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Falla felice
Come darle il piacere assoluto? Leggete i consigli di Lou Paget:“…Anche se saranno le donne al vostro fianco le dirette beneficiarie del tesoro di informazioni che troverete tra queste pagine, non vi sembra logico aspettarvi che in cambio del piacere dato alla vostra partner ne riceviate altrettanto?”. Dopo il successo di "Fallo felice", Linda Lou Paget ha stilato il manuale definitivo per chi vuole soddisfare completamente la propria compagna: affrontare gli aspetti psicologici del rapporto e stabilire una buona sintonia, sapere tutto su zone erogene, posizioni, sesso orale e tecniche di stimolazione manuale, conoscere le malattie a trasmissione sessuale e i metodi per prevenirle. Scritto con uno stile disinvolto e divertente, che infrange falsi moralismi e tabù, "Falla felice" è il libro che tutti gli uomini dovrebbero leggere e che ogni donna dovrebbe regalare al proprio partner.
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First published January 1, 1999
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March 8, 2019
Lou Paget gives an interesting inside into the mind of women and how it is different than man's mind.
Her main points are having the right mindset, and understanding the importance that everything (even outside of the bedroom) is part of foreplay and getting her in the right mood.
She also goes indepth about finger and tounge techniques, as well as toys and the different kinds of orgasms.
I would totally recommend this book to every man looking to improve his relationships and sexual techniques, but also to women who would like to learn more about their desires and how to communicate them.
Her main points are having the right mindset, and understanding the importance that everything (even outside of the bedroom) is part of foreplay and getting her in the right mood.
She also goes indepth about finger and tounge techniques, as well as toys and the different kinds of orgasms.
I would totally recommend this book to every man looking to improve his relationships and sexual techniques, but also to women who would like to learn more about their desires and how to communicate them.
May 10, 2021
Yeah, baby.
Solid reference. There should be an independent certification program based on this, and if you can pass an exam you get a badge on your dating profile.
Solid reference. There should be an independent certification program based on this, and if you can pass an exam you get a badge on your dating profile.
November 4, 2019
Nothing groundbreaking, lots of useless listings of shops or condom brands. Some parts are even ridiculous (sit on the closed toilet while she takes a bath and then give her a pedicure, seriously?)
September 28, 2016
Very informative. I have profound respect for this author. She is so knowledgeable & easy to read. You really can't go wrong with her advice & expertise in the area of sexual counseling & sexual information in general. If you don't know it, she does & she keeps her books professional yet very informative & easy to understand. Every woman should have at least one book by Lou Paget.
October 10, 2021
Il y a tant d’informations inutiles que la lecture de ce livre n’en finit pas ! Cela devient ennuyeux et prend la forme d’une obligation ou d’un devoir « parce que tu as commencé la lecture, il faut bien la terminer un jour».
Je voulais lire ce livre avant de le prêter à mon compagnon afin que nous puissions nous informer davantage, mais ce livre transmet si peu d’informations nécessaires et utiles que je préfère encore lui expliquer moi-même en deux mots ce qui fonctionne et ce qui ne fonctionne pas.
J’ai trouvé le livre « L’art de faire l’amour à un homme » très informatif. Il y avait beaucoup de techniques intéressantes qui valaient la peine d’être essayées. Mais celles proposées dans ce livre-ci sont basiques.
On explique que très rarement les techniques qui pourraient mener à l’orgasme. On ne partage pas de conseils. On n’explique pas les gestes à exécuter. Non.
La plupart du temps, tout ce que ce livre explique c’est le « comment séduire une femme » ou « comment entretenir la flamme au sein du couple ». Le début de ce livre est génial pour comprendre le comment une femme tombe amoureuse ou reste amoureuse. Je le conseillerai vivement à mon mari si je trouve qu’il n’est plus aussi attentionné pour qu’il redevienne un meilleur mari, mais je ne lui conseillerai pas ce livre pour devenir un meilleur amant.
Au final, le temps perdu à lire ce livre aurait pu être investi dans l’apprentissage du corps de l’autre en pleine action. Il suffit d’essayer un tas de choses et de dire à l’autre ce qui nous plaît et ce qui ne nous plaît pas.
Je voulais lire ce livre avant de le prêter à mon compagnon afin que nous puissions nous informer davantage, mais ce livre transmet si peu d’informations nécessaires et utiles que je préfère encore lui expliquer moi-même en deux mots ce qui fonctionne et ce qui ne fonctionne pas.
J’ai trouvé le livre « L’art de faire l’amour à un homme » très informatif. Il y avait beaucoup de techniques intéressantes qui valaient la peine d’être essayées. Mais celles proposées dans ce livre-ci sont basiques.
On explique que très rarement les techniques qui pourraient mener à l’orgasme. On ne partage pas de conseils. On n’explique pas les gestes à exécuter. Non.
La plupart du temps, tout ce que ce livre explique c’est le « comment séduire une femme » ou « comment entretenir la flamme au sein du couple ». Le début de ce livre est génial pour comprendre le comment une femme tombe amoureuse ou reste amoureuse. Je le conseillerai vivement à mon mari si je trouve qu’il n’est plus aussi attentionné pour qu’il redevienne un meilleur mari, mais je ne lui conseillerai pas ce livre pour devenir un meilleur amant.
Au final, le temps perdu à lire ce livre aurait pu être investi dans l’apprentissage du corps de l’autre en pleine action. Il suffit d’essayer un tas de choses et de dire à l’autre ce qui nous plaît et ce qui ne nous plaît pas.
June 1, 2022
Hay muchas cosas que vamos aprendiendo en el rodeo, y otras que suponemos y nos sugestionamos a creer basado en lo que hemos visto o nos han contado. Este libro ofrece una vista integral de todo lo relacionado al sexo; no es un kamasutra, sino que abarca temas importantes y muy pocas veces estudiados (por tabúes impuestos por nuestros círculos sociales) como lo son las enfermedades de transmisión sexual, el uso de juguetes, el juego previo, el sexo manual y oral, etc.
Ofrece técnicas básicas para saber cómo ayudarle a nuestra pareja a sentir más placer que sí sirven, y a pesar de ser un libro básico, es un libro completo.
Ofrece técnicas básicas para saber cómo ayudarle a nuestra pareja a sentir más placer que sí sirven, y a pesar de ser un libro básico, es un libro completo.
October 21, 2022
got to page 23 and didn’t want to continue. very old-fashioned and outdated. v little of it seems evidence-based but is a bunch of stereotypes and pop psychology a la Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. boring, cisheteronormative and homophobic. do not recommend.
July 29, 2020
Cheap body oriented advices. To much generalizations and assumptions about women.
September 21, 2023
Good information, but after 18 years of marriage, none of it was all that new or informative. I wish I was given this book 18 years ago.
November 23, 2023
Don't buy her a gift or flowers. Buy this book, read it, and she will be the happiest ;)
January 20, 2013
When my partner first told me she had ordered “How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure” by Lou Paget I didn’t know what to expect. I have read a few books on the subject of pleasuring women with some very mixed results. While there are great books like “She Comes First” by Ian Kerner with lots of useful diagrams and a plethora of useful information; there are also books like “Oral Sex She’ll Never Forget” by Sonia Borg which was full of repetitive useless pictures, equalled only by it’s terrible advice.
Having had such positive and negative experiences with these types of books I knew that just because a book gets published it does not mean that they are of any quality! But when the book arrived I took a cursory glance and it seemed pretty decent. The presentation is very simplistic; the cover is black with white and red writing. It has a single quote praising the book rather than wasting tons of cover space with a bunch of quotes. Overall the cover was nicely understated. In no uncertain terms it tells you what to expect from the book without going overboard or showing any pornographic or even suggestive images.
-Contents-
One:
The Yin and Yang of the KamaLoutra.
Two:
Safe Sensuality: Keeping you and your lady protected.
Three:
Getting her in the mood.
Four:
Awakening her body’s erogenous zones.
Five :
Let your hands delight her.
Six:
The art of tongue: Leading a woman to rapture.
Seven:
Assembling (and expanding) your tool chest.
Eight:
Capturing Miss O.
Nine:
Nights of nirvana: Intercourse that will leave her breathless.
Bibliography
-Substance-
Overall I am delighted with the information presented in this book. Having had a recent disappointing experience with a similarly themed book this was by contrast very well written, researched and very informative.
The author Lou Paget presents a myriad of information gained throughout years of hosting sex seminars with both men and women. While I normally think the term “Sexpert” is thrown about and largely meaningless she has enough genuine experience to earn the title. In the book she addresses numerous subjects from flirting and relationship dynamics to contraceptive and sexual technique. This information is well presented and broken down by chapter.
Some of the information in the contraceptive chapter was particularly informative. Rather than the usual “Just wear condoms” speech, the author goes into great detail about the various transmittable diseases and presents a lot of statistical information on the success rate of many wide ranging contraceptives.
There are also numerous other great chapters detailing anatomy and the erogenous zones, and how (in her experience) women like to be stimulated. She also has a chapter dealing with being sweet and caring which may seem like common sense but is still good to see.
-The Negative-
While I largely praise the book there are a few very minor flaws. Overall the information is so broad ranging that I found myself wanting more specialized information on certain subjects. This is most notable in the chapter about sex toys. The information here is very basic and at times a little inaccurate with its description of toys.
One piece of dubious advice in the contraceptive chapter is to have your partner put a condom on you using their mouth. Aside from condoms tasting unpleasant and many women not wanting to deep throat (as they would have to do in order to get it on fully); this is just bad advice. Condoms need to be pinched at the top to make sure air isn’t trapped for a start. Also teeth may damage the very thin and delicate material condoms are made from. Most condom instruction manuals say be careful of long or sharp finger nails and I would think the same applies to teeth. Honestly that one piece of advice seems out of place in this book, like someone snuck it in after it had been submitted. It is not in keeping with the rest of the tone of the book which by in large is about being nice and caring towards your female partner.
One final problem I had which won’t be a problem for many is that the book is very US focused, talking about American companies, giving contact details for American services and clinics. As I am form Europe there was a few bits of information that simply did not apply to me.
-Summary-
Aside from the few minor flaws; the information in the rest of the book is fairly solid. It is well presented and laid out in an easy to understand form. The chapter headings are all accurate enabling for easy access to specific information. The information by in large is very helpful and is backed up by years of firsthand experience with men and women from a huge cross section of society. If you are looking for a great guide on relationships (with a women) that covers many aspects of a relationship then I highly recommend “How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure” by Lou Paget.
Having had such positive and negative experiences with these types of books I knew that just because a book gets published it does not mean that they are of any quality! But when the book arrived I took a cursory glance and it seemed pretty decent. The presentation is very simplistic; the cover is black with white and red writing. It has a single quote praising the book rather than wasting tons of cover space with a bunch of quotes. Overall the cover was nicely understated. In no uncertain terms it tells you what to expect from the book without going overboard or showing any pornographic or even suggestive images.
-Contents-
One:
The Yin and Yang of the KamaLoutra.
Two:
Safe Sensuality: Keeping you and your lady protected.
Three:
Getting her in the mood.
Four:
Awakening her body’s erogenous zones.
Five :
Let your hands delight her.
Six:
The art of tongue: Leading a woman to rapture.
Seven:
Assembling (and expanding) your tool chest.
Eight:
Capturing Miss O.
Nine:
Nights of nirvana: Intercourse that will leave her breathless.
Bibliography
-Substance-
Overall I am delighted with the information presented in this book. Having had a recent disappointing experience with a similarly themed book this was by contrast very well written, researched and very informative.
The author Lou Paget presents a myriad of information gained throughout years of hosting sex seminars with both men and women. While I normally think the term “Sexpert” is thrown about and largely meaningless she has enough genuine experience to earn the title. In the book she addresses numerous subjects from flirting and relationship dynamics to contraceptive and sexual technique. This information is well presented and broken down by chapter.
Some of the information in the contraceptive chapter was particularly informative. Rather than the usual “Just wear condoms” speech, the author goes into great detail about the various transmittable diseases and presents a lot of statistical information on the success rate of many wide ranging contraceptives.
There are also numerous other great chapters detailing anatomy and the erogenous zones, and how (in her experience) women like to be stimulated. She also has a chapter dealing with being sweet and caring which may seem like common sense but is still good to see.
-The Negative-
While I largely praise the book there are a few very minor flaws. Overall the information is so broad ranging that I found myself wanting more specialized information on certain subjects. This is most notable in the chapter about sex toys. The information here is very basic and at times a little inaccurate with its description of toys.
One piece of dubious advice in the contraceptive chapter is to have your partner put a condom on you using their mouth. Aside from condoms tasting unpleasant and many women not wanting to deep throat (as they would have to do in order to get it on fully); this is just bad advice. Condoms need to be pinched at the top to make sure air isn’t trapped for a start. Also teeth may damage the very thin and delicate material condoms are made from. Most condom instruction manuals say be careful of long or sharp finger nails and I would think the same applies to teeth. Honestly that one piece of advice seems out of place in this book, like someone snuck it in after it had been submitted. It is not in keeping with the rest of the tone of the book which by in large is about being nice and caring towards your female partner.
One final problem I had which won’t be a problem for many is that the book is very US focused, talking about American companies, giving contact details for American services and clinics. As I am form Europe there was a few bits of information that simply did not apply to me.
-Summary-
Aside from the few minor flaws; the information in the rest of the book is fairly solid. It is well presented and laid out in an easy to understand form. The chapter headings are all accurate enabling for easy access to specific information. The information by in large is very helpful and is backed up by years of firsthand experience with men and women from a huge cross section of society. If you are looking for a great guide on relationships (with a women) that covers many aspects of a relationship then I highly recommend “How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure” by Lou Paget.
April 23, 2025
Funny story—I got this book off the share drive that Marines use in Iraq, which holds thousands of books, TV shows, and movies for us POGs with plenty of time and nothing to do. That means I’ve technically had this book on hand for ten years, but only recently decided to crack it open.
As for why you should read it, Paget puts it best: you wouldn’t look at a football player weirdly for studying a playbook, so why should this be any different? It’s informative, highly detailed, and packed with enough instructional pictorials to guide you through the motions solo.
Sex is a normal part of life, so why not give yourself a bit more instruction? Don’t be embarrassed—just go read it.
As for why you should read it, Paget puts it best: you wouldn’t look at a football player weirdly for studying a playbook, so why should this be any different? It’s informative, highly detailed, and packed with enough instructional pictorials to guide you through the motions solo.
Sex is a normal part of life, so why not give yourself a bit more instruction? Don’t be embarrassed—just go read it.
April 18, 2011
I bought this book for a friend. I decided to read it before I gave it as a gift.
It is a great book for the guy who doesn't know anything about women. What I liked most about it was that it introduced romance and it wasn't just about sexual techniques. It also gives men insight into the way a woman thinks vs how they think. I even learned a few things I didn't know!
It is a great book for the guy who doesn't know anything about women. What I liked most about it was that it introduced romance and it wasn't just about sexual techniques. It also gives men insight into the way a woman thinks vs how they think. I even learned a few things I didn't know!
June 24, 2008
Lou Paget is a genius, and I keep buying and lending this book only to have to buy it again, because people keep keeping it!
January 8, 2019
a good book, if you are interested in giving a woman constant pleasure sexually. its a helpful read.
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