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Encounters of a Fat Bride
Madhurima Pandey is twenty-five, single, and gradually coming to terms with the annoying 'you're next' nudges from family and friends. But soon they realize that chances of finding a groom for her are slim-mainly because she's not. At 93 kilos, she knows she isn't the ideal weight for marriage, even if her family believes she's the ideal age.Despite her reservations, the hunt begins, and so does a spree of rejections until Harsh comes along. Madhu cannot believe that a boy with no obvious flaws has agreed to marry her. Low self-esteem makes her suspect he's either impotent or a homosexual, but she doesn't turn down the proposal immediately.A negligible period of courtship and a hurried engagement follow. But does Madhurima really find her happily-ever-after? Or are there more surprises in store?Jovial, witty and unapologetically honest, Madhurima Pandey's story of struggle and survival in the run-up to her D-Day gives you a refreshingly new take on the big fat Indian wedding.
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Published June 28, 2017
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April 15, 2019
Life is difficult if you're a girl. No matter if you are thin or fat. Encounters of a fat bride by Samah portray the hardship and struggle of a fat girl endure. The plot is based on the mentality of Indian society towards stoutness. The cover page is simple, and the title attracts the readers.
The female protagonist Madhurima Pandey is an MBA student, loving, caring, and chubby. She is twenty-five years old, and like every Indian parent, they start groom hunting for their dearest daughter. Madhurima's overweight bothers her. She has low self-respect and looking for one person to say yes to her for marriage. She is jealous of her thin friends, and always looking for ways to avoid social gatherings.
No one wants a fat bride. She goes through so many rejections, but one boy agreed to meet her again. His name his Harsh, he works in IT company. She starts suspecting that why a thin boy wants to marry an overweight girl. The story revolves around them and the pain or trauma they suffer. Soon Madhurima finds the hidden secret of Harsh which turns their lives into more chaos. The story further unfolds the hidden emotions of Madhurima and Harsh.
Samah Visaria is bona fide in her story. She narrates the truth of Indian society and their endless expectations. The groom parent's demands are considered as God's wish, and if it is not fulfilled by the bride side then the marriage is called off, or the worst case scenario is they taunt or torture the girl lifetime. Every parent of the girl has to go through this crap, and they bow down for the sake of their daughter's happy future, but they have to understand that gifts or unnecessary expenses will not guarantee a lifetime of happiness.
This story is an eye-opener for every girl. I like Madhurima's grandmother character so much. It's very difficult to find an open-minded woman. The story is filled with self-realization. It concludes many taboo topics. The most important thing one can learn from this is to never lose your self-respect and be happy in your own skin, accept who you are. This book makes you laugh. I really enjoy reading this book. I recommend it to every reader.
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The female protagonist Madhurima Pandey is an MBA student, loving, caring, and chubby. She is twenty-five years old, and like every Indian parent, they start groom hunting for their dearest daughter. Madhurima's overweight bothers her. She has low self-respect and looking for one person to say yes to her for marriage. She is jealous of her thin friends, and always looking for ways to avoid social gatherings.
No one wants a fat bride. She goes through so many rejections, but one boy agreed to meet her again. His name his Harsh, he works in IT company. She starts suspecting that why a thin boy wants to marry an overweight girl. The story revolves around them and the pain or trauma they suffer. Soon Madhurima finds the hidden secret of Harsh which turns their lives into more chaos. The story further unfolds the hidden emotions of Madhurima and Harsh.
Samah Visaria is bona fide in her story. She narrates the truth of Indian society and their endless expectations. The groom parent's demands are considered as God's wish, and if it is not fulfilled by the bride side then the marriage is called off, or the worst case scenario is they taunt or torture the girl lifetime. Every parent of the girl has to go through this crap, and they bow down for the sake of their daughter's happy future, but they have to understand that gifts or unnecessary expenses will not guarantee a lifetime of happiness.
This story is an eye-opener for every girl. I like Madhurima's grandmother character so much. It's very difficult to find an open-minded woman. The story is filled with self-realization. It concludes many taboo topics. The most important thing one can learn from this is to never lose your self-respect and be happy in your own skin, accept who you are. This book makes you laugh. I really enjoy reading this book. I recommend it to every reader.
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August 26, 2017
Arranged marriages, a concept that some dread and some seek solace in. Some of the lucky ones like me find the true one themselves without any delay. But then yes, arranged marriages rule our world and our society. One such book describing the nuances of an arranged marriage through hilarious writing is Encounters of a Fat Bride by Samah. A book that defines how arranged marriages are built on a fragile foundation, and becomes more fragile if there are physical discrepancies in any of the parties involved.
The protagonist, Madhurima Pandey is single, 25 years old and weighs 93 kgs. Gradually she's coming to terms with the irritating elbow nudges from family and friends of "you are next". Somewhere she understands what other don't, that finding a groom for her may be a difficult task thanks to over growing size. She knows she isn't the ideal weight for marriage, even if her family believes she's the ideal age.
After a string of no's from many suitors, Madhu finally finds the one. Harsh, the boy with the no flaws and who agrees to marry her in one go. And that's what keeps on gnawing at her, that how come he said yes. The low self-esteem makes her paranoid and questions Harsh's intentions, whether he's impotent or homosexual, but she doesn't turn down the proposal immediately.
Soon, our Fat Bride starts settling into the routine of a new bride. Shopping, scrubbing her skin, a string of parlor experiments etc. She even goes through a negligible period of courtship, but Harsh doesn't say or pay much attention to Madhurima's intentions of breaking the ice. And that's another thing which makes her suspect Harsh and his family's intentions more. Finally, a hurried engagement is done but the day comes when everything comes in right front of her, making her regret that why didn't she take more time? Will she ever find her happily ever after?
Encounters of a Fat Bride is another book that I can relate to. First, I am a newly wed, and I know how much unnecessary pressure a bride faces when she's getting married. There is no scope of imperfection whether it is the dress you wear, or the make up you put on or the venue etc. Weddings are costly not because the bride and groom want it but because that's what society wants.
Second, I am skinny, like super skinny and I am married into a family of ahem, healthy people. So I know how much scrutiny I face when I visit them because they start pulling me like rubber band here and there and keep on questioning, "Are you unhappy?" "Is he not feeding you well?" "You don't even look like a Punjabi kudi" *Sigh*
Coming back to the Encounters of a Fat Bride, Samah is an intelligent writer. She killed two birds with a single stone through this book, one; the pressure of arranged marriages, and two; the size issue. I really loved the way Encounters of a Fat Bride is honest with its readers, there's no unnecessary characters or extra insertion of funny moments or angry moments.
The story is simple, straight and to the point and a refreshing new take on Big Fat Indian Weddings. I really loved Madhu's character because she portrays what a young modern woman expects out her marriage. The climax could've definitely been better, but then it was not that bad also. All in all, I really loved Encounters of a Fat Bride. And you will too, so make sure to grab a copy.
The protagonist, Madhurima Pandey is single, 25 years old and weighs 93 kgs. Gradually she's coming to terms with the irritating elbow nudges from family and friends of "you are next". Somewhere she understands what other don't, that finding a groom for her may be a difficult task thanks to over growing size. She knows she isn't the ideal weight for marriage, even if her family believes she's the ideal age.
After a string of no's from many suitors, Madhu finally finds the one. Harsh, the boy with the no flaws and who agrees to marry her in one go. And that's what keeps on gnawing at her, that how come he said yes. The low self-esteem makes her paranoid and questions Harsh's intentions, whether he's impotent or homosexual, but she doesn't turn down the proposal immediately.
Soon, our Fat Bride starts settling into the routine of a new bride. Shopping, scrubbing her skin, a string of parlor experiments etc. She even goes through a negligible period of courtship, but Harsh doesn't say or pay much attention to Madhurima's intentions of breaking the ice. And that's another thing which makes her suspect Harsh and his family's intentions more. Finally, a hurried engagement is done but the day comes when everything comes in right front of her, making her regret that why didn't she take more time? Will she ever find her happily ever after?
Encounters of a Fat Bride is another book that I can relate to. First, I am a newly wed, and I know how much unnecessary pressure a bride faces when she's getting married. There is no scope of imperfection whether it is the dress you wear, or the make up you put on or the venue etc. Weddings are costly not because the bride and groom want it but because that's what society wants.
Second, I am skinny, like super skinny and I am married into a family of ahem, healthy people. So I know how much scrutiny I face when I visit them because they start pulling me like rubber band here and there and keep on questioning, "Are you unhappy?" "Is he not feeding you well?" "You don't even look like a Punjabi kudi" *Sigh*
Coming back to the Encounters of a Fat Bride, Samah is an intelligent writer. She killed two birds with a single stone through this book, one; the pressure of arranged marriages, and two; the size issue. I really loved the way Encounters of a Fat Bride is honest with its readers, there's no unnecessary characters or extra insertion of funny moments or angry moments.
The story is simple, straight and to the point and a refreshing new take on Big Fat Indian Weddings. I really loved Madhu's character because she portrays what a young modern woman expects out her marriage. The climax could've definitely been better, but then it was not that bad also. All in all, I really loved Encounters of a Fat Bride. And you will too, so make sure to grab a copy.
July 12, 2018
5-funny-and-relatable-stars
I was dubious about the title of this book. I did not want a book about fat shaming, I did not want a book containing 'hilarious' asides about an overweight person. I did not want a book to preach or be depressing. It's to the author's credit that there were bits of all of the above and the characters still win our hearts! The majority of the credit goes to the author's ability to bring out the biting truth in a self-deprecating way. I could relate to Madhurima's character and the turmoil she goes through for arranging a match is something a lot of Indian women can relate to
What I liked:-
1) The occasional truth bombs. The character was self aware but she did have moments of self-pity, jealousy, she was judgmental and so was she quick to forgive. This made her completely human and the quips about human nature were parts funny and parts deep.
2) The humour was a big plus. Madhurima, despite her bouts of sadness never dwelt on her weight too much. She tried to be healthy, failed along the way just like the rest of us. But she had a zest for life and took things in her stride
3) Well the whole suspicion angle with Harsh. Harsh was a wonderful character with whom we didn't get to spend too much time because well Madhurima is suspicious that he said 'yes' to her match. The author could have taken some guys are nice and don't mind the size of a girl angle but she added a layer of flaw to her leading man as well to demonstrate that imbalance need not always be obvious and physical. That was a good touch!
4) The Indian parents arranged marriage milieu was perfectly captured and the Grandma was huge fun! Not all seemingly perfect marriages succeed and ostentatious Indian weddings are almost always stressful were other good anecdotes.
What I didn't like:-
1) Well the quick, snap judgments, the low self esteem modes were a bit tough to read.
And the melodramatic in-laws were textbook cliche.
2) I really wanted more conversation time between Harsh and Madhurima and would have not minded a few additional pages
Overall, I read it in one sitting and was unputdownable. Looking forward to more books from the author
I was dubious about the title of this book. I did not want a book about fat shaming, I did not want a book containing 'hilarious' asides about an overweight person. I did not want a book to preach or be depressing. It's to the author's credit that there were bits of all of the above and the characters still win our hearts! The majority of the credit goes to the author's ability to bring out the biting truth in a self-deprecating way. I could relate to Madhurima's character and the turmoil she goes through for arranging a match is something a lot of Indian women can relate to
What I liked:-
1) The occasional truth bombs. The character was self aware but she did have moments of self-pity, jealousy, she was judgmental and so was she quick to forgive. This made her completely human and the quips about human nature were parts funny and parts deep.
2) The humour was a big plus. Madhurima, despite her bouts of sadness never dwelt on her weight too much. She tried to be healthy, failed along the way just like the rest of us. But she had a zest for life and took things in her stride
3) Well the whole suspicion angle with Harsh. Harsh was a wonderful character with whom we didn't get to spend too much time because well Madhurima is suspicious that he said 'yes' to her match. The author could have taken some guys are nice and don't mind the size of a girl angle but she added a layer of flaw to her leading man as well to demonstrate that imbalance need not always be obvious and physical. That was a good touch!
4) The Indian parents arranged marriage milieu was perfectly captured and the Grandma was huge fun! Not all seemingly perfect marriages succeed and ostentatious Indian weddings are almost always stressful were other good anecdotes.
What I didn't like:-
1) Well the quick, snap judgments, the low self esteem modes were a bit tough to read.
And the melodramatic in-laws were textbook cliche.
2) I really wanted more conversation time between Harsh and Madhurima and would have not minded a few additional pages
Overall, I read it in one sitting and was unputdownable. Looking forward to more books from the author
September 27, 2020
3.5 stars
Much better than I expected.
Why this book ?
- this month I am doing a physical book challenge
- had cleaned the recesses of my shelves and this emerged. The first page says I bought it in 2017 from an Amazon sale for just 83 rupees .
I was in mood for something light and humorous.
The humor actually coated something acrid and omnipresent in the Indian culture. The inequality of balancing men and women in the marriage market, and how girls ( an indian woman till she gets married is a 'girl' , and an Indian man, a "boy". ) are made to compromise.
Even qualified and good looking females find it tough.. so how would it be if someone is obese.
I could empathise with the fat girl and am glad that instead of the happy end involving slimming down which solves all ( rather, most ) problems, the author went in for something realistic.
She even tried to address problems faced by men.
All in all , a good read. Would recommend it to anyone keen to explore contemporary Indian fiction.
Don't expect a masterpiece, this one is more of a realistic story written in a simple language with an attempted overlay of humor.
Much better than I expected.
Why this book ?
- this month I am doing a physical book challenge
- had cleaned the recesses of my shelves and this emerged. The first page says I bought it in 2017 from an Amazon sale for just 83 rupees .
I was in mood for something light and humorous.
The humor actually coated something acrid and omnipresent in the Indian culture. The inequality of balancing men and women in the marriage market, and how girls ( an indian woman till she gets married is a 'girl' , and an Indian man, a "boy". ) are made to compromise.
Even qualified and good looking females find it tough.. so how would it be if someone is obese.
I could empathise with the fat girl and am glad that instead of the happy end involving slimming down which solves all ( rather, most ) problems, the author went in for something realistic.
She even tried to address problems faced by men.
All in all , a good read. Would recommend it to anyone keen to explore contemporary Indian fiction.
Don't expect a masterpiece, this one is more of a realistic story written in a simple language with an attempted overlay of humor.
February 8, 2018
I picked up this book solely on the expectation that the book would be able to highlight certain issues related to the ‘Big Fat Indian Weddings’ and body image. Both the topics are things that I really care about and hoped that the book would be able to bring them out in guise of commercial fiction which has wide reach.
Madhurima ‘Madhu’ Pandey is our protagonist who is twenty-five years old and on the wrong side of the weighing scale. As is typical in our society, everyone is anxious to see her getting married but all she has been getting are a string of rejections from prospective grooms and their families. Then Harsh comes along and says ‘yes’ to her, something that she has trouble accepting because of her low self-esteem. What ensues is a series of doubts & questions that need to be answered before the ‘D-day’.
The plot had potential and the book could have been so much but it failed to deliver at quite a few levels.
Read the full review on Bookish Indulgences with b00k r3vi3ws
Madhurima ‘Madhu’ Pandey is our protagonist who is twenty-five years old and on the wrong side of the weighing scale. As is typical in our society, everyone is anxious to see her getting married but all she has been getting are a string of rejections from prospective grooms and their families. Then Harsh comes along and says ‘yes’ to her, something that she has trouble accepting because of her low self-esteem. What ensues is a series of doubts & questions that need to be answered before the ‘D-day’.
The plot had potential and the book could have been so much but it failed to deliver at quite a few levels.
Read the full review on Bookish Indulgences with b00k r3vi3ws
July 11, 2017
Thank you Penguin Random House for sending me a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Encounters of a Fat Bride unveils the humiliation and harsh circumstances that an overweight woman has to undergo in order to find a groom in India. Madhurima Pandey has learnt to set aside her complex about feeling like the quintessential DUFF (Designated Ugly Fat Friend). While all her friends find fairytale-esque romances, Madhu has devoted her time to work and study, so as to steer clear of the reality that no man in his right mind would ever choose her. But as per societal norms, marriage is the most essential rite of initiation into adulthood. And soon, her middle class family begins to invite a bevy of eligible men in the hopes that one of them would accept Madhu into their household. Samah Visaria's novel aptly reflects the age-old customs of dowry and arranged marriage, complete with nosy neighbors and body-shaming parents of potential grooms.
It should be noted that some people may view this novel as being offensive, but I assure you that it is not. The author, in no way, propagates discriminating against "fat" brides. She is merely trying to convey to the audience that women should be confident regardless of their physical appearances.
As lighthearted as this book is, it also approaches some very serious issues like that of fat-shaming, mental health disorder, the dowry system (wherein the family of the bride compensates the groom's family in cash or kind for going ahead with the marriage) and gender bias. While a lot of these issues are dealt with rationally, I wasn't comfortable with the way mental health disorders were handled. You begin to think that Madhu is a very mature and educated woman, but then her sidelining of mental instability as "retarded" or "losing it" is totally not acceptable. On the other hand, through Madhu's strength of character, we see how other negative elements are treated strictly. Her acceptance of her body image and understanding that all genders ought to be equal attempts to remove society's misconceptions.
What's unique is that the chapter titles feature a countdown; so you are made aware of the ending but you don't know how that transpires. See, there's some mystery in there too. The author's writing style is colloquial, humorous and incorporates few Hindi terms. There are a couple of cliches, but nothing major. She makes several references to the movie industry, juxtaposing Madhu's behavior and feelings which made light of the situation at hand. The narration is so convincing that I'd feel just as infuriated at society as Madhu does. I mean, it is appalling that people expect you to be a certain way and if you aren't, they rain down the most horrible comments on you. I really liked the plot because it is still so relevant. Some aspects of the story were a little over the top, but you can't expect anything less from a dramatic character like Madhu. Her character arc sees quite a change throughout the novel. Initially, she is against the idea of arrange marriage, then tired of being lonely, she begins to crave it. Even her outlook undergoes certain essential changes. Without a doubt, Madhu's funny quips renders the entire novel so enjoyable that I finished it in one sitting. I liked the book and I look forward to anything else the author may write in the future. You should check it out!
Encounters of a Fat Bride unveils the humiliation and harsh circumstances that an overweight woman has to undergo in order to find a groom in India. Madhurima Pandey has learnt to set aside her complex about feeling like the quintessential DUFF (Designated Ugly Fat Friend). While all her friends find fairytale-esque romances, Madhu has devoted her time to work and study, so as to steer clear of the reality that no man in his right mind would ever choose her. But as per societal norms, marriage is the most essential rite of initiation into adulthood. And soon, her middle class family begins to invite a bevy of eligible men in the hopes that one of them would accept Madhu into their household. Samah Visaria's novel aptly reflects the age-old customs of dowry and arranged marriage, complete with nosy neighbors and body-shaming parents of potential grooms.
It should be noted that some people may view this novel as being offensive, but I assure you that it is not. The author, in no way, propagates discriminating against "fat" brides. She is merely trying to convey to the audience that women should be confident regardless of their physical appearances.
As lighthearted as this book is, it also approaches some very serious issues like that of fat-shaming, mental health disorder, the dowry system (wherein the family of the bride compensates the groom's family in cash or kind for going ahead with the marriage) and gender bias. While a lot of these issues are dealt with rationally, I wasn't comfortable with the way mental health disorders were handled. You begin to think that Madhu is a very mature and educated woman, but then her sidelining of mental instability as "retarded" or "losing it" is totally not acceptable. On the other hand, through Madhu's strength of character, we see how other negative elements are treated strictly. Her acceptance of her body image and understanding that all genders ought to be equal attempts to remove society's misconceptions.
What's unique is that the chapter titles feature a countdown; so you are made aware of the ending but you don't know how that transpires. See, there's some mystery in there too. The author's writing style is colloquial, humorous and incorporates few Hindi terms. There are a couple of cliches, but nothing major. She makes several references to the movie industry, juxtaposing Madhu's behavior and feelings which made light of the situation at hand. The narration is so convincing that I'd feel just as infuriated at society as Madhu does. I mean, it is appalling that people expect you to be a certain way and if you aren't, they rain down the most horrible comments on you. I really liked the plot because it is still so relevant. Some aspects of the story were a little over the top, but you can't expect anything less from a dramatic character like Madhu. Her character arc sees quite a change throughout the novel. Initially, she is against the idea of arrange marriage, then tired of being lonely, she begins to crave it. Even her outlook undergoes certain essential changes. Without a doubt, Madhu's funny quips renders the entire novel so enjoyable that I finished it in one sitting. I liked the book and I look forward to anything else the author may write in the future. You should check it out!
August 2, 2017
Plot Summary :
Encounters Of A Fat Bride is the relatable humorous tale of Madhurima Pandey.
Now Madhurima is your average twenty five year old, living in Gurgaon, working without having found her true calling and doing an MBA to stall time and avoid the great Indian family pressure to get married.
Its not that she doesn’t want to get married. It’s just that she like lakhs of other Indian girls her age is not entirely comfortable with the idea of an arranged marriage. She is also aware that she does not meet the very unforgiving standards of beauty expected by all potential mothers in law for their precious sons. But that does not make Madhurima a timid or self conscious character. She has spunk and level headedness to deal with the situation. She also however does have dreams to find Mr right and fall in love and be courted. She’s never had the chance, while growing up all her girlfriends had suitors and admirers and she was just the sensible, cute and chubby friend.
Sounds like a story you’ve heard before? Absolutely, stories on arranged marriages and the process of groom selection and courtships have become the standard for Indian authors. This one however has refreshing twist and a story that is not your quintessential fat girl becomes fit and finds Mr perfect.
Review:
When I picked up or rather added Encounters Of A Fat Bride to my Amazon cart, I was expecting one of those hilarious accounts of arranged marriages meetings that have become so clichéd. Well turns out this is one such story but with a twist. Madhurima is a sport and has oodles of spunk which I like. The story remains real and very believable throughout and is a light, funny and happy read. The characters are simple and likeable. Madhurima’s Nani for instance. She is delightful, hilarious and bossy. I loved her.
The narrative continues in a light entertaining vein without getting too grave at all. At the same time the author’s straightforward way of putting things gets you attuned to the story. I loved the description of everyday family discussions which retain your interest even while remaining simple and so real. There’s no drama, no hysterics. Just the plain simple telling of a not so remarkable tale of two people. This simplicity is what makes this book great in my eyes. The character of Harsh is written sublimely. I never liked him at first and then it all made sense.
The story progresses without any hint of the unexpected happenings ahead. The author managed to surprise me every few pages. I like reading a few books by Indian authors every year, and this has definitely been one of the good ones.
I will give it a 4/5 rating only because the topic is done and dusted but it is a great light and funny read for sure.
Encounters Of A Fat Bride is the relatable humorous tale of Madhurima Pandey.
Now Madhurima is your average twenty five year old, living in Gurgaon, working without having found her true calling and doing an MBA to stall time and avoid the great Indian family pressure to get married.
Its not that she doesn’t want to get married. It’s just that she like lakhs of other Indian girls her age is not entirely comfortable with the idea of an arranged marriage. She is also aware that she does not meet the very unforgiving standards of beauty expected by all potential mothers in law for their precious sons. But that does not make Madhurima a timid or self conscious character. She has spunk and level headedness to deal with the situation. She also however does have dreams to find Mr right and fall in love and be courted. She’s never had the chance, while growing up all her girlfriends had suitors and admirers and she was just the sensible, cute and chubby friend.
Sounds like a story you’ve heard before? Absolutely, stories on arranged marriages and the process of groom selection and courtships have become the standard for Indian authors. This one however has refreshing twist and a story that is not your quintessential fat girl becomes fit and finds Mr perfect.
Review:
When I picked up or rather added Encounters Of A Fat Bride to my Amazon cart, I was expecting one of those hilarious accounts of arranged marriages meetings that have become so clichéd. Well turns out this is one such story but with a twist. Madhurima is a sport and has oodles of spunk which I like. The story remains real and very believable throughout and is a light, funny and happy read. The characters are simple and likeable. Madhurima’s Nani for instance. She is delightful, hilarious and bossy. I loved her.
The narrative continues in a light entertaining vein without getting too grave at all. At the same time the author’s straightforward way of putting things gets you attuned to the story. I loved the description of everyday family discussions which retain your interest even while remaining simple and so real. There’s no drama, no hysterics. Just the plain simple telling of a not so remarkable tale of two people. This simplicity is what makes this book great in my eyes. The character of Harsh is written sublimely. I never liked him at first and then it all made sense.
The story progresses without any hint of the unexpected happenings ahead. The author managed to surprise me every few pages. I like reading a few books by Indian authors every year, and this has definitely been one of the good ones.
I will give it a 4/5 rating only because the topic is done and dusted but it is a great light and funny read for sure.
September 20, 2017
Encounters of a Fat Bride was a superbly fast read. Just a couple of hours and done! The book is succinct in getting to the heart of the issues that come into play when an arranged marriage is concerned, especially in these times. The issues of dowry and the awkwardness that it creates - the contradictions that living with modern principles and needing to uphold archaic traditions - create in a family, these are handled rather well. I read what I would have at the very least done in such a case.
Personally, I could see more than a few familiarities in such instances between the book and such experiences in real life. Anyone who reads Encounters of a Fat Bride will as well. I definitely recommend this book to everyone.
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Personally, I could see more than a few familiarities in such instances between the book and such experiences in real life. Anyone who reads Encounters of a Fat Bride will as well. I definitely recommend this book to everyone.
For the full review, visit Frost At Midnite.
June 27, 2018
My rating: 3.5/5
When you are not the "ideal" person, your conscience goes for a toss. You constantly fight a battle with your mind and your surroundings.
Encounters of a Fat Bride is a very realistic story of Madhurima, who is "fat", weighed by society norms and is in a phase of life where companionship is a must-have.
She longs for love and romance but is constantly opposed by her reflection in the mirror that no sane guy would be with her. Her family wants her to get married and start looking for "rishte".
She is turned down by a guy which makes her feel humiliated and she wishes never to feel that way again. Next comes, Harsh! The thin, gawky, nerdy guy who she's determined to put down first. But he says YES. What follows is a series of events that led to a drunken night, a phone call, an engagement, a break-up, stalking, visits to the psychiatrist and finally the big showdown!
It is a fun read that keeps you turning the page till you cannot turn another page. It's witty, funny, relatable! And more than anything, it brings to picture the reality of many girls and guys who have complexities and face criticism everyday of their lives.
I recommend!
Buy from Amazon
When you are not the "ideal" person, your conscience goes for a toss. You constantly fight a battle with your mind and your surroundings.
Encounters of a Fat Bride is a very realistic story of Madhurima, who is "fat", weighed by society norms and is in a phase of life where companionship is a must-have.
She longs for love and romance but is constantly opposed by her reflection in the mirror that no sane guy would be with her. Her family wants her to get married and start looking for "rishte".
She is turned down by a guy which makes her feel humiliated and she wishes never to feel that way again. Next comes, Harsh! The thin, gawky, nerdy guy who she's determined to put down first. But he says YES. What follows is a series of events that led to a drunken night, a phone call, an engagement, a break-up, stalking, visits to the psychiatrist and finally the big showdown!
It is a fun read that keeps you turning the page till you cannot turn another page. It's witty, funny, relatable! And more than anything, it brings to picture the reality of many girls and guys who have complexities and face criticism everyday of their lives.
I recommend!
Buy from Amazon
July 20, 2017
Samah debunks several of our societal stereotypes, effortlessly. The plot is quite realistic and offers non-generalizations on physiological topics like age, weight and gender to societal ones like mental health issues, marriage and divorce.
This is certainly not just another chick-lit.
This is certainly not just another chick-lit.
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February 3, 2020
How our system is skewed and how a fat girl can never "fit" in the labels for how women are supposed to look. But thankfully, the book is more than that. It speaks about prejudices alright but prejudices that are beyond the obvious physical ones.
It was an unexpected twist in the story but I absolutely loved it! It turned from a yet another funny take to something a little more serious and something that definitely addresses a lot more.
It was an unexpected twist in the story but I absolutely loved it! It turned from a yet another funny take to something a little more serious and something that definitely addresses a lot more.
October 17, 2020
It's not a cliche romance book where the girl is fat with low self esteem who is helped my the "hero" to over came her problem. It shows the hardships of a fat girl long with the stereotype of indian families. Over all enjoyed the book.
August 7, 2017
Cute 💝
Initially I thought it's another saga of a desperate fat girl obsessed to get married...but I was wrong..it's so beautifully explains our insecurities that we blame others for!!! Lovely work...keep up the good work!!! All the best!!!
Initially I thought it's another saga of a desperate fat girl obsessed to get married...but I was wrong..it's so beautifully explains our insecurities that we blame others for!!! Lovely work...keep up the good work!!! All the best!!!
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August 7, 2017nice one
December 31, 2017
Its a nice book on indian arranged marriage.
A fat girl and shy boy how they get married and what kindly of issue they faces in starting of their relationship/
A fat girl and shy boy how they get married and what kindly of issue they faces in starting of their relationship/
October 5, 2017
This book is one of the best books that I have read so far. I would recommend this to every girl who is undergoing from the same stress level as ‘Madhurima’. The first line in the book would inspire you, “To all the fat brides out there- you’re going to rock your wedding!” Every chapter would scream and tell you that it is your story. Yes, indeed you will realize the trouble every girl goes through when she is decked up for being a showpiece in the martial market. Every chapter would tell you that the struggle is real, when you have to sacrifice all the sugar to be an “eye-candy”. Every chapter would describe the trouble parents go through convincing their child that, dowry is a gift for their own daughter. Every chapter would make you realize the pressure society bundles on your parents, just to set you up and eat grand feast at your wedding reception. You will start hating the concept of marriage, but you can’t resist the fact that you will be alone in the long run. Your friends would be happily married and settled in life, at least on the social media. You will find yourself in ‘Madhurima’. She is no different than any other girl living in a fantasy world, shaken by the society… there exists no frog, which would turn into a prince when you kiss him.
March 4, 2020
Name: Encounters of a Fat Bride
Author: Samaah Visaria
Age: +12
Rating: 3/5
Genre: Humour, Slice of Life, Marriage, Melodrama,
Samaah narrates a humorous, witty and honest encounter of a 25 year old girl in her marriage hunt. Madhurima is far from being an ideal bride when she's 93 kilograms in weight. Her family believes that her age for marriage is ideal, but the hunt for perfect groom isn't easy.
The writer illustrates true family biases towards fat girls. The story deals with Orthodox idealism of slim and fair brides and fat shaming. She also makes us realize how easy it is judge others, instead of understanding their perspective. The story takes us in a witty, realistic ride towards the life of a young fat girl in her marriage prospect and the problems she deals in a biased Indian society.
The author also makes us understand that not only girls are judged, but guys are too. Madhurima judges Harsh for being shy and introvert, even though she herself hates to be judged by others because of her body size.
Madhurima's encounter with Harsh seems like a true and real life fairy tale, but we should not forget how Dr. Marwah acts like a catalyst in this love story...
Author: Samaah Visaria
Age: +12
Rating: 3/5
Genre: Humour, Slice of Life, Marriage, Melodrama,
Samaah narrates a humorous, witty and honest encounter of a 25 year old girl in her marriage hunt. Madhurima is far from being an ideal bride when she's 93 kilograms in weight. Her family believes that her age for marriage is ideal, but the hunt for perfect groom isn't easy.
The writer illustrates true family biases towards fat girls. The story deals with Orthodox idealism of slim and fair brides and fat shaming. She also makes us realize how easy it is judge others, instead of understanding their perspective. The story takes us in a witty, realistic ride towards the life of a young fat girl in her marriage prospect and the problems she deals in a biased Indian society.
The author also makes us understand that not only girls are judged, but guys are too. Madhurima judges Harsh for being shy and introvert, even though she herself hates to be judged by others because of her body size.
Madhurima's encounter with Harsh seems like a true and real life fairy tale, but we should not forget how Dr. Marwah acts like a catalyst in this love story...
October 27, 2017
sweet n simple..with a lovely message that not everyone's life is perfect, though it seems to be.. but each one of us is facing our own troubles.. so accept it , face it and enjoy the imperfections that u have born with.. !! some one will surely be there who will find solace in ur imperfections !! :)
December 29, 2017
It’s a nice light weight fiction book which will take you mind off some serious stories. Nothing that promising about book but sometimes simple story can touch you and make you smile. I like it how she changed the way to look at her self despite being fat and also fell in love with Harsh married him. Some stories are simple and enjoyable
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January 3, 2021
A quick, easy read.
It has its funny moments. Indian "arranged" marriage, obesity, heartaches, love, divorce, shrink visits, loads of self deprecation, the pushy grandma... You name it. This one's got it all. A total masala, but surprisingly not a total mess. Overall a good read.
It has its funny moments. Indian "arranged" marriage, obesity, heartaches, love, divorce, shrink visits, loads of self deprecation, the pushy grandma... You name it. This one's got it all. A total masala, but surprisingly not a total mess. Overall a good read.
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August 17, 2017Samah V knows her audience and so she used her skills accordingly, I loved how samah gripped her audience. Must read
September 27, 2017
The full review can be found on The Telegraph Kolkata website!
November 22, 2017
Amusing Read
Liked the book. But hoped for a little more on the Harsh and Madhu phase .... found that part a bit rushed......but nevethless good book to take your time off things
Liked the book. But hoped for a little more on the Harsh and Madhu phase .... found that part a bit rushed......but nevethless good book to take your time off things
July 9, 2024
Every girl goes through the process of becoming slim and good-looking for their groom hunt. It’s a pain in ass. I feel you girls.
Madhurima, 25 years old, is still single and weighs 93 kg. She has faced so many rejections from the groom side. And suddenly, a family agrees to get married to her. Harsh, who is the fiancee of Madhurima, Madhurima was the one who initiated the conversation with Harsh. Eventually, they both got engaged. She was wondering why Harsh had never been romantic or started being romantic. After a long while, she happened to know about the car present that her dad wanted to gift them. It’s not a gift, and it’s a demand from her in-laws side. She was arguing regarding this with her parents just to stop the wedding. She can’t tolerate these kinds of things. How can a person be married if there are demands? In later years, they will demand more for things. Later, she started going out rather than sulking inside her room. With the support of her best friend Anu, she was going to dance class. After 3 classes, she thought of dropping, and on day 4, there was an individual dance on their steps. She made everyone “awww” with her dance steps. That’s where she started loving going to dance class. Anu, her best friend, frequently started staying at her home. When they were speaking, she dropped the bomb and said she was not happy. Madhu was wondering about all those big, fat Indian wedding things. Harsh, who has anxiety disorder, has never spoken to anyone apart from family members. That’s the reason he never said anything to Madhu.
Later, they both got married with her parents blessing in a simple way. She wanted to live those moments. Later, her in-laws changed their minds and joined in at the at the last minute. Not every marriage has a happily ever after. If you want to get married to a slim and cute-looking girl, then things won’t work later. What if every girl demands the same too much of a condition? It’s just two hearts that need to be seen through eyes. When you support each other, You can achieve everything. The sky is the limit.
Madhurima, 25 years old, is still single and weighs 93 kg. She has faced so many rejections from the groom side. And suddenly, a family agrees to get married to her. Harsh, who is the fiancee of Madhurima, Madhurima was the one who initiated the conversation with Harsh. Eventually, they both got engaged. She was wondering why Harsh had never been romantic or started being romantic. After a long while, she happened to know about the car present that her dad wanted to gift them. It’s not a gift, and it’s a demand from her in-laws side. She was arguing regarding this with her parents just to stop the wedding. She can’t tolerate these kinds of things. How can a person be married if there are demands? In later years, they will demand more for things. Later, she started going out rather than sulking inside her room. With the support of her best friend Anu, she was going to dance class. After 3 classes, she thought of dropping, and on day 4, there was an individual dance on their steps. She made everyone “awww” with her dance steps. That’s where she started loving going to dance class. Anu, her best friend, frequently started staying at her home. When they were speaking, she dropped the bomb and said she was not happy. Madhu was wondering about all those big, fat Indian wedding things. Harsh, who has anxiety disorder, has never spoken to anyone apart from family members. That’s the reason he never said anything to Madhu.
Later, they both got married with her parents blessing in a simple way. She wanted to live those moments. Later, her in-laws changed their minds and joined in at the at the last minute. Not every marriage has a happily ever after. If you want to get married to a slim and cute-looking girl, then things won’t work later. What if every girl demands the same too much of a condition? It’s just two hearts that need to be seen through eyes. When you support each other, You can achieve everything. The sky is the limit.
April 15, 2022
Encounters of a Fat Bride by Samah Visaria
It all began as a typical girl who was 25 year unmarried girl who was 5'2 and was weighing 93 kilos. And you know how the society is out there, girl turning 21 itself makes her look like a 50 year old for the society and the pressure just builds up.
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Madhurima Pandey, the protagonist of the story is relatable and you can feel yourself being there, after having years passed on being single, she decides to give arranged marriage a try, to put an end to the pressure and also to seek out for that little amount of Validation and Attention from the opposite gender, She convinces herself to see the Guy.
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Harsh Pandey, a shy guy, mama's boy, who just accepts everything, who speaks nothing, sends Good morning Text in image form with a philosophical quote on WhatsApp, who uses punctuation marks and no emojis in his text messages. A "not-so-romantic " (maybe or maybe not) is what he is, who agrees to marry Madhurima.
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Series of events happen overtime, they get engaged, but Madhurima calls off the wedding after an incident. Which was the highlight of the story in my opinion and much needed one.
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I initially thought this was just another typical bollywood material novel, but soon when I continued, it did unravel a lot of things, be it body shaming, rejections in relationship, gender stereotyping and how the society out there is having a metric to judge you for every quality you possess.
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Is it okay for a woman to be fat, outgoing and not so feminine? Is it okay for a man to be shy and not too romantic? Is it okay for women to make the first move when it comes to romance? Is it okay to not fit in with the stereotypes?
Acceptance of who you are and what you are is all what it takes is it?
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Few moments from the book were outstanding. Really loved the wedding circus brouhaha. The author subtly covered all the issues in a light hearted manner, and I did chuckle a lot for few writings.
It all began as a typical girl who was 25 year unmarried girl who was 5'2 and was weighing 93 kilos. And you know how the society is out there, girl turning 21 itself makes her look like a 50 year old for the society and the pressure just builds up.
~
Madhurima Pandey, the protagonist of the story is relatable and you can feel yourself being there, after having years passed on being single, she decides to give arranged marriage a try, to put an end to the pressure and also to seek out for that little amount of Validation and Attention from the opposite gender, She convinces herself to see the Guy.
~
Harsh Pandey, a shy guy, mama's boy, who just accepts everything, who speaks nothing, sends Good morning Text in image form with a philosophical quote on WhatsApp, who uses punctuation marks and no emojis in his text messages. A "not-so-romantic " (maybe or maybe not) is what he is, who agrees to marry Madhurima.
~
Series of events happen overtime, they get engaged, but Madhurima calls off the wedding after an incident. Which was the highlight of the story in my opinion and much needed one.
~
I initially thought this was just another typical bollywood material novel, but soon when I continued, it did unravel a lot of things, be it body shaming, rejections in relationship, gender stereotyping and how the society out there is having a metric to judge you for every quality you possess.
~
Is it okay for a woman to be fat, outgoing and not so feminine? Is it okay for a man to be shy and not too romantic? Is it okay for women to make the first move when it comes to romance? Is it okay to not fit in with the stereotypes?
Acceptance of who you are and what you are is all what it takes is it?
~
Few moments from the book were outstanding. Really loved the wedding circus brouhaha. The author subtly covered all the issues in a light hearted manner, and I did chuckle a lot for few writings.
July 20, 2018
Putting on weight at the time of her wedding is every bride’s worst nightmare and almost all of them start strictly dieting and doing some really crazy things to lose weight following up to the D-Day. Society has conditioned our mindset to believe that beauty means a slim figure and that a fat girl can’t find herself a groom.
Encounters of a Fat Bride is the story of Madhurima Pandey, the quintessential 21st century woman who does not want to get married, reason – she’s 93 kilos and which man would come forward to marry that? Her family is like almost every other Indian family, looking for a groom as soon as she’s turned 25.
The book is a journey of Madhurima’s emotions from a strong rebellion to the idea of getting married and then mellowing down to her family’s wishes. Finally, when Harsh steps forward to marry her, she starts questioning his motives. And what follows is the story of Encounters of a Fat Bride.
The language is very easy, simple and conversational, no complexity in the grammar. Some character sketches could have been given more depth. Though the book is more of a monologue, one would want to see more dialogue from some of the characters in the book.
The author has shown us a very different take on Indian weddings, the story behind and before the ‘happily ever after’. We have typical nosy aunties, overenthusiastic family members, friends eager to go shopping and the stereotype mother-in-law.
A very light read which can be finished in a single sitting, Encounters of a Fat Bride is a light satire and a romantic read. The content is relatable with most women in India facing body-shaming by society. The book is a good mix of comedy, romance and sarcasm, the perfect combination for a Sunday afternoon read.
Encounters of a Fat Bride is the story of Madhurima Pandey, the quintessential 21st century woman who does not want to get married, reason – she’s 93 kilos and which man would come forward to marry that? Her family is like almost every other Indian family, looking for a groom as soon as she’s turned 25.
The book is a journey of Madhurima’s emotions from a strong rebellion to the idea of getting married and then mellowing down to her family’s wishes. Finally, when Harsh steps forward to marry her, she starts questioning his motives. And what follows is the story of Encounters of a Fat Bride.
The language is very easy, simple and conversational, no complexity in the grammar. Some character sketches could have been given more depth. Though the book is more of a monologue, one would want to see more dialogue from some of the characters in the book.
The author has shown us a very different take on Indian weddings, the story behind and before the ‘happily ever after’. We have typical nosy aunties, overenthusiastic family members, friends eager to go shopping and the stereotype mother-in-law.
A very light read which can be finished in a single sitting, Encounters of a Fat Bride is a light satire and a romantic read. The content is relatable with most women in India facing body-shaming by society. The book is a good mix of comedy, romance and sarcasm, the perfect combination for a Sunday afternoon read.
September 22, 2020
Have you ever been body shamed? Have you ever visited a shop where the seller says,'Didi aapke size me nahi milega ye.' ? Well, I have been a prey of these dialogues for my whole life. I have encountered the 'perils' of being overweight umpteen times and hence I was easily attracted to the title of this book by Samah Visaria.
Every bride wishes to look like and dress up in a particular way on her wedding day. But if circumstances are not good, she has to face various difficulties to get that picture perfect look. Presentation is not the only problem, complications begin when the hunt for the suitable groom begins. The journey of finding a groom for a 93 kilo , 25 year old bride is very interestingly depicted in 'Encounters Of A Fat Bride '.
Our protagonist, Madhurima Pandey is an eligible bride to be. She is educated, independent, beautiful but issue arises where her body weight and type is concerned. Madhurima has a barrel of rejections and constant nagging from her family to meet another guy. Things take a twist when she gets a 'Yes' from Harsh Tripathi's family. Madhu is overwhelmed. But when she drunk dials Harsh once, she feels that she has jeopardized all her chances of getting married to a good guy.
As I was turning the pages of this book, my relatablity quotient started growing up to some another level. Buying this for just 175₹ was totally worthy. The author has fairly explained a quintessential middle class family nagging their fat daughter to get married. Narration is on point with chapters ending with eagerness triggers. Language is smooth throughout 215 pages of this book which I finished reading in 3 days. Definitely a page turner it is. So when are you laying your hands on this compelling read ?
Every bride wishes to look like and dress up in a particular way on her wedding day. But if circumstances are not good, she has to face various difficulties to get that picture perfect look. Presentation is not the only problem, complications begin when the hunt for the suitable groom begins. The journey of finding a groom for a 93 kilo , 25 year old bride is very interestingly depicted in 'Encounters Of A Fat Bride '.
Our protagonist, Madhurima Pandey is an eligible bride to be. She is educated, independent, beautiful but issue arises where her body weight and type is concerned. Madhurima has a barrel of rejections and constant nagging from her family to meet another guy. Things take a twist when she gets a 'Yes' from Harsh Tripathi's family. Madhu is overwhelmed. But when she drunk dials Harsh once, she feels that she has jeopardized all her chances of getting married to a good guy.
As I was turning the pages of this book, my relatablity quotient started growing up to some another level. Buying this for just 175₹ was totally worthy. The author has fairly explained a quintessential middle class family nagging their fat daughter to get married. Narration is on point with chapters ending with eagerness triggers. Language is smooth throughout 215 pages of this book which I finished reading in 3 days. Definitely a page turner it is. So when are you laying your hands on this compelling read ?
April 9, 2021
Name: Encounters of a Fat Bride
Author: Samaah Visaria
Age: 15+
Genre : RomCom/ Humor
Rating: 4 ⭐
R. E. V. I. E. W : This book is about a girl named Madhurima Pandey, single, 25 years old and weighs, obviously on the “wrong” side of the scale. She is also qualified, employed and also pursuing her studies while working.Her family is like almost every other Indian family, looking for a groom as soon as she turned 25.
It is a journey of Madhurima’s emotions from a strong rebellion to the idea of getting married and then mellowing down to her family’s wishes. Finally, when Harsh steps forward to marry her, she starts questioning his motives. And what follows is the story of Encounters of a Fat Bride.
We can dream of perfect romances and perfect clothes and a ‘princess-style-wedding’ but it doesn’t matter in the end. This book is certainly the journey of a girl who wanted Bollywood type romance, a perfect figure, a perfect life and eventually understands that not having a slim waist doesn’t undermine her worth, she is happy, with an imperfect figure, a simple wedding and a ‘not-so-bollywood’ type love.
I really loved Madhu’s character because she portrays what a young modern woman expects out her marriage, how she treats the negative elements strictly. Her acceptance of her body image and understanding that all genders ought to be equal attempts to remove society’s misconceptions. The climax could’ve definitely been better, ( wer i took out one star ⭐ in ratings)but the book is certainly worth giving a try.
Author: Samaah Visaria
Age: 15+
Genre : RomCom/ Humor
Rating: 4 ⭐
R. E. V. I. E. W : This book is about a girl named Madhurima Pandey, single, 25 years old and weighs, obviously on the “wrong” side of the scale. She is also qualified, employed and also pursuing her studies while working.Her family is like almost every other Indian family, looking for a groom as soon as she turned 25.
It is a journey of Madhurima’s emotions from a strong rebellion to the idea of getting married and then mellowing down to her family’s wishes. Finally, when Harsh steps forward to marry her, she starts questioning his motives. And what follows is the story of Encounters of a Fat Bride.
We can dream of perfect romances and perfect clothes and a ‘princess-style-wedding’ but it doesn’t matter in the end. This book is certainly the journey of a girl who wanted Bollywood type romance, a perfect figure, a perfect life and eventually understands that not having a slim waist doesn’t undermine her worth, she is happy, with an imperfect figure, a simple wedding and a ‘not-so-bollywood’ type love.
I really loved Madhu’s character because she portrays what a young modern woman expects out her marriage, how she treats the negative elements strictly. Her acceptance of her body image and understanding that all genders ought to be equal attempts to remove society’s misconceptions. The climax could’ve definitely been better, ( wer i took out one star ⭐ in ratings)but the book is certainly worth giving a try.
September 22, 2022
Being a girl, we are warned early on that life will be very difficult in many aspects. Growing up, we are taught to work on our external appearance...thin, fat, tall, short, dark, fair, heavy bosom, trim waistline..everything has been put forward in specific social standards. If this is not looked into, society makes our life difficult to get by.
Encounters of a fat bride by Samah portrays the hardship and struggle endured by a fat girl in typical Indian society. Madhurima ‘Madhu’ Pandey is our protagonist. She is a twenty-five years old woman, and unfortunately, she is on the wrong side of the weighing scale. Her weight has started to bother her as the marriage talks begin. She has only been receiving rejections from prospective grooms till one family decides to accept her the way she is. The guy's name is Harsh, and for some reason, Madhurima has been doubtful about this match. She could sense something was wrong, but she couldn't pinpoint what made her feel that way.
Things between the families turn ugly when Madhurima receives a phone call on behalf of her father. This twist in the plot is where the story gets interesting.
On a personal note, this book is a nice, funny, one-time read, and many girls would find this story relatable. Since the plot is based on the mentality of Indian society, you would question many things when reading the book.
Encounters of a fat bride by Samah portrays the hardship and struggle endured by a fat girl in typical Indian society. Madhurima ‘Madhu’ Pandey is our protagonist. She is a twenty-five years old woman, and unfortunately, she is on the wrong side of the weighing scale. Her weight has started to bother her as the marriage talks begin. She has only been receiving rejections from prospective grooms till one family decides to accept her the way she is. The guy's name is Harsh, and for some reason, Madhurima has been doubtful about this match. She could sense something was wrong, but she couldn't pinpoint what made her feel that way.
Things between the families turn ugly when Madhurima receives a phone call on behalf of her father. This twist in the plot is where the story gets interesting.
On a personal note, this book is a nice, funny, one-time read, and many girls would find this story relatable. Since the plot is based on the mentality of Indian society, you would question many things when reading the book.
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