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How to Change a Life
Eloise is content with her solitary life as a successful private chef. She has her clients, her corgi, and a recipe for the world's most perfect chocolate cream pie. What more could she need? But when her favorite teacher dies and her long-lost trio of high school friends reunites at the wake, Eloise is confronted by how lonely she really is.In honor of Mrs. O'Connor, Eloise, Lynne, and Teresa revamp their senior class assignment and dare each other to create a bucket list of things to accomplish by the time they each turn forty in May. Together they choose new goals for each other. Control freak Lynne has to get a dog, Teresa has to spice up her marriage with pole dancing classes, and Eloise has to enter the dreaded world of dating. Enter Shawn, a hunky ex-athlete and the first man that Eloise could see herself falling for. Suddenly forty doesn't seem so lonely--until a chance encounter reveals that Shawn's ex is actually Lynne! Will the bucket-listers make it to forty as friends? Or do some friendships come with an expiration date?
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March 22, 2018
Why This Book
I won this book via a Goodreads Giveaway a few months ago. In my quest to finish reading all ARCs or Giveaways by 12/31, so 2018 starts off with less stress and a reduced TBR, I read this book over the Christmas holidays. I am quite glad I did, as it was a feel-good type of novel that really helped me prepare my resolutions for 2018.
Plot, Characters & Setting
Eloise, 39, is a personal chef who takes care of a large, loving family in Chicago. She once had a promising sports career, but had to give it up due to an injury. Since then, she's drifted, or at least thinks she's drifted, due to losing connections with two best friends in high school and a married man she'd been having an affair with recently (unknowing he was married). When a former teacher dies, the 3 friends are reunited and make a pact to change their lives. They've given each other a list of 5 things to accomplish before their 40th birthday -- all items to push their boundaries and emotions. The book is a journey to find oneself again after a number of years where life took you on a course you perhaps hadn't realized was never truly planned.
Approach & Style
The book is written in 1st person perspective with a focus on Eloise, the primary character. I read a physical copy which was ~380 pages, inclusive of a few recipes. 24 chapters average about 15 pages each, containing a beautiful voice of a woman I wish I could meet. She's that wonderful.
Key Opinion
With a title like this one, I had very high hopes. It absolutely delivered. Consider it a character-driven book, while a bit too fluffy / light in some areas, that will engage you on many levels. Eloise is a brilliant main character; she spoke to me as I begin thinking about my own life and what I am trying to accomplish. Like the main character, I turned 40 this year and had a lot of thoughts about what I wanted to do with my life. The characters drip off the page with love, sadness and hopes. There are so many clever moments, precious times in our lives we don't always recognize. Eloise's connection with each member of her family, the family she cooks for, and all the others she meets is heartwarming.
The plot, quite minimal, evolves at a slow pace as you read about Eloise's every day for a period of a few months. It's rare I enjoy reading about the very realistic happenings in someone's life, but Ballis made it refreshing and immersive. I looked forward to hearing what happened on each of her 20 dates. I wanted to know what new social activities she would consider trying. I needed to be side by side with her as she wrote her cookbook. The writing is clear and direct -- shows creativity and brings imagery to every page. I could feel the emotions within each relationship. I recommend this book for anyone looking to spend time with a beautiful character and just witness a normal life.
Final Thoughts
I'd give this book a 4+ rating, as it was quite endearing, charming and inviting. I will definitely read more from this author, given the focus on food and relationships. It's the type of book where you can let yourself go, immersing your thoughts and dreams in that of a character you will adore.
About Me
For those new to me or my reviews... here's the scoop: I’m Jay, an author who lives in NYC. My debut novel, Watching Glass Shatter, can be purchased on Amazon. I write A LOT. I read A LOT. And now I blog A LOT. First the book review goes on Goodreads, and then I send it on over to my WordPress blog at https://thisismytruthnow.com, where you'll find the revealing and introspective 365 Daily Challenge – words and humor. You can also find all my social media profiles to get the details on the who/what/when/where and my pictures. Leave a comment and let me know what you think. Thanks for stopping by. Note: All written content is my original creation and copyrighted to me, but the graphics and images were linked from other sites and belong to them. Many thanks to their original creators.
I won this book via a Goodreads Giveaway a few months ago. In my quest to finish reading all ARCs or Giveaways by 12/31, so 2018 starts off with less stress and a reduced TBR, I read this book over the Christmas holidays. I am quite glad I did, as it was a feel-good type of novel that really helped me prepare my resolutions for 2018.
Plot, Characters & Setting
Eloise, 39, is a personal chef who takes care of a large, loving family in Chicago. She once had a promising sports career, but had to give it up due to an injury. Since then, she's drifted, or at least thinks she's drifted, due to losing connections with two best friends in high school and a married man she'd been having an affair with recently (unknowing he was married). When a former teacher dies, the 3 friends are reunited and make a pact to change their lives. They've given each other a list of 5 things to accomplish before their 40th birthday -- all items to push their boundaries and emotions. The book is a journey to find oneself again after a number of years where life took you on a course you perhaps hadn't realized was never truly planned.
Approach & Style
The book is written in 1st person perspective with a focus on Eloise, the primary character. I read a physical copy which was ~380 pages, inclusive of a few recipes. 24 chapters average about 15 pages each, containing a beautiful voice of a woman I wish I could meet. She's that wonderful.
Key Opinion
With a title like this one, I had very high hopes. It absolutely delivered. Consider it a character-driven book, while a bit too fluffy / light in some areas, that will engage you on many levels. Eloise is a brilliant main character; she spoke to me as I begin thinking about my own life and what I am trying to accomplish. Like the main character, I turned 40 this year and had a lot of thoughts about what I wanted to do with my life. The characters drip off the page with love, sadness and hopes. There are so many clever moments, precious times in our lives we don't always recognize. Eloise's connection with each member of her family, the family she cooks for, and all the others she meets is heartwarming.
The plot, quite minimal, evolves at a slow pace as you read about Eloise's every day for a period of a few months. It's rare I enjoy reading about the very realistic happenings in someone's life, but Ballis made it refreshing and immersive. I looked forward to hearing what happened on each of her 20 dates. I wanted to know what new social activities she would consider trying. I needed to be side by side with her as she wrote her cookbook. The writing is clear and direct -- shows creativity and brings imagery to every page. I could feel the emotions within each relationship. I recommend this book for anyone looking to spend time with a beautiful character and just witness a normal life.
Final Thoughts
I'd give this book a 4+ rating, as it was quite endearing, charming and inviting. I will definitely read more from this author, given the focus on food and relationships. It's the type of book where you can let yourself go, immersing your thoughts and dreams in that of a character you will adore.
About Me
For those new to me or my reviews... here's the scoop: I’m Jay, an author who lives in NYC. My debut novel, Watching Glass Shatter, can be purchased on Amazon. I write A LOT. I read A LOT. And now I blog A LOT. First the book review goes on Goodreads, and then I send it on over to my WordPress blog at https://thisismytruthnow.com, where you'll find the revealing and introspective 365 Daily Challenge – words and humor. You can also find all my social media profiles to get the details on the who/what/when/where and my pictures. Leave a comment and let me know what you think. Thanks for stopping by. Note: All written content is my original creation and copyrighted to me, but the graphics and images were linked from other sites and belong to them. Many thanks to their original creators.
December 1, 2017
***3 STARS***
I wish I could say something positive or negative about the book but I really have nothing, which is so unlike me.
For starters, I don’t know if this was a romance book, cookbook, or a story about friends. I felt confused from the beginning until the end wondering what type of book I was reading. Don’t get me wrong, it could have made a decent book for either of those types of books.
Eloise is a 39 y/o personal chef for a family of 6 and an older friend of hers. She is still trying to find herself in the world. When she finds her way back into the fold with her 2 high school best friends, they make a pact to complete a bucket list of things they wanted to do as teenagers but have yet to accomplish.
Within the first 5% of the book I felt as though it was dragging out with a lot of useless descriptions of unimportant information that brought nothing to the story. To be honest, it made me want to put the book down. I hoped the story would get better as the book went along but I was disappointed because the useless information kept going and going. It was just very. . .wordy – Is wordy a word? 🙂
I believe with additional editing, the book would have been loads better.
I think the overly detailed descriptions of everything prevented me from connecting to any of the characters. I never found myself invested in a happily ever after. There was just so much information that didn’t add to the story, that it made me tune out.
It was slightly predictable for me, but it may not be for everyone else. I read loads and loads so it’s not difficult to figure out stories that don’t have an angst aspect to it.
I would put the book in a category women in the late 30’s and early 40’s and not anyone looking for a new adult story. I’m in my 30’s so I could relate to it but those in their 20’s might not.
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At the end of the book there is a Reader Guide of questions that I’m guessing is there for bookclubs or something. I’ve never seen that before but I thought it was a cute idea.
As a beautiful, chocolate, African American woman I wanted to answer one of the questions.
Discuss how the book handles race. Why do you think the author chose to feature an interracial couple? How did it affect your reading of the novel?
The fact that the question is even asked is a prime example of what is wrong with America. It shows that some people feel so uncomfortable about interracial relationships that they feel the need to question it’s existence at all.
I’ll be honest with you guys like I alway am. The last part of the question irritated me.
How did it affect my reading? It didn’t affect anything and the question itself is offensive.
It’s a fucking book with two people in a relationship who happen to not share the same skin tone. The fact that the question is even asked is silly. It’s not like this book is ground breaking and doing something that’s never been done. I’m black and my husband is a straight off the boat, white Scottish man who moved to America for me – because I’m fucking awesome, not because I’m black. We are not something new and foreign to people. We just are.
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I wish I could say something positive or negative about the book but I really have nothing, which is so unlike me.
For starters, I don’t know if this was a romance book, cookbook, or a story about friends. I felt confused from the beginning until the end wondering what type of book I was reading. Don’t get me wrong, it could have made a decent book for either of those types of books.
Eloise is a 39 y/o personal chef for a family of 6 and an older friend of hers. She is still trying to find herself in the world. When she finds her way back into the fold with her 2 high school best friends, they make a pact to complete a bucket list of things they wanted to do as teenagers but have yet to accomplish.
Within the first 5% of the book I felt as though it was dragging out with a lot of useless descriptions of unimportant information that brought nothing to the story. To be honest, it made me want to put the book down. I hoped the story would get better as the book went along but I was disappointed because the useless information kept going and going. It was just very. . .wordy – Is wordy a word? 🙂
I believe with additional editing, the book would have been loads better.
I think the overly detailed descriptions of everything prevented me from connecting to any of the characters. I never found myself invested in a happily ever after. There was just so much information that didn’t add to the story, that it made me tune out.
It was slightly predictable for me, but it may not be for everyone else. I read loads and loads so it’s not difficult to figure out stories that don’t have an angst aspect to it.
I would put the book in a category women in the late 30’s and early 40’s and not anyone looking for a new adult story. I’m in my 30’s so I could relate to it but those in their 20’s might not.
*************************************************************
At the end of the book there is a Reader Guide of questions that I’m guessing is there for bookclubs or something. I’ve never seen that before but I thought it was a cute idea.
As a beautiful, chocolate, African American woman I wanted to answer one of the questions.
Discuss how the book handles race. Why do you think the author chose to feature an interracial couple? How did it affect your reading of the novel?
The fact that the question is even asked is a prime example of what is wrong with America. It shows that some people feel so uncomfortable about interracial relationships that they feel the need to question it’s existence at all.
I’ll be honest with you guys like I alway am. The last part of the question irritated me.
How did it affect my reading? It didn’t affect anything and the question itself is offensive.
It’s a fucking book with two people in a relationship who happen to not share the same skin tone. The fact that the question is even asked is silly. It’s not like this book is ground breaking and doing something that’s never been done. I’m black and my husband is a straight off the boat, white Scottish man who moved to America for me – because I’m fucking awesome, not because I’m black. We are not something new and foreign to people. We just are.
Follow all things messy. . .
Blog www.prettymessreading.com
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/prettymessr...
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/prettymessre...
Twitter https://twitter.com/prettymessread
November 22, 2017
How to Change a Life is a standalone women's fiction/foodie fiction novel written by Stacey Ballis. Overall, I found the storyline likable as a group of reunited friends become each others' motivation to step outside their comfort zones and remember who they wanted to be so to speak. There are sweet family moments, romantic relationship building, and also plenty of [predictable] drama. This novel was timely for me with the holiday flare thrown in by means of Thanksgiving dinner prep - my stomach was rumbling. Scrumptious edible descriptions but no actual recipes unfortunately...at least in the public library's audiobook edition. I did not look at the ebook/paperback so let's hope there are some there.
My favorite quote:
"You have to have leftovers from Thanksgiving otherwise it's un-American."
My favorite quote:
"You have to have leftovers from Thanksgiving otherwise it's un-American."
September 27, 2017
So I swore through this whole damn book. Seriously.
I have really enjoyed Stacey Ballis's past works. She can describe food and how to cook certain dishes in such a way that you will have to go and get something to snack on while reading. Also hopefully you have some wine to sip as you go. But I really wanted to take her by the hands and ask her some questions about how she portrayed some of the key African American characters in this book. I don't think it was intentional, but I was over it. And I think the main plot such as it was, was not a bit realistic at all. And some of the same dialogue used by the male hero in this one, was used by the same character in her book "Off the Menu." I even went and checked a few things back and forth between that book and this one and said oh well I guess it's nice she's reusing RJ's commentary.
The main character is Eloise. She is a private chef to a very wealthy family and has another long time client as well. She has not dated in years since her last break-up broke her heart. When she finds out her favorite teacher has passed away, Eloise reconnects with her two high school friends, Teresa and Lynne. The three friends have grown out of touch, though Teresa and Lynne have kept in sporadic contact. When Eloise finds a list she made about what she wanted to accomplish by the age of 40, her three other friends agree that they want to knock some things off their list before their birthdays in May. This leads Eloise to finding and dating a guy who is too perfect by far (and yeah, he is) and leads to some conflict with Lynne.
I will say that there was too much going on in this book. We have Eloise doing her bet with the friends, finding and dating a guy, teaching one of the kids that she cooks for privately how to train for a celebrity cooking show, reading about her attempts to stay active, draw, write, etc., I just didn't care after a while. But really, what got me is that this book started to read a bit too self help for me to enjoy.
Eloise really sticks her nose in the air about what Lynne is doing and I hated how Ballis portrayed her in this book. There was no nuance at all to be had. Eloise is right, Lynne is wrong. There is some bullshit let's say everything we hate about each other crap that Teresa pulls and I got so mad. You don't do that type of shit to people and than somehow everyone loves each other again. I wish that the book had been more honest that the people you are friends with in high school are not the friends you would choose as an adult.
I also didn't even get why people kept telling Eloise to keep Lynne in her life. Lynne was terrible (based on the little we see of her) and there is no point in keeping someone you haven't spoken to in 20 years in your life. The way that Ballis tries to have her cake and eat it too (hey your long time friends are to be put up with even when they are acting like assholes, but also want more things than money and status) drove me up the wall.
And here is where I want to ask Ballis some questions. Did she think it was stereotypical how she portrayed Lynne? Lynne is shown as some light skinned black woman who was all about money/status and didn't really give a crap about love. That Lynne sounded like a woman who wanted to forget her past and deny her black self and Eloise and the author via her give her shit for that.
I don't know enough about Lynne for why she is the way she is, but I hated how one of the few black characters we get in this book is shown in a terrible light when I actually sympathized with her a lot. For many black woman if we are not married, we prove ourselves over and beyond at work. Lynne seems to kick ass at her job, but Ballis shows her as too obsessed with doing well at her job. She gets a bit cartoony after a while and I just got over it. Black women are always being portrayed as either highly emotional or cold. Articulate (read white) or way too black. I could go on and on about things that I was like, oh lord about and just struggled to move on from.
The other African American character, a love interest of Eloise is named Shawn and I rolled my damn eyes at the guy. First of all, I like that Ballis didn't have him speaking "ghetto" but he also sure didn't have what I would call an authentic voice to me. I say this because I said above, some of the phrases and things he does sounds like a previous character in her works. And Ballis breezes past the interracial relationship aspect real quick. Just asks one white character how did they deal with this when they were dating/married and it was all just be honest with each other.
Man. There's honesty and reality. And interracial relationships are hard. There are things you won't get and vice versa. All you need is love is great in concept, and hard in reality. I know a ton of interracial couples and they have to deal with the everyday mess they get from total strangers and family members.
There is also another aspect that would be spoiling things about Shawn that I was 100 percent done with when revealed in the book. Sorry.
The writing was typical Ballis and I have to say that all of the recipes sounded awesome. But if not for the food descriptions I would have DNFed this book.
I think the book should have been edited further down past what we got since most of the book started to just be repetitive after a while with Eloise's conflicts with Lynne.
The ending didn't move me at all and I can say that I will not be re-reading this in the future.
I have really enjoyed Stacey Ballis's past works. She can describe food and how to cook certain dishes in such a way that you will have to go and get something to snack on while reading. Also hopefully you have some wine to sip as you go. But I really wanted to take her by the hands and ask her some questions about how she portrayed some of the key African American characters in this book. I don't think it was intentional, but I was over it. And I think the main plot such as it was, was not a bit realistic at all. And some of the same dialogue used by the male hero in this one, was used by the same character in her book "Off the Menu." I even went and checked a few things back and forth between that book and this one and said oh well I guess it's nice she's reusing RJ's commentary.
The main character is Eloise. She is a private chef to a very wealthy family and has another long time client as well. She has not dated in years since her last break-up broke her heart. When she finds out her favorite teacher has passed away, Eloise reconnects with her two high school friends, Teresa and Lynne. The three friends have grown out of touch, though Teresa and Lynne have kept in sporadic contact. When Eloise finds a list she made about what she wanted to accomplish by the age of 40, her three other friends agree that they want to knock some things off their list before their birthdays in May. This leads Eloise to finding and dating a guy who is too perfect by far (and yeah, he is) and leads to some conflict with Lynne.
I will say that there was too much going on in this book. We have Eloise doing her bet with the friends, finding and dating a guy, teaching one of the kids that she cooks for privately how to train for a celebrity cooking show, reading about her attempts to stay active, draw, write, etc., I just didn't care after a while. But really, what got me is that this book started to read a bit too self help for me to enjoy.
Eloise really sticks her nose in the air about what Lynne is doing and I hated how Ballis portrayed her in this book. There was no nuance at all to be had. Eloise is right, Lynne is wrong. There is some bullshit let's say everything we hate about each other crap that Teresa pulls and I got so mad. You don't do that type of shit to people and than somehow everyone loves each other again. I wish that the book had been more honest that the people you are friends with in high school are not the friends you would choose as an adult.
I also didn't even get why people kept telling Eloise to keep Lynne in her life. Lynne was terrible (based on the little we see of her) and there is no point in keeping someone you haven't spoken to in 20 years in your life. The way that Ballis tries to have her cake and eat it too (hey your long time friends are to be put up with even when they are acting like assholes, but also want more things than money and status) drove me up the wall.
And here is where I want to ask Ballis some questions. Did she think it was stereotypical how she portrayed Lynne? Lynne is shown as some light skinned black woman who was all about money/status and didn't really give a crap about love. That Lynne sounded like a woman who wanted to forget her past and deny her black self and Eloise and the author via her give her shit for that.
I don't know enough about Lynne for why she is the way she is, but I hated how one of the few black characters we get in this book is shown in a terrible light when I actually sympathized with her a lot. For many black woman if we are not married, we prove ourselves over and beyond at work. Lynne seems to kick ass at her job, but Ballis shows her as too obsessed with doing well at her job. She gets a bit cartoony after a while and I just got over it. Black women are always being portrayed as either highly emotional or cold. Articulate (read white) or way too black. I could go on and on about things that I was like, oh lord about and just struggled to move on from.
The other African American character, a love interest of Eloise is named Shawn and I rolled my damn eyes at the guy. First of all, I like that Ballis didn't have him speaking "ghetto" but he also sure didn't have what I would call an authentic voice to me. I say this because I said above, some of the phrases and things he does sounds like a previous character in her works. And Ballis breezes past the interracial relationship aspect real quick. Just asks one white character how did they deal with this when they were dating/married and it was all just be honest with each other.
Man. There's honesty and reality. And interracial relationships are hard. There are things you won't get and vice versa. All you need is love is great in concept, and hard in reality. I know a ton of interracial couples and they have to deal with the everyday mess they get from total strangers and family members.
There is also another aspect that would be spoiling things about Shawn that I was 100 percent done with when revealed in the book. Sorry.
The writing was typical Ballis and I have to say that all of the recipes sounded awesome. But if not for the food descriptions I would have DNFed this book.
I think the book should have been edited further down past what we got since most of the book started to just be repetitive after a while with Eloise's conflicts with Lynne.
The ending didn't move me at all and I can say that I will not be re-reading this in the future.
August 17, 2017
What a sweet read!
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How to Change a Life is a great look at a typical woman of today. Hard-working but gun shy of guys because of a bad experience. Stuck in a rut but content. A few great friends, including two high school friends that we get to connect with after many years apart, and some family friends round up the cast.
I love the way the story is laid out and how it’s written. You get a firsthand look at Eloise and her life as a private chef. Don’t be hungry when you’re reading this book because there is plenty of talk about food and recipes are included.
The author finally finds Eloise a wonderful, sweet man who you just want to meet and take home to Mama yourself. Plus we get a great twist that you will not expect!
With plenty of fun times, clean romance, and just a general heartwarming story, How to Change a Life is a great novel for women of any age.
Stacy Ballis knows how to craft a wonderful story that is entertaining, a little sexy, and makes you just feel good.
* copy received or review consideration
Full review http://amidlifewife.com/how-to-change...
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How to Change a Life is a great look at a typical woman of today. Hard-working but gun shy of guys because of a bad experience. Stuck in a rut but content. A few great friends, including two high school friends that we get to connect with after many years apart, and some family friends round up the cast.
I love the way the story is laid out and how it’s written. You get a firsthand look at Eloise and her life as a private chef. Don’t be hungry when you’re reading this book because there is plenty of talk about food and recipes are included.
The author finally finds Eloise a wonderful, sweet man who you just want to meet and take home to Mama yourself. Plus we get a great twist that you will not expect!
With plenty of fun times, clean romance, and just a general heartwarming story, How to Change a Life is a great novel for women of any age.
Stacy Ballis knows how to craft a wonderful story that is entertaining, a little sexy, and makes you just feel good.
* copy received or review consideration
Full review http://amidlifewife.com/how-to-change...
January 11, 2018
Reading a Stacey Ballis book is always like coming home: warm, comfortable, reliable. How to Change a Life was exactly what I was hoping for when I picked up Ballis' latest book. Friendship, love & the one factor that especially draws me to her books: FOOD! I love how Ballis intertwines food and cooking to her novels. This was quite enjoyable and I'll be waiting for her next book!
June 23, 2017
This book dragged a bit for me. I did appreciate Eloise's growth but wished she didn't have to narrate it quite so explicitly. The dialogue was wordy and, while I understand that Eloise is a chef, the food descriptions were a little excessive too. All in all, I think this was a decent book that would improve with more editing.
*Thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for providing an e-galley in exchange for an honest review.
*Thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for providing an e-galley in exchange for an honest review.
August 9, 2017
I thought this was a fun, light read and I enjoyed the friendship aspect of this novel. They were close friends in high school and soon they grew apart. Now they are back in their hometown for the funeral of the high school teacher who brought them together. Each of the three young ladies feels content with their life but after conversing with one another, they each decide that there are a few things they would like to change. The friends also have suggestions for each other, on how they can improve their lives. With forty just around the corner, the three friends make a pact to try to change or improve their lives using their own ideas and their friend’s suggestions. I liked how these ladies pushed each other and encouraged each other as they tried to make these changes in their lives. They tried to be supportive to each other yet there were some ill feelings that were being harbored inside about each other which eventually had to come out. They had always been honest with one another and they wanted to keep it that way. Not one of them is perfect, they all had issues they wanted to change to improve their life yet for them to change who they had been for almost forty years, it takes initiative and hard work. I liked listening to them and reading how they went about this pact although the novel soon grew to be centered around Eli. Some friendships are priceless and I like how these three tried to regain the friendship they had back in high school as they wanted that closeness again. It was an enjoyable read and I recommend it. 4.5 stars
I received a copy of this novel from NetGalley and Berkley Publishing Group in exchange for an honest review.
I received a copy of this novel from NetGalley and Berkley Publishing Group in exchange for an honest review.
November 30, 2017
I generally don't read a book of this genre as I usually find the characters too flimsy and too in their early 20s. But this blurb said that the women were nearly in their 40s, and that piqued my interest. I thought this would be a mature book involving friendships. Though the cover did indicate chick-lit.
I did like the beginning, author Stacey Ballis starts well with the description of personal chef, Eloise and her life, that was interesting. Then the friends got together, they made a list of things that would motivate each other to get out of their comfort zone, that too kept my interest going. But soon the book became full of thoughts and descriptions and I was lost and my interest sank. The book had many words but not as many actions to justify it. I got a bit bored and I skipped some pages.
The book does have it good parts, there was friendship, there was a sweet love interest for Eloise and the food recipes sounded great.
On the whole a good read, but I wanted more, more genuine emotions, more love, more laughter.
I did like the beginning, author Stacey Ballis starts well with the description of personal chef, Eloise and her life, that was interesting. Then the friends got together, they made a list of things that would motivate each other to get out of their comfort zone, that too kept my interest going. But soon the book became full of thoughts and descriptions and I was lost and my interest sank. The book had many words but not as many actions to justify it. I got a bit bored and I skipped some pages.
The book does have it good parts, there was friendship, there was a sweet love interest for Eloise and the food recipes sounded great.
On the whole a good read, but I wanted more, more genuine emotions, more love, more laughter.
June 18, 2017
I received this novel from Netgalley.
The best part of this novel, for me, was the character development of Eloise. At the beginning, she felt content, but was often reminded that "content" and "happy" are not the same thing. She was in a rut, afraid to open herself up to changes, and still heartbroken from a previous relationship gone sour. The death of a beloved teacher reunites Eloise with her two best friends from high school, and the three of them make a list of things they all need to accomplish by their 40th birthday less than a year away. The first person to complete her list "wins" and the "losers" have to write a check to a charity in their late teacher's name. The things on Eloise's list slowly bring her out of her shell and open her up to happiness as opposed to contentment.
Considering Eloise is a professional chef and I am a foodie but a horrible cook, I was surprised at much I related to her. Her fear of getting hurt, her preference for close friends over acquaintances, and her love of alone time. I loved watching things unfold for her and appreciated her internal comments which suggested she was a "real" person with flaws. I predicted most of the twists, but I still liked the direction the author took. The hero was seriously swoon-worthy in both looks and behavior. The way things went down with the three friends was interesting to watch play out. Finally, for those who love foodie fiction, you will adore this novel. I, admittedly, skimmed some of the food descriptions to get to the action faster.
I'd recommend this novel to fans of women's fiction, chick lit, and foodie fiction.
The best part of this novel, for me, was the character development of Eloise. At the beginning, she felt content, but was often reminded that "content" and "happy" are not the same thing. She was in a rut, afraid to open herself up to changes, and still heartbroken from a previous relationship gone sour. The death of a beloved teacher reunites Eloise with her two best friends from high school, and the three of them make a list of things they all need to accomplish by their 40th birthday less than a year away. The first person to complete her list "wins" and the "losers" have to write a check to a charity in their late teacher's name. The things on Eloise's list slowly bring her out of her shell and open her up to happiness as opposed to contentment.
Considering Eloise is a professional chef and I am a foodie but a horrible cook, I was surprised at much I related to her. Her fear of getting hurt, her preference for close friends over acquaintances, and her love of alone time. I loved watching things unfold for her and appreciated her internal comments which suggested she was a "real" person with flaws. I predicted most of the twists, but I still liked the direction the author took. The hero was seriously swoon-worthy in both looks and behavior. The way things went down with the three friends was interesting to watch play out. Finally, for those who love foodie fiction, you will adore this novel. I, admittedly, skimmed some of the food descriptions to get to the action faster.
I'd recommend this novel to fans of women's fiction, chick lit, and foodie fiction.
August 8, 2017
Review coming soon!
July 25, 2017
Food? Check. Dogs? Check. Chicago? Check. Elements of Judaism? Check. These items are only the beginning ingredients for a typical Stacey Ballis novel. However, there is always so much more that makes me want to both savor and devour it at the same time, also hoping for leftovers in the end (meaning, a sequel). Such is the case with How to Change a Life.
I've been reading Stacey's novels for 10 years now, starting with the summer I picked up The Spinster Sisters and then had to read every other book she had available at the time. I've been a fan of hers since that time, and she has never let me down. Her books are relatable and entertaining, and of course they have my mouth watering thanks to all the food descriptions.
How to Change a Life was an easygoing novel, for the most part. Stacey had me laughing, smiling, and even getting teary-eyed at times. I could easily see myself becoming friends with Eloise and most of her friends. The challenge she takes on is inspiring to anyone who feels like they are stuck in a rut or that they haven't achieved everything they want to at this point in their lives. I love how Eloise and her friends push each other out of their comfort zones.
Not only did I enjoy the food descriptions, but I could visualize the people and settings as if they were right in front of me. The character of Ian reminded me of my older son and one part involving him got me emotional (in a good way). Simca, Eloise's Corgi, sounded adorable. And Lawrence's Halloween party theme was so much fun to picture in my head.
Overall, it was a really sweet story with lots of heartfelt moments. The only criticism I have is that things were a bit too perfect. There was one game changer, that I was able to figure out early on (but that's just me being an avid reader and the moment it actually happened was rather funny). Even with that happening, it only caused a bit of strife in one area of Eloise's life, and even then it was smoothed over. There's one thing Eloise was doing for one of her challenges that I wouldn't mind seeing carried over into another novel. Speaking of which, Stacey is good at following up with characters from previous books. So if you haven't read Wedding Girl (and you really should), you may get some spoilers about Sophie.
If you're in a reading rut, this novel will definitely lift you out of it and put you in a good mood. Add it to your TBR!
My dream movie cast:
Eloise: Elizabeth Reaser
Lynne: Kerry Washington
Teresa: Casey Wilson
Marcy: Larisa Oleynik
Shawn: Taye Diggs
Lawrence: Jonathan Pryce
I've been reading Stacey's novels for 10 years now, starting with the summer I picked up The Spinster Sisters and then had to read every other book she had available at the time. I've been a fan of hers since that time, and she has never let me down. Her books are relatable and entertaining, and of course they have my mouth watering thanks to all the food descriptions.
How to Change a Life was an easygoing novel, for the most part. Stacey had me laughing, smiling, and even getting teary-eyed at times. I could easily see myself becoming friends with Eloise and most of her friends. The challenge she takes on is inspiring to anyone who feels like they are stuck in a rut or that they haven't achieved everything they want to at this point in their lives. I love how Eloise and her friends push each other out of their comfort zones.
Not only did I enjoy the food descriptions, but I could visualize the people and settings as if they were right in front of me. The character of Ian reminded me of my older son and one part involving him got me emotional (in a good way). Simca, Eloise's Corgi, sounded adorable. And Lawrence's Halloween party theme was so much fun to picture in my head.
Overall, it was a really sweet story with lots of heartfelt moments. The only criticism I have is that things were a bit too perfect. There was one game changer, that I was able to figure out early on (but that's just me being an avid reader and the moment it actually happened was rather funny). Even with that happening, it only caused a bit of strife in one area of Eloise's life, and even then it was smoothed over. There's one thing Eloise was doing for one of her challenges that I wouldn't mind seeing carried over into another novel. Speaking of which, Stacey is good at following up with characters from previous books. So if you haven't read Wedding Girl (and you really should), you may get some spoilers about Sophie.
If you're in a reading rut, this novel will definitely lift you out of it and put you in a good mood. Add it to your TBR!
My dream movie cast:
Eloise: Elizabeth Reaser
Lynne: Kerry Washington
Teresa: Casey Wilson
Marcy: Larisa Oleynik
Shawn: Taye Diggs
Lawrence: Jonathan Pryce
August 19, 2017
What happens when you cross novelist Nancy Thayer with culinary maven Lucinda Scala Quinn? Meet Stacey Ballis, an author whose books are as delicious and decadent as they are hilarious and heartwarming. In her latest novel, How to Change a Life, three longtime friends reunite to dare one another to take leaps of faith that lead to unexpected consequences.
Eloise is a personal chef who seems to have it all: clients she adores (and who love her right back and show it with a phenomenal salary and benefits); family who always looks out for her; and Simca, a Welsh corgi she received as a gift from one of her longtime clients. It’s really not a bad life, and she’s happy. Or at least she thinks she is until she reunites with old friends and suddenly realizes how solitary her life really is.
Eloise, Lynne, and Teresa have been besties since they met in Mrs. O’Connor’s Freshman Honor’s Literature class on the first day of high school. But now they’re pushing forty and suddenly they realize that they haven’t quite accomplished everything that they wanted to in life. So they dare one another to make lists of things to do before they hit the big four-oh. Lynne, the control freak, has to get a pooch. Teresa needs to take her marriage off simmer and crank up the heat. And Eloise needs to start dating again.
When Shawn enters the picture, Eloise is thrown for a loop. He’s a gorgeous piece of beefcake that she can see herself happily nibbling on for years to come. But just as their new romance starts to blossom, a chance encounter shows her friends’ true colors and threatens to shatter all her newfound dreams. Will the girls’ friendship last until they hit forty, or will this bump in the road decimate their relationship forever?
Although Ballis has been writing for a while now, this is the first time I’ve been introduced to her work, and I have to say I love it! From page one, I was immediately sucked into the story by her vibrant writing style, quick humor and engaging characters. The dialogue is fresh and the banter is hilarious. The cast is authentic. And if you’re a foodie like me, you’re going to find yourself taking notes on all the mouth-watering meals she writes about here too.
Readers who are as passionate about the Food Network as they are voracious bibliophiles will undoubtedly add Ballis to their list of must-read authors. This is that rare novel that makes you want to drop everything and settle in for a delightful romp through other people’s lives. In fact, it is so good, it should come with a napkin, because you’re not going to want to miss a morsel. But just a word for the wise: treat How to Change a Life like you do a trip to the grocery store, read it on a full stomach or else you will get the munchies and may consume everything in sight before the last page is turned.
As originally published at JathanandHeather.com.
Eloise is a personal chef who seems to have it all: clients she adores (and who love her right back and show it with a phenomenal salary and benefits); family who always looks out for her; and Simca, a Welsh corgi she received as a gift from one of her longtime clients. It’s really not a bad life, and she’s happy. Or at least she thinks she is until she reunites with old friends and suddenly realizes how solitary her life really is.
Eloise, Lynne, and Teresa have been besties since they met in Mrs. O’Connor’s Freshman Honor’s Literature class on the first day of high school. But now they’re pushing forty and suddenly they realize that they haven’t quite accomplished everything that they wanted to in life. So they dare one another to make lists of things to do before they hit the big four-oh. Lynne, the control freak, has to get a pooch. Teresa needs to take her marriage off simmer and crank up the heat. And Eloise needs to start dating again.
When Shawn enters the picture, Eloise is thrown for a loop. He’s a gorgeous piece of beefcake that she can see herself happily nibbling on for years to come. But just as their new romance starts to blossom, a chance encounter shows her friends’ true colors and threatens to shatter all her newfound dreams. Will the girls’ friendship last until they hit forty, or will this bump in the road decimate their relationship forever?
Although Ballis has been writing for a while now, this is the first time I’ve been introduced to her work, and I have to say I love it! From page one, I was immediately sucked into the story by her vibrant writing style, quick humor and engaging characters. The dialogue is fresh and the banter is hilarious. The cast is authentic. And if you’re a foodie like me, you’re going to find yourself taking notes on all the mouth-watering meals she writes about here too.
Readers who are as passionate about the Food Network as they are voracious bibliophiles will undoubtedly add Ballis to their list of must-read authors. This is that rare novel that makes you want to drop everything and settle in for a delightful romp through other people’s lives. In fact, it is so good, it should come with a napkin, because you’re not going to want to miss a morsel. But just a word for the wise: treat How to Change a Life like you do a trip to the grocery store, read it on a full stomach or else you will get the munchies and may consume everything in sight before the last page is turned.
As originally published at JathanandHeather.com.
August 20, 2017
Three Chicago freshmen meet on the first day of school in English class and become the best of friends thanks to their beloved teacher, Mrs. O'Conner. But, now that they are adults, life has pulled them apart a bit. Lynne lives the glamorous, high-powered life in LA. Teresa still lives in Chicago and is married with kids. Eloise is living her dream as a personal chef in Chicago after living in Paris for several years. When all of them run into each other at the funeral for Mrs. O'Conner, they resolve to stay in touch and even complete a bucket list before they all turn forty.
The book mostly focuses on Eloise and her life with her clients that she cooks for, her mom and aunt, and her chef BFF, Marcy. I found all the characters current and relatable and could see this story playing out in real life. In the beginning, Eloise feels like she has a pretty good life. She is happy to live in her house with her state-of-the-art kitchen and sweet Corgi. She doesn't need a man in her life after what happened in Paris and is content to be a personal chef. Once she reconnects with her high-school friends and the bucket list bet is created, the reader sees Eloise step out of her comfort zone and start to make some changes in her life. I loved the bet and how each woman was challenged to try something different in their life. From spicing up a marriage to networking to being creative, it even inspired me a bit to find ways to add to my own life.
One of Eloise's challenges is to go on dates and she ends up meeting someone that she really connects with. When their relationship comes up on a hurdle that seems insurmountable, Eloise must decide what is really important in her life and how to manage the relationships that could be impacted. I found this development to the story interesting and how each of the people she trusts offered a piece of advice that was helpful to Eloise.
Since Eloise is a chef, the book includes many descriptions of amazing dishes and meals. At times my mouth was watering and at other times I felt the litany of food that was served to be excessive. The author is also a foodie and you can tell she has a passion for it in her writing. Recipes are included at the end of the book for food that was a major part of the story. I definitely want to try the Cornflake Cookies.
This is a very discussable book because the characters are so relatable and there are many situations to reflect upon. I could see book clubs reading this book and making the recipes to enjoy while discussing. This book is light-hearted, even though the topics are realistically heavy at times. But, you will find yourself laughing, maybe crying, and possibly wanting to adopt a Corgi.
The book mostly focuses on Eloise and her life with her clients that she cooks for, her mom and aunt, and her chef BFF, Marcy. I found all the characters current and relatable and could see this story playing out in real life. In the beginning, Eloise feels like she has a pretty good life. She is happy to live in her house with her state-of-the-art kitchen and sweet Corgi. She doesn't need a man in her life after what happened in Paris and is content to be a personal chef. Once she reconnects with her high-school friends and the bucket list bet is created, the reader sees Eloise step out of her comfort zone and start to make some changes in her life. I loved the bet and how each woman was challenged to try something different in their life. From spicing up a marriage to networking to being creative, it even inspired me a bit to find ways to add to my own life.
One of Eloise's challenges is to go on dates and she ends up meeting someone that she really connects with. When their relationship comes up on a hurdle that seems insurmountable, Eloise must decide what is really important in her life and how to manage the relationships that could be impacted. I found this development to the story interesting and how each of the people she trusts offered a piece of advice that was helpful to Eloise.
Since Eloise is a chef, the book includes many descriptions of amazing dishes and meals. At times my mouth was watering and at other times I felt the litany of food that was served to be excessive. The author is also a foodie and you can tell she has a passion for it in her writing. Recipes are included at the end of the book for food that was a major part of the story. I definitely want to try the Cornflake Cookies.
This is a very discussable book because the characters are so relatable and there are many situations to reflect upon. I could see book clubs reading this book and making the recipes to enjoy while discussing. This book is light-hearted, even though the topics are realistically heavy at times. But, you will find yourself laughing, maybe crying, and possibly wanting to adopt a Corgi.
July 20, 2017
Before you start reading How to Change a Life by Stacey Ballis, make sure you've had a satisfying snack or meal, because the luscious food descriptions in this book will send you straight to the kitchen otherwise. Eloise lives a quiet life as a private chef, living in her hometown of Chicago where she's close enough to spend plenty of time with her widowed mother. Eloise thinks she's perfectly happy and has settled into her single life, until she reunites with her two best high school friends. As they are all approaching forty, they decide that they will spend the next few months pushing themselves to achieve personal and professional goals. They each pick challenges, and the others pick some for each other as well. Eloise's challenges include a hobby, getting out of the house and socializing, and, perhaps most daunting, getting back into dating. The challenges push Eloise but also allows her to spend time reconnecting with her friends and developing new relationships. This is a solidly lovely contemporary novel, and as previously mentioned, full of descriptions of food that are absolutely mouth-watering. There isn't much conflict in the story, and what does exist is very handily resolved, but it didn't take away from the enjoyment of a story that shows that you really can always "change a (your) life."
Advance e-galley provided by Netgalley and the publisher for an honest review.
Advance e-galley provided by Netgalley and the publisher for an honest review.
August 12, 2017
This is a charming read. Right from the beginning I connected with Eloise. She is warm and everyone seems drawn to her. However, you can't talk about Eloise without mentioning her friends, Lynne, and Teresa. They are some good friends. Each woman seemed to embrace the bucket list idea with gusto. In fact, if it had not been for the bucket list, I think that the women would have been fine but not great. The list forced them to open up more; especially Eloise. I need to step back a moment and talk about the love interest, Shawn. He was a sweet guy. He and Eloise were good together. The romance was not in the extreme heat zone but it was like a mild chili pepper zone.
While, I did enjoy this book, after about half way if maybe not a little before I did find my excitement to waver and go down some. I did continue reading on some more but it was fine. Nothing that put me over the top. Yet, I would read another book by this author.
While, I did enjoy this book, after about half way if maybe not a little before I did find my excitement to waver and go down some. I did continue reading on some more but it was fine. Nothing that put me over the top. Yet, I would read another book by this author.
August 12, 2017
2.5 stars, rounded up
How To Change A Life by Stacey Ballis is a light women's fiction read. Three friends reconnecting after many years apart, challenging each other to mark off some big life milestones by their 40th birthdays is a nice premise. Eloise, the main character/POV is a personal chef. If you are a foodie, or enjoy reading cookbooks just because? This might be the book for you. A lot of space is given to cooking and food throughout the book. I mean A LOT. I enjoyed this book, but felt like it could have easily been shortened by 100 pages (and this from a person that enjoys food and reading cookbooks for pleasure!)
The characters felt a bit flat to me and some of the interaction was very cliched but for a summer pool read? that's fine
**Thanks to Penguin Random House First to Read program for a copy in exchange for an honest review
How To Change A Life by Stacey Ballis is a light women's fiction read. Three friends reconnecting after many years apart, challenging each other to mark off some big life milestones by their 40th birthdays is a nice premise. Eloise, the main character/POV is a personal chef. If you are a foodie, or enjoy reading cookbooks just because? This might be the book for you. A lot of space is given to cooking and food throughout the book. I mean A LOT. I enjoyed this book, but felt like it could have easily been shortened by 100 pages (and this from a person that enjoys food and reading cookbooks for pleasure!)
The characters felt a bit flat to me and some of the interaction was very cliched but for a summer pool read? that's fine
**Thanks to Penguin Random House First to Read program for a copy in exchange for an honest review
August 22, 2017
This book had such potential and ended up just being meh. I guess I'm spoiled from Wedding Girl, such a cute & funny book. This book lacked the laughs and the charm. I never really cared for the characters. Too much description about food and recipes and not enough conflict or even FUN stuff. The one big conflict that made me think goodie, something is happening ended up being nothing and fizzling. I wish the one friend just got kicked to the curb. An enemy to your face is better.
I did appreciate how the interracial relationship wasn't made into a big deal and was almost an oh by the way mention. Yay for 2017! The ending wasn't the typical HEA I like so again, meh. I hope her next book embodies some charm like Wedding Girl :(
I did appreciate how the interracial relationship wasn't made into a big deal and was almost an oh by the way mention. Yay for 2017! The ending wasn't the typical HEA I like so again, meh. I hope her next book embodies some charm like Wedding Girl :(
July 1, 2017
Wonderfully written book that adult women in their 30s can relate to! Dating woes, friendship ups and downs and everything that goes along with being a part of a family. I would say it is inspirational as well as it has characters step outside of their comfort zone to better themselves, easier said than done. Would love to read more by this author.
September 18, 2021
I listened to this because it was included in my Audible subscription. And I did finish it. But there was just SO much that annoyed me and that was vaguely problematic. 4 stars for the narration, 2 stars for the actual story.
November 21, 2017
Crazy with the holidays so not a full review here BUT...
- I always feel I gain a few pounds reading Stacey Ballis' books. Her characters are usually chefs who make/talk/eat the most delicious foods and I feel the need to much right along although I'm usually pretzels dipped in sour cream and Nacho Cheese Doritos with whipped cream cheese (don't mock until you try it).
- I love the pattern of her books as there are usually strong parental figures, an amazingly cute rescue dog, and some people I want to be friends with IRL.
- Usually her main character has some major fit of self doubt over over-coming an obstacle. I wish sometimes that their conflict would be with something outside of their control (an accident, job loss, etc) rather than if they think they're good enough because these characters are terrific.
A+++ for the recipes and I was looking forward to making the chocolate cream pie that is a highlight in the book. WTF is a nonreactive saucepan? My Doritos and cream cheese brain doesn't compute.
A- for the book and I can't wait until Summer 2018 for the next one.
- I always feel I gain a few pounds reading Stacey Ballis' books. Her characters are usually chefs who make/talk/eat the most delicious foods and I feel the need to much right along although I'm usually pretzels dipped in sour cream and Nacho Cheese Doritos with whipped cream cheese (don't mock until you try it).
- I love the pattern of her books as there are usually strong parental figures, an amazingly cute rescue dog, and some people I want to be friends with IRL.
- Usually her main character has some major fit of self doubt over over-coming an obstacle. I wish sometimes that their conflict would be with something outside of their control (an accident, job loss, etc) rather than if they think they're good enough because these characters are terrific.
A+++ for the recipes and I was looking forward to making the chocolate cream pie that is a highlight in the book. WTF is a nonreactive saucepan? My Doritos and cream cheese brain doesn't compute.
A- for the book and I can't wait until Summer 2018 for the next one.
September 4, 2017
Meet Eloise, a very talented chef, whose delicious descriptions of food and meal menus will either make you raid your refrigerator, dine out in high-end restaurants, or make you want to sign up for culinary school. She has a wonderful job as a private chef for a rich family and every need she could possibly have is provided by her boss. Romance is out the window as memories serve as a barrier to finding someone who can be trusted and who values her as a person.
So if one is content, why is that little internal nudging voice telling her there’s more to life? The question roars to the fore when she gets together with two life-long friends, Lynne and Teresa. They are all in the same boat, feeling content but incomplete. So what do they do? They set up a challenge for each one of them to complete over an eight-month period. To make sure there are no shenanigans, they not only set up their own list but add items from each other. That is the premise of this ambitious, feisty crowd of women that is the essence of this novel.
What will fascinate readers about this plot is what each one learns from the process of seeking higher goals. That is the essence of change, accepting one’s strengths, weakness, and foibles that could fall into either category. There’s also a sense of intuition that needs to be recognized and honed to know what situations are life-giving and what scenarios are the road to disaster or at the least disappointment.
Eloise is definitely a different woman at the end of this journey, as are the other young women, and more of a fulfilled gal! That doesn’t mean the trip is over; in fact, appreciating the process or proceeding to obtain goals adds a vivacious quality to Eloise’s life that is so attractive, in addition to a fine romance that engages the reader as well.
How To Change A Life is an enchanting contemporary story that will keep readers flipping the pages to the very last page, wishing the account would never end! Very nice job, Stacey Ballis!
So if one is content, why is that little internal nudging voice telling her there’s more to life? The question roars to the fore when she gets together with two life-long friends, Lynne and Teresa. They are all in the same boat, feeling content but incomplete. So what do they do? They set up a challenge for each one of them to complete over an eight-month period. To make sure there are no shenanigans, they not only set up their own list but add items from each other. That is the premise of this ambitious, feisty crowd of women that is the essence of this novel.
What will fascinate readers about this plot is what each one learns from the process of seeking higher goals. That is the essence of change, accepting one’s strengths, weakness, and foibles that could fall into either category. There’s also a sense of intuition that needs to be recognized and honed to know what situations are life-giving and what scenarios are the road to disaster or at the least disappointment.
Eloise is definitely a different woman at the end of this journey, as are the other young women, and more of a fulfilled gal! That doesn’t mean the trip is over; in fact, appreciating the process or proceeding to obtain goals adds a vivacious quality to Eloise’s life that is so attractive, in addition to a fine romance that engages the reader as well.
How To Change A Life is an enchanting contemporary story that will keep readers flipping the pages to the very last page, wishing the account would never end! Very nice job, Stacey Ballis!
May 7, 2021
4.5 Stars RT BookReviews Top Pick
Another touching, meaningful and hunger-producing novel from Ballis! The author has a way of making the food and the Chicago location integral parts of the story, placing the reader right in the midst of the realistic tale. The relationship between Eloise and Shawn is well developed, and while not perfect, it isn't fraught with typical romance clichés. The friendship between Eloise, Teresa and Lynne is complex and also adds immensely to the storyline. None of the characters let each other take the easy way out of anything, and they will make readers long for challenging friendships. And a hallmark of any Ballis novel is the food — Eloise is a chef and loves all food, which makes the delectable descriptions a fantastic draw for any foodie.
Eloise is relatively happy with her life as a private chef to a busy family, as well as spending time with her Corgi and her mom. When a beloved high-school teacher dies, Eloise reconnects with her two closest friends from high school who she hasn't seen for many years. The three decide to give their lives a kick out of complacency by challenging each other to complete a list of goals within the next year, before they turn 40. These goals are designed to get them out of their comfort zones. There are many challenges to their lives — and their friendships — ahead.
Another touching, meaningful and hunger-producing novel from Ballis! The author has a way of making the food and the Chicago location integral parts of the story, placing the reader right in the midst of the realistic tale. The relationship between Eloise and Shawn is well developed, and while not perfect, it isn't fraught with typical romance clichés. The friendship between Eloise, Teresa and Lynne is complex and also adds immensely to the storyline. None of the characters let each other take the easy way out of anything, and they will make readers long for challenging friendships. And a hallmark of any Ballis novel is the food — Eloise is a chef and loves all food, which makes the delectable descriptions a fantastic draw for any foodie.
Eloise is relatively happy with her life as a private chef to a busy family, as well as spending time with her Corgi and her mom. When a beloved high-school teacher dies, Eloise reconnects with her two closest friends from high school who she hasn't seen for many years. The three decide to give their lives a kick out of complacency by challenging each other to complete a list of goals within the next year, before they turn 40. These goals are designed to get them out of their comfort zones. There are many challenges to their lives — and their friendships — ahead.
August 29, 2017
Stacey Ballis sets her novels in Chicago and makes delicious food a major part of the main character’s life – she’s usually an amazing cook. How to Change a Life is the story of Eloise. She’s looking at forty and fairly consumed by her life as a professional cook for a wonderful family and one very nice older man. She would do anything for all of them as they would for her. That’s just how she is. When she reconnects with her two best friends from high school at the funeral of their favorite teacher her life gets an unexpected tweak. The three end up in a challenge to meet a few goals before they turn forty. This has mixed results but they all receive the benefit of their efforts. I loved El and how she showed the people in her life that they were special to her through her actions. The bet she makes with her friends forces her to let down her guard that has protected her since she came home from France with a broken heart. And that opens her life up to wonderful new possibilities. I recommend this novel to anyone who loves a big-hearted protagonist, foodie fiction, and a good story. Readers Guide and recipes are included! Thanks to the publisher for sending a copy in exchange for my honest review.
September 5, 2017
So after reading several intense and more "literary" books, I was definitely ready for something a little lighter. And Stacey Ballis' latest fit the bill. You know what to expect with her: Chicago-based story, woman who is on the larger side and still loves to eat, she is some kind of foodie (this time Eloise is a private chef), and after having been dumped by a jerk, meets a great guy, but they encounter some difficulties along the road to love. The characters featured in a prior book are referenced (this time fairly tangentially) and there are recipes in the back that you're ready to stop reading and try. I pretty much always give her books 4 stars and I did this time too. I got exactly what I paid for in the time I spent reading it. My only criticism was that it was a little tepid just because the story's main conflict wasn't much of one, but as I said, I was not in need of major heavy intense drama anyway going into this book. And I'm ready to assemble some friends and make a self-improvement/change-your-life kind of bet, since it worked out so well for them....
July 13, 2017
This book is about a group of women who met each other in high school and reconnect some 20 years later... but it's mostly about one woman and her relationship with a guy... and with cooking food. There is a problem with the author telling instead of showing a few times. Most of the book is dialogue and most of what isn't dialogue is descriptions of food. I guess my only real issue with the book is that nothing in it took center stage and I couldn't really get invested in anything whether it be plot, characters, etc. There are several intermediate level recipes in the back of the book that, if cooked together, would make a meal for about 8. If you're a ~5 ingredient cook like I am, the ingredient list on a few might be a little intimidating but the recipes do look like they'd be delicious and worth trying.
August 14, 2017
I received this book from the publisher in exchange for a review. I found it to be sweet and appealingly charming. El is a personal chef who lives a simple, quiet life. She reconnects with old high school friends when she attends the funeral of a beloved teacher. While in school their teacher assigned the girls the task of imagining themselves at the age of 40. They revisit their old hopes and dreams and challenge each other to make those old wishes more of a reality.
It is the story of self-discovery, love, betrayal, and friendships. It is not a difficult read and I found the characters to be likeable. I love the language and tone of the book; there is strife and conflict but it is dealt with on a mature, kind level. There is no graphic language or scenes and I found it an extreme joy to read.
It is the story of self-discovery, love, betrayal, and friendships. It is not a difficult read and I found the characters to be likeable. I love the language and tone of the book; there is strife and conflict but it is dealt with on a mature, kind level. There is no graphic language or scenes and I found it an extreme joy to read.
July 9, 2017
I won this book from Goodreads. Overall, it is a solidly entertaining chic lit novel with cooking. I mostly enjoyed the romantic story between Shawn and Eloise. "He looked at her like she looks at chocolate cake" is a good way to describe it. I really liked Eloise and Shawn but I didn't really care about the friends story line and the competing plot lines. I think this book needed some editing. I hate to admit it but there were pages I skimmed through of unnecessary or maybe redundant narration. Overall, it is a fun romantic story with a lot culinary references and positive upbeat characters.
July 8, 2017
3.5 stars. This was a quick, light read and the concept of friends reuniting after high school was very relatable. I really liked the main character Eloise and the way her character developed over the course of the story, how she gained confidence in herself and moved on from past experiences. The descriptions of the various meals were great too! The only thing was that the some of the characters seemed stereotypical, and you could see the main "twist" a mile off. Thanks Penguin for the advance copy!
September 25, 2017
Ticked several of my boxes for Things I Like to Read About, but then fell strangely flat.
I saw the big secret coming from about a mile away, so that was not a shock.
Stacey Ballis needs to stop describing every liquid she comes across as an elixir. It is annoying.
I saw the big secret coming from about a mile away, so that was not a shock.
Stacey Ballis needs to stop describing every liquid she comes across as an elixir. It is annoying.
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