I’m too old to be a millennial and I’m not a new vegan, but once I was a young vegetarian and animal advocate and had a rather rough time. There weren’t any books like this like this for me, at least none that I knew of, and I do think parts of it at least would have been helpful. Even for those more seasoned advocates, I think this title might be a good refresher if you find yourself having more negative interactions with others.
I’ve written before about my almost overwhelmingly negative experiences as a vegetarian animal advocate in my teens and early 20s in a rural red state, in which I was repeatedly bullied, mocked, and criticized by classmates and teachers. I was saddened to read of the young people today having similar experiences—some of which even extend into their own homes, which I thankfully did not endure. However, it is also not terribly surprising that anti-vegan attitudes would continue even in this era of bullying awareness. Vegans are asking people to re-examine values that the vast majority of us grow up with and never question, and by their very existence challenge the notion that we must kill and exploit animals to live full, healthy lives. It’s no wonder people get defensive.
Taft offers up some sage advice for speaking with someone with whom you disagree. It’s difficult, I know, especially if emotions are running high—which they so often do with anything involving animals, food, or traditions—and most vegan issues involve all three! Even if you completely disagree with someone, you can still treat them with respect, you can still listen to what they’re saying and where they’re coming from. That person will most likely notice you behaving in a decent way, and may have their entire opinion on vegans change as a result.
Of course, having a slightly improved view of animal advocates and actually changing one’s own lifestyle are two very different things. Taft is an abolitionist and disagrees with things such as meat-reduction campaigns and other incremental steps. As I noted in a review of another one of this author’s books, I disagree with this outlook. Having the experience of arguing way more than I should have to for the most basic, should-be-common-sense pet welfare issues has impressed upon me that baby steps are sometimes the best things we can hope for, at least as long as veganism is still the minority viewpoint.
I liked that the author pressed the need for young vegans to find their community and connect with other like-minded people. Sadly, quite a few new vegans give up their convictions and turn away from animal advocacy; a common if not the most common reason being for lack of support among friends and family. This is truly a shame, as farmed animals need all of the friends they can get. It doesn’t help the animals nor ourselves when we harden our hearts to “fit in.” Thankfully, finding community is so much easier in this era of social networking; even small towns may have thriving plant-based communities on Facebook, Meetup, and other sites.