First off - this is going to be a review of the first story arc covering the first three books. If you are looking for a review of this book only, this is not the book review you are looking for.
**Spoiler alert for the whole first story arc.**
**Warning – I am long winded. If this becomes TL:DR for you, skip to the summary in the last paragraph.**
The Poor Man's Fight first story arc ends in this third book of the series. It was a somewhat satisfying end to the first story arc, and a decent place to take a break. I understand that book #4 of this series, should really be considered book #2.5 as it takes place between books #2 and #3, but features Alicia as the MC and lets us know what happened to her after she and Tanner split and went to their first commands.
The first story arc, Poor Man's Fight has an unexpected ending for me; something that I enjoyed. Poor Man's Fight is decent Space Opera, featuring a little stronger romantic entanglements that I do not care for.
I am old romantic softy - I like the guy to get the girl (or girl get the guy- whichever) at the end and ride into the sunset. I was rooting for Alicia and Tanner to become a permanent item somewhere in this first story arc.
My main dislike of Poor Man's Fight comes from how the romantic aspect of the Space Opera was handled by the author. All good Space Opera includes an element of romance. I almost believe that the first story arc would have been better without so much romance, cutting it down to just action with some suggested romantic involvement in the background.
I strongly disliked the Andrea Bennett character, having known people such as her in real life. Political tools such as Andrea sacrifice everything for a career, which is fleeting, including love. Often these types of people (and characters) at the end of their career realize that along the way they have tossed aside a (or several) great lover and partner. A career, no matter how great, cannot hold you and comfort you while going through life's trials.
I hope that Andrea has a good "Come to Jesus" moment and realizes that she tossed aside Tanner, who might have been a great life partner (if a little unconventional) for a hollow career. Often these "career oriented people" realize when it is too late that they missed out on a great love when they see that lover has moved on and is very happy while they are quite miserable.
I seriously dislike how Andrea callously tossed aside Tanner as an “off and on fling” when, from Tanner’s point of view at least, I think that there was what could have been a great love. With longevity treatments extending life spans so much, you would not think that society would look at a mere 30 year age difference as all that uncommon. When people can live 150+ years, a 30 year difference in age seems fairly trivial, and a stupid reason to discard a great man for a hollow, loveless career.
I can empathize with how the relationship with Madelyn (Allison) Carter matured. My boyhood crush went on to become a fantastic woman and marry a great guy and have a house full of kids. In hindsight, we would have been miserable together. So watching Tanner’s boyhood crush, Madelyn go on and intend to marry someone else was something that I could relate to and empathize with.
Being an old romantic softy, I did not like the fact that Alicia and Brent hooked up. I have watched military couples through a little more than 30 years of experience. I counseled young military persons assigned to my units to not date another service member, if they could, especially within our own unit. When you put young, single boys and girls together shit is going to happen and there is going to be some mess from fallout.
Older sergeants such as me had to learn how to deal with distraught platoon mates when a relationship between members of our unit went to shit. Getting a Dear John letter in the mail (or email or text now in the new electronic world) is far different than getting dumped in the chow hall or rec building.
Very few first military relationships last, so while the results of Alicia and Tanner’s parting was realistic, and even though realistically in line of what happens in real life with many young military relationships, I still didn’t like it. I wanted Tanner and Alicia to become a permanent item, and perhaps they will eventually.
One of my favorite Space Operas, The Frontline Series by Marko Kloos (lots of shit blowing up - light on the romance), features boot camp lovers (nighttime shower hookups – naughty, naughty) who despite several year-long or more separations, remain faithful and even finally marry remaining together no matter what.
Not that many relationships in the military survive long separations, so Alicia and Tanner finding others and being realistic about their relationship was believable, even if I didn’t like it. I think that author hinted that perhaps Tanner was Alicia’s first lover, once referring to Brent as “only the second man she had slept with.”
Women most of the time (or so I am told) remember their first lover, and some have a slight romantic attachment to their first time. I would like to see Tanner and Alicia beat the odds and become a permanent couple riding into the sunset.
I’ve read enough Space Opera to see old lovers reunite after 50 years apart or more. With longevity treatments extending the average person’s life, it is not completely impossible that Tanner and Alicia may end up together. I’ve seen Space Opera lovers reunite after having other life partners, children, and even great grandchildren, so who knows.
Although the ending of the first story arc has Alicia quite happy with Brent, even introducing him to her parents, and Tanner is with Lynette, I still hope Alicia and Tanner becomes a permanent item at the end whenever the author ends this series.
I do like the Lynette character, and am glad to see Tanner with someone. Since Tanner is such a shit magnet, it is good that he has someone to love. A person that goes through crap such as Tanner and does not have someone to hold and love can go crazy.
Humans are social creatures and we crave the touch of another. Being touch starved is a dangerous predicament for someone who is almost always at the heart of a shit storm. I have not decided if I want Lynette as a permanent part of Tanner’s life, yet. I would love for Andrea to see Tanner and Lynette together and realize what she lost.
The thing that I dislike about Tanner and Lynette’s relationship is this stupid idea of “uncommitted monogamy.” WTF? Call it what it is – an open relationship. Both can go screw other people and when they manage, hook up with each other. At least this author did not call such a relationship something really stupid such as “together, but apart” like another author did.
In a little over 30 years of being exposed to the military, I know of only one couple with an open relationship that is still together. I am sure that there are other couples out there in open relationships that work through the years, but in my somewhat limited exposure to military couples with open relationships – very, very few last.
I am not judging those that choose an open relationship – if it works for them who am I to say anything? An open relationship is not something that I would choose to enter, but I have no problem with others choosing such a relationship for themselves.
Through the wonders of the internet and platforms such as Facebook, staying in touch with former military acquaintances is much easier these days. Catching up with a lot of my former platoon mates, I was amazed to discover how few of them were still with the partner they had when I served with them.
With my military relationship experience I do not expect Tanner and Lynette to last. I expect that both Tanner and Lynette will find someone else and drop the other whether by intent or not.
The main reason that I stopped reading Poor Man’s Fight at the end of this story arc, is that it is too romantically messy. I like my Space Opera more action with a lot of shit blowing up, rather than who is screwing whom with all the damn angst that goes with relationships going to shit and former lovers happily screwing other people.