I greatly enjoyed this book and would HIGHLY recommend it to those who are wanting to read about Jesus but are overwhelmed (or have reading fatigue?) by big theology and heavy doctrine that's in a lot of popular Christian books.
Each chapter in the book is split between two sections: a first-person story-telling narrative from the perspective of Lazarus, and then a breakdown of the biblical text and major takeaways relevant to that specific chapter. What stood out to me most was the story-telling of Lazarus. Ugh. My heart. I felt like I was in the room with Jesus, the disciples, Lazarus, Martha, and Mary as Mary poured oil on Jesus head and feet. While the four gospels share Jesus' life and stories, this book truly brought life to what experiencing Jesus was like. Frank Viola brings to life a biblically grounded first person narrative that delves into the nuances of witnessing Jesus' ministry, making Jesus and the other characters in this gospel account incredibly real and relatable.
I was most touched by the first chapter. Whew. Viola speaks on the pain of rejection from those in the church, specifically church leadership. I seek healing for the pain I've experienced from a pastor who had judged me and my family unfairly. Through this book, I am reminded that I am entering into the Lord's own suffering as he was rejected by the Romans, the Samaritans, His own people, and ultimately by a dear friend. The Lord comforts those who mourn. He understands my pain, having been there Himself. So I can rest my head on a God who knows what it feels like firsthand.
"Criticism and rejection are God's tools for liberating His servants from human control and the desire to please men." Oof.
Viola says, "The Christian life is a reliving of the life of Jesus." While my experiences and hurts don't fully compare to the weight of betrayal Jesus endured on earth, the Lord knows my heart. I am humbled and honored to glimpse the life that Jesus lived during His earthly ministry.
As I have considered ministry and what that looks like for my life, I was very encouraged by Viola's point that rejection is designed by God to bring brokenness into your life SO THAT you may minister more effectively. He speaks on how, in modern-day ministry, there is a popular idea behind ministry training that focuses on developing one's gifts and strengths. But this focus sets your eyes on your gifts. They put the focus on your strengths and your natural abilities. They make you the center of attention. He says, "The Lord is far more interested in your weaknesses than in your strengths. He's interested in breaking you. Why? Because when there is less of you in the way, there is more room for Him to work." I do question and believe that there should be a balance between the two, but this is something I am going to pray and ask God about.
My strengths draw attention to myself, but in my weakness, only God be the glory.
I have a newfound love and empathy for both Martha and Mary. An interesting observation that Viola shares is that most of the "Marys" he's met in his life used to be "Marthas." They just burn out or bail out. This makes me think that many new, may not necessarily be new but new, Christians can start their walk with Christ with a distorted expectation they need to serve serve serve, thinking they need to "win brownie points with a God who stopped keeping score two thousand years ago." Rather than rebuke or discourage this type of behavior, we should encourage those who are on the path of burnout or bitterness to remember the eternal treasure that is Jesus rather than the temporal, like Jesus did so kindly and lovingly with Martha. I speak this to myself because I have always identified as a "Martha," but a heart check to reflect on whether my service to God was more about me instead of Him may be necessary for all those who relate to our dear sister Martha. "Is your identity and security wrapped up in your service?"
And finally, a tribute to the title of this book. Bethany was where Jesus came to rest after a days work in Jerusalem, it was where he was cherished and loved by His friends, in Bethany, the heavens opened up to Him. "Bethany was an oasis for Christ in a world hostile towards him. There He could pause, reflect, and find comfort and repose." There was a death in Bethany. There was a resurrection in Bethany. And there was an ascension in Bethany.
"Jesus is looking for a Bethany in every heart, every home, and every church."