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Niharika: I want to live again
This book is a feeble effort to delve into the matters of marriage and issues related to it, which today is affecting our society so much that divorces, extra marital affairs, sex outside marriage, one night stands, domestic violence, addiction, smoking, drinking and depressions are a common sight.
And what are we show casing our next gen… a bad image…
A constant search for Mr. or Mrs. Right.
The Romeo’s and Juliet’s, Shiri Farhad’s and Laila Majnu’s have somewhere lost themselves to live in relationships.
“Commitment” has been reduced to a word on page no. 22 line no. 12 in Dictionary
This book is not written in a preaching form but as a story of Niharika a single mom, a successful corporate executive, her struggles, the challenges, the responsibility of raising a girl child and the constant day to day story encompassed in a subtle love story and for all age groups above 18…..
The story of Niharika……..
If this book helps even a single person in his/her decision to marry or save a divorce it would be well worth it.
Empowering the women of today.
And what are we show casing our next gen… a bad image…
A constant search for Mr. or Mrs. Right.
The Romeo’s and Juliet’s, Shiri Farhad’s and Laila Majnu’s have somewhere lost themselves to live in relationships.
“Commitment” has been reduced to a word on page no. 22 line no. 12 in Dictionary
This book is not written in a preaching form but as a story of Niharika a single mom, a successful corporate executive, her struggles, the challenges, the responsibility of raising a girl child and the constant day to day story encompassed in a subtle love story and for all age groups above 18…..
The story of Niharika……..
If this book helps even a single person in his/her decision to marry or save a divorce it would be well worth it.
Empowering the women of today.
388 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 30, 2016
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April 18, 2019
Niharika is beautiful story written by Arun about Corporate Women at a very high Position. How her Personal life goes down and comes up with a Happy ending Note after taking a professional /Life Coach help to bring new zeal and purpose in her life.
This give us lot of learning about the life and Philosophy and if Individual and couple understand them, then many Divorce can be saved. And one should not hesitate in taking Professional Motivators /Consultant/Life Coach advise if they are marriage relationship going under turmoil due to misunderstanding.
We get to learn that there are four types of Temperament in human being possess.
1. Doer
2. Talker
3. Planner
4. Listener
Life is about mix and match of these features and if any of them is extremely high , it becomes weakness and can create trouble in relationship. One has to understand their temperament and keep a balance, to have a good relationship among couples, friends etc.
.
Another key lesson is based on Rubic cube that there are 6 sides of different color to complete and there are steps to make complete. Similarly Human being has to maintain a balance of six Parameter in life to make it complete.
1. Financial
2. Personal
3. Family and friends
4. Creativity
5. Social
6. Spiritual
If any of above get disturbed it make the whole cube /Life disturbed.
About Love it says there are 5 Languages of Love
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gift
4. Act of Service
5. Physical touch.
Some of Key Lines that I like about are as below.
“Not made for each other NS, We made it for each other’’
“Any Strength has carried to extreme becomes weakness”
“NS the day we rise above the temperamental control is the day we start our Journey within”
“Love never fades away it gets buried somewhere beneath the difference of temperaments and ego will not let us accept that”
“Too much analysis leads to paralysis”
“Make your dreams so big because one day God will give you so much that you will not be able to handle it”
“Death saw no nationality or religion. It is only when we are alive we fight for these worthless identities”
“Dead body is a Dead body and it doesn’t demand anything whether you cremate it or bury it”
“The value and meaning of life is best understood when we lose them”
“People are sad because they look at what they have lost, what if they started looking at what they have”
“Sometime the weakest of Bonds are the hardest to break”
“My life was being reconstructed at the same place where thousand lives had been destroyed.
Some of the recommended books are
“Personality Plus” by Florence Litteur
“Personality Plus for Couples”
At Last I can Once I start reading the book, I couldn’t stop myself giving break in between, However I completed in weekend with Lot of satisfaction.
I would recommend everyone once to read this book once and share knowledge with Colleagues, friends ,spouse etc.
I want to congratulate Arun for writing a wonderful book and looks forward to many more such books in future. This books is worth making Movie and show in big canvas to the larger audience.
This give us lot of learning about the life and Philosophy and if Individual and couple understand them, then many Divorce can be saved. And one should not hesitate in taking Professional Motivators /Consultant/Life Coach advise if they are marriage relationship going under turmoil due to misunderstanding.
We get to learn that there are four types of Temperament in human being possess.
1. Doer
2. Talker
3. Planner
4. Listener
Life is about mix and match of these features and if any of them is extremely high , it becomes weakness and can create trouble in relationship. One has to understand their temperament and keep a balance, to have a good relationship among couples, friends etc.
.
Another key lesson is based on Rubic cube that there are 6 sides of different color to complete and there are steps to make complete. Similarly Human being has to maintain a balance of six Parameter in life to make it complete.
1. Financial
2. Personal
3. Family and friends
4. Creativity
5. Social
6. Spiritual
If any of above get disturbed it make the whole cube /Life disturbed.
About Love it says there are 5 Languages of Love
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gift
4. Act of Service
5. Physical touch.
Some of Key Lines that I like about are as below.
“Not made for each other NS, We made it for each other’’
“Any Strength has carried to extreme becomes weakness”
“NS the day we rise above the temperamental control is the day we start our Journey within”
“Love never fades away it gets buried somewhere beneath the difference of temperaments and ego will not let us accept that”
“Too much analysis leads to paralysis”
“Make your dreams so big because one day God will give you so much that you will not be able to handle it”
“Death saw no nationality or religion. It is only when we are alive we fight for these worthless identities”
“Dead body is a Dead body and it doesn’t demand anything whether you cremate it or bury it”
“The value and meaning of life is best understood when we lose them”
“People are sad because they look at what they have lost, what if they started looking at what they have”
“Sometime the weakest of Bonds are the hardest to break”
“My life was being reconstructed at the same place where thousand lives had been destroyed.
Some of the recommended books are
“Personality Plus” by Florence Litteur
“Personality Plus for Couples”
At Last I can Once I start reading the book, I couldn’t stop myself giving break in between, However I completed in weekend with Lot of satisfaction.
I would recommend everyone once to read this book once and share knowledge with Colleagues, friends ,spouse etc.
I want to congratulate Arun for writing a wonderful book and looks forward to many more such books in future. This books is worth making Movie and show in big canvas to the larger audience.
March 14, 2017
It is a book which touches your heart the moment you pick it up. The moment i started reading i knew there was a niharika or two i knew who had messed up their lives in exactly the same way as this niharika.
The book is about a woman who has it all and yet has nothing and the process of her finding out life all over again.
The language is simple and elegant and the lesson comes through very well. The characters are well etched out and one is caught right through hoping things work out for her.
All in all an excellent read
The book is about a woman who has it all and yet has nothing and the process of her finding out life all over again.
The language is simple and elegant and the lesson comes through very well. The characters are well etched out and one is caught right through hoping things work out for her.
All in all an excellent read
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