for a dollar at D.I. And out of the thousands of things I dumped last spring, I have wanted two things since then: 1. a book about funny English phrases that would have been a good gift for a Russian woman who stayed a couple weeks with me and loved that kind of thing. 2. A picture a friend of mine drew for me when we were best friend's in 4th grade, who I then miraculously reconnected with on Facebook after years and years this fall.
Neither were the end of the world, and not having them was totally worth it because my whole house has been cleaner and more organized for months and months. You'll never miss 99% of what you toss, and even if you do, you'll admit the purge was still worth it.
That's my recommendation. Especially before you get a bunch more crap (shudder) for Christmas, get rid of as much as you can now from your house. And don't be afraid to get rid of crap that you get as a Christmas gift the very next day. The point of getting a gift is to know that the gift giver cares about you, not that they want you to have useless junk taking up room in your house forever. Acknowledge that the person cares about you, maybe keep it for a week at the longest, then get rid of it. We do that when we get flowers. We keep them for about a week (long enough to enjoy them), and then we trash them. Why keep an ugly pocketwatch with weird sketchings on it any longer, just because Grandma bought it for you? They may very well be worth the same price, have the same meaning/intention, but one lasts a week and the other is crap in your house forever. Which would Grandma want for you?