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I Can't Make This Up
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Nominee for Readers' Favorite Humor (2017)According to the three people who have seen Kevin Hart and a book in the same room, the answer is clear:
A book is compact. Kevin Hart is compact.
A book has a spine that holds it together. Kevin Hart has a spine that holds him together.
A book has a beginning. Kevin Hart's life uniquely qualifies him to write this book by also having a beginning.
It begins in North Philadelphia. He was born an accident, unwanted by his parents. His father was a drug addict who was in and out of jail. His brother was a crack dealer and petty thief. And his mother was overwhelmingly strict, beating him with belts, frying pans, and his own toys.
The odds, in short, were stacked against our young hero, just like the odds that are stacked against the release of a new book in this era of social media (where Hart has a following of over 100 million, by the way).
But Kevin Hart, like Ernest Hemingway, JK Rowling, and Chocolate Droppa before him, was able to defy the odds and turn it around. In his literary debut, he takes the reader on a journey through what his life was, what it is today, and how he's overcome each challenge to become the man he is today.
And that man happens to be the biggest comedian in the world, with tours that sell out football stadiums and films that have collectively grossed over $3.5 billion.
He achieved this not just through hard work, determination, and talent: It was through his unique way of looking at the world. Because just like a book has chapters, Hart sees life as a collection of chapters that each person gets to write for himself or herself.
"Not only do you get to choose how you interpret each chapter, but your interpretation writes the next chapter," he says. "So why not choose the interpretation that serves your life the best?"
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A book is compact. Kevin Hart is compact.
A book has a spine that holds it together. Kevin Hart has a spine that holds him together.
A book has a beginning. Kevin Hart's life uniquely qualifies him to write this book by also having a beginning.
It begins in North Philadelphia. He was born an accident, unwanted by his parents. His father was a drug addict who was in and out of jail. His brother was a crack dealer and petty thief. And his mother was overwhelmingly strict, beating him with belts, frying pans, and his own toys.
The odds, in short, were stacked against our young hero, just like the odds that are stacked against the release of a new book in this era of social media (where Hart has a following of over 100 million, by the way).
But Kevin Hart, like Ernest Hemingway, JK Rowling, and Chocolate Droppa before him, was able to defy the odds and turn it around. In his literary debut, he takes the reader on a journey through what his life was, what it is today, and how he's overcome each challenge to become the man he is today.
And that man happens to be the biggest comedian in the world, with tours that sell out football stadiums and films that have collectively grossed over $3.5 billion.
He achieved this not just through hard work, determination, and talent: It was through his unique way of looking at the world. Because just like a book has chapters, Hart sees life as a collection of chapters that each person gets to write for himself or herself.
"Not only do you get to choose how you interpret each chapter, but your interpretation writes the next chapter," he says. "So why not choose the interpretation that serves your life the best?"
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First published June 6, 2017
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Kevin Hart
8 books642 followersKevin Hart is an award-winning actor and comedian. His films, including Central Intelligence, Think Like a Man, Get Hard, Ride Along, The Wedding Ringer, and The Secret Life of Pets have earned over $3.5 billion at the box office. His stand-up comedy tours, including Let Me Explain, Laugh at My Pain, and What Now?, have sold out arenas and football stadiums, leading Forbes to name him the “king of comedy.” He is also the first comedian with a Nike sneaker line; a television producer, creating the BET show Real Husbands of Hollywood and the Laugh Out Loud Network; and CEO of Hartbeat Productions. Hart currently lives in Los Angeles with his family.
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May 14, 2017
I'll start off by saying I had zero interest in reading this book. I was admittedly a hater and felt that although I am a huge fan of Kevin Hart's stand-up, he did not deserve a book deal. His grammar is so horrible, I had to unfollow him on social media. With that said....
I LOVED this book. I really appreciated how honest and genuine the entire book felt. He was upfront about having a writer, and I think Hart and Strauss collaborated perfectly. You can just see the Hart shining through the entire memoir.
This book is not at all what I expected it would be. I didn't think it was that funny. I chuckled a handful of times while reading it, but I actually liked that about it. Instead of it being a written version of a comedy special (like I thought it would be), it read like an inspirational story that absolutely anyone would love.
There are sooo many things I loved about this book.
1. I loved how much he loves and honors his mom for everything she did for him. He could have whined and complained, but instead he honors her as being the reason why he succeeded.
2. He was not scared to show his ugly side, and I just felt this made it so much more authentic, and showed you how much he has grown as a person. This alone makes you want to strive to become better as well.
3. His positivity is just such a beautiful trait, and it shines throughout.
4. I loved his advice because he cited examples from his own life where he wished he had known or followed his own advice.
5. I admire what a great dad he is despite having a horrible father himself. He never once bashed his dad, but stated facts and expressed his love for his dad nonetheless.
Overall, I cannot even begin to express my gratitude to Atrium for offering me the chance to read this book a month before it goes on sale. I would have missed out on a great read because I was too busy being a hateful jerk. I am now going to follow him on social media again... 5/5
I LOVED this book. I really appreciated how honest and genuine the entire book felt. He was upfront about having a writer, and I think Hart and Strauss collaborated perfectly. You can just see the Hart shining through the entire memoir.
This book is not at all what I expected it would be. I didn't think it was that funny. I chuckled a handful of times while reading it, but I actually liked that about it. Instead of it being a written version of a comedy special (like I thought it would be), it read like an inspirational story that absolutely anyone would love.
There are sooo many things I loved about this book.
1. I loved how much he loves and honors his mom for everything she did for him. He could have whined and complained, but instead he honors her as being the reason why he succeeded.
2. He was not scared to show his ugly side, and I just felt this made it so much more authentic, and showed you how much he has grown as a person. This alone makes you want to strive to become better as well.
3. His positivity is just such a beautiful trait, and it shines throughout.
4. I loved his advice because he cited examples from his own life where he wished he had known or followed his own advice.
5. I admire what a great dad he is despite having a horrible father himself. He never once bashed his dad, but stated facts and expressed his love for his dad nonetheless.
Overall, I cannot even begin to express my gratitude to Atrium for offering me the chance to read this book a month before it goes on sale. I would have missed out on a great read because I was too busy being a hateful jerk. I am now going to follow him on social media again... 5/5
March 5, 2020
I went into reading “I Can't Make This Up” thinking I was going to just laugh, but I didn’t expect to get hooked on the story itself as well. Kevin Hart's story is not a new one, but it is powerful and inspiring. The book started off strong with hilarious, endearing, and sometimes bitter sweet childhood and coming of age stories that incorporated life lessons. It's a leisurely stroll through a life where there were choices to be made, and desperate situations to be lived through. The book felt more like a dialogue and storytelling than an autobiography.
Cute, clever, honest, and inspiring. I appreciated Hart’s honesty, especially concerning his first marriage and alcoholism. He bared his heart and soul in this book, talking about his own faults and the ugliness that is part of being alive-- and it was somehow still entertaining. Reading about his growth and desire to succeed was awe inspiring. I had no idea of the process he went through to get to the top. Like he states in the book he's an overnight success 16 years in the making!
I found most of the stories hilarious and the transitions from one chapter to the next were hysterical. I even laughed at few parts that I don't think were supposed to be funny! I could relate to this book on so many levels, and I think the advice it gives and the lessons it shares definitely give you something to think about.
Overall, this is a great story with numerous life lessons on hard work, perseverance, and sacrifice. The combination of life stories tied in to the pearls of wisdom that peppered this book made it quite entertaining and motivating -- and I do believe that Mr. Hart can't make any of these up! Well... except maybe the stuff about David Beckham or Beyonce… I don't think those were true.
Cute, clever, honest, and inspiring. I appreciated Hart’s honesty, especially concerning his first marriage and alcoholism. He bared his heart and soul in this book, talking about his own faults and the ugliness that is part of being alive-- and it was somehow still entertaining. Reading about his growth and desire to succeed was awe inspiring. I had no idea of the process he went through to get to the top. Like he states in the book he's an overnight success 16 years in the making!
I found most of the stories hilarious and the transitions from one chapter to the next were hysterical. I even laughed at few parts that I don't think were supposed to be funny! I could relate to this book on so many levels, and I think the advice it gives and the lessons it shares definitely give you something to think about.
Overall, this is a great story with numerous life lessons on hard work, perseverance, and sacrifice. The combination of life stories tied in to the pearls of wisdom that peppered this book made it quite entertaining and motivating -- and I do believe that Mr. Hart can't make any of these up! Well... except maybe the stuff about David Beckham or Beyonce… I don't think those were true.
July 19, 2017
Every experience is a potential life lesson. Even if you don’t appreciate it at the time, each struggle in the present is preparing you for something else in the future.
Almost everyone knows Kevin Hart's name by now, but that wasn't always the case. In his memoir, he tells the story of how he became an "overnight success that was only sixteen years in the making"–from a shoe salesman whose biggest dream was to become a Nike rep to a world-famous comedian. It wasn't always a smooth, upward trajectory and there were many lessons to learn along the way.
It just takes one person to say one thing, and your whole life can change. If success happens in part by chance, then the more you expose yourself to it, the luckier you will be. I worked hard in order to get lucky.
I don't follow Kevin Hart's career closely, but he's one of those comedians that makes me start laughing the moment they appear because I know it's about to get hilarious! This book will be most interesting for Kevin Hart fans and those who are interested in the lives of stand-up comedians, but his insightful advice is relevant to anyone seeking success. At 400 pages, it was denser than most celebrity memoirs I've read. Hart outlines every pivotal step of his career and the teachable moments he encountered along the way. There are funny parts, but it's more serious than I expected. As a warning, he gets a little personal sometimes and there were parts that were a little TMI for my tastes. My favorite part was Kevin's positive attitude. He says one of the traits that served him best was the ability to "shoulder shrug"– being able to see the big picture and not hold on to any negative emotions.
It’s easy to complain about your life—how tough it is, how unfair it is, how stressful it is, how everyone else has it much better. But if you step into the life of someone you envy for just a day, you’ll discover that everyone has their own problems, and they’re usually worse than yours. Because your problems are designed specifically for you, with the specific purpose of helping you grow.
"Growing up, the best thing I ever had was nothing." I grew up with a strict mom and no freedom, so the parts about his childhood resonated with me the most. I would've found these sections very reassuring as a teenager! His mother was a strict disciplinarian who was determined to not repeat her earlier parenting mistakes. She developed a regimented schedule that made it impossible for young Kevin to find trouble. His dad was an unpredictable man who struggled with drug addiction. He was always putting Kevin and his brother into dangerous situations. One of my favorite parts was when Kevin had to choose between the "comfortable dictatorship" of his Mom's home or "uncomfortable anarchy" at his Dad's home. It wasn't always easy to see at the time, but the trials of his childhood helped him develop a strong work ethic: "It turns out that the things I hated most as a child are the same things that serve me the most as an adult."
I’ve learned so many valuable lessons in my life, and this was one of the most important: Do your best, always. Because you never know who’s watching.
Kevin admits that his comedy material wasn't always ready for the big-time. It took a lot of practice and studying of other comedians to refine his act. He had the key realization that "an entertainer makes you laugh, but an artist makes you understand." To fully grow as an artist, he had to stop hiding behind the character of "Lil’ Kev the Bastard" and develop his own voice. He also emphasizes the importance of constantly learning and remaining ready for anything, so you can seize all the opportunities that come your way. There are so many instances in his career where the big jobs fizzled, but the least exciting offers and meetings propelled him further into success. He reiterates how important it is to treat others with kindness because no one finds success alone. In a creative field, it's not always going to be applause and accolades. After he finally experienced some mild success, he also got to experience becoming box-office poison. He recounts many of the low points and how he learned to overcome knee-jerk defensiveness to handle unsupportive friends and family, difficult crowds, and rejection more effectively.
While he had high standards for his career, he didn't always live up to those same standards in his personal life. He writes honestly about his most shameful moments: his toxic marriage that became violent and a DUI. He realized that he was repeating his parents' mistakes and exposing his children to some of the same hardships that he and his brother had to live through. Fortunately, he was able to learn from his mistakes and break the cycle.
In most action movies, one person rises out of a humble beginning to discover that they have been chosen by destiny to save the world. But that’s not how it works in real life. You rise out of your humble beginning to become part of a community, and it is only together and as equals that we will save the world.
I got a lot of value out of Kevin's worldview and life advice. After reading his memoir, I would describe Kevin Hart has a hard worker with a positive attitude. His persistence, commitment, and adaptability helped him find success in a competitive field. The tale of his journey to success is a reminder that what may look like a series of consistent successes from a distance is actually a never-ending emotional roller coaster full of ups and downs. I have to end this review with one of my favorite Kevin Hart bits: Ostriches. It cracks me up every time!
Success is not an excuse to stop; it’s a reason to move the goalposts farther out and accelerate. There is no destination, just a journey. And that journey is to keep building on top of what I’m building.
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I received this book for free from NetGalley and Atria / 37 INK. This does not affect my opinion of the book or the content of my review. It's available now!
September 25, 2023
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“You can’t control the events that happen to you, but you can control your interpretation of them. So why not choose the story that serves your life best?”
Let me begin this by saying I’m not what you’d call a big Kevin Hart fan. I was familiar with Kevin Hart, but I found him to be more than a bit of a shrieking harpy most of the time when my kids made me watch his movies and a handful of Tylenol were required before I could view his standup. I also thought for a really long time the super short thing was a gimmick and that he wasn’t as petite as he actually is. I don’t know how to defend that . . . .
And since I’m nothing if not an over-sharer, I also always thought Hart looked like someone who would have chronic halitosis and since he is so screamy, his rank breath could probably be smelled for miles. Obviously there’s no reason for me to have this impression aside from the fact that I’m insane, but I is what I is.
Really, the only times I truly luuuuuuuuurv Kevin Hart is when Jimmy Fallon is making him do something that terrifies him. Such as . . . .
Or . . . .
I am woman enough to admit both of those snips made me wet my drawers a little.
That giant ramble above is to show that I had little expectations going in to this, but since I do tend to pick up comedian autobiographies there was absolutely no reason for me not to grab this one as soon as it was released. It’s also to say that if you are a Hart superfan and have this on your TBR strictly for the funny, there’s a good chance you’re going to be disappointed. Honestly, the only thing I can remember really giving me a chuckle is the following:
“If I ever get into wrestling, Young Pygmy Dynamite is gonna be my ring name. “
“So far in this book, I’ve only been in fights with women, children, and old white men. If Young Pygmy Dynamite actually was in a wrestling league, he’d definitely be the villain.”
In reality, I Can’t Make This Up is about exactly what Kevin Hart says it’s about . . .
“These are the stories behind the jokes, and a few lessons I’ve figured out about life, success, family, and relationships along the way.”
He tells of growing up poor to an overworked, single mother and an absentee, drug-addicted father and how he hustled his ass off until he finally made it to the top while simultaneously flailing around in a dysfunctional/abusive relationship for years. It’s very clear that Hart realizes any famous person is only guaranteed 15 minutes, and he’s capitalizing on his. If you want to laugh, this probably isn’t the book for you. However, if you want some sound advice for either yourself or to pass on to the youngsters in your life, Kevin Hart (surprisingly) supplies an abundance . . . .
“To commit successfully, you don’t have to always believe in yourself – because, let’s face it, we all have our doubts at times. But you do have to believe in something higher than yourself: your purpose. If you believe in your purpose, you can survive the most challenging times, because God or destiny or your will – or whatever you prefer to believe in – is on your side.”
“You can’t control the events that happen to you, but you can control your interpretation of them. So why not choose the story that serves your life best?”
Let me begin this by saying I’m not what you’d call a big Kevin Hart fan. I was familiar with Kevin Hart, but I found him to be more than a bit of a shrieking harpy most of the time when my kids made me watch his movies and a handful of Tylenol were required before I could view his standup. I also thought for a really long time the super short thing was a gimmick and that he wasn’t as petite as he actually is. I don’t know how to defend that . . . .
And since I’m nothing if not an over-sharer, I also always thought Hart looked like someone who would have chronic halitosis and since he is so screamy, his rank breath could probably be smelled for miles. Obviously there’s no reason for me to have this impression aside from the fact that I’m insane, but I is what I is.
Really, the only times I truly luuuuuuuuurv Kevin Hart is when Jimmy Fallon is making him do something that terrifies him. Such as . . . .
Or . . . .
I am woman enough to admit both of those snips made me wet my drawers a little.
That giant ramble above is to show that I had little expectations going in to this, but since I do tend to pick up comedian autobiographies there was absolutely no reason for me not to grab this one as soon as it was released. It’s also to say that if you are a Hart superfan and have this on your TBR strictly for the funny, there’s a good chance you’re going to be disappointed. Honestly, the only thing I can remember really giving me a chuckle is the following:
“If I ever get into wrestling, Young Pygmy Dynamite is gonna be my ring name. “
“So far in this book, I’ve only been in fights with women, children, and old white men. If Young Pygmy Dynamite actually was in a wrestling league, he’d definitely be the villain.”
In reality, I Can’t Make This Up is about exactly what Kevin Hart says it’s about . . .
“These are the stories behind the jokes, and a few lessons I’ve figured out about life, success, family, and relationships along the way.”
He tells of growing up poor to an overworked, single mother and an absentee, drug-addicted father and how he hustled his ass off until he finally made it to the top while simultaneously flailing around in a dysfunctional/abusive relationship for years. It’s very clear that Hart realizes any famous person is only guaranteed 15 minutes, and he’s capitalizing on his. If you want to laugh, this probably isn’t the book for you. However, if you want some sound advice for either yourself or to pass on to the youngsters in your life, Kevin Hart (surprisingly) supplies an abundance . . . .
“To commit successfully, you don’t have to always believe in yourself – because, let’s face it, we all have our doubts at times. But you do have to believe in something higher than yourself: your purpose. If you believe in your purpose, you can survive the most challenging times, because God or destiny or your will – or whatever you prefer to believe in – is on your side.”
July 13, 2023
Kevin Hart
Kevin Hart is an award-winning comedian and actor, and it took him only 16 years to become an 'overnight success.' In this inspirational and entertaining memoir - written with Neil Strauss - Hart talks about his life, career, family, and friends - and it's clear that he's a loving son, loyal friend, devoted father, and exceptionally hard worker. Hart is also an honest man and admits that - in his youth - he was a bad husband to his first wife.....and gambled, drank, and splurged too much.
The book, though funny in places, is not chock full of jokes and hilarious bits - just so you know.
Hart was born and raised in North Philadelphia. His dad, nicknamed Spoon, was a drug addict and a 'player' - with girlfriends all over town. Spoon spent four years in prison, after which he split from Kevin's mother for good.
Kevin - who says he was 'born with the gift of the shoulder shrug' - accepted the situation, said okay, and got on with his life. In fact, 'the shoulder shrug' helped Kevin get through many low points in his life.
Kevin Hart
After the split, Kevin and his older brother Kenneth would occasionally see their dad, which led to some of the 'scariest experiences' in Kevin's life. Among other things, Spoon let 8-year-old Kevin drive a motorboat - which he promptly crashed; and sicced a large dog onto the boys after Kenneth beat him at basketball.
Spoon also stole from his family. At one point - when the boys were grown - Spoon robbed all the equipment from a barbershop Kenneth was about to open.....AND took his car. In spite of everything, Kevin chose not to get angry, and to appreciate his father.....who could be a very entertaining guy.
Kevin Hart (middle), his brother Kenneth, and his father Spoon
The biggest influence in Hart's life was his mother, Nancy. After Kenneth got into trouble with gangs and criminal activity as a teen, Nancy kept Kevin on a very short leash. If he stepped out of line, Kevin got hit with an open hand, fist, belt, shoe, slipper, or even a section of Hot Wheels track - which Nancy kept scattered around the house for convenience. LOL
Kevin Hart (left), his mother Nancy, and his brother Kenneth
To keep young Kevin occupied, Nancy enrolled him in extracurricular activities like basketball and swim team - which had hours of practice and weekend meets. When Kevin wasn't at school or doing sports, he had to stay with his 'foster grandmother', Ms. Davis.....or tag along with his mother to work, church, shopping, friends' homes, and Bible study. Though he was frustrated at the time, Kevin says all this activity prepared him for his life, which is very busy.
Young Kevin Hart
In school, Kevin wanted to be cool and attract girls - which is hard to do when you're short and don't have any money for flashy clothes. So Kevin decided to be funny....and the gals started hanging out with him. Thus, a comedian was born.
After high school Hart spent a short time in community college, then got a job in the sneaker department of City Sports. Kevin would often entertain his colleagues and customers with funny stories and jokes, and eventually started doing stand-up at 'The Laff House Comedy Club'.....using the stage name 'Lil Kev the Bastard.' This was the start of Hart's professional career. Around this time Kevin also met Torrei, the girl he'd be with for the next 12 years.
Kevin Hart started to do stand-up comedy as a teen
By the time he was 20, Hart was a regular performer at comedy clubs in Philadelphia - but itched to break into the big time. Invited to tag along by his friend, comedian Keith Robinson, Kevin began going back and forth to New York - 'the comedy capital of the world.'
Comedian Keith Robinson was Kevin Hart's mentor
At New York's clubs, Kevin watched, learned, honed his craft....and eventually started performing. When Hart wasn't in New York, he did shows in Philadelphia. Kevin's frequent trips and gigs led to constant fights with Torrei, who continually accused him of cheating.
Kevin Hart on stage
By the time he was 22, Hart got some movie and television deals, and moved to Hollywood with his girlfriend. Unfortunately, Hart's early opportunities didn't pan out, and he squandered what money he made on jewelry, furniture, and expensive meals. Then, at the age of 23, when Kevin was flat broke, he and Torrei got married - thinking this would improve their relationship. It didn't.
Kevin Hart and his first wife Torrei
Hart's failed movies and cancelled TV series made him 'Hollywood poison', and the comic was compelled to reinvigorate his stand-up career. So, for the next seven years Kevin traveled all over the country, performing at EVERY comedy club and college he could book. Kevin's plan: to build a fan base so huge that entertainment moguls would HAVE to give him another chance.
Kevin Hart performed all over the country
To assist with his career, Hart engaged various agents and promotors, and his memoir contains advice about the right (and wrong) people to employ (hint: stay away from aggressive loudmouths and scam artists). In time, Kevin hired an agent named Dave Becky, who's still with him today. Hart also improved his act by doing away with contrived jokes and using his real life for inspiration - like the time he called the cops after Torrei slapped him across the face.....and the police didn't do a thing. In short, Hart learned to make comedy out of his uniqueness and personality.
Kevin Hart's agent Dave Becky
Hart also surrounded himself with an entourage of fellow comedians and friends, who communally called themselves 'The Plastic Cup Boyz' - for the red cups they drank from. Everyone involved benefitted from the relationship. The chums helped Hart with his act, and Kevin provided jobs and career promotion.
Kevin Hart and his comedian friends called themselves 'The Plastic Cup Boyz'
While all this was happening, Kevin and Torrei started a family. Unfortunately, their relationship got more contentious and their fighting escalated. Kevin admits to numerous infidelities and much bad behavior during this period.
Kevin Hart, his first wife Torrei, and their children
To add to his woes, Kevin's mother passed away from ovarian cancer. The comic notes: "In my mind, my heart, and my life, she is still completely present to this day - and as wise, compassionate, and stubborn as ever."
When Hart was 30, he finally split from Torrei for good - so the children wouldn't have to see their folks fighting constantly. Around this time Kevin also starred in a hit movie, 'Think Like a Man' - which was a turning point in his career.
The movie 'Think Like a Man' was a turning point for Kevin Hart's career
From this point on Kevin's life was on an upward trajectory - with movies, comedy tours, TV productions, and more. Kevin, who never gets complacent and doesn't know the word 'enough', has even bigger plans for his future - both personal and professional.
To finish up, I'll mention a few bits of the story I found particularly memorable and/or funny:
- Kevin's mother could put 'the fear of God' into anyone.....except his father.
- Hart honed his 'charm' on his minder, Ms. Davis....so she wouldn't tell his mother when he did stuff he shouldn't. Kevin later used this cultivated charm - and winning personality - to get jobs and opportunities.
- When Kevin got fed up with his mother's strict rules he went to live with his dad.....for ONE day. Then he hustled right back home. His mom KNEW that would happen (ha ha ha).
- In middle school, Kevin longed to have pubic hair - which he thought would make girls like him. So Kevin tried everything he could to sprout a bush - including hair oil, shaving cream, fertilizer, and prayers. (The fertilizer really cracks me up.)
- Young Kevin also thought a big weiner would attract the ladies. So he wore his brother's large shoes....hoping the girls would think his pecker matched his feet. LOL
- By the time Kevin was a teen, his mom gave up corporal punishment and switched to verbal reprimands. Nancy knew that - short of stabbing, shooting, or mace-ing Kevin, there was nothing she could do to physically hurt him.
And the best bit of all:
- When he was financially strapped early in his career, Kevin maxed out an American Express card.....and couldn't pay the bill. The company never forgot, and - even when Kevin was a huge success - denied him a card. In the book's acknowledgements, Kevin writes: "American Express, if you're reading this, please run my credit again. I wrote this entire book just to send a message to you: I'm now ready to handle the responsibility of a credit card."
I enjoyed the memoir, which is well-written and includes photos of people in Kevin's life. Highly recommended.
Note: Some of Hart's comedy shows are available on Netflix, in case you're interested. They're really funny!
Thanks to Netgalley, the authors (Kevin Hart and Neil Strauss) and the publisher (Atria/37 INK) for a copy of the book.
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March 24, 2021
This wasn't a bad book, but I have a couple of massive problems with it that don't really have anything to do with the book itself.
First, I listened to this book on audiobook like I do most memoirs and non-fiction books, even though I also own a copy of it. And I realized very quickly that it was going by really slowly. After about 3 hours of the audiobook, I realized that as Kevin narrates the audiobook, he throws in a TON of aside information and goes off on a bunch of tangents that's not written in the book. The audiobook is literally a completely different story and experience than the actual book. I don't know why he was allowed to add in literally what probably added up to HOURS of extra content. A lot of times it was really lame and unfunny, but most times I just didn't even notice when he was going off track. But just be aware that listening to this and reading it are two completely different ordeals.
Second, this is written "with" another person (ie. i'm pretty sure this was somewhat ghostwritten), and it was kind of obvious during the audiobook. Kevin would often joke about not knowing how to pronounce something or that one of the chapter titles is stupid or he would make fun of the way something was phrased, and it was just so obvious that he wouldn't be pointing that out if he was the one who'd written it. At one point he reads the word "desert" but then spends literally like 5 minutes talking about the difference between desert and dessert and it's like ?????? If you wrote the book, wouldn't you know which one it is???? Anyway, that was just really irksome.
Third, Kevin just really made himself out to be a pretty shitty person in this book. I like that he doesn't shy away from talking about the bad portions of his life, but he really didn't talk about anything to redeem him from that darkness. I was almost shocked at how casually (and with jokes interspersed) he talked about really serious issues like drunk driving and cheating on his wife.
Which kind of delves into another issue-- this book covered his entire life, but I thought it would be more more interesting if it focused on his career. The beginning and the end of this book dragged because I was really only invested in his story of becoming a comedian/actor. But I stuck with it, and I did end up liking hearing him talk about his career.
Overall, this was just too long, a bit aimless, lacking any deep motivation or message to its audience (even though he tried to give "life lessons," they were pretty basic). Kevin had his funny moments and he had his annoying moments, and even though this definitely isn't on the level of some celebrity audiobooks i've listened to, I don't regret reading it.
First, I listened to this book on audiobook like I do most memoirs and non-fiction books, even though I also own a copy of it. And I realized very quickly that it was going by really slowly. After about 3 hours of the audiobook, I realized that as Kevin narrates the audiobook, he throws in a TON of aside information and goes off on a bunch of tangents that's not written in the book. The audiobook is literally a completely different story and experience than the actual book. I don't know why he was allowed to add in literally what probably added up to HOURS of extra content. A lot of times it was really lame and unfunny, but most times I just didn't even notice when he was going off track. But just be aware that listening to this and reading it are two completely different ordeals.
Second, this is written "with" another person (ie. i'm pretty sure this was somewhat ghostwritten), and it was kind of obvious during the audiobook. Kevin would often joke about not knowing how to pronounce something or that one of the chapter titles is stupid or he would make fun of the way something was phrased, and it was just so obvious that he wouldn't be pointing that out if he was the one who'd written it. At one point he reads the word "desert" but then spends literally like 5 minutes talking about the difference between desert and dessert and it's like ?????? If you wrote the book, wouldn't you know which one it is???? Anyway, that was just really irksome.
Third, Kevin just really made himself out to be a pretty shitty person in this book. I like that he doesn't shy away from talking about the bad portions of his life, but he really didn't talk about anything to redeem him from that darkness. I was almost shocked at how casually (and with jokes interspersed) he talked about really serious issues like drunk driving and cheating on his wife.
Which kind of delves into another issue-- this book covered his entire life, but I thought it would be more more interesting if it focused on his career. The beginning and the end of this book dragged because I was really only invested in his story of becoming a comedian/actor. But I stuck with it, and I did end up liking hearing him talk about his career.
Overall, this was just too long, a bit aimless, lacking any deep motivation or message to its audience (even though he tried to give "life lessons," they were pretty basic). Kevin had his funny moments and he had his annoying moments, and even though this definitely isn't on the level of some celebrity audiobooks i've listened to, I don't regret reading it.
July 22, 2017
This book really made me appreciate Kevin Hart and his story is very eye opening. I'm not sure why I never realized how long he's been around. From the consumer standpoint, it seems that he just exploded onto the scene, seemingly out of nowhere. His hilarious autobiography shows that he's been busting his ass for years to get where he's at today. This was a great listen. If you're a fan of his standup, you'll definitely enjoy the audio.
December 25, 2019
I currently have a full house. My attention is being pulled in all different directions, cutting into quality reading time. Last week I scanned the celebrity memoir shelf at the library to see if I could find one of interest. Most of celebrity memoirs are hit or miss but all provide light reading during busy times. My husband and I enjoy movies with Dwayne The Rock Johnson and Kevin Hart, my husband more than I but both of us find ourselves laughing hysterically at the on screen jokes. When Hart’s memoir stared at me from a library shelf, I knew that his humor would be a fun way to get through a busy week.
Kevin Hart has always been short and funny. He comes from North Philadelphia and raised by a mother who sacrificed a lot in her life to raise her two boys. As a single parent, Nancy Hart often worked for more than twelve hours at a time. She did not drive and relied on public transportation to shuttle her around Philadelphia. Working two jobs, she had to make sure that Kevin was scheduled until she got home at night, and that meant that he was a member of a basketball team and swim club for more than ten years. These activities kept him away from the drugs, gangs, and alcohol that corrupted his father and to a certain extent his brother before he joined the army. Nancy wanted her younger son to succeed and that meant homework first and being accounted for, keeping him off of the streets and out of harm’s way.
When Kevin graduated from high school, he did not have a plan. His grades were lousy and he could not get into any college. I am speculating that he had undiagnosed ADD but he does not say here. At his swim team graduation banquet, he delivered an impromptu speech. Following graduation Kevin went to work selling shoes. His charisma and people skills lead him to get promoted to floor manager in just a short amount of time. In both cases friends and co-workers noted that Kevin was funny and encouraged him to try standup comedy. He agreed and went to an amateur night at a club called The Laugh Cellar and killed it. Hart notes that are too many military analogies in comedy but that’s par for the course. After a successful first trial performance at the Laugh Cellar, Hart decided that he had the skills to become a stand up comic. After receiving his mother’s blessing, he was on his way, and the rest is history.
Hart’s family is so crazy that he really can not make up his life. His father especially appears as a sitcom character. Despite Kevin’s people skills, he did not become a Hollywood Star over night. After building his reputation as a comic, he received a break to to appear in a television pilot. The show, unfortunately, was not picked up by the networks, which lead to more flameouts and Hart realizing that his strength lay as a comic rather than as a television or movie star, at least at first. In the early days of social media, Hart became his own boss and with a team of close friends marketed himself and his brand online. For over seven years he performed at clubs all over the country, building himself up as a sought after comic. Through the hard work and perseverance, skills his mother preached when he was a kid, Hart was able stay par for the course and enjoy the stardom that he has today, staying true to his roots while raising his own kids. It has been a long, circuitous journey, but one that has resulted in success.
Today, Kevin Hart is the most sought after comic in the world. His movies net millions and have his audiences laughing in stitches. Hart credits his success to the lessons learned from his mother and throughout his life in keeping him off the street and away from the evils that have plagued too many kids from his neighborhood. He has told his children to stay true to themselves because their family has not always had all that they have now and to remember their father’s humble roots. I Can’t Make This Up was easy reading and good for many laughs. It was yet another example of a memoir I have read this year that demonstrated how it’s subject has seized his own personal American dream and bettered himself. In this case, the protagonist ended up a Hollywood Star but has remained true to himself throughout and provided his readers with a journey into the life of an extremely funny individual.
4 stars
Kevin Hart has always been short and funny. He comes from North Philadelphia and raised by a mother who sacrificed a lot in her life to raise her two boys. As a single parent, Nancy Hart often worked for more than twelve hours at a time. She did not drive and relied on public transportation to shuttle her around Philadelphia. Working two jobs, she had to make sure that Kevin was scheduled until she got home at night, and that meant that he was a member of a basketball team and swim club for more than ten years. These activities kept him away from the drugs, gangs, and alcohol that corrupted his father and to a certain extent his brother before he joined the army. Nancy wanted her younger son to succeed and that meant homework first and being accounted for, keeping him off of the streets and out of harm’s way.
When Kevin graduated from high school, he did not have a plan. His grades were lousy and he could not get into any college. I am speculating that he had undiagnosed ADD but he does not say here. At his swim team graduation banquet, he delivered an impromptu speech. Following graduation Kevin went to work selling shoes. His charisma and people skills lead him to get promoted to floor manager in just a short amount of time. In both cases friends and co-workers noted that Kevin was funny and encouraged him to try standup comedy. He agreed and went to an amateur night at a club called The Laugh Cellar and killed it. Hart notes that are too many military analogies in comedy but that’s par for the course. After a successful first trial performance at the Laugh Cellar, Hart decided that he had the skills to become a stand up comic. After receiving his mother’s blessing, he was on his way, and the rest is history.
Hart’s family is so crazy that he really can not make up his life. His father especially appears as a sitcom character. Despite Kevin’s people skills, he did not become a Hollywood Star over night. After building his reputation as a comic, he received a break to to appear in a television pilot. The show, unfortunately, was not picked up by the networks, which lead to more flameouts and Hart realizing that his strength lay as a comic rather than as a television or movie star, at least at first. In the early days of social media, Hart became his own boss and with a team of close friends marketed himself and his brand online. For over seven years he performed at clubs all over the country, building himself up as a sought after comic. Through the hard work and perseverance, skills his mother preached when he was a kid, Hart was able stay par for the course and enjoy the stardom that he has today, staying true to his roots while raising his own kids. It has been a long, circuitous journey, but one that has resulted in success.
Today, Kevin Hart is the most sought after comic in the world. His movies net millions and have his audiences laughing in stitches. Hart credits his success to the lessons learned from his mother and throughout his life in keeping him off the street and away from the evils that have plagued too many kids from his neighborhood. He has told his children to stay true to themselves because their family has not always had all that they have now and to remember their father’s humble roots. I Can’t Make This Up was easy reading and good for many laughs. It was yet another example of a memoir I have read this year that demonstrated how it’s subject has seized his own personal American dream and bettered himself. In this case, the protagonist ended up a Hollywood Star but has remained true to himself throughout and provided his readers with a journey into the life of an extremely funny individual.
4 stars
June 26, 2017
This is a surprisingly inspiring book. Yes, it was inspiring to read about how he overcame a challenging childhood to become the only comedian in history to sell out an NFL stadium, but it was also jam-packed with motivational passages for anyone who is working toward a dream.
I read it from the perspective of my sister and myself—we’re both published novelists. Also, because of my sister, I know more than the average nonperformer about the world of stand-up, sketch, and improv comedy and what it takes to make it in these careers. But I think if your goal is to move up the corporate ladder, become a chef, have more success in relationships—including the relationship with yourself—you’ll also find much to keep you going through difficult times.
There were some very funny bits to the book, which should surprise no one. I already knew some of Hart’s biography from his own stand-up specials and from reading an article in Rolling Stone magazine. To write this memoir, Hart had the help of Rolling Stone writer Neil Strauss, who is also the author of eight New York Times bestsellers.
The highlights of Hart’s making-it-big story began with him growing up in a rough neighborhood with a drug-addicted father who would literally steal from his own son (Hart’s older brother Kenneth). Hart’s brother briefly veered into selling street drugs before joining the Army and cleaning up his act. Hart’s mother was so strict that no matter what your issues with your mom might be, you should probably go ahead and forgive her right now.
It was fascinating hearing how hard he worked for so long and all the mistakes he made along the way. Persistence is how he ultimately made it. “It’s okay to fail, but it’s not okay to quit.”
As I mentioned, what made this book worth the money was all of the inspirational bits I took away from it. I could quote a million passages, but I leave you with this.
“Your dream is a huge boulder. It takes a lot of effort to get it moving. But if you can budge it just a few inches in the right terrain, then it starts picking up speed all by itself.”
For more of my reviews, please visit: http://theresaalan.net/blog
I read it from the perspective of my sister and myself—we’re both published novelists. Also, because of my sister, I know more than the average nonperformer about the world of stand-up, sketch, and improv comedy and what it takes to make it in these careers. But I think if your goal is to move up the corporate ladder, become a chef, have more success in relationships—including the relationship with yourself—you’ll also find much to keep you going through difficult times.
There were some very funny bits to the book, which should surprise no one. I already knew some of Hart’s biography from his own stand-up specials and from reading an article in Rolling Stone magazine. To write this memoir, Hart had the help of Rolling Stone writer Neil Strauss, who is also the author of eight New York Times bestsellers.
The highlights of Hart’s making-it-big story began with him growing up in a rough neighborhood with a drug-addicted father who would literally steal from his own son (Hart’s older brother Kenneth). Hart’s brother briefly veered into selling street drugs before joining the Army and cleaning up his act. Hart’s mother was so strict that no matter what your issues with your mom might be, you should probably go ahead and forgive her right now.
It was fascinating hearing how hard he worked for so long and all the mistakes he made along the way. Persistence is how he ultimately made it. “It’s okay to fail, but it’s not okay to quit.”
As I mentioned, what made this book worth the money was all of the inspirational bits I took away from it. I could quote a million passages, but I leave you with this.
“Your dream is a huge boulder. It takes a lot of effort to get it moving. But if you can budge it just a few inches in the right terrain, then it starts picking up speed all by itself.”
For more of my reviews, please visit: http://theresaalan.net/blog
June 4, 2018
I Can’t Make This Up is a memoir by Kevin Hart, detailing his life from childhood through his slow rise to fame, to where he is today - widely considered to be a well-known comedian and actor, and the lessons he’s learned along the way.
I’ve been a fan of Kevin Hart for quite awhile now, but was unfamiliar with his early climb to becoming a comedian and had forgotten about some of his earlier Hollywood appearances. Today, it seems like he is in movies all the time and one of my personal favorite projects of his was the TV show, Real Husbands of Hollywood. I don’t think it’s on anymore, or I haven’t kept up with it anyway, but I really enjoyed the first two seasons.
I Can’t Make This Up has a casual, friendly tone and Kevin stays true to himself throughout the story. He’s honest about his mistakes - not giving it his all in swimming or in school as a child, his poor judgment in relationships, mismanagement of money, too much partying, getting a DUI, etc. While I’ve read some books where people seem to flaunt the privilege of being able to make such mistakes and bounce back, I didn’t feel this bragging tone w/ Kevin’s story. He was clueless about some things, dumb about others, and ultimately forced by his own morals to adjust his lifestyle and actions to adapt, and get back to where he needed to be in order to consider pursuing his goals. Kevin has great respect for his mom and I admired his ability to forgive his dad for Many mistakes and move forward with him. I honestly don’t think I would be as forgiving.
In both personal and professional aspects, I really admired Kevin’s relentless determination and optimism. It took him 7! years to truly make it as a comedian and those 7 years were filled with rejection. This optimism and determination was a continual theme throughout the book and one that everyone can glean inspiration from, regardless of what your own goals are.
”I refuse to relax. I refuse to get comfortable. I refuse to sit down. (Okay, sometimes I sit down but when I sit down I’m still working). I’m on a quest to find the ceiling of what’s possible in this life and raise it, so that my children and their children and their children’s children will look at my accomplishments and go “Holy Shit.”
I’m chasing after that Holy Shit Effect.
If this sounds arrogant, that’s because it is. If you don’t believe in your own greatness, no one else will. You’re limited only by your doubts, your fears, and your desire to fit in rather than stand out. And there’s room for all of us to stand out.”
I’ve been a fan of Kevin Hart for quite awhile now, but was unfamiliar with his early climb to becoming a comedian and had forgotten about some of his earlier Hollywood appearances. Today, it seems like he is in movies all the time and one of my personal favorite projects of his was the TV show, Real Husbands of Hollywood. I don’t think it’s on anymore, or I haven’t kept up with it anyway, but I really enjoyed the first two seasons.
I Can’t Make This Up has a casual, friendly tone and Kevin stays true to himself throughout the story. He’s honest about his mistakes - not giving it his all in swimming or in school as a child, his poor judgment in relationships, mismanagement of money, too much partying, getting a DUI, etc. While I’ve read some books where people seem to flaunt the privilege of being able to make such mistakes and bounce back, I didn’t feel this bragging tone w/ Kevin’s story. He was clueless about some things, dumb about others, and ultimately forced by his own morals to adjust his lifestyle and actions to adapt, and get back to where he needed to be in order to consider pursuing his goals. Kevin has great respect for his mom and I admired his ability to forgive his dad for Many mistakes and move forward with him. I honestly don’t think I would be as forgiving.
In both personal and professional aspects, I really admired Kevin’s relentless determination and optimism. It took him 7! years to truly make it as a comedian and those 7 years were filled with rejection. This optimism and determination was a continual theme throughout the book and one that everyone can glean inspiration from, regardless of what your own goals are.
”I refuse to relax. I refuse to get comfortable. I refuse to sit down. (Okay, sometimes I sit down but when I sit down I’m still working). I’m on a quest to find the ceiling of what’s possible in this life and raise it, so that my children and their children and their children’s children will look at my accomplishments and go “Holy Shit.”
I’m chasing after that Holy Shit Effect.
If this sounds arrogant, that’s because it is. If you don’t believe in your own greatness, no one else will. You’re limited only by your doubts, your fears, and your desire to fit in rather than stand out. And there’s room for all of us to stand out.”
June 18, 2017
Kevin Hart is the overnight success that was sixteen years in the making.
I Can't Make This Up is as funny and brutally honest as Kevin Hart's standup comedy is. Kev as we his fans call him, has had a rough life. Drug addicted criminal father, overly strict and super religious mother. An unhappy first marriage that included domestic violence. Years spent struggling to make ends meet and nonstop rejection. No one believed in Kevin except his mother, even he lost hope at one time.
This book isn't a puff piece, Kevin lays it all out for everyone to see. As I said before Kevin spent years in an unhappy marriage. He and his first wife have two kids together and that appears to be the only good that come out of the marriage. It also provided a lot of material for his standup. I've read quite a few articles and reviews for this book and I know a lot of women think Kevin's portrayal of his first wife was harsh and made her out to look terrible and bitter. While I agree with them on that Kevin points out all the terrible things he did to make her that way. He cheated on her, lied to her, and hit her on multiple occasions. He's very remorseful and has since worked on healing that broken part of him. He admits to meeting and starting a relationship with his current wife( who's currently pregnant. congrats!) while still being married to wife number one. If you've seen his standup though you already know all this. Kevin let's us all in on his truth. He's made amends with his first wife( I don't refer to her as his ex because they have children together). Come to terms with his father and the things he's inherited from him(his father was abusive to his mother).
I don't know if this book is for everyone if you're not a fan of Kevin's standup this book may not be for you, but if you love his standup you will definitely recognize a lot of the stories and people in this book.
I Can't Make This Up is as funny and brutally honest as Kevin Hart's standup comedy is. Kev as we his fans call him, has had a rough life. Drug addicted criminal father, overly strict and super religious mother. An unhappy first marriage that included domestic violence. Years spent struggling to make ends meet and nonstop rejection. No one believed in Kevin except his mother, even he lost hope at one time.
This book isn't a puff piece, Kevin lays it all out for everyone to see. As I said before Kevin spent years in an unhappy marriage. He and his first wife have two kids together and that appears to be the only good that come out of the marriage. It also provided a lot of material for his standup. I've read quite a few articles and reviews for this book and I know a lot of women think Kevin's portrayal of his first wife was harsh and made her out to look terrible and bitter. While I agree with them on that Kevin points out all the terrible things he did to make her that way. He cheated on her, lied to her, and hit her on multiple occasions. He's very remorseful and has since worked on healing that broken part of him. He admits to meeting and starting a relationship with his current wife( who's currently pregnant. congrats!) while still being married to wife number one. If you've seen his standup though you already know all this. Kevin let's us all in on his truth. He's made amends with his first wife( I don't refer to her as his ex because they have children together). Come to terms with his father and the things he's inherited from him(his father was abusive to his mother).
I don't know if this book is for everyone if you're not a fan of Kevin's standup this book may not be for you, but if you love his standup you will definitely recognize a lot of the stories and people in this book.
July 19, 2018
Charming.
I liked this audiobook about as much as I expected to, which is to say, a lot. Kevin Hart is a funny, charismatic comedian, and I found his life story to be interesting and his delivery engaging. However, it was his side stories and little anecdotes that I enjoyed the most. Highly recommend readers to listen to this one on audio because Hart's reading makes his story so much more enjoyable.
August 3, 2017
I listened to the audio version by Kevin Hart and loved it! Initially and over time, Kevin grew on me like a fine wine. His humor, work ethic, television and films continue to grow because of his burning desire to excel and expand. I especially enjoyed the beginning and last chapter of the audio. I recommend to all. 10 of 10 stars
April 20, 2025
About once every 4 or 6 weeks, I drive 4 hours to visit my sister, brother in law, baby niece, and fur-nephew. The drive is boring as hell. Literally over an hour and a half of it is a straight stretch of road in cornfield hell. There's construction everywhere that sometimes pushes it to 5 hours. Then there's the drive back in just two short days! It's worth it, but it tests my sanity.
What I'm trying to say is, this audiobook is a godsend. It may or may not have made me laugh so hard that I peed just a little. (Oh did I mention there's almost no rest stops? Yeah. I peed in a cornfield. Far from the worst place I've peed really.)
So if you have a boring drive to survive, or need a book to listen to while cleaning, jogging, or laying on the couch like a half eaten bag of chips, this could be the one for you.
What I'm trying to say is, this audiobook is a godsend. It may or may not have made me laugh so hard that I peed just a little. (Oh did I mention there's almost no rest stops? Yeah. I peed in a cornfield. Far from the worst place I've peed really.)
So if you have a boring drive to survive, or need a book to listen to while cleaning, jogging, or laying on the couch like a half eaten bag of chips, this could be the one for you.
September 12, 2018
I Can't Make This Up: Life Lessons by Kevin Hart is inspired by his life and rise to fame. He goes into great detail on how he sculpted and improved his comedy through friends, family, idols, and old pros. His absolute best comedy performances are when he speaks of real life events and situations that he’s been through; likewise these are the best parts of this book! As usual I always recommend listening to memoirs when they’re read by the author because they always put a personal twist on it. Kevin Hart is absolutely hilarious.
August 20, 2019
At the start of Kevin Hart's teenage life, he was working in a shoe store and earning just enough money to pay his rent and food. However, after his friends encouraged him to do stand-up comedy he decided that he would quit his job and go the path to becoming a comedian. At first, he was earning only a few dollars every show and he had to borrow money from his mother and girlfriend to pay rent. He, later on, lost almost all of his money from crashing both of the cars that his girlfriend owned. He was close to becoming homeless. However, he soon found another job for being a host at a comedy club that was going to pay him 175 dollars a week. This job alone can allow him to be able to pay his rent and food with a few extra money leftover. There was a reason that the club paid him 175 a week, everyone in the club was intimidating and it was just too harsh to work in an environment like that. The club showed Kevin to be a man and made him learn to deal with hecklers. After he got the job, Kevin's life started to get better immediately, he got a manager and he was known throughout New York. Now he just needed a show that can show everyone worldwide how funny he is.
Final Review:
After I read this book, I not only feel like I know Kevin Hart more but I also feel like I learned some life lessons. For example, one of the lessons was to always listen to yourself first, then if you're still unsure, ask your mentor. It was because of this that Kevin Hart became what he is today. I also learned that when Kevin Hart was small, he dreamed of working for Nike, and even though he didn't get a job at Nike, he was still part of it. He started this activity where he will run around the city in the morning with his fans and soon when he saw the number of people that were being affected, he called Nike and told them about it. The next thing you know, Nike has a Kevin Hart shoe called the Hustle Harts. So technically Kevin Hart's dream did come true.
Final Review:
After I read this book, I not only feel like I know Kevin Hart more but I also feel like I learned some life lessons. For example, one of the lessons was to always listen to yourself first, then if you're still unsure, ask your mentor. It was because of this that Kevin Hart became what he is today. I also learned that when Kevin Hart was small, he dreamed of working for Nike, and even though he didn't get a job at Nike, he was still part of it. He started this activity where he will run around the city in the morning with his fans and soon when he saw the number of people that were being affected, he called Nike and told them about it. The next thing you know, Nike has a Kevin Hart shoe called the Hustle Harts. So technically Kevin Hart's dream did come true.
September 22, 2025
True Story
Kevin Hart started life as the second son of a working mother in Philadelphia Pennsylvania. His mother worked hard to provide for her children, and kept Kevin busy so that he would stay out of trouble. Included in the book is a picture of Kevin and his brother Kenneth visiting their father in prison.
Kevin took the best qualities of each of his parents. His mother showed him about kindness and hard work, and his father taught him persistence and how to shrug off trouble or disappointment.
This book was the story of a very funny man, managing to take some of his hardest moments and make the reader laugh. That’s a true gift, and worthy of five stars.
Kevin Hart started life as the second son of a working mother in Philadelphia Pennsylvania. His mother worked hard to provide for her children, and kept Kevin busy so that he would stay out of trouble. Included in the book is a picture of Kevin and his brother Kenneth visiting their father in prison.
Kevin took the best qualities of each of his parents. His mother showed him about kindness and hard work, and his father taught him persistence and how to shrug off trouble or disappointment.
This book was the story of a very funny man, managing to take some of his hardest moments and make the reader laugh. That’s a true gift, and worthy of five stars.
March 2, 2020
4.5/5 stars!
I recently saw most of the film THE UPSIDE, starring Bryan Cranston, Kevin Hart and Nicole Kidman. I missed a little of the beginning but I watched and enjoyed the rest. I was surprised by how much I felt for Kevin Hart in the film, because I'd previously only seen him in commercials or very short comedic bits and he got on my nerves, to be honest.
In this book he tells the story of his life, his successes and failures, his positive and negative points, his love for his mom and family, and his willingness to work hard and get it done. It was not all fun and games, because a fair amount of the time he and his first wife were constantly fighting, (he was cheating, she might have been), and so on.
What impressed me the most was his ability to shrug things off and stay positive and I'm going to try to take that ability and incorporate it into my life.
This was hilarious and informative and fun to listen to, if maybe just a tad too long.
Highly recommended, especially to those who love to listen to the memoirs of comedians.
*I purchased this audiobook from Audible with my hard earned cash.*
I recently saw most of the film THE UPSIDE, starring Bryan Cranston, Kevin Hart and Nicole Kidman. I missed a little of the beginning but I watched and enjoyed the rest. I was surprised by how much I felt for Kevin Hart in the film, because I'd previously only seen him in commercials or very short comedic bits and he got on my nerves, to be honest.
In this book he tells the story of his life, his successes and failures, his positive and negative points, his love for his mom and family, and his willingness to work hard and get it done. It was not all fun and games, because a fair amount of the time he and his first wife were constantly fighting, (he was cheating, she might have been), and so on.
What impressed me the most was his ability to shrug things off and stay positive and I'm going to try to take that ability and incorporate it into my life.
This was hilarious and informative and fun to listen to, if maybe just a tad too long.
Highly recommended, especially to those who love to listen to the memoirs of comedians.
*I purchased this audiobook from Audible with my hard earned cash.*
July 3, 2017
I knew I would laugh, and I did - a lot! But more than that you learn that this funny guy isn't just some clown. He's worked and continues to work his ass off for his craft. The life lessons he shares are not revolutionary, however, when stated with his simplicity and humor you rewarded with some gems to live by. Awesome job Kevin Hart.
July 31, 2018
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September 18, 2017
September 18, 2017... I guess Kevin Hart can make this stuff up and for it, I'm questioning my rating to this bestseller... Give me another day or two as the ball drops on what he said about his personal life, marriage, etc... in the news. He has apologizes to his new wife and kids but what about the readers of his book/audio. We know that he is a comedian but please this stuff ain't. .funny at. all! So really what are the life lessons did Hart really learn since openly apologizes to pregnant wife and kids ... never mind!
Kevin Hart's "I Can't Make This Up: Life Lessons" was a stand up read! If you are a true fan of Hart then you will see how much work he put into his book. He tells his story about his life as though he's on the stage trying to get gotcha laughs from his audience. He's hysterical, he's focused, he's blunt and he tells his story with heart or should I say 'HART' showing the reader his life lessons based on his motivating people in his life! I won't give away spoilers but Hart's life wasn't easy but he found a way to 'hustle' and persevere on every turn! With an awe inspiring attitude, Hart acknowledged his life wasn't perfect... he made mistakes but pushed through them and succeeded as a son, comedian, actor, father and new husband to his second wife. There is also a lot of wisdom Hart gives his readers and that really was what made this book a 5 star read for me.
So if you want to read a memoir that tells more than his successes but failures too and hiccup moments, read this one. You won't regret it!
5 awe inspiring and laughable stars *****!!!!!!!!!!!
Kevin Hart's "I Can't Make This Up: Life Lessons" was a stand up read! If you are a true fan of Hart then you will see how much work he put into his book. He tells his story about his life as though he's on the stage trying to get gotcha laughs from his audience. He's hysterical, he's focused, he's blunt and he tells his story with heart or should I say 'HART' showing the reader his life lessons based on his motivating people in his life! I won't give away spoilers but Hart's life wasn't easy but he found a way to 'hustle' and persevere on every turn! With an awe inspiring attitude, Hart acknowledged his life wasn't perfect... he made mistakes but pushed through them and succeeded as a son, comedian, actor, father and new husband to his second wife. There is also a lot of wisdom Hart gives his readers and that really was what made this book a 5 star read for me.
So if you want to read a memoir that tells more than his successes but failures too and hiccup moments, read this one. You won't regret it!
5 awe inspiring and laughable stars *****!!!!!!!!!!!
May 15, 2017
****I WAS GIVEN A COPY OF THIS BOOK IN EXCHANGE FOR A HONEST REVIEW ****
I didn't expect half of what I got from this book. I knew there would be funny parts, obviously, but it was much more than a funny memoir. During the telling of how he got to the level of success he has obtained, there were some real life struggles unfolding across every page. It didn't read like a hyped version of his life but a look back of on how funny, crazy, sad and tumultuous a life can be. I have experienced quite a few things that he mentioned in his book and I wasn't trying to be a comedian. That alone helped me to tune into more of what each lesson was about rather than what the outcome was. There was good advice on these pages as well as some things that seemed so personal it was hard to read but he wrote them, so the least I could do was oblige. I knocked one star off because there was a lot about going back and forth to New York that just seemed redundant and kind of took away from the book. However, this was a great read! I was surprised by how much I liked it and by how much I needed to hear some of his advice.
I didn't expect half of what I got from this book. I knew there would be funny parts, obviously, but it was much more than a funny memoir. During the telling of how he got to the level of success he has obtained, there were some real life struggles unfolding across every page. It didn't read like a hyped version of his life but a look back of on how funny, crazy, sad and tumultuous a life can be. I have experienced quite a few things that he mentioned in his book and I wasn't trying to be a comedian. That alone helped me to tune into more of what each lesson was about rather than what the outcome was. There was good advice on these pages as well as some things that seemed so personal it was hard to read but he wrote them, so the least I could do was oblige. I knocked one star off because there was a lot about going back and forth to New York that just seemed redundant and kind of took away from the book. However, this was a great read! I was surprised by how much I liked it and by how much I needed to hear some of his advice.
December 31, 2017
Despite not knowing much about Hart, this was a 99p Audible deal over Christmas and i'd just seen him in Jumanji so I thought i'd give it a go....
And it is well worth it.
He's properly honest about his life, relating it with humour and an incredible positivity that represents the overarching 'lesson' he wants to put across with this book. He's worked hard for what he has now, been through hard times, messed up, and got right. It's truly funny, but real. Not only that, it's genuinely inspirational in that way that someone can be when they sincerely want to share what they've learnt through living.
And to have the audio read and ad-libbed by the man himself? Perfection.
And it is well worth it.
He's properly honest about his life, relating it with humour and an incredible positivity that represents the overarching 'lesson' he wants to put across with this book. He's worked hard for what he has now, been through hard times, messed up, and got right. It's truly funny, but real. Not only that, it's genuinely inspirational in that way that someone can be when they sincerely want to share what they've learnt through living.
And to have the audio read and ad-libbed by the man himself? Perfection.
June 16, 2017
HILARIOUS!!!! Authentic Kevin Hart!!! Life stories told only the way he can tell them! I listened to the Audible audiobook, that was narrated by him and the story was AWESOME! Hours of listening to K. Hart was a treat! I It was also nice to hear the background story about his 1st marriage as well as how he got in to comedy! I can't count how many times I laughed out loud and was wiping tears from my eyes! ENJOY
June 9, 2017
Even the Library of Congress and acknowledgments pages are funny.
June 10, 2018
3.5/5 stars
Prior to reading this book, I obviously knew who Kevin Hart was, but I didn’t know know him if you get what I’m saying. The only thing I knew was that he was a comedian who appeared on late night sitcoms sometimes. But after finishing the 100 or so chapters in this book, I feel like I have a good sense of who he is as a person.
I decided to read this book because it had awesome reviews on audible. I loved Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah, who also happens to a comedian, so I expected to like this book too, and I did. If you can, I highly recommend listening to the audiobook version of I Can't Make This Up: Life Lessons. Like most comedians turned authors, Kevin Hart has an engaging, animated, and funny narrating style. Listening to his book made me feel like I was on a road trip with an old friend from high school or something.
Kevin Hart has such an epic person story. A lot of his current success is a result of hustle, not just luck or aptitude. Sure, he was a gifted comedian, but he built those opportunities for himself by taking risks, gambling with uncertain odds, and going with his gut at times when his logic defied him. In this book, Hart comes across as a down-to-Earth, intelligent, and honest person. He is able to analyze important events in his life with introspection. There were so many things he said that touched me:
"If life is a struggle, then struggle. If you get rejected, get rejected again. If your dreams are smashed, keep dreaming. Just keep your eyes on the prize— and always remember that you have to fail to win."
"Don’t do drugs. Instead, prove everyone who doubted you wrong. It’s a bigger high."
“I was an overnight success that was only sixteen years in the making.”
"Who works hard just so they can relax? Success is not an excuse to stop; it’s a reason to move the goalposts farther out and accelerate. There is no destination, just a journey. And that journey is to keep building on top of what I’m building."
I think self-help books can polarize readers. Some people love them while others despise them, but I fall somewhere in the middle of the pack. I love self-help books based on struggle, resilience, grit, and science. I would even consider some of my beloved medical memoirs to fall into this category because I love reading about others who have overcome difficulties.
And boy has Kevin Hart done that to get to where he is today. He reminded me of important life lessons I sometimes forget in my day-to-day hustle: the gift of persistence, challenge, discomfort, and grit. And also the gift comedy gives us to analyze some of our darkest circumstances in an uplifting light.
As expected, this book is funny, but the reason I gave it a lower rating is because it wasn't the type of humor I'm into. I found some of the stories in it to be too vulgar for my taste, but I can see other people enjoying it. I guess I prefer tamer humor that has no swearing in it. Yeah, yeah, I sound pretty old school, but vulgarity has never been my forte.
Overall, an excellent and well-written book. If you enjoy Kevin Hart's other works, I 100% guarantee you will like this book. And like me, even if you're unfamiliar with who Hart he is, you should still give this book a chance. I found it to be insightful without being too cliche, and unlike other self-help books, the fact that Kevin Hart is a comedian as opposed to an academic scholar or something made it feel like he was talking to me not at me. He is just a regular guy speaking about his course to success and what got him there. In particular, this quote stood out to me:
“At every moment in life, there is a fork in the path you are on. And you can choose to go right or you can choose to go left. Every right you take leads you closer to your best possible destiny; every left leads you further away from it. These forks are not just decisions that lead to actions, like saying yes to a job offer, but thoughts that lead to beliefs, like blaming your father for ruining your life. Your life today is the sum total of your choices. So if you’re not happy with it, look back at your choices and start making different ones. Even if you are struck by lightning and injured, you made choices that led you to that spot at that particular time— and you get to choose how you feel about it afterward. You can be angry at the bad luck that you got struck or grateful for the good luck that you survived.”
Prior to reading this book, I obviously knew who Kevin Hart was, but I didn’t know know him if you get what I’m saying. The only thing I knew was that he was a comedian who appeared on late night sitcoms sometimes. But after finishing the 100 or so chapters in this book, I feel like I have a good sense of who he is as a person.
I decided to read this book because it had awesome reviews on audible. I loved Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah, who also happens to a comedian, so I expected to like this book too, and I did. If you can, I highly recommend listening to the audiobook version of I Can't Make This Up: Life Lessons. Like most comedians turned authors, Kevin Hart has an engaging, animated, and funny narrating style. Listening to his book made me feel like I was on a road trip with an old friend from high school or something.
Kevin Hart has such an epic person story. A lot of his current success is a result of hustle, not just luck or aptitude. Sure, he was a gifted comedian, but he built those opportunities for himself by taking risks, gambling with uncertain odds, and going with his gut at times when his logic defied him. In this book, Hart comes across as a down-to-Earth, intelligent, and honest person. He is able to analyze important events in his life with introspection. There were so many things he said that touched me:
"If life is a struggle, then struggle. If you get rejected, get rejected again. If your dreams are smashed, keep dreaming. Just keep your eyes on the prize— and always remember that you have to fail to win."
"Don’t do drugs. Instead, prove everyone who doubted you wrong. It’s a bigger high."
“I was an overnight success that was only sixteen years in the making.”
"Who works hard just so they can relax? Success is not an excuse to stop; it’s a reason to move the goalposts farther out and accelerate. There is no destination, just a journey. And that journey is to keep building on top of what I’m building."
I think self-help books can polarize readers. Some people love them while others despise them, but I fall somewhere in the middle of the pack. I love self-help books based on struggle, resilience, grit, and science. I would even consider some of my beloved medical memoirs to fall into this category because I love reading about others who have overcome difficulties.
And boy has Kevin Hart done that to get to where he is today. He reminded me of important life lessons I sometimes forget in my day-to-day hustle: the gift of persistence, challenge, discomfort, and grit. And also the gift comedy gives us to analyze some of our darkest circumstances in an uplifting light.
As expected, this book is funny, but the reason I gave it a lower rating is because it wasn't the type of humor I'm into. I found some of the stories in it to be too vulgar for my taste, but I can see other people enjoying it. I guess I prefer tamer humor that has no swearing in it. Yeah, yeah, I sound pretty old school, but vulgarity has never been my forte.
Overall, an excellent and well-written book. If you enjoy Kevin Hart's other works, I 100% guarantee you will like this book. And like me, even if you're unfamiliar with who Hart he is, you should still give this book a chance. I found it to be insightful without being too cliche, and unlike other self-help books, the fact that Kevin Hart is a comedian as opposed to an academic scholar or something made it feel like he was talking to me not at me. He is just a regular guy speaking about his course to success and what got him there. In particular, this quote stood out to me:
“At every moment in life, there is a fork in the path you are on. And you can choose to go right or you can choose to go left. Every right you take leads you closer to your best possible destiny; every left leads you further away from it. These forks are not just decisions that lead to actions, like saying yes to a job offer, but thoughts that lead to beliefs, like blaming your father for ruining your life. Your life today is the sum total of your choices. So if you’re not happy with it, look back at your choices and start making different ones. Even if you are struck by lightning and injured, you made choices that led you to that spot at that particular time— and you get to choose how you feel about it afterward. You can be angry at the bad luck that you got struck or grateful for the good luck that you survived.”
May 14, 2017
This book is laugh out loud funny. Funny man Kevin Hart has much to draw on as he shares tales from his upbringing in an entertaining, inspirational and always humorous fashion making this book a big ball of fun. The book is spread across 99 chapters (yes 99) with some of the craziest chapter titles I’ve ever seen in a book, divided through 16 Life Lessons.
He uses the life lessons to dispense advice and to explore what he has learned and his not always successful way of handling what life throws at you. I think the strength of the book is the advice comes from a place of humble experience. So it’s not, hey I’m the star and I said do this, that and the third and you too will be a success. He is not writing as if he is some self-help guru, he is simply sharing his life and decisions he made at the various forks in the road. You can go left or you can go right. Judging by the success he has attained, Kevin has gone right far more than he has gone left, though he doesn’t shy away from discussing those lefts. The honesty he brings to the failures and the embarrassing moments help give the book it’s solid feel of authenticity and realness. Although he had a less than middle class rearing, with a comical say anything father, and what today would clearly be labeled an abusive mother he succeeded beyond their expectations.
Well in the case of his mother, it could be said because of her, he is a success. She laid a strong foundation and things he hated as a child, he found himself appreciating as an adult. Kevin learned early on that humor was a natural magnet and a way to deescalate conflict. He didn’t grow up dreaming of being a comedian, he kind of fell into it, because he was the fun and funny guy. After testing the stage at an open mic night at the local comedy club he was hooked. He showed an incredible work ethic and perseverance as he kept moving forward and reaching for the comedic title.
He caught some good breaks on his way to becoming an “overnight success” explaining that process, “was only sixteen years in the making.”
Readers will certainly appreciate his grit and endurance and will find his grind inspirational. If you are in a rut while trying to achieve something, it doesn’t have to be a comedy career, it could be anything, I feel adequately safe in saying you will find inspiration in Kevin’s life lessons, which qualifies this book as a success. There is some profane language in these pages that the more squeamish may find objectionable, but don’t let that deter you from appreciating and enjoying what is sure to be a bestseller.
Thanks to Atria books and Netgalley for providing an advanced e-copy in exchange for an honest review. Book publishes on June 6, 2017
He uses the life lessons to dispense advice and to explore what he has learned and his not always successful way of handling what life throws at you. I think the strength of the book is the advice comes from a place of humble experience. So it’s not, hey I’m the star and I said do this, that and the third and you too will be a success. He is not writing as if he is some self-help guru, he is simply sharing his life and decisions he made at the various forks in the road. You can go left or you can go right. Judging by the success he has attained, Kevin has gone right far more than he has gone left, though he doesn’t shy away from discussing those lefts. The honesty he brings to the failures and the embarrassing moments help give the book it’s solid feel of authenticity and realness. Although he had a less than middle class rearing, with a comical say anything father, and what today would clearly be labeled an abusive mother he succeeded beyond their expectations.
Well in the case of his mother, it could be said because of her, he is a success. She laid a strong foundation and things he hated as a child, he found himself appreciating as an adult. Kevin learned early on that humor was a natural magnet and a way to deescalate conflict. He didn’t grow up dreaming of being a comedian, he kind of fell into it, because he was the fun and funny guy. After testing the stage at an open mic night at the local comedy club he was hooked. He showed an incredible work ethic and perseverance as he kept moving forward and reaching for the comedic title.
He caught some good breaks on his way to becoming an “overnight success” explaining that process, “was only sixteen years in the making.”
Readers will certainly appreciate his grit and endurance and will find his grind inspirational. If you are in a rut while trying to achieve something, it doesn’t have to be a comedy career, it could be anything, I feel adequately safe in saying you will find inspiration in Kevin’s life lessons, which qualifies this book as a success. There is some profane language in these pages that the more squeamish may find objectionable, but don’t let that deter you from appreciating and enjoying what is sure to be a bestseller.
Thanks to Atria books and Netgalley for providing an advanced e-copy in exchange for an honest review. Book publishes on June 6, 2017
June 6, 2017
I didn’t know what to expect coming into this book. I enjoy Kevin Hart’s movies, but I didn’t really follow him as a “comedian.” With that said, I thought this was a great book! I tend to have mixed feelings when it comes to celebrity memoirs as many of the tend to be purely for publicity reasons, offering the reader no value or substance, but this one felt very honest and genuine. He was just sharing his story and offering readers advice that goes beyond the standard work hard and you'll succeed.
It was great to read a story that was so transparent. He shared all the unsightly details about his first marriage as well as his not-so-great financial decisions at the beginning of his career.
And even though Kevin Hart worked with Neil Strauss to write the book, his personality and humor shine through. As I was reading this book, Kevin Hart felt like a friend who was telling me their life story. And, while the book is a little long compared to most celebrity memoirs it goes into a lot of detail about his life and the decisions he made to get to where he is now. If you’re someone that wants to know every detail about Kevin Hart, understand his childhood, and delve deeper into his early career this book is well worth reading.
Some of the humor did feel a little overdone, but I think that some comedy just doesn't translate well in written word. I think listening to the book would enhance the experience. Since Kevin Hart is the narrator, it would help bring out the humor.
*I received a copy of this book in return for an honest review.*
**Video review: https://youtu.be/ykUS2-cLz_4**
It was great to read a story that was so transparent. He shared all the unsightly details about his first marriage as well as his not-so-great financial decisions at the beginning of his career.
And even though Kevin Hart worked with Neil Strauss to write the book, his personality and humor shine through. As I was reading this book, Kevin Hart felt like a friend who was telling me their life story. And, while the book is a little long compared to most celebrity memoirs it goes into a lot of detail about his life and the decisions he made to get to where he is now. If you’re someone that wants to know every detail about Kevin Hart, understand his childhood, and delve deeper into his early career this book is well worth reading.
Some of the humor did feel a little overdone, but I think that some comedy just doesn't translate well in written word. I think listening to the book would enhance the experience. Since Kevin Hart is the narrator, it would help bring out the humor.
*I received a copy of this book in return for an honest review.*
**Video review: https://youtu.be/ykUS2-cLz_4**
August 20, 2017
A very entertaining book. Every chapter is a different story into Kevin's life. Lots of amazing stories of where he came from and his relationship with his Mom, Dad, brother and even his relationships with women. How he went from having nothing and working hard to get what he wanted. There were times where I just wanted to yell with frustration with the screw ups he did but then as you keep reading you see how he grew, matured, learned from his mistakes and became a good man and good father. He has many life lessons in this book that everyone can get something out of. Great read.
January 15, 2018
40% inspiring, 30% misogynist, 15% funny, 15% Kevin Hart trying to be funny.
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