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Disasters in Dating
Dating is hard.
Dating online is hard.
Dating online in your thirties is hard.
Dating online in your thirties after being in a ten-year relationship is hard.
What’s not hard?
Meeting men who aren’t really single.
Having your time wasted.
Receiving unsolicited pictures of genitalia.
Said genitalia.
When did dating become so complicated?
I just want to find a nice, good looking man who replies to my entire text message and doesn’t text me “WYD” every hour. I just want to find a fun loving, intelligent man who doesn’t have a Master’s Degree in Cheating and isn’t fluent in lies. I just want to find a man who is actually the height he listed in his dating profile.
I jumped back into the dating scene with tempered expectations. I didn’t think all the men I would meet were going to be amazing, but I didn’t think so many of them were going to be disasters.
Dating online is hard.
Dating online in your thirties is hard.
Dating online in your thirties after being in a ten-year relationship is hard.
What’s not hard?
Meeting men who aren’t really single.
Having your time wasted.
Receiving unsolicited pictures of genitalia.
Said genitalia.
When did dating become so complicated?
I just want to find a nice, good looking man who replies to my entire text message and doesn’t text me “WYD” every hour. I just want to find a fun loving, intelligent man who doesn’t have a Master’s Degree in Cheating and isn’t fluent in lies. I just want to find a man who is actually the height he listed in his dating profile.
I jumped back into the dating scene with tempered expectations. I didn’t think all the men I would meet were going to be amazing, but I didn’t think so many of them were going to be disasters.
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First published July 8, 2017
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August 4, 2017
I read Work Song by Danielle Allen earlier this year after Britt recommended it to me and I completely adored it! Seriously, if you love office romances then you need to add that book to your TBR. So when I saw the cover reveal for Allen's new book, I eagerly awaited its release day because I knew I had to have it. I didn't even read the synopsis, but based on the title alone, I knew there had to be dating shenanigans and I was so here for them.
Desiree Johnson once had it all: a successful career, great friends, and a devoted partner who she was getting ready to tie the knot with. That is until she found out the her partner was nothing but a lying cheat who left her heart in shambles. Now a year and half later, Desiree is ready to get back out in the dating scene and try her luck at love once again. But that's easier said that done...
To all my single ladies who are working the dating scene, this book is for you! Disasters in Dating had me cackling right from the first chapter and I blame that on Desiree and her friends. I freakin' love the friendship in this book. Carmen, Dyani, Nichelle, and Anika are so supportive of Desiree getting back out there and they give her dating advice, although some are better than others. Carmen is my favorite though. She literally has no filter and her personality is so big. I hope we get more of her insights to dating in the sequel.
Desiree is a badass, independent woman and she's not taking no BS that these potential love interest throw at her. I definitely got a kick out of watching her go one some of these disasters dates because some of these dudes literally had no shame. Desiree struggles throughout this book because she wants to put herself out there, but she also doesn't want to risk getting hurt again. While we meet a number of potential love interests throughout this book, I do have my favorite who I want Desiree to end up with. I won't say who because it's a spoiler, but the guy is literally a dream and if Desiree doesn't want him can I at least have him? This books does end with one hell of a major cliffhanger. Like my jaw was on the floor because I never saw it coming. Luckily the sequel releases soon and I can finally see if my ship sinks or ends up sailing into the horizon.
Desiree Johnson once had it all: a successful career, great friends, and a devoted partner who she was getting ready to tie the knot with. That is until she found out the her partner was nothing but a lying cheat who left her heart in shambles. Now a year and half later, Desiree is ready to get back out in the dating scene and try her luck at love once again. But that's easier said that done...
To all my single ladies who are working the dating scene, this book is for you! Disasters in Dating had me cackling right from the first chapter and I blame that on Desiree and her friends. I freakin' love the friendship in this book. Carmen, Dyani, Nichelle, and Anika are so supportive of Desiree getting back out there and they give her dating advice, although some are better than others. Carmen is my favorite though. She literally has no filter and her personality is so big. I hope we get more of her insights to dating in the sequel.
Desiree is a badass, independent woman and she's not taking no BS that these potential love interest throw at her. I definitely got a kick out of watching her go one some of these disasters dates because some of these dudes literally had no shame. Desiree struggles throughout this book because she wants to put herself out there, but she also doesn't want to risk getting hurt again. While we meet a number of potential love interests throughout this book, I do have my favorite who I want Desiree to end up with. I won't say who because it's a spoiler, but the guy is literally a dream and if Desiree doesn't want him can I at least have him? This books does end with one hell of a major cliffhanger. Like my jaw was on the floor because I never saw it coming. Luckily the sequel releases soon and I can finally see if my ship sinks or ends up sailing into the horizon.
July 7, 2017
I know it seems biased that I gave it 5 stars.
But Goodreads asked me what I thought so I had to tell the truth!
But seriously... I love it and I can't wait for you to read it! :)
But Goodreads asked me what I thought so I had to tell the truth!
But seriously... I love it and I can't wait for you to read it! :)
July 9, 2017
"And that's what I'm scared of." I looked around at my friends. "What if I fall in love again?"
Desiree is so many of us. She was in a long-term relationship (ten years to be exact) and then due to some shady behavior (you'll have to read the book to know what it is because there are NEVER any spoilers in my reviews, lol) she finds herself single again. Single in a world that is now digital which means the whole concept of dating has now changed. She's already hesitant because a broken heart will do that to a person but the thought of online dating has taken her anxiety to an unknown level. And, what we the reader receive is a book full of hilarious events that ourselves and/or some of our girlfriends have experienced.
"He told me he was looking to settle down and start a family." I pulled out my phone and went to my deleted voicemails. "I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you that your husband is a piece of shit."
Whoa!!!!!!! Desiree meets her share of f*ckboys while on her online dating adventure. Some send raunchy messages without even attempting to get to know her, some only know how to communicate using text speak, some send unsolicited pictures, some take on her dates and fail to mention they are married, but then there are some that seem like decent men. Disasters in Dating highlights exactly what the title suggest and it is laugh aloud fun while reading.
"Has the bullshit with dating really changed or is it just the technology has made it easier for people to bullshit more people at once?"
That's the million dollar question right here. I have often asked myself that these past three years after my own ten year relationship ended. What is this crap called dating nowadays? Is it really worth dealing with so many jerks to possibly find one or two decent ones? Does social media and online dating sites make it easier to find a possible mate or does it make it easier for people to be immature and put on a facade?
Danielle Allen wrote one of my most favorite books of 2016 (Back to December) so I was really looking forward to this book. And, she did not disappoint! It's nowhere near as emotionally charged as the aforementioned book, but it is just as excellent in a different type of way. It is hysterical (imagine watching an episode of Girlfriends or Sex and the City), it is about growth as we get to see when Desiree fully embraces single life and loving what she sees in the mirror, and it gives a realistic view of dating in today's world even though it is a work of fiction.
My only gripe, the ending. Danielle, you know you're wrong for that one!!!
Desiree is so many of us. She was in a long-term relationship (ten years to be exact) and then due to some shady behavior (you'll have to read the book to know what it is because there are NEVER any spoilers in my reviews, lol) she finds herself single again. Single in a world that is now digital which means the whole concept of dating has now changed. She's already hesitant because a broken heart will do that to a person but the thought of online dating has taken her anxiety to an unknown level. And, what we the reader receive is a book full of hilarious events that ourselves and/or some of our girlfriends have experienced.
"He told me he was looking to settle down and start a family." I pulled out my phone and went to my deleted voicemails. "I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you that your husband is a piece of shit."
Whoa!!!!!!! Desiree meets her share of f*ckboys while on her online dating adventure. Some send raunchy messages without even attempting to get to know her, some only know how to communicate using text speak, some send unsolicited pictures, some take on her dates and fail to mention they are married, but then there are some that seem like decent men. Disasters in Dating highlights exactly what the title suggest and it is laugh aloud fun while reading.
"Has the bullshit with dating really changed or is it just the technology has made it easier for people to bullshit more people at once?"
That's the million dollar question right here. I have often asked myself that these past three years after my own ten year relationship ended. What is this crap called dating nowadays? Is it really worth dealing with so many jerks to possibly find one or two decent ones? Does social media and online dating sites make it easier to find a possible mate or does it make it easier for people to be immature and put on a facade?
Danielle Allen wrote one of my most favorite books of 2016 (Back to December) so I was really looking forward to this book. And, she did not disappoint! It's nowhere near as emotionally charged as the aforementioned book, but it is just as excellent in a different type of way. It is hysterical (imagine watching an episode of Girlfriends or Sex and the City), it is about growth as we get to see when Desiree fully embraces single life and loving what she sees in the mirror, and it gives a realistic view of dating in today's world even though it is a work of fiction.
My only gripe, the ending. Danielle, you know you're wrong for that one!!!
July 11, 2017
Loved it, but absolutely sick about the concept for the sequel! I'm actually slightly devaststed! Uuggghhhh!!! Let the countdown to Aug 6th begin.
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July 25, 2017
Hilarious look at online dating for the over 20-something set. Danielle Allen wrote a funny, heartfelt, and hot as hell account of one woman navigating through a sea of frogs to find her prince, and finds she's in over her head. I knew what team I was on very early! #savethehotfirefighter
Loved Desiree and her friends and the support system she found throughout one male disaster after another. A well-written, fun tale about not judging a book by his hot cover.
Loved Desiree and her friends and the support system she found throughout one male disaster after another. A well-written, fun tale about not judging a book by his hot cover.
July 27, 2017
I didn't want this book to end! I DEFINITELY need MORE!! Danielle Allen has created the perfect romantic comedy. It was beyond hilarious and so realistic! The way it was written made me feel like I was watching a movie because the characters were so vibrant they leapt from the pages.
I read through this in one sitting, I just couldn't be bothered to put it down. That's how FANTASTIC it is! Reading this felt like being on an amazing girls trip, like having bonding time with your sister, like staying up all night gossiping with your best friend.
Disasters in Dating is about Desiree and her best friends Carmen, Anika, Dyani, and Nichelle. These women are smart, gorgeous, independent, diverse, cultured, educated, fun and extremely hilarious! I want them to be my best friends!
Desiree has just gotten out of a ten year relationship with Troy or as I like to call him, Satan because you will NEVER believe the vile, rude, assholish way he did Desiree!
Taking a break from relationships and using that time to focus on herself Desiree is ready to get back into the dating scene but boy has it changed in the 11 years and 6 months that she's been away from it. With the help of her best friends she tries to navigate her way through the world of online dating. All I can say is some of these men make me thank my lucky STARS I'm not dating.....these dates....LORD! I was clutching my stomach I was laughing so hard at the shenanigans. Some had me swooning, and some had me pissed the hell off.....others had me fanning myself.
In the end Desiree has chemistry with two VERY beautiful men. So, who does she choose? You REALLY need to read about these amazing men to find out who your choice would be. To me, the right guy for her has always been clear. I mean, he’s EVERYTHING and more.....and there chemistry?? OFF. THE. CHARTS!
With the grandeur of Waiting to Exhale and the fun and flirty sass of Sex and the City Danielle has seamlessly pulled off this phenomenal look into today's world of dating! I can't wait for the next book!
I read through this in one sitting, I just couldn't be bothered to put it down. That's how FANTASTIC it is! Reading this felt like being on an amazing girls trip, like having bonding time with your sister, like staying up all night gossiping with your best friend.
Disasters in Dating is about Desiree and her best friends Carmen, Anika, Dyani, and Nichelle. These women are smart, gorgeous, independent, diverse, cultured, educated, fun and extremely hilarious! I want them to be my best friends!
Desiree has just gotten out of a ten year relationship with Troy or as I like to call him, Satan because you will NEVER believe the vile, rude, assholish way he did Desiree!
Taking a break from relationships and using that time to focus on herself Desiree is ready to get back into the dating scene but boy has it changed in the 11 years and 6 months that she's been away from it. With the help of her best friends she tries to navigate her way through the world of online dating. All I can say is some of these men make me thank my lucky STARS I'm not dating.....these dates....LORD! I was clutching my stomach I was laughing so hard at the shenanigans. Some had me swooning, and some had me pissed the hell off.....others had me fanning myself.
In the end Desiree has chemistry with two VERY beautiful men. So, who does she choose? You REALLY need to read about these amazing men to find out who your choice would be. To me, the right guy for her has always been clear. I mean, he’s EVERYTHING and more.....and there chemistry?? OFF. THE. CHARTS!
With the grandeur of Waiting to Exhale and the fun and flirty sass of Sex and the City Danielle has seamlessly pulled off this phenomenal look into today's world of dating! I can't wait for the next book!
August 20, 2018
Southside Book and Writers Club Review
Disasters in Dating by Danielle Allen
Newly, single, Desiree finds herself going back on the dating scene, after a horrible breakup. Desiree’s friends rally around her and recommend that she use a dating app to meet, and sort out potential men. Disasters in Dating is right; it seemed as if she picked one a-hole after the other. You will cheer when her luck finally, changes. Desiree meets two men who seem to know what they want and are upfront about it. Miles and Charles entered her life, both seemed to be honest and hardworking men, and they just don’t want her for sex.
Point one-This is the part were members of the book club disagreed on, and it affected our rating of the book. Some members felt that after Desiree had dated both Miles and Charles she should have chosen which one she wanted, they thought that she was dishonest with Miles, and was trying to play both men.
Point two-Other members of the group felt that since she was using a dating app, and had stated that she went on multiple dates with other men. That Desiree owed no explanation to either man. That it was wrong for either man to assume whether she kissed, fondled, or whatever with them that she was in a relationship with them. Desiree had not said anything about being exclusive, she said she liked them verbally, and body language.
If we tell anymore, we will be telling the book, and we don’t want to do that. The club gives the read four stars. The storyline was good, and it flowed. Members liked how the writer emphasized, who was talking during the cell conversations in bold. This kept the flow going; nobody found it confusing at all. There was enough drama to keep you engaged throughout the book. SBWC will be reviewing the next in the series, we want to know what happens, and who Desiree chooses, and why.
Extra: We thank the author for actually having her main character meet these men in public places, and not invite them directly to her home. She had her use common sense, which we applauded. Some of us in the club have used dating apps, and some of us have not. This book gave us a chance to have a more in-depth conversation about safety and the fact that pictures lie. The person in that picture may not be the one you are actually talking too. Be safe!
SBWC
Disasters in Dating by Danielle Allen
Newly, single, Desiree finds herself going back on the dating scene, after a horrible breakup. Desiree’s friends rally around her and recommend that she use a dating app to meet, and sort out potential men. Disasters in Dating is right; it seemed as if she picked one a-hole after the other. You will cheer when her luck finally, changes. Desiree meets two men who seem to know what they want and are upfront about it. Miles and Charles entered her life, both seemed to be honest and hardworking men, and they just don’t want her for sex.
Point one-This is the part were members of the book club disagreed on, and it affected our rating of the book. Some members felt that after Desiree had dated both Miles and Charles she should have chosen which one she wanted, they thought that she was dishonest with Miles, and was trying to play both men.
Point two-Other members of the group felt that since she was using a dating app, and had stated that she went on multiple dates with other men. That Desiree owed no explanation to either man. That it was wrong for either man to assume whether she kissed, fondled, or whatever with them that she was in a relationship with them. Desiree had not said anything about being exclusive, she said she liked them verbally, and body language.
If we tell anymore, we will be telling the book, and we don’t want to do that. The club gives the read four stars. The storyline was good, and it flowed. Members liked how the writer emphasized, who was talking during the cell conversations in bold. This kept the flow going; nobody found it confusing at all. There was enough drama to keep you engaged throughout the book. SBWC will be reviewing the next in the series, we want to know what happens, and who Desiree chooses, and why.
Extra: We thank the author for actually having her main character meet these men in public places, and not invite them directly to her home. She had her use common sense, which we applauded. Some of us in the club have used dating apps, and some of us have not. This book gave us a chance to have a more in-depth conversation about safety and the fact that pictures lie. The person in that picture may not be the one you are actually talking too. Be safe!
SBWC
July 17, 2017
Sheesh. I feel like you never want me to date. You put all my dating fears in a book...lol. But I loved it. I really enjoyed this book. Desiree has been out of the dating game for a while so with the encouragement of her friends she decides to try some dating apps to meet people. After a bunch of disasters she finds some people she really clicks with. I need to stop there. you have to read to find out who these people are. Fair warning there is a cliff hanger but it comes with an interesting twist that I love and I think you will love. I usually hate a characters friends but I really loved Desiree's eclectic group. I liked the different personalities and different points of views. I would definitely recommend this one. Cant wait to finish this story!
January 29, 2019
This was an interesting concept. But it wasn't a romance with a HEA, so just putting that out there up front.
I expected this to be something sort of like a novella because it's shorter, but it ends on a cliffhanger with Desiree, the protagonist, deciding between two men. The interesting part is the second part of the story is a "choose your own adventure" -- you can pick which of the two books to read next, with her ending up with one guy in one of them or the other guy in the other (at least, pretty sure that's what the teaser at the end meant).
Now, since I didn't know any of this, I was a little put out at first because I don't like cliffhangers. But I've really enjoyed what I've read from this author before and odd story structure aside, there was a lot I liked here as well.
This book felt very relevant and very now. Desiree is in her early 30s, thrust back into the dating world after a relationship that lasted more than a decade. She has a close circle of girlfriends and all of them have gotten married or engaged while she's newly single again. And the dating world is radically different than it was the last time she was single in her early 20s. It's all online dating sites and dating apps and casual hookups.
I was entertained by her dating adventures when she first starts making dates with men she's meeting online. Some of them were total assholes or creeps and that's just...so realistic to me because it's been the experience of women I know with online dating. She reads the corny messages men send her to her friends and in between chapters, the author wrote online dating profiles for some of the men she meets.
But this story lost me a bit when she just kept on going on dates with so many different men. It's not that I think that's wrong--she isn't in a relationship and can date as many men as she wants--but I'm used to having a hero to root for. And I definitely leaned more towards one of them here so if I decide to read part two, I'll pick the book with their HEA.
Even though this didn't quite work for me, I do appreciate the realistic glimpse into the modern world of dating and the risk she took with having Desiree meet and date so many men.
I expected this to be something sort of like a novella because it's shorter, but it ends on a cliffhanger with Desiree, the protagonist, deciding between two men. The interesting part is the second part of the story is a "choose your own adventure" -- you can pick which of the two books to read next, with her ending up with one guy in one of them or the other guy in the other (at least, pretty sure that's what the teaser at the end meant).
Now, since I didn't know any of this, I was a little put out at first because I don't like cliffhangers. But I've really enjoyed what I've read from this author before and odd story structure aside, there was a lot I liked here as well.
This book felt very relevant and very now. Desiree is in her early 30s, thrust back into the dating world after a relationship that lasted more than a decade. She has a close circle of girlfriends and all of them have gotten married or engaged while she's newly single again. And the dating world is radically different than it was the last time she was single in her early 20s. It's all online dating sites and dating apps and casual hookups.
I was entertained by her dating adventures when she first starts making dates with men she's meeting online. Some of them were total assholes or creeps and that's just...so realistic to me because it's been the experience of women I know with online dating. She reads the corny messages men send her to her friends and in between chapters, the author wrote online dating profiles for some of the men she meets.
But this story lost me a bit when she just kept on going on dates with so many different men. It's not that I think that's wrong--she isn't in a relationship and can date as many men as she wants--but I'm used to having a hero to root for. And I definitely leaned more towards one of them here so if I decide to read part two, I'll pick the book with their HEA.
Even though this didn't quite work for me, I do appreciate the realistic glimpse into the modern world of dating and the risk she took with having Desiree meet and date so many men.
July 24, 2017
Fantastic!
Danielle Allen (no relation) has proven herself a solid talent with a strong voice and a wonderful wit that shines in all her works-but in this one, it really shines. This book is funny, tender, thoughtful, sweet and just enough steamy!!
All the characters we care about in this book are fully realized- a welcome change from too many works. With enough depth to keep us interested, while focusing our attention squarely on our heroine Desiree Johnson as she enters the dating world after a ten year relationship ends-badly. Desiree has taken her time to heal (thank goodness) and with hilarious goading from her friends, enters the online dating world to creepy, hilarious, enraging and hopeful effect.
So well done! Enjoy the ride...
Danielle Allen (no relation) has proven herself a solid talent with a strong voice and a wonderful wit that shines in all her works-but in this one, it really shines. This book is funny, tender, thoughtful, sweet and just enough steamy!!
All the characters we care about in this book are fully realized- a welcome change from too many works. With enough depth to keep us interested, while focusing our attention squarely on our heroine Desiree Johnson as she enters the dating world after a ten year relationship ends-badly. Desiree has taken her time to heal (thank goodness) and with hilarious goading from her friends, enters the online dating world to creepy, hilarious, enraging and hopeful effect.
So well done! Enjoy the ride...
August 24, 2017
I reviewed this book over at The Book Queen's site: http://www.tbqsbookpalace.com/2017/08...
Look, I know you’re not supposed to judge a book by its cover, but the truth is, a great cover can really pull me in. Especially in romance, where I have to admit, I get a little tired of looking at glossy six-pack abs and ladies in flowing pastel dresses. Enter Disasters in Dating by Danielle Allen, a book with a striking and gorgeous cover. Combined with a charming blurb, and this moved right up my list. Sometimes I just want to read something with a little more humor, and this seems to fit the bill.
Desiree is about to enter the world of online dating after a ten year relationship that collapsed. One of the charms of the book is how smoothly Danielle Allen showed me Desi’s excitement and nervousness about this new world. Desi can’t believe this is the way dating works now and wishes it could be more “organic.” If, like me, you’re a reader who has never had the experience of online dating, reading this book is hilariously awkward and uncomfortable and left me wondering more than once, OMG is that really how it works?? Meanwhile, everyone else will likely laugh, giggle, and nod along as Desi navigates the pick-ups, text chats, and dick pics that are dating in 2017.
Desi is a strong, likable character with a crew of best friends helping her through the journey. They prop her up, give her advice, and encourage her to move past her ex-boyfriend, Troy. The relationships with her girlfriends, and Desi’s relationship with herself, are what make this book so appealing. The bad break-up was a year and a half ago, and Desi has given herself time to figure out who she is and what she wants. The beginning of the book starts with a series of 4 painfully bad dates, and rather than letting men act like fools, or let herself be taken advantage of, she stays true to herself and isn’t afraid to tell men how she feels. It’s pretty great.
In terms of the writing, my observation is that this book does a lot of telling and not showing. A lot of her relationships are conveyed through the texts and messages they send each other, and there is lots and lots of dialogue where Desi describes how she is feeling. Some of her dates aren’t in the narrative, instead Desi retells her adventures to a friend. It’s not that it’s bad, it’s just a different kind of pacing. I found myself wanting a little more action, and a little less of Desi in her own head. However, I do think that Danielle Allen has a knack for dialogue. There’s a lot of fast chatter and back and forth with her friends and dates, and the book has the cadence of sitting in coffee shop overhearing a conversation between girlfriends.
As a warning: Disasters in Dating defies a lot of what I expect in romance novel. At first, I was frustrated that I couldn’t figure out which man Desi was going to end up with, but once I started reading it as a book about Desi figuring out who she is and what she wants, I decided to enjoy her dating journey. HOWEVER, I must warn you that the book has an unannounced cliffhanger ending. Luckily, the next book comes out on August 6th. I’ll admit that I am intrigued with the description of the next book, Brink of Disaster: “Brink of Disaster: This one. Brink of Disaster: This One. Two Guys. Two Endings. Two Books. How do you want the story to end? The Choice is yours.” I honestly do not even know how I feel about a Lady or the Tiger romance novel ending! Talk about a cliffhanger. Maybe Danielle Allen should take Molly O’Keefe bowling. Sheesh.
Look, I know you’re not supposed to judge a book by its cover, but the truth is, a great cover can really pull me in. Especially in romance, where I have to admit, I get a little tired of looking at glossy six-pack abs and ladies in flowing pastel dresses. Enter Disasters in Dating by Danielle Allen, a book with a striking and gorgeous cover. Combined with a charming blurb, and this moved right up my list. Sometimes I just want to read something with a little more humor, and this seems to fit the bill.
Desiree is about to enter the world of online dating after a ten year relationship that collapsed. One of the charms of the book is how smoothly Danielle Allen showed me Desi’s excitement and nervousness about this new world. Desi can’t believe this is the way dating works now and wishes it could be more “organic.” If, like me, you’re a reader who has never had the experience of online dating, reading this book is hilariously awkward and uncomfortable and left me wondering more than once, OMG is that really how it works?? Meanwhile, everyone else will likely laugh, giggle, and nod along as Desi navigates the pick-ups, text chats, and dick pics that are dating in 2017.
Desi is a strong, likable character with a crew of best friends helping her through the journey. They prop her up, give her advice, and encourage her to move past her ex-boyfriend, Troy. The relationships with her girlfriends, and Desi’s relationship with herself, are what make this book so appealing. The bad break-up was a year and a half ago, and Desi has given herself time to figure out who she is and what she wants. The beginning of the book starts with a series of 4 painfully bad dates, and rather than letting men act like fools, or let herself be taken advantage of, she stays true to herself and isn’t afraid to tell men how she feels. It’s pretty great.
In terms of the writing, my observation is that this book does a lot of telling and not showing. A lot of her relationships are conveyed through the texts and messages they send each other, and there is lots and lots of dialogue where Desi describes how she is feeling. Some of her dates aren’t in the narrative, instead Desi retells her adventures to a friend. It’s not that it’s bad, it’s just a different kind of pacing. I found myself wanting a little more action, and a little less of Desi in her own head. However, I do think that Danielle Allen has a knack for dialogue. There’s a lot of fast chatter and back and forth with her friends and dates, and the book has the cadence of sitting in coffee shop overhearing a conversation between girlfriends.
As a warning: Disasters in Dating defies a lot of what I expect in romance novel. At first, I was frustrated that I couldn’t figure out which man Desi was going to end up with, but once I started reading it as a book about Desi figuring out who she is and what she wants, I decided to enjoy her dating journey. HOWEVER, I must warn you that the book has an unannounced cliffhanger ending. Luckily, the next book comes out on August 6th. I’ll admit that I am intrigued with the description of the next book, Brink of Disaster: “Brink of Disaster: This one. Brink of Disaster: This One. Two Guys. Two Endings. Two Books. How do you want the story to end? The Choice is yours.” I honestly do not even know how I feel about a Lady or the Tiger romance novel ending! Talk about a cliffhanger. Maybe Danielle Allen should take Molly O’Keefe bowling. Sheesh.
July 10, 2017
This book is easily the best book I've read all year. There are so many great elements. It was PHENOMENAL!
First...Desiree has a great set of friends. You could feel the love. Each friend brings a unique element to the group and they have such fun together.
Next...the men....these doggone men that Desiree meets...LORD HAVE MERCY! I've seriously met almost all of them!!! I cackled...I mean like my ugly old lady laugh as I read most of these! Poor Desiree....to have to go through these....ummmm...well....less than desirable men.
As a single girl who has tried online dating...I felt her pain...
There are lessons to be learned though...my favorite is to stop taking everything so seriously...life is truly worth letting go just a little and learning to live it!
The twists and turns of these Disasters in Dating will definitely have you on an emotional roller coaster. I'm definitely a fan of this author and can't wait to get to know her work more. I'm going to be talking about and thinking about this one for weeks and months to come. I'm also going to reread and take note of some of these dating tips!
First...Desiree has a great set of friends. You could feel the love. Each friend brings a unique element to the group and they have such fun together.
Next...the men....these doggone men that Desiree meets...LORD HAVE MERCY! I've seriously met almost all of them!!! I cackled...I mean like my ugly old lady laugh as I read most of these! Poor Desiree....to have to go through these....ummmm...well....less than desirable men.
As a single girl who has tried online dating...I felt her pain...
There are lessons to be learned though...my favorite is to stop taking everything so seriously...life is truly worth letting go just a little and learning to live it!
The twists and turns of these Disasters in Dating will definitely have you on an emotional roller coaster. I'm definitely a fan of this author and can't wait to get to know her work more. I'm going to be talking about and thinking about this one for weeks and months to come. I'm also going to reread and take note of some of these dating tips!
September 20, 2017
Relatable
This book was very relatable. It was comical in the sense that you could not help but to laugh at the truth. The dates and stories described are exactly what is happening now a days. It is my first book by this author, and I'm looking forward to reading the next part.
This book was very relatable. It was comical in the sense that you could not help but to laugh at the truth. The dates and stories described are exactly what is happening now a days. It is my first book by this author, and I'm looking forward to reading the next part.
September 17, 2017
I like the author and have read a few of her books. As usual, I enjoyed her book.
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September 14, 2017On point!
This book is so on point, that it's scary and sad. Love how Danielle put this together. How we got find out what happened on dates along with her friends. It was like we were apart of the conversation. Looking forward to seeing how this turns out.
This book is so on point, that it's scary and sad. Love how Danielle put this together. How we got find out what happened on dates along with her friends. It was like we were apart of the conversation. Looking forward to seeing how this turns out.
September 10, 2017
I'm so torn
So in usual Danielle Allen fashion, I'm on the edge of my seat and with a choice of how this story ends is about the most delicious torment I can think of! Poor Desiree's love life has me thinking how these folk survive the age of internet dating. As always, our heroine is strong, independent, but vulnerable. Of course, you want her as your BFF but there is a great support cast of women in this story guiding Desi. Off to read how this will end and I'm super nervous
So in usual Danielle Allen fashion, I'm on the edge of my seat and with a choice of how this story ends is about the most delicious torment I can think of! Poor Desiree's love life has me thinking how these folk survive the age of internet dating. As always, our heroine is strong, independent, but vulnerable. Of course, you want her as your BFF but there is a great support cast of women in this story guiding Desi. Off to read how this will end and I'm super nervous
September 10, 2017
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*Complimentary copy received from author for review purposes
There is one thing I've come to expect from Danielle Allen's books: The Unexpected.
Each book she writes is unique and this one was no exception. I wasn't sure how I was going to feel about the first part of a "choose your own adventure" because, well, cliffhangers aren't exactly my thing. But, it was a quick read and the rest of my adventure was ready to go rather quickly.
Disasters In Dating was an entertaining, funny peek into the current world of dating.
*Complimentary copy received from author for review purposes
There is one thing I've come to expect from Danielle Allen's books: The Unexpected.
Each book she writes is unique and this one was no exception. I wasn't sure how I was going to feel about the first part of a "choose your own adventure" because, well, cliffhangers aren't exactly my thing. But, it was a quick read and the rest of my adventure was ready to go rather quickly.
Disasters In Dating was an entertaining, funny peek into the current world of dating.
September 5, 2017
Good book
I enjoyed Desiree's dating journey. Her story had a lot of truths about online dating now days. You just never know who is for real or who is running game. Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who love to play games. I am torn between Charles and Miles. I think Charles is the one Desiree's should be with but he doesn't want a relationship, but maybe he is willing to change that. I like Miles too for Desiree. He knows what he wants and has let it be known early. I'm glad I'm not in Desiree's shoes. Great book!
I enjoyed Desiree's dating journey. Her story had a lot of truths about online dating now days. You just never know who is for real or who is running game. Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who love to play games. I am torn between Charles and Miles. I think Charles is the one Desiree's should be with but he doesn't want a relationship, but maybe he is willing to change that. I like Miles too for Desiree. He knows what he wants and has let it be known early. I'm glad I'm not in Desiree's shoes. Great book!
July 13, 2017
4.5 stars!
Danielle did it again!!
I enjoyed this book so much from beginning to end! Desiree is trying to get back in the dating scene by trying online dating. She encounters some interesting men along this journey, but there is one that I am rooting for :) Her girlfriends are all hilarious and you see how much they are all there for her.
Some of these dates were disasters and there are a few where she made a connection. It takes alot to put yourself out there because you never know the type of person you'll encounter. At times, it will have you questioning what the hell you are doing. There's so much I can say about this book, but I want you to experience it for yourself :)I can't wait to see what happens next and to see how it all plays out!
Danielle did it again!!
I enjoyed this book so much from beginning to end! Desiree is trying to get back in the dating scene by trying online dating. She encounters some interesting men along this journey, but there is one that I am rooting for :) Her girlfriends are all hilarious and you see how much they are all there for her.
Some of these dates were disasters and there are a few where she made a connection. It takes alot to put yourself out there because you never know the type of person you'll encounter. At times, it will have you questioning what the hell you are doing. There's so much I can say about this book, but I want you to experience it for yourself :)I can't wait to see what happens next and to see how it all plays out!
July 15, 2017
This was a quick and enjoyable read! I've never tried online dating, but Desiree's adventures mirror some of the disasters I've heard from friends who have. I loved her circle of friends, their witty conversations, the way they encourage Desiree because they want her to find THE ONE and be happy. I admired Desiree's courage to get out there and try to meet Mr. Right. Some of these interactions had me laughing out loud!
This was my first book by Danielle Allen, but I'm sure it won't be the last! I can't wait for the next installment!
This was my first book by Danielle Allen, but I'm sure it won't be the last! I can't wait for the next installment!
December 29, 2017
OmfreakinG!
What just happened??! I was not expecting that ending at all. The ups and downs that Desiree went through were definitely relatable. In this day and age, online dating is more common than ever, but it's still scary. The dates she went on, the connections she made, what the heck is Brian's deal!? Where is Vincent Charles seriously because he was hot. Miles... I'm on the fence with him for some reason. Dating after 30 is truly interesting to say the least. Jayson ole slick behind
What just happened??! I was not expecting that ending at all. The ups and downs that Desiree went through were definitely relatable. In this day and age, online dating is more common than ever, but it's still scary. The dates she went on, the connections she made, what the heck is Brian's deal!? Where is Vincent Charles seriously because he was hot. Miles... I'm on the fence with him for some reason. Dating after 30 is truly interesting to say the least. Jayson ole slick behind
July 16, 2017
Hot and bothered!
This was my first read of Danielle's work. It won't be my last. Although I got married young, I could still understand Desiree's plight in dating. I laughed out loud at times, my heart sank at times, and I was scared for her wondering what was to come next. I did have a little trouble keeping up with distinguishing her many best friends, but I loved this and can't wait for the next books.
This was my first read of Danielle's work. It won't be my last. Although I got married young, I could still understand Desiree's plight in dating. I laughed out loud at times, my heart sank at times, and I was scared for her wondering what was to come next. I did have a little trouble keeping up with distinguishing her many best friends, but I loved this and can't wait for the next books.
August 15, 2017
Wait!!!
No!! I wasn't ready for the book to end!!! I need more like yesterday! I definitely want her to choose Charles though! I love their chemistry. Great book!
No!! I wasn't ready for the book to end!!! I need more like yesterday! I definitely want her to choose Charles though! I love their chemistry. Great book!
August 12, 2017
Awesome Read
This book was very engaging!! I really like Desiree and her no-nonsense attitude. I found myself chuckling in some moments and smiling almost the entire time I read. I thoroughly enjoyed the comical and sexual interactions between her and Charles. I want to know more about him and what he's hiding! So I suppose that will be the book I choose next!
This book was very engaging!! I really like Desiree and her no-nonsense attitude. I found myself chuckling in some moments and smiling almost the entire time I read. I thoroughly enjoyed the comical and sexual interactions between her and Charles. I want to know more about him and what he's hiding! So I suppose that will be the book I choose next!
July 16, 2017
Disasters
Oh boy was this different and funny. Desiree and her friends were fun and supportive. It was fun to see how dating is done after 30! Interesting way to end serial dating disasters!! We need the rest of the story!! Loved it!!!
Oh boy was this different and funny. Desiree and her friends were fun and supportive. It was fun to see how dating is done after 30! Interesting way to end serial dating disasters!! We need the rest of the story!! Loved it!!!
July 13, 2017
The Reason's Why I Love Your Books! Just Read And You'll See...
Warning... Disclaimer etc etc!!! This book just might detonate your brain and explode all over your kindle, so read at your own risk! This author is in a league of her own. I liked this book from the on start. The demise of a relationship in this day and age must be difficult. I am sooooooo happy not to have to deal with all the BS Desiree went through trying to find a suitable man to date. Her married friends had me rolling and howling at the moon a few times with their raunchy advise. The Ten Commandments for Online Dating started the fiasco that would make this story tick for me. The bucket list item for the white guy, lol, and the rich guy with his constant interruption and his self love. I just howled. I loved the recap with the girls; Carmen, Anika, Dyani and Nichelle. They each gave the best commentary on her dates. What not to do kind of stuff... Brian was so disappointing, and we all knew Jayson was holding back something vital. Then Charles took the lead for me. I like Miles, but I want her to choose Charles. The constant in her life is the one..... 10 Star read.....
Warning... Disclaimer etc etc!!! This book just might detonate your brain and explode all over your kindle, so read at your own risk! This author is in a league of her own. I liked this book from the on start. The demise of a relationship in this day and age must be difficult. I am sooooooo happy not to have to deal with all the BS Desiree went through trying to find a suitable man to date. Her married friends had me rolling and howling at the moon a few times with their raunchy advise. The Ten Commandments for Online Dating started the fiasco that would make this story tick for me. The bucket list item for the white guy, lol, and the rich guy with his constant interruption and his self love. I just howled. I loved the recap with the girls; Carmen, Anika, Dyani and Nichelle. They each gave the best commentary on her dates. What not to do kind of stuff... Brian was so disappointing, and we all knew Jayson was holding back something vital. Then Charles took the lead for me. I like Miles, but I want her to choose Charles. The constant in her life is the one..... 10 Star read.....
July 20, 2017
Amazing! Ladies read this. Trust me!
This book was downright amazing. There wasn’t a page that didn’t have me either grinning, smiling or flat out laughing. I was literally laughing out loud at some areas in the book that people at my job started looking at me and asked “what’s so funny” and I’m like “this book!” I thoroughly enjoyed this book: from the 10 sex rules to her first conversations with “Charles in Charge”. Desiree and her friends are not only funny but very relatable. It’s a little sad to know and actually read what the state of dating has turned into in the 21st century but Danielle has grasped it very well and highlighted it through her witty/comical characters. At 30 % in I knew better was yet to come and when I realized I was at 90%, up until 2AM just to see who Desiree was going to pick, I figured there would be no finality-which meant there would be a book two/sequel and what do I find out??!! There will actually be two more books giving me a choice and I don’t know about you but I’m choosing Charles….butttt I am also going to read the story with Miles too because one can never have enough laughter in life!
This book was downright amazing. There wasn’t a page that didn’t have me either grinning, smiling or flat out laughing. I was literally laughing out loud at some areas in the book that people at my job started looking at me and asked “what’s so funny” and I’m like “this book!” I thoroughly enjoyed this book: from the 10 sex rules to her first conversations with “Charles in Charge”. Desiree and her friends are not only funny but very relatable. It’s a little sad to know and actually read what the state of dating has turned into in the 21st century but Danielle has grasped it very well and highlighted it through her witty/comical characters. At 30 % in I knew better was yet to come and when I realized I was at 90%, up until 2AM just to see who Desiree was going to pick, I figured there would be no finality-which meant there would be a book two/sequel and what do I find out??!! There will actually be two more books giving me a choice and I don’t know about you but I’m choosing Charles….butttt I am also going to read the story with Miles too because one can never have enough laughter in life!
August 15, 2020
Dating is viewed as fun for some and daunting for others. If you are up in age and have not been a part of the dating scene for a super long time, I am talking double digit number, I believe dating will fall on the daunting end of the spectrum. For Desiree, entering the dating game proved to be disastrous, ESPECIALLY in the beginning. Desi has a group of girlfriends that is along on the ride with her and they give her some advice on how to get the most out of her dating experience. Some of Desi’s dates are hilarious and others are downright appalling. She finally narrows her options down to 2 men and now we have to see which one she will choose…or shall I say which one we will choose? Since, Ms. Allen created the series for us (the readers) to choose our own adventure and pick who Desi will be with. The options are Charles, a firefighter who hasn’t explicitly stated that he wants a relationship but who gives Desi butterflies and Miles, a music artist who makes it abundantly clear that he wants Desi. Who would you choose?
June 28, 2021
LOVED IT
The author did a great job with this book. Very well written, great character development and storyline. I enjoyed every moment of this book. It definitely mirrors what it's like these days getting back in the dating game after being in a long term relationship. Desiree had some good, awkward, funny and down right shocking moments when choosing her dates. I loved the support she gets from her friends and how much they want her to find her true mate. But what is a girl to do when she has finally narrowed down her choice to two men who have left her giddy and wanting to pursue more. That cliffhanger left me speechless and anxious to find out who will Desiree choose or is this the end to her online dating quest.
The author did a great job with this book. Very well written, great character development and storyline. I enjoyed every moment of this book. It definitely mirrors what it's like these days getting back in the dating game after being in a long term relationship. Desiree had some good, awkward, funny and down right shocking moments when choosing her dates. I loved the support she gets from her friends and how much they want her to find her true mate. But what is a girl to do when she has finally narrowed down her choice to two men who have left her giddy and wanting to pursue more. That cliffhanger left me speechless and anxious to find out who will Desiree choose or is this the end to her online dating quest.
July 15, 2017
The book was entertaining. There was a lot of telling and not showing but I find that to be standard in books like this one.
I hate the fact that it ended in a cliffhanger with no warning. I get that authors do that to make you want to read the next book but when you're an amazing author that's unnecessary. I consider it an ok book because nothing was resolved. We don't know why one character was acting the way he acted or anything and that's just poor storytelling. It was my first book of hers and it's going to be my last because she probably does this often and ain't nobody got time for that.
I hate the fact that it ended in a cliffhanger with no warning. I get that authors do that to make you want to read the next book but when you're an amazing author that's unnecessary. I consider it an ok book because nothing was resolved. We don't know why one character was acting the way he acted or anything and that's just poor storytelling. It was my first book of hers and it's going to be my last because she probably does this often and ain't nobody got time for that.
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