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288 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1952
...I was quite alone and outside. I did not belong, I was separate, just looking on; outside...But it was always terrifying and lonely, and seemed to point the contrast between ME and all those other friendly people, who sat talking under the trees.In particular, the strict morality and arbitrary expectations of dress, manners, and behavior were completely lost on her. Raverat's American mother, Maud du Puy, was a driven but simple woman, an American with a puritanical streak. Her rearing of her children was founded on principles that she did not question or challenge. To Raverat, however, these things were not self-evident at all. PP is amusing precisely because of this: it never occurred to Gwen to care whether she could dance, whether she had bare feet outside (the horror!), whether she put on airs for guests at her family's parties. Her incisive observation stands in contrast to her extended family's obliviousness and almost total lack of self-awareness.
I remember [my childhood] as an uncomfortable time, and sometimes a very unhappy one...Oh dear, Oh dear, how horrid it was being young, and how nice it is being old and not having to mind what people think.Her complete apathy toward what she calls "System C-with-a-dash-of-A" (chivalry and Christian morality, respectively) provided her with the perspective that in turn made her childhood nigh-unbearable. We can, however, profit from Raverat's past unhappiness without fear of Schadenfreude, so we may as well. Particular highlights of the book for me were the chapters on Propriety, Religion, Sport, and Clothes. The chapter on Ghosts and Horrors is very funny as well.