Dating is an undeniably daunting task, especially when you're done with casual flings and are looking for the real deal to settle down with. When a 30-something woman signs up on a dating website for people looking to get married, she realizes just how delightful, vexing, amusing and befuddling trying to find the perfect husband can be. Based on real experiences, this book is not a guide to dating, but rather a delightful collection of episodes about meeting potential partners, epiphanies about them and soul-searching questions that will make you see relationships without the rose-tinted glasses. Especially pertinent to this age of online dating, this delicious-as-a-cappuccino book is for all those in love, looking for love or in between. With advice as sage (gained the hard way) as that in He's Just Not That Into You and scenarios as funny and outrageous as those in Sex and the City, 50 Cups of Coffee is a hilarious, honest and witty book, perfect to curl up with when a suitable beau or bae is not available.
50 Cups of Coffee had its moments, and presented quite a perspective into the dating world when a woman crossed the age of 35. A perspective both into her mind, as well as into the minds of the suitors. From the crass, to the creepy, to the plain sleazy, it's got the kind of encounters one would only expect to see in a movie or TV series, and yet, all of it was based on real life experiences. Hat's off to the writer's friend - Dia - for surviving them without turning into a psychopath.
I breezed through the book in a couple of hours and it had me chuckling at the appropriate places, rolling my eyes at yet other places, and cringing at still other situations. Khushnuma Daruwala's done a good job with this book, making for a fun, evening read.
Loved the book. I don't read Indian fiction/ non- fiction but this got me hooked from the very first page and read it at one go. Strikes a chord somewhere and wonderfully written. Wish the author writes more books.
In this book, Khushnuma dictates some of the uproarious anecdotes of online-dating in Dia's voice. All of her online dating experiences have been inspired by true events. Dia is a 30-something independent, working woman who goes on a whirlwind of self-led groom hunting activity. In this hunting game, she has met many guys on coffee dates, around 50 to be particular, mostly through online matrimonial websites but none of them work out for her. She has totally dissed the idea of a fairy-tale romance and believes that no man would come to sweep her off her feet and take her away. All of her coffee dates have miserably gone wrong for various reasons which have been described in a hilarious way in the book. This book is surely not a self-help book and it won't offer you tips on how to find a perfect life partner for yourself in the digital world. However, what it does offer is the daunting reality of dating, especially when you're on the lookout for a perfect soul mate, especially on an online matrimonial platform. Witty, vibrant, and innocuous, this book is definitely an eye-opener and a must read for all the singletons who have gone through, are going through, or will go through the befuddling process of finding a life partner. Khushnuma's writing is fresh, funny, and unapologetic. I wish her all the luck in her future endeavors.
[Wanted to give it a 4.5, but because there isn't such a rating, giving it an upper limit.]
I found the title of this book, '50 Cups of Coffee: The Woes and Throes of Finding Mr. Right' very, very intriguing. This reason, in conjunction with a slew of good reviews that made their way to me, compelled me to add it to my Amazon wish list. This was a long time ago. It was only recently that I bought it, and that too, because I was getting a really good deal. So I bought 3 more books along with it. :D
What can I say? Problems of a bibliophile / bookworm / book hoarder. ;)
Given the blurb and the quirky title (the word ‘coffee’ pulling me in more than anything), I expected a certain amount of humor. But '50 Cups of Coffee' quickly surpassed my expectations and brought on with full force a rib-tickling humor that stayed consistent till the end. And this was within the first 10 pages of the book. So imagine my absolute delight at the prospect of a heavy enjoyment that I hadn’t had in a long time!
There was one point of time when I thought of the book as nonfiction. Maybe it is. But given how much I laughed along with Dia, the protagonist, it didn’t feel like that for long. The book is a laugh riot in its own, beautiful way, making you clutch your stomach as it spasms, trying to accommodate your laughter. Another important point about '50 Cups of Coffee' is that it is consistent from the first page to the last. It is so well-written, not losing its essence anywhere. And for that, hats off, Ms. Daruwala! :)
The point where I knew I liked the book might have come early on in the narrative. But it was when the Harry Potter and Star Wars references made their way in that I truly fell in love with it. No, it is not only because of the references; they made me fall more for '50 Cups of Coffee', is all. Also, when she and I have similar ways of ‘indiscriminately’ scolding people – she says bloody goose, I say dirty goose – there is nothing else I could have done to keep the love at bay.
There are a couple of points that I don’t agree with in the book, but since it is humor, I wouldn’t like to bring them out and spoil the whole point the book is trying to make. And moreover, I think readers who decide to pick up this book must purely do so based on its other merits rather than one or two faults that are completely my opinion.
'50 Cups of Coffee' is a proper humorous rant against dating in the modern world, giving examples of prospective ‘daters’ who turn out to be something else in the end. I absolutely loved it, enjoying every part to the core because of its truth, but mostly because of how wittily it has been written. Khushnuma Daruwala doesn’t sugarcoat anything as she goes on this rant. She gives you all of the dating tips, annoyances, and avoidances, making you bellow with laughter in the process. Even if you aren’t 35 and/or aren’t dating anymore, all you can do is pump your fists in the air and go, “Yaaaaasss!” I was amazed when I learned that this is Ms. Daruwala’s first book. What a book to start off with!
It’s not like '50 Cups of Coffee' is serious. But it tackles serious topics with humor – something that needs to be done more frequently if we are going to embarrass ourselves into admitting that not everything is rosy with the world. For example, when she compares and contrasts humans with lions. She lays bare the fact that lionesses are so much more independent than human women. And the way she puts it, all I can do is agree while covering my face – because I’m that ashamed.
With a potent combination of reality, humor, and a pinch of imagination, Khushnuma Daruwala gives us the kick that maybe only 50 cups of coffee can give us! Phenomenal!
*Review copy received from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. The thoughts are entirely my own and in no way biased.*
50 Cups of Coffee, is an account of 50 coffee dates gone wrong. The accounts in themselves are absolutely hilarious, with everything that could possibly go wrong going wrong.
The author uses beautiful imagery to draw us in and explains what is exactly wrong with XYZ using cool metaphors. I LOVE IT! I mean, they refer to fairytale expectations and Tom & Jerry and whatnot and whonot. IT IS ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE!
The little cups of wisdom after each date gone wrong are equally amazing and totally entertaining. Seriously, ladies, they are words to live by. Literally. We’d have a much better existence if we did so.
I absolutely love the writing style in this book. It is fluid and unapologetic. The author opines on anything and everything and she microscopically analyses all these guys the dates are with and she doesn’t shy away from saying anything. I like that.
I especially loved the end and how the entire book wrapped up with this great last line. It had me smiling and feeling just so very good at having read this book. GAH!
All in all, this is a definite must read! Hilarious and quintessential, this book will not let you down. Ever.
I rarely pick non fiction books, but the moment I saw this book on Amazon. Something tempted me, may be it was the cover page of the book or it's from a female writer, or even the title of the book. I just hit buy now within the fraction of seconds when I saw this book, I usually read blurb and then decide whether to pick it up or not. But in this case I straight away bought this. And I'm happy that I've this book in my collections. When every debut authors prefer to write Love stories, of course Cliché Love Story. Khushnuma Daruwala brings us this awesome book where Dia, 30-Something woman signs up dating websites to find Mr.Perfect but ends up finding Mr. Wrong.
It's narrated in a nonlinear manner, so that one can pick and read any of the chapters they want to. And the end of the every Mr.Wrong episodes, there's a coffee date wisdom. Which is really impressive. By the time you finish up this book you goina realize your worth just Like Dia.
It's a Super cool light read book. I usually prefer one sit reading but with this book. I didn't wanted it to finish it off Soon. So in the evening with the every sip of coffee, I used to enjoy reading this book and laughing my guts out.
I'm eagerly waiting for the next book from Khushnuma Daruwala. You wouldn't not believe even my non reader friends also started reading this book and they are totally enjoying reading this book.
I have no idea why is there a need for this book. One can go to Quora and simply find more amusing anecdotes which are written in a much interesting way on the same topic. I was expecting a light hilarious note on dating in India and I found nothing like that. If I really had to get 'gyaan' on this topic, I would have resorted to other sources but never this book at least. In fact, the 'gyaan'was also not something worth reading! It was really a task for me to finish this book.
Before I start, let me put in a disclaimer first: READ THIS IN PUBLIC AT YOUR OWN RISK because this book will have you guffawing and cackling from its very first page & if you’re okay, with getting weird stares and confused looks from the people around you, then go right ahead.
To think that a work of non-fiction, could be this hilarious, the credit completely goes to the author for her wonderful presentation of the rip-roaring anecdotes of her friend and the protagonist, Dia’s adventures into the world of matrimonial sites and online dating.
(And yes, some of the experiences might sound outrageous but I am not at all surprised that they’re true. :P )
A 30-something, independent working woman, Dia, on her spree of self-led prospective groom hunting, meets many guys, well 50 to be exact, on coffee dates, on dinners, through online matrimonial websites and one, even through a speed dating ritual but none of them work out for her.
Those of us, who had stricter parents, will remember how we used to be warned as children, teenagers and even as young adults, to not to talk to strangers. Yet, nowadays, meeting a stranger over one coffee to determine whether one can spend the rest of their lives with the said person is a pretty commonplace affair that we all too often forget how ridiculous and frivolous it all is. Vibrant, witty and extremely entertaining, this book tries to open our eyes to just this and offers a peek into the daunting reality of finding a perfect life partner in this digital world.
The little cups of wisdom after each date gone wrong are hilarious and literally, words to live by, for all the lovely singletons out there.
What I loved most about the book, that it doesn’t ever take itself too seriously and that it has a non-linear structure. If you’re ever feeling down or are on a lookout for a quick, fun read, this is just the right book for you. Open any random page, and it will have you LOL’ing in a second, as the protagonist microscopically examines everything and isn’t ever shy to express her opinions.
With soo many ‘done-to-death’ self-help relationship books out there, this book is a breath of fresh air as it does not paint a fairy tale like picture of the journey towards finding Mr. Life Partner but rather aims at humorously elaborating on the exasperating instances that one is faced with, while doing so.
The author’s writing is very fresh, & unapologetic and her impeccable pun(ning) skills deserve a very special mention. This book literally is a caffeine shot for everyone who likes to read- irrespective of one’s marital status because by the time one finishes this book, I’m sure all the readers will realize their own worth and will start valuing themselves more, just like Dia.
Must credit the author for her cheeky sense of humour, I was reminded to Ally Mcbeal and the imaginative moments she has in her head while reading a few pages. I have had my fair share of dates via Shaadi.com and I would have loved to contribute stories of my own! I can vouch these are true as I’ve met some weirdos who offered me an opportunity to “feel my forearm” one said in the first date, and another who started a discussion on body hair and how he’d like to try laser hair removal upon spotting the redness on my arms from the laser session I’d just finished a few hours ago! This book is a light read and a page turner filled with moments of laughter.. a must read for anyone on the quest of finding Mr Right, you are not alone and there is a whole sisterhood out there.. So chin up and look at the funny side of life 😊
Daruwala’s whirlwind narrative is a caffeine shot fit for everyone who loves a breezy read. With a relatable worldview and chatty tone, this is a perfect book to curl up to on a do-nothing holiday or to pick-up at the airport. It can be very funny as well, so be prepared to receive some hard stares from co-passengers as you laugh out loud at some of her words of wisdom, like “if he says ‘herpes’, run. If he says ‘mummy’, run a wee bit faster”.
Meeting a stranger over coffee to discuss whether to spend their lives together is such a commonplace premise in our society, that we sometimes forget how crazy it is. Too often the mating dance is dismissed as too frivolous, but considering how much of an impact it may have on lives, it is worth looking at a little more closely. Khushnuma Daruwala’s 50 Cups of Coffee – The Woes and Throes of Finding Mr. Right is a lighthearted look at this aspect of Indian pre-matrimony. It works very well as a hilarious collection of anecdotes of a single woman in her mid-thirties meeting prospective life partners from matrimonial sites on first dates.
Witty and fast-paced, 50 Cups of Coffee is a practical book that takes love out of the equation to great results. Dia and her childhood friend Poppy are determined to discover Mr. Perfect while sipping coffee.
The beginning of the book is a little confusing because the author explains how these anecdotes are mostly from (but not restricted to) her friend Dia. The cynic in me was quick to wonder if this was a classic case of #AskingForAFriend. In the first couple of chapters, she also seems to be scared of being sued in feminist court. She seeks to try and defend her stance, seemingly forgetting that feminism is about ‘you being you, unapologetically.’
The book is littered with quick-witted, smarty-pants repartee throughout the book. Joking about unreal expectations of finding prince charming she says, “What do you mean no? It’s just a teensy weensy telephone pole! I heard Jack slithered up beanstalks for a lark and you can’t do it to retrieve my favourite scarf?”
Before I start, let me put in a disclaimer first: READ THIS IN PUBLIC AT YOUR OWN RISK because this book will have you guffawing and cackling from its very first page & if you’re okay, with getting weird stares and confused looks from the people around you, then go right ahead.
To think that a work of non-fiction, could be this hilarious, the credit completely goes to the author for her wonderful presentation of the rip-roaring anecdotes of her friend and the protagonist, Dia’s adventures into the world of matrimonial sites and online dating.
(And yes, some of the experiences might sound outrageous but I am not at all surprised that they’re true. :P )
A 30-something, independent working woman, Dia, on her spree of self-led prospective groom hunting, meets many guys, well 50 to be exact, on coffee dates, on dinners, through online matrimonial websites and one, even through a speed dating ritual but none of them work out for her.
Those of us, who had stricter parents, will remember how we used to be warned as children, teenagers and even as young adults, to not to talk to strangers. Yet, nowadays, meeting a stranger over one coffee to determine whether one can spend the rest of their lives with the said person is a pretty commonplace affair that we all too often forget how ridiculous and frivolous it all is. Vibrant, witty and extremely entertaining, this book tries to open our eyes to just this and offers a peek into the daunting reality of finding a perfect life partner in this digital world.
The little cups of wisdom after each date gone wrong are hilarious and literally, words to live by, for all the lovely singletons out there.
What I loved most about the book, that it doesn’t ever take itself too seriously and that it has a non-linear structure. If you’re ever feeling down or are on a lookout for a quick, fun read, this is just the right book for you. Open any random page, and it will have you LOL’ing in a second, as the protagonist microscopically examines everything and isn’t ever shy to express her opinions.
With soo many ‘done-to-death’ self-help relationship books out there, this book is a breath of fresh air as it does not paint a fairy tale like picture of the journey towards finding Mr. Life Partner but rather aims at humorously elaborating on the exasperating instances that one is faced with, while doing so.
The author’s writing is very fresh, & unapologetic and her impeccable pun(ning) skills deserve a very special mention. This book literally is a caffeine shot for everyone who likes to read- irrespective of one’s marital status because by the time one finishes this book, I’m sure all the readers will realize their own worth and will start valuing themselves more, just like Dia.
I received the book from the author in exchange of an honest and unbiased review. I always tend to avoid non-fictions from the fear of facing acute boredom or feeling agitated over some idea of the writer I do not agree with. But I somehow end up getting my hands on some pretty interesting ones and 50 Cups of Coffee is no exception. The very beginning of the book is filled with promises of enjoyment, refreshment and understanding. It starts with The Where, What, Why of It All where the author skilfully narrates in a casual tone about what made her come up with such a book.So apparently it was her friend, Dia's constant search for a suitable guy for marrying and the horribly memorable & funny experiences she had while on dates which urges the author to compose the book. I find the book to be a perfect guide to every possible type of suitorany women is subjected to face in the path of fishing out a good catch. I am impressed how casually and confidently both of the women, the author herself and Dia put forward the importance of an independent woman. Though the book is supposed to be the woes and throes of finding Mr. Right, one can't help but bring into frontline the necessity of free speech, independence and equality for women. My favourite chapter in the book is Mamma Mia. Though it sounds kind of edible and delicious of a topic, I say, that is not the case. Moreover, it is based on something rather sugary, one might not but fear for increasing Diabetes. This chapter is about this Puppy-faced Banker Boy, the lady's date. Though respectable and well-mannered, he has this irritating habit on consulting everything with his mother. Respecting elders is something which comes as breathing in any generous person. But to stay dependent on them is cowardice, lack of self confidence and disturbing. One must always keep in mind, no matter how close parents are, your life's decisions are completely your own. I also love the fact that after each chapter, the author leaves a very interesting message and I can't get enough of all these!! Yess!! What touched my heart was the last message floating in between the heart-shaped steams of the paper coffee. "Not everyone married is happy. Not everyone happy is married." How very true indeed! The boldness of the author publicly denying the very idea of marriage, pointing out how it perhaps is not her cup of coffee. In India and many, perhaps almost all other countries peopleseem to always glare at a woman and pass pitying remarks upon her on reaching 30 and not being capable enough to find a groom yet. They judge how her selfishness is standing between the wishes of her parents, happiness of her to-be husband and later a child. It saddens me to realise how people even today consider women to be more suited in the household and withstanding every order and disturbance from the man. I find humour, both dry and refreshing at times, pinching and poking over the revolutionary concept of equality and implementation of choice. Would I recommend the book? If you are in for some laughing, reflecting upon own ideals to understand and breath freely, it's a good book to read.
“Dating at thirty-five is an entirely different ball game. Balls of steel are what you need to traverse this journey.”
Thirty-something and unmarried, two words that should not be uttered in the same breath, lest you will be subjected to raised eyebrows from neighborhood aunties and matchmaking at someone else’s marriage. Such is the premise of the book 50 Cups of Coffee, a hilarious account of Dia’s coffee dates with umpteen guys who seem to have abundant issues pertaining to their lives. The beginning is such that Dia is forced by her thoughtful friends to give online dating a shot to meet the ideal man, little did she know and then later discovered, how exasperating can dating be. Each chapter is not strung together to form a story, but rather is an anecdote of failed dates, described in an interesting and comical manner, while some chapters are dedicated to reminiscing past dates and introspecting, which is also lovely to read. The little coffee advice at the end of each chapter, though witty and humorous, provide more than just giggles, for they can actually be put to use in life in all those atrocious moments often faced while dating. “Please read He’s Just Not That Into You twice a year. Aloud, if necessary. If that seems too much of a hassle, please repeat after me-‘Part time lover = No lover’.” Each page is full of delight and the metaphors used will definitely send any reader into peals of laughter, for when a parallel is drawn between jalebi and men, you just know that something outrageously hilarious and uncannily true is on its way! All genre of men, ranging from stalkers, perverts to mummy lovers are talked about, and a category of men described that I personally loved is the man who loves CATS- children, animals, trees and spirituality. Such a deadly combination, and yet this date came to a dead end too, for an obvious and hilarious reason. With so many hackneyed relationship guides out there, this book is a breath of fresh air for it uproariously captures the true essence of dating and finding the so-called prince charming that every girl seems to be in search of. It does not paint a flowery picture of the journey towards finding Mr. Right but rather aims at elaborating on the vexing moments that one is faced with, and presenting it in a relevant manner. The book has a lovely closure that definitely pleases the reader. Overall, a must read for everyone out there- for men to mend their ways and for women to decipher the strange ways of their male counterparts. The author’s impeccable language skills and seamless writing style deserves a special mention, and her puns are sincerely funny! Also, a cup of coffee along with the book is highly recommended!
“When it is the real thing, it won’t feel exhausting nor will there be a need to keep making excuses for him. If he wants to meet you, he’ll travel 20 km a day to see you. If he wants you, he’ll make it happen, irrespective of the social tsunamis of caste, culture and religion.”
There were several times I picked up the book, left it, got to it again, the second half did keep me glued though. This one is an account of a woman in her 30s navigating through crazy, bizarre, funny experiences on the roadway to love and matrimony through 50 coffee dates. I had no expectations from the book when I was suggested the book. The narration is unapologetic, witty, and not cheezy, in a way shows a mirror. Some of the stories seem too crazy to be true. I did end up laughing quite a bit.
This book was everything I had expected it not to be. This was a very refreshing read and in the beginning only the author tells us what led her to write this phenomenal book with this out-of-the-box idea. So apparently the author’s friend Dia undergoes the struggle of finding Mr.Perfect for her and this is her journey through 50 horrible coffee dates. There are a lot of anecdotes throwing light on the fact that there are both good and bad people in the dating world. The vastness and yet the smallness of the world of online dating could be felt at times while reading the book. All the different problems while finding ‘The one’ are written in different chapters and at the end of each of them there is a beautiful illustration of a cup with a message in it, summing up that chapter in the form of concluding line or some points. The ending of the book was the best part. The author brings out the humor, struggle and a deep message that even if things are not happening the way you expected them to or you are unable to get anywhere, just don’t loose hope and continue your search but do NOT at all settle for something less or someone who doesn’t respect you at all. The writing style of the author is unapologetic and you can literally feel a person speaking and narrating the incidents as we are told in the introduction. I personally feel that the author has done great and amazing job at making it as lively and true as possible. I thought this book had many incidents breaking stereotypes and there are some really very funny moments too. I have to say, the pun game of the author is really very strong and at a time I was just sitting there gaping at the amazing pun and applauding the author. It is a light read, its humorous and I think a must read for any Indian woman entering the world of dating. In fact this book should be read by every grown up girl to know what is waiting for them out there in the world. So I would recommend this group if you are looking for a light-hearted non-fiction book with a message, especially for all the women out there!
The chapter one of the book has one of the most inspiring lines for a budding writer: “an idle mind is a writer’s workshop”. The beginning of chapters were quite engaging where the author described about her interesting dates. The hilarious profile descriptions she came across while the man-hunt. One thing I would surely agree with the writer is the grammatical errors, incorrect English floating across the internet. I won’t blame a 35-year old woman who is still single. The disappointing English takes away the charm from the person. It is true in many cases, where I have experienced the same.
“Cynicism is the price of experience” – where the author describes the poor writing skill of her matrimonial date.
“Why compromise for a stranger?” – I would have never agreed more with the author, when I am at the same juncture of life as the author.
The highlights at the end of every chapter briefs the reader about the chapter, even if the reader has missed out few instances in the chapter.
“My mum buys my underwear”
I loved the way she has described her dates and her love for food. There are many parameters on which a person is judged during these arranged dates, irrespective of the gender. If she had judged her dates, stalked them online and rejected them… then those men or some more men at the other end of the screen had done the same with her profile. The brutal murder of your self-respect takes you to the aisle, yes this is what I learnt while reading this book. The overall experience of reading this matrimonial pros and cons was average. The last few chapters didn’t interest me, as it got boring with high amount of sarcasm filled descriptions. I would have loved the book a bit more if it had story-line ending with an outcome. This book is an experience, but lacks an engaging plot towards the end. However, there are some amazing lines jotted in the novel to drive your funny bone crazy.
“Not everyone married is happy. Not everyone happy is married”
As clichéd as the title might sound, the book is far from being cheesy. Khushnuma has penned a very unusual and real take on the current matrimonial dating trend among youngsters. When the millenials are running away from real relationships throughout their lives, and finally resort to the internet's dating options, the result is hilariously painful.
Complete credit goes to the author to make a non-fiction based on a contemporary topic seem so fresh and entertaining. The book deals with the experiences' of the author's friend Dia who is on a search for a prospective groom and lands up on matrimonial sites (you know, the Indian version of online dating with parental approval). However, each man she meets is a complete mismatch but this does not act as a deterrent to Dia, who is hellbent on finding her perfect match. The consequence is a funny catalogue of the different kinds of men she ends up meeting, each with a different kind of baggage (whether it is an invisible presence of a supreme mother-in-law or a strong desire for not eating on dates).
Things I absolutely loved about this book :-
It is unapologetic and unpretentious and says it like it is. There is a certain reassurance that comes to the readers when the author lays truth (and nothing, but the truth) in front of their eyes. Little anecdotes at the end of each chapter called "50 Cups of Wisdom". They were funny as well as insightful. An original writing style that instantly draws you into the book and you finish it one-sitting.
Another favourite light read from this year that I can surely suggest you all to pick up whenever you intend to get out of a reading slump. I am planning to gift this book to a friend of mine who is single and swiping left and right on matrimonial sites (although can you really do that on Shaadi.com?!)
I was constantly veering between 3 and and 4 stars and finally settled at 3.5
I have to admit, I was quite intrigued by the premise of the book when I picked it up. In fact, I was really looking forward to reading it, until I did. I don't know why, there is something about the writing that does not sit very well with me. It seems very stilted to me, a little overdone occasionally. Sometimes I felt like the situation was sort of forced. There were several times I picked up the book, left it, picked it up again and to be honest, it was a bit of a struggle to finish it.
The book is meant to be a funny take on the woes of dating when you're in your 30's (normally the age when you become illegible for marriage, particularly in India). You can pick it up from any point and just start reading, a freedom which I really like. There are hidden gems here and there that did have me smiling, but did not leave me overtly satisfied. Honestly, I think I was looking for a little more of say Alexander McCall Smith style? He handles humour so wryly and so beautifully, something that seems missing from Ms.Daruwala's style.
For her first attempt, I would say it was a very good one. I would definitely recommend it to anyone who likes the writing style of Twinkle Khanna, or say Khushwant Singh. But if you're someone whose majorly into heavy reading like Arundhati Roy, this one isn't for you.
There are a number of things that I would like to point out about this light read.
The book does not serve as a guide book for dating. It is simply a collection of scary, stupefying, hilarious, run-before-you-lose-your-chance dating experiences. You must read about these.
50 Cups of Coffee can be read by everyone. It doesn't matter if you are a boy or a girl, a college student or a retiree, or if you are dating anyone or not dating anyone. If you want a bit of an insight of the current dating standard in India or even if you don't, go pick up this book. This won't bore you.
Every chapter ends with a small piece of dating advice. This piece covers the entire chapter like a summary. But wait. This piece of advice comes in the most sarcastic way that will surely put a smile on your face.
The cover of the book is really really attractive. So while you are reading this book, you may often find yourself admiring the quirky cover of this book. Well, if you are one of those 'I-judge-a-book-by-its-cover' sort of a person, then this book is not going to disappoint you. Go ahead and read this to enlighten your skeptical minds about dating in India.
Coffee is used to scare away your Monday blues, wake you up before the presentation, the backbone of your one night studying before but it also keeps you going when your date is horrible. Every first date takes place at a coffee house and it is sipping that cup of mocha or cappuccino which keeps you in your seat like a civilised person.
50 Cups of Coffee is the story of 30 year old Dia who is on a journey to find her Mr. Right through online matrimonial sites after discarding the lies that fairy tales have told us and realising that no prince is coming on his white horse.
The book contains her account with 50 Mr. Wrong where all the date begins with a coffee. After meeting them, she like all of us feels that ” What if he was the one ?” or why can’t she have a chatroom or office romance and maybe even better – falling in love with a stranger in struck lift? She is perplexed by the fact that how come people are getting married twice or thrice but isn’t able to get it done even for one time.
This book is really a practical book. All the situations depicted are practical and revolves around online dating. There are various funny moments, and it shows what's in girl's mind when it comes to dating. The book revolves around dia who is thirty years old and still single, finding her life partner online. What I liked most is Dia's nature of not to settle for less. The moments expressed while she had dates were hilarious. It's a story about finding a right life partner. The writing style of Author is funny. The pace is also good.It's a little fast paces book. I loved how the book ended. The narration of Dia's 50 wrong dates was just amazing. It shows what Indian girls go through when it's about selecting the groom. Her frustrations, doubts, and thoughts were all relatable. Overall it's a good read with an interesting plot. A book you would like to finish in one go! Super funny, witty, practical book.
It's a must-read for any woman who is contemplating love and marriage or even being single in India. The hilarious encounters of Dia, the protagonist, as she navigates the path (strewn with stones and thorns) in her quest for the one is side-splittingly hilarious!
What I also liked is that the book doesn't have a distinct start, middle, and end, but let me not give away too much about how the book is structured.
There were times I actually laughed out loud and my mom, who was sitting next to me, had to ask me what the matter was.
I will definitely read this book several times as a pick-me-up. Far better than reading self-help books:)
It chronicles the agony and hilarity of a 30 something girl navigating the sometimes crazy, sometimes funny, sometimes plain bizarre road to love and matrimony.
We've all dealt with them- those duds, dudes and somewhere in between. That stultifying small talk. The long awkward silences. The is he or is he not a psycho and should I call for reinforcements.
This book manages to get to the heart of it with prose that is insightful and funny without being self pitying or indulgent.
A fun book on what an Indian girl goes through while selecting grooms in an Indian society. This is a beautiful account of 50 coffee dates of Dia (the Indian girl with little interest in marriage) which she takes with prospective grooms. A joyful ride with immense fun moments to give a good laugh at the marital set up today!
Being an author myself and also being a girl like Dia , I can totally relate to the plight of the protagonist. Her stories, dilemmas, frustrations, reasonings are relatable to the core. I have recently authored a corporate sattire and I know how difficult sattire writing in India is. Kudos to the author for pulling it off so well.
50 Cups of Coffee is a fun book which revolves around a woman, who is been to nearly 50 unsuccessful 'DATES' of coffee. The author perfectly brings out the struggle one takes to find his/her "Perfect".There maybe people who really are into dating and stuff, but to me, this wasn't the book. But, nonetheless, it is a good one time read for sure !!
I loved the book! Its such a world apart from a typical book on the woes of dating and arranged marriages. Its uplifting, hilarious and amazingly witty! Enjoyed reading it! I also enjoyed Khushnuma's writing style...kept me wanting more...
This book is a funny and quirky account of dating 'system' in India. An enjoyable read. You'll really laugh your soul out at some points. If you're looking for something that can make you laugh, do give this book a shot.