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Becoming MomStrong: How to Fight with All That's in You for Your Family and Your Faith

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Have you ever looked into the faces of the people who call you “mom” and wondered what in the world you got yourself into?
If you’re like many Christian moms today, you’ve been reading the headlines and watching the rapid-fire changes in our culture with frustration and fear. Let’s face it: Moms today are facing questions that previous generations didn’t even see coming, and even our right to determine what is best for our own children is under fire. Popular speaker and blogger Heidi St. John (The Busy Mom) believes that today’s mothers need a special kind of strength. We need to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. We dare not rely on human strength for the battles we’re facing right now. In Becoming MomStrong , Heidi has a powerful message just for you―the mom in the midst of it all. Through encouragement, practical prayer points, and authentic “me-too” moments, Heidi equips you for a job that only you can do: to train your children to hear God’s voice and to walk in truth no matter where our culture is heading. God wants to use this generation of mothers to do something extraordinary: In other words, He wants you to be MomStrong! So if you’re feeling tired or inadequate today, get ready to find new strength as you join Heidi St. John in Becoming MomStrong .

288 pages, Paperback

First published September 1, 2017

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Heidi St. John

17 books98 followers
Heidi St John is a mother, a grandmother, and a wife of 25 years. She is a popular conference speaker, radio personality, author and blogger whose message of returning to God’s Word and embracing our ministry as mothers has resonated with several hundred thousand followers in social media, through books, and radio appearances. Her refreshingly transparent, vulnerable style allows her readers to identify with her and invites them to join as fellow pilgrims on a journey rather than idolizing the author as someone who has “arrived”. Her calendar regularly has her speaking across the United States over twenty times in front of audiences as large as 20,000. Heidi lives in Battle Ground, Washington with her husband and five of their seven children ranging from age kindergarten to adulthood. When she’s not writing, traveling or speaking she loves to spend time with her grandchildren.
You can also connect with Heidi on Facebook
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581 reviews
July 2, 2018
The issue I have with it is that it comes off as a Christian woman writing a Christian book, but the author obviously has one foot in Christianese and one foot in the world.

I question whether God's word is the authority in her life, based on this book. Some of the things she wrote may have been in jest/trying to be funny.
pg 3, she and her husband are arguing and SURPRISE, they have visitors at their front door. After inviting them in and what I gather must have been small talk, Heidi asks the woman visitor about parenting, motioning all the books on the coffee table. The woman forthrightly mentions she's missing the Bible. (which brings me to Heidi's book, you don't need it; start studying the Bible).
pg. 20 ironically Heidi mentions "you are preparing warriors who at some point will be asked to choose between following God's law and following the culture. And in order to prepare warriors, you have to become a warrior yourself. (the phrase practice what you preach comes to mind).
pg 27 I did like this area about raising our children for God's kingdom. (whooo, I found something good after 27 pages).
pg 31 Heidi mentions cupid. (more culture)
pg 39 She talks about fighting our giants which would have been really good, except that it was portrayed in a way as leaning on her own strengths instead of the armour of God and standing on His word as our offense.
pg 50 this one is questionable, but it really felt as though she was covertly referencing Joel Osteen's book Best Life. (which is a whole kettle of worms of its own)
pg 60 - the proverbial straw that broke the camels back that made me stop reading the book. Strike three so to speak. More culture and she talks about her pride and writing a book and mentions being powerful Oz. Being transparent of our flaws is one thing, but to mix it with the world is not what God's word tells us to do, but to separate ourselves from it.

I find it sad to hear that she was a pastor's wife for 20 years and there are a few things I've found out about that are disparaging to her character, but that she is leading so many women astray. However, it is also up to us/ourselves, to read and study the Bible, and hold women like Heidi accountable. (no, it isn't judging, it's holding our brethen up/accountable in a loving manner). If we did, then women like Heidi might be a better Christian woman herself and the book would have been a better book for Christian women.

I'm terribly disappointed in this book and would like my money back, because I'd rather give it back to the publisher than pass it on to another woman. It's also a concern and definitely a picture of what the world is today based on the good reviews of this book. Where is the discernment?
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184 reviews2 followers
July 17, 2018
This book is NOT your typical religious mom self help book. This book is real. Raw. And IMPORTANT. It confronts our call as mothers in the Kingdom to combat the lies that society and the culture send our way. How can we do this in our time, where culture and what 'feels good' seems to mask all truth? By studying and standing on the Word that withstands the test of time. The Word of God should be our beacon in all things. I received an ARC of this book in return for my honest review...the only negativity I could say was that my ARC was an e-book and I needed something I could highlight, tab, and cross reference with the word of God! It was so amazing - and I can't wait to receive my preordered copy to fully digest with a pen and highlighter - and if you're a mom and my friend expect a copy for Christmas... Read this book!
Profile Image for Susy C. *MotherLambReads*.
555 reviews80 followers
May 7, 2022
GREAT encouraging book for Moms of all seaons of life and walks.

Nothing knew or earth shattering. All principles a Christian Mom has heard before. But it's good to re-hear and re-apply truths.

I appreciate her heart and how she constantly redirects Mom's back to the one True source of strength and wisdom- God and the Bible.

She reads her audiobook as well which is an extra bonus if you know her personality.
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97 reviews
February 14, 2018
I have followed Heidi's Podcast for some time. She is just the punch in the arm I need on a run to town or a few moments between the crazy days of motherhood. This book is an excellent book for mothers of all ages. We need to be mothers that are strong in the Lord! Unified to glorify Him in our every day lives. If you are a mother and you need encouragement and a reminder why to fight the good fight every day, you will want to read this book. Heidi is as real as it gets. Down to earth and full of humor, she shares the realities of the life of a mom, who wears many hats. She points you to the truth and that's what makes this such fantastic book.
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3 reviews
April 29, 2020
I couldn't finish this book. The real problem happened when I started following the author on Facebook when I was almost done reading and saw her political propaganda posts telling people they were giving in to fear if they wear masks to protect others from COVID-19. I sent a private message to her page saying I disagreed since she's putting her own feelings above the needs of the vulnerable and telling thousands of followers to do the same... and she (or her staff running her page) didn't reply but blocked me from the page to keep me from disagreeing with her publicly. Into the garbage goes the book.
Profile Image for Erin Moore.
78 reviews22 followers
March 16, 2018
I had the pleasure of meeting Heidi at a homeschool conference. Her sessions were my favorite because of her contagious joy and passion for the gospel. Her book did not disappoint.
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48 reviews12 followers
September 19, 2023
Una dintre cele mai bune cărți pentru mame!
Abordează teme asa de specifice generației noastre și pe care rar le-am găsit atinse în alte cărți de genul acesta.
Cu siguranță o voi reciti cât de curând!
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52 reviews45 followers
May 4, 2021
I first thought this would be mostly for moms with littles. Not so! It covered raising teens, taking our roles as mothers seriously, body image, creating strong godly friendships and so much more. Really loved this one. Each chapter ended with prayer prompts with scripture references, which I loved as well.
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362 reviews6 followers
February 13, 2024
This was encouraging and convicting, with practical suggestions and prayer points for busy moms. It really spoke to the season and style of life I'm currently in. Highly recommend. I think I'll buy a copy!
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1,499 reviews19 followers
February 20, 2023
Book 40 of 2023

I’ve heard a lot about Heidi St. John & have listened to a podcast of hers here and there. Several friends of mine have mentioned and recommended this book of hers, so I decided to dive in today. I had several hours in the car to listen to a good book, and this one hit the spot. The way she narrated it made you feel like she was talking to you. I appreciate her gentle and humble way of talking through what it means to parent in our culture & how we are raising our kids to be sent out into the world. Good, good stuff here.

Format: audiobook (hoopla)
Profile Image for Danielle Mori.
55 reviews2 followers
June 11, 2020
Very encouraging and easy to read. Definitely a book I'll come back to over the years
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614 reviews14 followers
March 10, 2024
4.5 🌟 review to come
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May 15, 2019
I am amazed to see so many good reviews. She honestly could have written an article instead of this drawn out piece of drivel. The book was 95% fluff and repetitive to the point of redundancy. Thank goodness I borrowed this from the library because if I paid for it, I would be fuming.

I am just floored that so many Christian women look to her as a role model. She gives no substantial parenting advice and she honestly comes across as judgmental and strange. I don’t like her weird obsession with pushing this idea that we must indoctrinate our children to be warriors on a religious agenda (particularly in the face of our changing modern cultural norms).

As for me, I will teach my children to be loving, confident, and respectful adults who leave judgement to God—to whom it rightfully belongs.



Profile Image for Stephanie.
762 reviews5 followers
March 31, 2021
This was my second time through this book. I read it with a group of ladies and I loved it in that format. We had a lot of good discussion. It was challenging and encouraging, jam packed with relatable stories, scripture and wisdom. I don’t agree with all of Mrs. St. John’s theology, but I would still recommend this book , just be sure to employ the “chew and spit “ method.
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330 reviews
May 5, 2025
It was taking me too long to read the print book. Thankful I switched to the audiobook. I want to buy many copies of this to hand out to other mothers.
Profile Image for Erin Odom.
Author 9 books182 followers
September 20, 2017
How can we disciple our children without a strong relationship with the Lord ourselves? Speaker, author, blogger, homeschool advocate, and, most importantly, seasoned wife and mama (and grandmama!) Heidi St. John shows us how to become strong moms together--out of the overflow of our relationship with Christ. This is my 10th year of motherhood. I wish I had had this book from the get-go. Every mom and mom to be needs to read this book. I can't wait to check out the accompanying Bible study and journal!
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944 reviews
September 11, 2024
Heidi St. John certainly has the gift of encouragement. Her conversational, casual style of writing is easy to read and feels like you're having a comfortable chat with a good friend.

If you've listened to her podcast for any length of time, this book might not feel like there's much new material. However, it is a good reminder and refresher for the times when moms feel discouraged or defeated. While her theology isn't always Biblically accurate, I do appreciate that she emphasizes the need to study the scriptures for yourself rather than relying on someone or something else.
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257 reviews2 followers
July 15, 2018
I didn't think I'd have a lot in common with this author or would be able to relate with this book much. She speaks from a perspective of a mom of 7 kids and she homeschools. I have two boys who go to (gasp) public school, and I (gasp, gasp) teach at a public school. However, this was a book I needed to read to renew my walk with my savior. I learned so much and was encouraged as a mom and child of God.
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307 reviews3 followers
May 17, 2020
I put off reading this book because I figured it was just like all of the other parenting books I’d already read. Ends up, I wasn’t actually the one putting it off. God had His timing in handing me this book.

Every time I opened it, it was the very message I needed right then. The very passages I needed in the moment. Somehow these words that Heidi penned years ago were ridiculously applicable even during an utterly unpredictable pandemic.

I’ve been a fan of Heidi’s for a long time. She speaks truth unwaveringly. She isn’t afraid to ask questions or even to admit when she’s wrong. I have so much respect for her. This book only heightened that.

If you only pick up one book about momming well, let it be this one.
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254 reviews10 followers
September 8, 2017
Ever since becoming a Mom myself I have really sought out books that are encouraging and strengthening to help me in this wonderful and yet oftentimes overwhelming phase in my life. When I can find a book that particularly speaks to me than I am ecstatic and I am thrilled to say this book does just that. Written by a women who has 7 kids, some of whom are raised and have children of their own this book is exactly what I think of with a Titus 2 women encouraging the younger woman. because let's face it, motherhood is tough.
Filled with poignant points and real life stories this book is like a good chat with a wise women that is filled with warmth and insight.
I loved how this book addressed the unique pressures that are faced by Mom's in this day and age that have never been dealt with before and offers some encouraging words that left me very encouraged and not so scared.
I received a copy of this book in exchange for my honest opinion.
Profile Image for Jenny Carr.
237 reviews4 followers
September 30, 2017
Excellent! I found this extremely easy to read, addictive, and so down to earth. Best of all Heidi isn't trying to sell some magic formula, but rather showing us that we need to be grounded in the word. 'We can't give what we don't have.'
An honest, and encouraging read for every mum, and mum to be.( I was fortunate to preview this on the launch team. )
Profile Image for Gwyendalin.
65 reviews3 followers
January 31, 2023
What a wonderful book. I learned a lot and was reminded of many things I already knew. I would suggest this book for anyone, not just mom who want to go a stronger relationship with the Lord and your family.
Profile Image for Brittney Derderian.
125 reviews1 follower
February 11, 2024
This is a perfect faith based book for any mother who feels lost, overwhelmed, unworthy or imperfect. I learned so much from this short 250 page book that I will take forward on my motherhood journey to better serve the lord and my family.
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135 reviews2 followers
December 31, 2017
I love this book so much. So incredibly encouraging. I started listening to it and ordered a hard copy because I want to reread it and take notes. ❤️❤️❤️
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50 reviews3 followers
May 20, 2021
A relatable, funny and encouraging book I will be re-reading many times I’m sure!
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389 reviews4 followers
June 11, 2018
I’m at a point where I am repeating all the things over and over again-my oldest is 14 and my youngest is 3. It is challenging having that span of ages with all kinds of loud in between. Heidi St. John really gets that!shea honest about her failures and what she’s done to let God lift her up. Her advice is nothing really earth shattering but her presentation made me laugh, is steeped in Gods word, and encouraging. Highly recommend.
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14 reviews1 follower
December 24, 2018
Loved this! Real, honest and packed full of truth! Must read for mommas!
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