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Love & Happiness: A collection of personal reflections and quotes

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Things fall apart. And they break sometimes. Like many of you, my journey hasn't always been easy. Pain is very real. And so is loss.
Sometimes it's hard not to let the weight of what we carry--or the memory of what we've lost--take over. Many of us know the reality
of struggle, and so many people suffer in silence. It's hard. It's hard not to give up when we face the repeated disappointments
of life. Like some of you, I've known loneliness. I've known defeat. I've fallen many times chasing mirages, and broken many bones
making castles in life's fading sands. Sometimes, all it took was one solid wave to destroy what I had spent years building.

So I decided to give it a voice. All of it: the tears, the pain. And the lessons. The things I saw and learned and gained along my life
path needed a voice. I wanted to give back, in hopes of helping myself and others survive. But then it wasn't just about surviving.
I didn't just want people to survive inside their storms. I wanted people to thrive inside their storms. And so I wrote, as I walked through my own.

The words found in this book became my voice and my letter to the world. They became my deepest attempt to, not just pick myself up, but others along the way. I wrote because, just as we will fall in life, so will we rise. That's the thing about this world. It never gives us only one kind of path. There is pain. Yes. And loss. And even darkness. But there is also light. There is hope. There is
beauty.

And there is also love and happiness.

124 pages, Paperback

First published May 16, 2017

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Yasmin Mogahed

10 books2,250 followers
Yasmin Mogahed received her B.S. Degree in Psychology and her Masters in Journalism and Mass Communications from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. After completing her graduate work, she taught Islamic Studies and worked as a writing instructor for Cardinal Stritch University, and a staff columnist for the Islam section of InFocus News. Currently she’s a freelance writer and international speaker. She also hosts Serenity, her show on One Legacy Radio.

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Profile Image for Sarezh kamla.
102 reviews100 followers
December 31, 2017
* Don't think being religious means becoming harsh or hard -
When Allah's love enters a heart
it is softened NOT hardened *


Love & Happiness , a quotes for everyday struggles and challenges , Wise words with beautiful photographs which makes it a pleasant to read. As you read them you feel how those words comes out from pure heart with faced up many hard experiences that she wants you travel with her by her wisdom. Give you a wider picture of that life - she wants to say life isn't what happened in past or what happen to you right now life is a journey and happened in movement so don't stop that path lead you to God. Right it is a quick read but you would like to re-read it all over again and again.

if I choose to write down here probably I would like to re write whole book .

#" There are many pieces that make up our lives: moments that break us. Moments that raise and shape us. Decisions we make to hold on. Or let go. People who enter our lives and leave us changed forever. The ones we love, the ones that hurt us or heal us or leave us. Sometimes we don't understand these pieces- or even despair over them. It's only when time goes by and we look back , that we suddenly can see our whole life like a perfectly designed puzzle. Don't be afraid of the puzzle piece you are in now. It will fit perfectly... Just like the rest. How could it not? The designer is perfect "

# " Love without dependency. love is about giving - Dependency is about taking "

#" purify your heart - then follow it "

# “There are some people who could hear you speak a thousand words, and still not understand you. And there are others who will understand — without you even speaking a word.”

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136 reviews20 followers
November 28, 2020
"I think we all carry within us many different versions of ourselves.
Our true, greatest and most honest version of ourselves can either be developed and nourished or it can remain dead from neglect.
Most people opt for the easiest version, rather than the best. But in the end, which version lives, thrives and which version dies depends on the choices we make and the people in our lives."
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100 reviews53 followers
October 12, 2017
Full of wisdom... Not just any wisdom but the sort if you posses you will need nothing else to live right. Absolutely not a one time read and absolutely not one which you could speed read because it is deep and one whom hasn't gone through similar life experiences would hardly understand. I will call it "The Book of Truth"...
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39 reviews1 follower
January 16, 2019
kata-kata yang disusun sedemikian rupa oleh Yasmin Mohahed memberi suara pada hidup & menitipkan surat kepada dunia
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"Hidup ini tak lebih dari sebuah kisah cinta. Antara diri ini dan Sang Khaliq. Tak lebih.

Setiap orang, setiap pengalaman, setiap karunia, setiap kehilangan, dan setiap rasa sakit dikirimkan dalam hidup ini hanya untuk 1 alasan. 1 saja. Membawa diri ini kembali kepada Allah SWT."
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"Satu-satunya jalan menuju Allah adalah dengan kepasrahan. Ilmu tanpa kepasrahan adalah sebuah kesombongan dan senjata bagi ego. Spiritualitas tanpa kepasrahan adalah penyembahan bagi ego dan candu kealiman."
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"Allah adalah Al-Wadūd (Maha Mencintai hamba-hamba-Nya). Oleh karena itu, cinta berasal dari Allah -- bukan manusia."
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"Bagi yang ingin mengubah hidup, mulailah dengan fokus menyempurnakan shalatmu. Kalau kau mengembalikan shalat sebagai prioritas utamamu -- di atas sekolah, kerja, bersenang-senang, bergaul, belanja, menonton, dan sebagainya-- saat itulah kau bisa mengubah hidupmu.

Ironi dari kebenaran ini adalah banyak orang berpikir bahwa mereka harus mengubah hidup dahulu sebelum berdoa. Pemikiran ini adalah tipuan licik setan, yang tahu bahwa shalatlah yang akan memberi dorongan dan bimbingan yang kita butuhkan untuk mengubah hidup. Mengubah hidup tanpa shalat ibarat pengemudi mobil yang tak mau mengisi bensin, tapi bersikeras untuk melanjutkan perjalanan. Kau tak akan bisa ke mana-mana. Seperti itulah banyak orang tetap berada di situasi yang sama selama bertahun-tahun: tak berdoa dan tak berhasil mengubah hidup.

Setan berhasil menipu mereka.

Itu sama saja dengan kita membiarkan setan mencuri sesuatu yang sangat berharga dari kita. Rumah dan mobil adalah hal-hal yang berharga bagi kita, dan kita tak akan pernah meninggalkannya tanpa perlindungan Jadi, kita menghabiskan uang untuk memasang sistem keamanan guna menjaga rumah dan mobil. Namun, kita biarkan hati kita tak terjaga. Kita biarkan hati kita dicuri oleh pencuri terburuk dari semua -- pencuri yang telah bersumpah kepada Allah bahwa mereka akan menjadi musuh kita hingga akhir dunia. Pencuri yang tak hanya sekadar mencuri benda logam dengan Mercedes Dia adalah pencuri yang mencuri jiwa abadi kita dan tiket ke surga."
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9 reviews1 follower
December 31, 2017
I didn't read yet her first book which is Reclaim Your Hearts but I'm able to get read this book since I borrow from my aunt when she show me this book with Yasmin Mogahed's signature. So, because of she did not get one for me (hehehe), I read this book before my aunt does. :D

Such a good book. this book makes me can't wait to buy Reclaim Your Heart. I'm currently in the dark and I need patience to success and be one more step better that He want me to be. Almost 90% of the quotes is my favorite. You will know the true Love & Happiness through this book. This book is the voice that all of us need. It's a must buy, must be in your shelf and must read!

Thank you for this beautiful writing. Will keep using this book for my motivation and help others who need it. :)
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76 reviews
July 13, 2017
" there are many pieces that make up our lives: moments that break us. Moments that raise and shape us. Decisions we make to hold on. Or let go. People who enter our lives and leave us changed forever. The ones we love, the ones that hurt us or heal us or leave us. Sometimes we dont understand these pieces- or even despair over them. It's only when time goes by and we look back , that we suddenly can see our whole life like a perfectly designed puzzle. Dont be afraid of the puzzle piece you are in now. It will fit perfectly... Just like the rest. How could it not? The designer is perfect " 😔
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Author 2 books6 followers
May 4, 2017
To truly enjoy this book, find a quiet spot and be by yourself.
Indulge in the book.

Reflect what's in your life and how you react towards the storms in your life.
Most likely you'll find you're focusing on the wrong thing.

When things go wrong, we tend to focus on the bad part but neglecting to focus on the blessings.

The power of gratitude is, whatever you focus on, it will grow.
So, shouldn't we focus on the blessing instead?
371 reviews
April 16, 2018
What an amazing book. God bless your soul, Yasmin. It instantly made me feel better, more at peace, and connected to God. I also shared pages of it with friends and they all loved it. Beautiful book.
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207 reviews31 followers
January 27, 2021
If you're a muslim, READ this, it helps you to reflect on yourself as a human and a muslim. This was just so beautiful.

This was such a breath-taking read. In the midst of so much chaos, the words weaved into this short book offered comfort in a stressful time. It made me reflect on my relationship with Allah. And I am so grateful to have stumbled upon this book in the journey to rediscovering myself as a Muslim.
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87 reviews21 followers
February 23, 2018
I have no words to describe how beautiful and personal this book is to me.
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September 24, 2024
no matter how big the storm inside you is, yasmin and her words of faith calm everything down.
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50 reviews15 followers
January 1, 2018
Love & Happiness was an extremely quick read – I read it in one sitting! It is a compilation of reminders and quotes for everyday struggles and challenges. Having read and reviewed Yasmin Mogahed’s first book – Reclaim Your Heart, I would say that this second one is more like a summary of important messages from her previous book and her videos published online.

"You spent your life looking for love. But one day you will realize that it was in those moments of giving – not receiving – that you found happiness."

The book is filled with colourful pages of calming photos/graphics which makes it a very pleasant read. I strongly feel is not meant to be read just once. You should pick it up whenever you feel down or when you’re being put to a test. Its simple and straightforward advice can lift your spirits and make you feel more composed to think through your challenging situations.

"We spend so much time asking God to cure us of our hardships. But we never stop to consider that our hardships are curing us."

I would highly recommend Love & Happiness for those who do not have time to spare on Reclaim Your Heart. The previous book is definitely much, much better in terms of content depth and explanation. I personally prefer it as there is a lot more to learn and it will leave you feeling whole. But having said that, I still feel Love & Happiness is a gem of its own and we can still benefit from it.

Good as a gift too – get it for your family members and friends! I’m sure they would appreciate this little piece of treasure to dive into when they need it the most. May we all find comfort in Yasmin’s words, and may we grow stronger and more focused in our life goals in every challenge we face. 🙂

"When you’re real, God surrounds you with real.

And nothing less. That’s why He will remove people from your life, sometimes. That’s why He will close doors. That’s why He will put up impenetrable walls. Don’t ever think it’s to deprive you."

It isn’t.
Rating: ★ ★ ★
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89 reviews6 followers
February 9, 2019
Lovely reflections and quotes. Rasa terubat lepas baca.

After a month keeping this book. Borrow from PPAS Jaya One Mall. 😂 I finally finished reading all the lovely words inside.

As we fall in life, so we will raise.

Beauty is the goal. Beauty of the heart. Judge every experience in life as either good or bad, not based on how much pleasure or pain it brought, but based on how beautiful or ugly it made your heart.

When the Creator is the only thing you need, there is a sweetness in loving the creation. No longer a hunger and pain.

We don't forgive to free others. We forgive to free ourselves.

Don't worry if your heart hurts today. Hearts change every day. And He is the Turner of hearts.

Peace doesn't exist outside. It can only exist inside. And the peace that is on the inside cannot be taken away by anyone. No matter what they do. No matter what they say. No matter what they threaten. If your Paradise is in your heart, no one can take it from you.

So these some of the quotes that i love.

Every quotes will have the explanation at the next page.

And I realise that I can't borrow this book, I should have one. To open and read it whenever I want or feeling down with my life.

Thanx sister yasminmogahed. For the reflection. May all of us life in love & happiness. 💕
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40 reviews1 follower
September 23, 2024
This book was OK. I didn’t love it. It doesn’t go that deep. Great little gems here and there but nothing special really.
However I can see the effort the writer put in it and thank her for this.
May Allah help us all to be the BEST version of ourselves
AMEEN

2024 I read this book again. It helped me to feel more positive once again, Thank you
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24 reviews6 followers
December 25, 2018
Amazing collection which can freshen up the mind, heart and soul of the person. Just pick 2 or 3 pages and try to understand each one of them.
You can either finish this book in a single sitting or take it along for months. If you are looking for some serious self help go with the later one.
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508 reviews43 followers
January 7, 2019
Allow her words to calm our restless hearts <3
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38 reviews37 followers
June 11, 2020
I managed to read it in one go, and it becomes very personal to me. Read it with open heart, insyaAllah you’ll feel something in your soul.

May God bless your soul, Yasmin.
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69 reviews9 followers
December 24, 2024
Ketika sedang terpuruk dan dalam kesedihan, buku2 Yasmin Mogahed selalu bisa kasih ketenangan dan motivasi dr sisi spiritual. Banyak renungan yg saya highlight dengan niat sbg pengingat akan dibaca lagi ketika dalam kondisi sedih.

2 kutipan yg hit to the heart's core sampe sesegukan 😅

pg.80
Bergembiralah. Bergembiralah bahwa Dia yg kau imani telah membelah lautan dan mendinginkan api untuk menyelamatkan hamba-Nya. Apakah menurutmu Dia tak akan bisa menyelamatkanmu, saat kau tak bisa menemukan jalan keluar?

pg.94
Allah, yaa Karim,
Aku tak punya apapun selain kemurahanMu untuk kujadikan sadaran harapan. Tak ada apapun. Karena, aku berdiri di depan pintuMu memegang kepingan hatiku ... meski begitu, Kau membukakan pintu.

Selamatkan aku dari badai ini. Aku adalah hambaMu yg paling tak berdaya. Dan, aku tersesat. Berkelana di tengah rimba berusaha mencari jalanku. Tapi, semua pohon terlihat sama dan tiap jalan setapak membawaku kembali ke titik semua.

Tak seorang pun bisa menemukan jalan keluar dari rimba ini---kecuali mereka yg Kau selamatkan. Selamatkan aku. Sesungguhnya, aku tak sanggup menyelamatkan diriku sendiri.
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10 reviews
October 8, 2018
Versi bahasa Indonesia yang saya baca dari buku ini begitu menarik saat bagian pertamanya dibuka. Dikemas secara apik, disampaikan dengan kata-kata yang sama sekali tidak menggurui. Kebanyakan hal-hal yang diutarakan Yasmin dapat memotivasi dan menjadi pengingat bagi pembacanya.

Grafis yang menjadi elemen pemanis dari setiap kutipan atau cerita pendek dalam buku ini begitu menarik hati. Namun kadang masih ada desain dari grafis pada beberapa halaman yang rasanya kurang pas.

Favorit saya dalam buku ini ada di halaman 28-29. Tidak perlu berfikir begitu dalam ketika membaca buku ini. Ambience yang dibutuhkan adalah ketenangan dan hati yang tidak risau, agar makna dari buku ini dapat tersampaikan dengan maksimal.

Sebagai penutup, saya beri sedikit kutipan dari Yasmin Mogahed:
'Hidup itu harus terus bergerak. Bertumbuh. Berubah. Hidup itu mencari dan menemukan.'
(Love and Happiness di hlm. 113)
6 reviews
February 24, 2021
One of the best things I have ever read.
Sent to me at a particularly painful time in my life, from the Maker I believe. We're reminded through Yasmin, simple things that the heart is innately aware of, but can forget in this world - this should be read as a reminder. She writes beautifully. Simply. Struck many a chord in me. Unforgettable. I don't normally reread/rewatch, but I'll make an exception here. Life changing is not an over exaggeration, and yet she is so young still ( than me!). She will be in my prayers 🙏 I hope to be able to help someone like that one day. Allah indeed speaks/helps through others.. She's truly akin to someone like Rumi in writing. But, remember the Creator, not the creation. Pray your heart is faced towards Him. Softness is strength-I wish I'd read/ knew this years. I could go on..(!!) Jazakallah.
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11 reviews1 follower
January 3, 2020
I loved everything about this book. Wise words with beautiful art which makes it a pleasant to read.

It always amazed me at how so little words can convey so much meaning.  I loved every word in this book and almost 95% of the quotes are my favorite.

Every words/quotes can give you calmness with deep meaning and you don’t want to speed reading it. You want to read every word slowly and understand and keep it to your heart and mind.

This book also reminds the reader to reflect on the true reality of love and happiness through the real love and permanent bond between creation and our Creator, Allah. Whatever happens in life, we must seek for Allah help and forgiveness.

Definitely, I will pick up this book again whenever I feel down and need some motivation.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
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41 reviews2 followers
July 23, 2023
Islamic version of Love for The Imperfect Things.

Kalau baca Love for The Imperfect Things kita akan mendapatkan ketenangan, tapi kalau baca Love and Happiness kita dapat ketenangan sekaligus menambah kecintaan kita kepada-Nya.

Salah satu kutipan favoritku:

“Jika mendekat ke makhluk, kau akan kehilangan Allah dan makhluk-Nya.
Mendekatlah ke Allah, maka kau akan mendapati Allah dan makhluk-Nya.

Allah adalah Al-Wadüd (MahaMencintai hamba-hamba Nya).
Oleh karena itu, cinta berasal dari Allah-bukan manusia.

Seperti yang dikatakan oleh penulis, Charles F. Haanel,
"Untuk mendapatkan cinta penuhi dulu dirimu dengan cinta hingga kau meniadi magnet cinta.”

Begitu kau memenuhi dirimu dengan Sumber Cinta (Al-Wadüd), kau akan menjadi magnet untuk cinta.”
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113 reviews5 followers
March 30, 2023
Kedamaian itu bukan datang dari luar tapi dari dalam. Kedamaian yang ada di dalam diri tidak akan pernah direbut oleh siapapun, apapun yang mereka lakukan. Apapun yang mereka katakan. Apapun yang mereka lakukan untuk mengancam. Jika surga ada di dalam hati mu, tidak ada seorang yang bisa merebutnya darimu. Tetap hati-hati dengan hati agar tetap ada dalam kedamaian. Bahwa untuk mendapatkan kedamaian mulailah perbaikan sholat, inilah yang akan mengubah hidup 👊✨💛
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Author 5 books3 followers
January 9, 2022
I needed to read this

I read Reclaim Your Heart last year and I just read Love & Happiness in one sitting. I needed this. I'm going through a broken heart situation and I've been praying and this book felt like it was speaking directly to me and my situation. It brings about a sense of calm & understanding in me and I love this feeling
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32 reviews
April 24, 2018
What a beautiful and inspirational book. Yasmin wrote in a way reminding you of our greater purpose, God's unlimited Love and leaves you with so much hope and key advise <3 Absolutely loved it and it felt like it came sincerely from her heart <3
1 review
April 18, 2020
a very soothing book...

often times, we don't understand our trials and blessing in life. it's all how Allah care and talk to you and we read it wrongly. jzkk Yasmin Mogahed. this enlightened me in many ways.
1 review
June 26, 2020
Amazing

If you’re heartbroken and lost... do not stop reading this until you find yourself. Shift your focus and change your life. Much love ustadha Yasmin, so much respect. An authentic and heartfelt book.
6 reviews
June 6, 2021
An absolute must read for inner peace and love

Loved every page. Short concise and to the point. So relevant for the modern day streas of life.

An absolute must read for inner peace and love.
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Author 7 books3 followers
August 18, 2021
A warming read

Some nice reminders in here and very easy to read

Hate to compare works all the time, but I have to be honest I personally found the first book much more in depth and explorative and this just felt more like a summary really, still a good read though.
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