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To Have and To Hold - Leader Guide: Preparing for a Godly Marriage

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In America, the average amount of money, time, and energy spent on a wedding are astronomical. While thousands of dollars are spent for the wedding day, little if any money, time, and energy are spent in preparation for the marriage itself. To Have & To Preparing for a Godly Marriage offers a different approach from “pre-marital counseling.” It is more of a marriage education helping and equipping couples to build smart marriages and healthy families.

The days prior to a wedding can be busy and hectic. This Bible study book format maximizes the time couples have by focusing on important information in a simplified and condensed version. One of the biggest mistakes couples make is collecting great resources and then becoming overwhelmed by the amount of information gathered with little time to complete the reading. Oftentimes, those resources are put on the shelf for later, only to be pulled down when a crisis hits … often too little, too late.
 
This study may be used in a variety of ways Some of the weekly preparation is fun, creative, and light. It is a good escape from the wedding plans for a while helping couples find a balanced approach will help them gain insight during the fast-paced days. These weekly interactive prep activities will be focused on the specific topic for the week. They will encourage couples to look at scripture passages, do biblical words studies, listen to podcasts, go to a romantic place, or do some other activity to creatively challenge their thinking. These assignments are not a major time commitment, but they are vital as a couple works through issues.
 
God’s purposes for marriage are much higher and greater than our own. In Genesis 2:18, God said, “It is not good for man to be alone,” He created Eve as an answer to that aloneness. Even though Adam had a perfect relationship with God, a perfect environment, and had all the possessions he wanted, there was still a void of intimacy. Blending two individuals into oneness was the Divine goal. They were made to become suitable helpers, counterparts who could balance and back one another in every way.

God ordained marriage to be an earthly picture of the relationship between Christ and the Church. Jesus Christ’s love for the Church, according to Ephesians 5, is sacrificial and unconditional. He laid down His life to present the church, His bride, whole, and complete. Likewise, when a husband and wife love each other as they do their own bodies, nurturing and caring for each other, they live out the beautiful picture of Christ’s oneness with the Church.

Join Byron and Carla Weathersbee in this eight-session study To Have & To Preparing for a Godly Marriage as they explore and focus on the keys to a healthy marriage.

176 pages, Hardcover

Published July 3, 2017

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