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How to Text a Girl: A Girls Chase Guide
You're 5 Texts Away From A Date With Her… Do you know most men make texting girls far HARDER than it needs to be? And that it can be SIMPLE to text a girl you like out on a date? This easy-to-use, step-by-step guide shows you how to text a girl, what to text, and when to text it to her. If you're tired of "spin your wheels" texting advice, buy this book. Its approach draws from 18 cutting edge scientific studies on texting… And it's written by the founder of the highest traffic men's dating advice website on the Internet, GirlsChase.com. What you will learn Who the 4 kinds of texters are ( which one YOU are) - pg. 2
How to text a girl you like (use the powerful JGIG texting system) - pg.10
Exactly what to text what topics to text and which to AVOID - pg. 62
The 4 BIG reasons most guys struggle to turn phone numbers into dates (these are so easy to correct) - pg. 74
How to tell if a girl likes you over text… Do this ONE thing, and you will know, with certainty, if she like you or not - pg. 67
How to "break the ice" with a girl over text in a way that kills awkwardness and gets her to text you - pg. 52
How to get a girl to LIKE you over text ( no clueless questions or long-winded text jousts!) - pg. 15
What to do when a girl doesn't text back - apply these 2 dos and 2 don'ts, and you'll get her texting today, 4 times out of 5 - pg. 72
How to flirt with a girl over text and make her EXCITED to meet up with you - you'll learn why "less" is "more", and just how much to actually do - pg. 31
An easy way to make sure girls almost never cancel the dates you plan with them over text. To do this, you'll use a simple, powerful trick called the "pre-meeting text" - pg. 68
What to do if a girl flakes on you (the good handle this well, and her attraction for you goes through the ROOF) - pg. 85
How to make a phone call to a girl that "resets" her interest in you (this works like magic at times when nothing else does) - pg. 92
The single most EFFECTIVE way to resume texting a girl you haven't talked to in weeks or months - pg. 112
How to start a conversation with a girl over text message; to do this right, you MUST use one of the two (2) patented "text objectives" - pg. 28
An example text conversation, start to finish, that ties EVERYTHING in the book together (this lets you see how all the pieces work, end to end) - pg. 134
… plus tons more examples, scientific study findings, and rules to texting women most men NEVER unearth… no matter how many texts they send. As a FREE bonus, only for book buyers, you'll receive the GC URL to a 93-minute bonus podcast on texting with girls.
How to text a girl you like (use the powerful JGIG texting system) - pg.10
Exactly what to text what topics to text and which to AVOID - pg. 62
The 4 BIG reasons most guys struggle to turn phone numbers into dates (these are so easy to correct) - pg. 74
How to tell if a girl likes you over text… Do this ONE thing, and you will know, with certainty, if she like you or not - pg. 67
How to "break the ice" with a girl over text in a way that kills awkwardness and gets her to text you - pg. 52
How to get a girl to LIKE you over text ( no clueless questions or long-winded text jousts!) - pg. 15
What to do when a girl doesn't text back - apply these 2 dos and 2 don'ts, and you'll get her texting today, 4 times out of 5 - pg. 72
How to flirt with a girl over text and make her EXCITED to meet up with you - you'll learn why "less" is "more", and just how much to actually do - pg. 31
An easy way to make sure girls almost never cancel the dates you plan with them over text. To do this, you'll use a simple, powerful trick called the "pre-meeting text" - pg. 68
What to do if a girl flakes on you (the good handle this well, and her attraction for you goes through the ROOF) - pg. 85
How to make a phone call to a girl that "resets" her interest in you (this works like magic at times when nothing else does) - pg. 92
The single most EFFECTIVE way to resume texting a girl you haven't talked to in weeks or months - pg. 112
How to start a conversation with a girl over text message; to do this right, you MUST use one of the two (2) patented "text objectives" - pg. 28
An example text conversation, start to finish, that ties EVERYTHING in the book together (this lets you see how all the pieces work, end to end) - pg. 134
… plus tons more examples, scientific study findings, and rules to texting women most men NEVER unearth… no matter how many texts they send. As a FREE bonus, only for book buyers, you'll receive the GC URL to a 93-minute bonus podcast on texting with girls.
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184 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 1, 2016
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January 9, 2018
Great book
I wish I read this book years ago so many numbers lost.. Giving up so many great points..It floored me to read the less u text the better..If u a man you need to read this book.Whiile reading this book met a girl , and set up the date before the number. date Wednesday, and tomm 36 hr text.. I will continue to read more books chase writes..
I wish I read this book years ago so many numbers lost.. Giving up so many great points..It floored me to read the less u text the better..If u a man you need to read this book.Whiile reading this book met a girl , and set up the date before the number. date Wednesday, and tomm 36 hr text.. I will continue to read more books chase writes..
May 5, 2024
5 stars. Mind-blowing. This book is for anybody who is old school enough to ditch dating apps and to ask for a girl's number directly. It gives a healthy mindset about how to think about texting (a tool to schedule a date) and why texting girls is so tricky (because the shallow emotional context of texting leaves them with more questions than answers about how to respond).
It gives a simple, non-manipulative, healthy, unapologetic framework on what to text between the moment you get her number and the moment she meets you again on a date. It also offers a healthy mindset about what to think when a girl doesn't respond (just stay positive and persist gently) or when she flakes (don't make the situation more embarrassing for her but instead tell her that you understand).
Best book on the market. Highly recommended.
One small criticism: the book is mostly a compilation of the author's blog articles. It contains a hyperlinks to other blog articles expanding on topics that are touched superficially. As such, it doesn't work as a self-contained book and could/should have been more polished. Despite this criticism it is very much worth its 5 stars.
Another small criticism: one article linked in the book cites a well researched statistic: the vast majority of text messages are read within 3 minutes. That info should have been included in the book because it paints the picture that when a girl doesn't respond, it's never because she didn't read your message. She read it within those statistical 3 minutes (at least through the notification), acknowledged it, and took a note to think about it and respond to it "later".
It gives a simple, non-manipulative, healthy, unapologetic framework on what to text between the moment you get her number and the moment she meets you again on a date. It also offers a healthy mindset about what to think when a girl doesn't respond (just stay positive and persist gently) or when she flakes (don't make the situation more embarrassing for her but instead tell her that you understand).
Best book on the market. Highly recommended.
One small criticism: the book is mostly a compilation of the author's blog articles. It contains a hyperlinks to other blog articles expanding on topics that are touched superficially. As such, it doesn't work as a self-contained book and could/should have been more polished. Despite this criticism it is very much worth its 5 stars.
Another small criticism: one article linked in the book cites a well researched statistic: the vast majority of text messages are read within 3 minutes. That info should have been included in the book because it paints the picture that when a girl doesn't respond, it's never because she didn't read your message. She read it within those statistical 3 minutes (at least through the notification), acknowledged it, and took a note to think about it and respond to it "later".
February 19, 2024
Some tips mentioned in the book are generally applicable, such as addressing people by their names, minimizing cognitive load, and maintaining a positive attitude. These aspects are crucial in effective communication and interpersonal interactions.
Regarding the book's usefulness in understanding message etiquette, it can indeed provide insights that might facilitate initiating contact, including potentially asking someone out if you've exchanged numbers.
However, I found myself disagreeing with certain points made by Mr. Chase, particularly the emphasis on persistence in messaging. While he suggests continuing to message someone even if they don't respond, he also proposes the idea of transitioning between messaging and calling, which I found intriguing. Nonetheless, personally, I believe that such persistence, especially if done excessively, can come across as needy and lacking in abundance mindset, irrespective of how intelligently it's executed. This perspective reflects solely my opinion.
Regarding the book's usefulness in understanding message etiquette, it can indeed provide insights that might facilitate initiating contact, including potentially asking someone out if you've exchanged numbers.
However, I found myself disagreeing with certain points made by Mr. Chase, particularly the emphasis on persistence in messaging. While he suggests continuing to message someone even if they don't respond, he also proposes the idea of transitioning between messaging and calling, which I found intriguing. Nonetheless, personally, I believe that such persistence, especially if done excessively, can come across as needy and lacking in abundance mindset, irrespective of how intelligently it's executed. This perspective reflects solely my opinion.
October 8, 2024
طبعا الكتاب من ثقافة غير ثقافتنا لكن هناك بعض الامور العامة التي يمكن أن تنطبق على الكل:
أيها الشباب، البنات لا يحبون المسجات التي تحتوي على أسألة سخيفة، ولا المسجات اللي محادثاتها لا نهائية، ولا الشخص اللي مفكر حاله ابو العريف (بيعرف كل شي). البنات (والله اعلم) تحترم التصرفات على السجية و بدون لف دوران و ممكن احيانا صداقة بغرض الصداقة الحقيقة ليس الا. في النهاية انما الأعمال بالنيات
أيها الشباب، البنات لا يحبون المسجات التي تحتوي على أسألة سخيفة، ولا المسجات اللي محادثاتها لا نهائية، ولا الشخص اللي مفكر حاله ابو العريف (بيعرف كل شي). البنات (والله اعلم) تحترم التصرفات على السجية و بدون لف دوران و ممكن احيانا صداقة بغرض الصداقة الحقيقة ليس الا. في النهاية انما الأعمال بالنيات
February 15, 2019
I think it defines how you really interact with somebody through text, it also points out the main mistakes like asking too many questions and how to fix that, recommend it to those who are struggling and texting
July 3, 2020
simple yet effective
texting should not be that hard. chase breaks down the process of texting piece by piece methodically. then gives a format to follow. my only wish was that he gave more examples and text strings.
texting should not be that hard. chase breaks down the process of texting piece by piece methodically. then gives a format to follow. my only wish was that he gave more examples and text strings.
February 27, 2022
good fast read
The author did a really good job of opening my eyes to what I am doing wrong in my text game. One of the biggest takeaways has to be only using texting as a way to set up a date and NOT using it to flirt and “get to know” the girl.
The author did a really good job of opening my eyes to what I am doing wrong in my text game. One of the biggest takeaways has to be only using texting as a way to set up a date and NOT using it to flirt and “get to know” the girl.
June 24, 2023
Easy to understand book about mindset of texting a girl to setting up date instead of indulging in long texts or making time wasting impressions. All conversations should happen face to face for better communication and relationships, texting is for setting up dates and nothing else.
March 11, 2018
Informative and direct
This was a great how to text and communicate with women. Short, straightforward and simple are the major takeaways from this book. Thanks!
This was a great how to text and communicate with women. Short, straightforward and simple are the major takeaways from this book. Thanks!
March 11, 2018
Parts were good and parts were not
If you want short to med. length relationship,this is a good read. But long term, elevating her to prince's status. How does that work long term?
If you want short to med. length relationship,this is a good read. But long term, elevating her to prince's status. How does that work long term?
July 8, 2018
Probably best book on texting
May 12, 2020
I was expecting some mind blowing content!
Even do you can learn a bit from the book!
Even do you can learn a bit from the book!
August 11, 2020
if you're considering reading this book then you're already far too gone to be helped
December 16, 2020
Excellent read
I liked the testing principles found in this book and look forward to applying each one to improve my game.
I liked the testing principles found in this book and look forward to applying each one to improve my game.
March 30, 2021
Really interesting book ! The principles in the book works right out of the bat.
February 24, 2022
It was actually very helpful and I learned some good things. I give it 4/5 stars.
December 11, 2019
0 Stars! Apply this book if you want to ruin all your chances of a connection with a real human being.
I was so nervous to text my dream girl that I decided to read a book about texting first. Never in my life have I lost a girl so quickly!
Thanks for nothing!
I was so nervous to text my dream girl that I decided to read a book about texting first. Never in my life have I lost a girl so quickly!
Thanks for nothing!
July 29, 2020
In depth and informative
A lot of things I didn’t know were “rules” in texting. Must be why I suck at it haha. This book was very helpful in this department for me, and I’ll definitely implement what I’ve learned!
A lot of things I didn’t know were “rules” in texting. Must be why I suck at it haha. This book was very helpful in this department for me, and I’ll definitely implement what I’ve learned!
August 20, 2025
Be Interesting, Not Intrusive
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