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The Rebuilding Year #2
Life, Some Assembly Required
Finding love in the ashes was easy. Building a life together? Not so much.
After spending the first part of his life chasing pretty girls, love has finally come to Ryan in the form of John, a tall, lanky, red-headed landscape architect with wide shoulders and a five-o’clock shadow.
For the first time in Ryan's life, love feels easy. Hell, he even ran into a burning building for John and his son, and he’d do it again if he had to. But telling his father and brothers and classmates “I’m gay. I’ve met a man”? That’s going to take nerve of a different kind.
For John, loving Ryan is as natural as breathing. Now if only the rest of his life would fall into place. Dealing with his teen son is complicated enough, but with his ex-wife causing trouble and his daughter wanting to move in, John’s house— and his relationship with Ryan— threaten to split at the seams.
Is one month without a new surprise knocking him upside the heart really too much to ask? Unfortunately, the answer seems to be Yes.
(This is a re-release of the 2015 Samhain novel, with only minor editing.)
After spending the first part of his life chasing pretty girls, love has finally come to Ryan in the form of John, a tall, lanky, red-headed landscape architect with wide shoulders and a five-o’clock shadow.
For the first time in Ryan's life, love feels easy. Hell, he even ran into a burning building for John and his son, and he’d do it again if he had to. But telling his father and brothers and classmates “I’m gay. I’ve met a man”? That’s going to take nerve of a different kind.
For John, loving Ryan is as natural as breathing. Now if only the rest of his life would fall into place. Dealing with his teen son is complicated enough, but with his ex-wife causing trouble and his daughter wanting to move in, John’s house— and his relationship with Ryan— threaten to split at the seams.
Is one month without a new surprise knocking him upside the heart really too much to ask? Unfortunately, the answer seems to be Yes.
(This is a re-release of the 2015 Samhain novel, with only minor editing.)
320 pages, Kindle Edition
First published June 9, 2015
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About the author
Kaje Harper
91 books2,730 followersI get asked about my name a lot. It's not something exotic, though. “Kaje” is pronounced just like “cage” – it’s an old nickname, and my pronouns are she/her/hers.
I was born in Montreal but have lived for 30 years in Minnesota, where the two seasons are Snow-removal and Road-repair, where the mosquito is the state bird, and where winter can be breathtakingly beautiful. Minnesota’s a kind, quiet (if sometimes chilly) place and it’s home.
I’ve been writing far longer than I care to admit (*whispers – fifty years*), mostly for my own entertainment, usually M/M romance (with added mystery, fantasy, historical, SciFi…) I also have a few Young Adult stories (some released under the pen name Kira Harp.)
My husband finally convinced me that after all the years of writing for fun, I really should submit something, somewhere. My first professionally published book, Life Lessons, came out from MLR Press in May 2011. I have a weakness for closeted cops with honest hearts, and teachers who speak their minds, and I had fun writing four novels and three freebie short stories in that series. I was delighted and encouraged by the reception Mac and Tony received.
I now have a good-sized backlist in ebooks and print, both free and professionally published. A complete list with links can be found on my website "Books" page at https://kajeharper.com/.
You can find me and my book reviews on my author page here on Goodreads - I hang out on Goodreads a lot because I moderate the Goodreads YA LGBT Books group. I also post free short YA stories on that group, more than 50 of them so far.
You can also find me on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/KajeHarper
I was born in Montreal but have lived for 30 years in Minnesota, where the two seasons are Snow-removal and Road-repair, where the mosquito is the state bird, and where winter can be breathtakingly beautiful. Minnesota’s a kind, quiet (if sometimes chilly) place and it’s home.
I’ve been writing far longer than I care to admit (*whispers – fifty years*), mostly for my own entertainment, usually M/M romance (with added mystery, fantasy, historical, SciFi…) I also have a few Young Adult stories (some released under the pen name Kira Harp.)
My husband finally convinced me that after all the years of writing for fun, I really should submit something, somewhere. My first professionally published book, Life Lessons, came out from MLR Press in May 2011. I have a weakness for closeted cops with honest hearts, and teachers who speak their minds, and I had fun writing four novels and three freebie short stories in that series. I was delighted and encouraged by the reception Mac and Tony received.
I now have a good-sized backlist in ebooks and print, both free and professionally published. A complete list with links can be found on my website "Books" page at https://kajeharper.com/.
You can find me and my book reviews on my author page here on Goodreads - I hang out on Goodreads a lot because I moderate the Goodreads YA LGBT Books group. I also post free short YA stories on that group, more than 50 of them so far.
You can also find me on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/KajeHarper
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June 6, 2015
*3.5 stars*
When I think of my top 10 favorite authors, across all genres, Kaje Harper is always on my list. She simply writes the stuff that I like to read! Real men, real situations, REAL LIFE! She is a genius, and I am a huge fan of her slow-burn romances and long, well-developed plots.
The Rebuilding Year is a personal favorite of mine. Not only it is a DOUBLE GAY FOR YOU (can we say jackpot!?!?), but it is a beautiful, tender story. Sure, it has it's flaws, but overall I was very happy with the story and how it ended.
Which is why this sequel felt a little, and I hate to say it, unnecessary.
Sometimes, when a couple gets their HEA, it's okay to leave it at that, I think. Though when I heard about this book, I certainly wasn't complaining about more John and Ryan. They are a beautiful couple, and I was excited to see what new ground they would cover together.
This book is mostly about family drama. Mostly. Thank god very little drama is strife within John and Ryan's relationship, but still... So. Much. Drama. I wasn't a huge fan of the storyline with John's ex-wife, and combine that with Ryan's school/career issues, Ryan's family stuff, and John's kids' drama... it got to be a bit bogged down for me.
Still expertly written and still a lovely walk down memory lane, but with less heat and more entanglements than "The Rebuilding Year" it wasn't a home run. It is still a very strong "like" for me, and I still maintain that Kaje Harper can do no wrong, but I'd say this is strictly for big fans of the first in the series.
**Copy provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review**
When I think of my top 10 favorite authors, across all genres, Kaje Harper is always on my list. She simply writes the stuff that I like to read! Real men, real situations, REAL LIFE! She is a genius, and I am a huge fan of her slow-burn romances and long, well-developed plots.
The Rebuilding Year is a personal favorite of mine. Not only it is a DOUBLE GAY FOR YOU (can we say jackpot!?!?), but it is a beautiful, tender story. Sure, it has it's flaws, but overall I was very happy with the story and how it ended.
Which is why this sequel felt a little, and I hate to say it, unnecessary.
Sometimes, when a couple gets their HEA, it's okay to leave it at that, I think. Though when I heard about this book, I certainly wasn't complaining about more John and Ryan. They are a beautiful couple, and I was excited to see what new ground they would cover together.
This book is mostly about family drama. Mostly. Thank god very little drama is strife within John and Ryan's relationship, but still... So. Much. Drama. I wasn't a huge fan of the storyline with John's ex-wife, and combine that with Ryan's school/career issues, Ryan's family stuff, and John's kids' drama... it got to be a bit bogged down for me.
Still expertly written and still a lovely walk down memory lane, but with less heat and more entanglements than "The Rebuilding Year" it wasn't a home run. It is still a very strong "like" for me, and I still maintain that Kaje Harper can do no wrong, but I'd say this is strictly for big fans of the first in the series.
**Copy provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review**
May 17, 2015
3.5 stars. Review posted May 17, 2015
I have mixed feelings about this second (and final?) installment in The Rebuilding Year series. Although I don't remember very much of the prequel, I know that I enjoyed The Rebuilding Year more. Life, Some Assembly Required picks right up where The Rebuilding Year left off. This second installment deals with the daily challenges, the joys and sorrows of a gay couple of being out (and proud), or what can happen when you are being outed accidentally and some people aren't very forthcoming and accepting about it.
John put a gentle hand on his shoulder. "It's okay, really. The labels don't matter."
"Sometimes they do. Sometimes they hurt somebody."
John kissed his temple. "You can say gay or bi or whatever. I got all I needed when you told your dad that I'm your lover, I'm someone special."
As a couple, whether you're gay or straight, it's never easy to accommodate a number of things, such as family life, kids, job and education. Worrying about the future can put a strain on your day-to-day life in general and dealing with an unexpected surprise can put a damper on your state of mind in particular. Though while there had been problems, there was enough room for Ryan and John to show how much they love each other. And while there were a little too many ILYs planted all over the plot, I enjoyed their contagious intimacy, their mutual easy-going manner, their love and support for John's teenage kids, Mark and Torey, and John and Ryan's interaction with the kids in general.
"You're the best other dad ever!"
Some of you might be interested to know that John and Ryan can still heat up aroom bed very nicely, too. I guess I don't need to elaborate more.
Unfortunately I was right when I smelled that plot twist which did not appeal to me at all. Spare me, please. Anyway, I guess I don't have to say that I was beyond miffed when that happened. But being miffed was not a strong enough word to describe how I felt when I was like "WTF? That's My reasons for rejecting that idea were the same as John's. It's all kinds of wrong. Wrong for There, I said it.
"I want to take away their signs and shove them up their sanctimonious asses. Then we'll see if they care what goes up my ass."
John choked, and Torey stared at Ryan.
Ry shrugged. "Well, they're the ones thinking about sodomy. You have to wonder, how do they know the devil does that kind of work? Firsthand experience? You think he does it well?"
Torey giggled.
John said, "Ryan."
"What?" Ryan raised his eyebrows in an exaggerated way.
Overall not a bad read by any means. I liked it and it was written well and quite entertaining, sprinkled with a few inter-familiar problems and some hot smexin'. While I enjoyed the dialogue quite a bit, I felt it came off as too mushy and sugary in places. Regardless, I'd recommend you to give it a try, especially if you have loved the first book. Though my recommendation comes with a certain reservation.
I wish Ryan and John much success and love for their future rainbow-colored life.
All quotes are taken from the pre-published copy and may be altered or omitted in the final copy
**ARC courtesy of Samhain Publishing via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review**
I have mixed feelings about this second (and final?) installment in The Rebuilding Year series. Although I don't remember very much of the prequel, I know that I enjoyed The Rebuilding Year more. Life, Some Assembly Required picks right up where The Rebuilding Year left off. This second installment deals with the daily challenges, the joys and sorrows of a gay couple of being out (and proud), or what can happen when you are being outed accidentally and some people aren't very forthcoming and accepting about it.
John put a gentle hand on his shoulder. "It's okay, really. The labels don't matter."
"Sometimes they do. Sometimes they hurt somebody."
John kissed his temple. "You can say gay or bi or whatever. I got all I needed when you told your dad that I'm your lover, I'm someone special."
As a couple, whether you're gay or straight, it's never easy to accommodate a number of things, such as family life, kids, job and education. Worrying about the future can put a strain on your day-to-day life in general and dealing with an unexpected surprise can put a damper on your state of mind in particular. Though while there had been problems, there was enough room for Ryan and John to show how much they love each other. And while there were a little too many ILYs planted all over the plot, I enjoyed their contagious intimacy, their mutual easy-going manner, their love and support for John's teenage kids, Mark and Torey, and John and Ryan's interaction with the kids in general.
"You're the best other dad ever!"
Some of you might be interested to know that John and Ryan can still heat up a
Unfortunately I was right when I smelled that plot twist which did not appeal to me at all. Spare me, please. Anyway, I guess I don't have to say that I was beyond miffed when that happened. But being miffed was not a strong enough word to describe how I felt when I was like "WTF? That's My reasons for rejecting that idea were the same as John's. It's all kinds of wrong. Wrong for There, I said it.
"I want to take away their signs and shove them up their sanctimonious asses. Then we'll see if they care what goes up my ass."
John choked, and Torey stared at Ryan.
Ry shrugged. "Well, they're the ones thinking about sodomy. You have to wonder, how do they know the devil does that kind of work? Firsthand experience? You think he does it well?"
Torey giggled.
John said, "Ryan."
"What?" Ryan raised his eyebrows in an exaggerated way.
Overall not a bad read by any means. I liked it and it was written well and quite entertaining, sprinkled with a few inter-familiar problems and some hot smexin'. While I enjoyed the dialogue quite a bit, I felt it came off as too mushy and sugary in places. Regardless, I'd recommend you to give it a try, especially if you have loved the first book. Though my recommendation comes with a certain reservation.
I wish Ryan and John much success and love for their future rainbow-colored life.
All quotes are taken from the pre-published copy and may be altered or omitted in the final copy
**ARC courtesy of Samhain Publishing via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review**
June 13, 2015
4.5 stars
Yay! John and Ryan are BACK! The Rebuilding Year is a personal favorite of mine. One of those books that I told myself after I read it, "Why on earth did you wait so long to read this?" So I was particularly excited for the sequel. After reading a few pages, I realized that I needed a refresher so I went back and re-read The Rebuilding Year and actually liked it even more the second time around.
Life, Some Assembly Required picks up exactly where The Rebuilding Year left off, with Ryan on the phone with his father.
Now, obviously, this book cannot be read as a stand alone. It is a continuation of Ryan and John's new lives as partners, when both thought they were heterosexual mere months ago. John's son Mark is living with them in Wisconsin and John's daughter Torey is with her mother Cynthia and her new husband Brandon in California. Life, Some Assembly Required is a mildly angsty story of Ryan and John slowly but surely coming out to their family, friends and the public in general. It is definitely not smooth sailing for either one of them. A good portion of their family are against the match and both men are aware of how some of the public look down on their sexual status. Thankfully, both of John's children eventually appreciate Ryan for his support and kindness and the fact that he makes their dad so happy. Home life for the two men is becoming increasingly hectic with John's children coming and going and Ryan is still in med school with a heavy workload and they are finding it harder and harder to be alone together. Fortunately their love for one another never falters and their romance is bright and loving and sexy as hell.
I really did love this sequel and the chance to see the progression of the teenage children accepting and loving Ryan as their second father. The two men were dream parents to any teenage kid. So open and understanding and allowing the kids to make their own decisions with loving guidance. You can see the kids maturing from sullen, moody, quiet teens to happy, well adjusted moody, quiet teens. Kaje Harper nailed the whole teen angst thing, and I talk from experience. I have a 16 year old and the mood swings and hormone surges are the stuff of legends.
My one, small criticism with this sequel was that I kept waiting for something major and/or spectacular to happen. Car accident? Custody battle? Huge fight leading to a glorious reconciliation? Anything? That is mostly on me because just about every M/M romance I read has a least one dramactic twist or turn in it to spice up the HEA a little bit. Life, Some Assembly Required didn't have any of that. We are merely voyeurs, watching the normal progression of this new family and how they handle life's typical up and downs. Had I known that going in, I could have allowed myself to relax a little bit and let the story naturally flow, but I am such a stickler for spoilers, I didn't read any reviews. So, that is all on me.
I can HIGHLY recommend Life, Some Assembly Required to all romance lovers who read The Rebuilding Year. And if you haven't read The Rebuilding Year yet what are you waiting for? It's a double gay-for-you delight. (Oh, did I mention how ridiculously hot the sex was once again? These boys love to explore!)
PS: Is it too early to beg for a sequel? Mark NEEDS a dog. We NEED to see Torey navigate her first love and Ryan & John NEED to at least get engaged, if not married.
October 24, 2015
This was 5***** for me.
I loved the maturity of this couple. Was there jealousy? Yes. Arguments or fights? Of course, that's normal for every relationship. But the difference for me with these men was in the way they handled every situation. The arguments or fights lasted barely minutes before one of them was apologizing or coming up with a solution to help fix the many situations they had to face in this book.
Another part of the book I loved was the relationship between John, Ryan, and his kids, Torey and Marcus. John is the best father. He listens to his kids and does everything in his power to show his love for them. And Ryan... He's amazing with John's kids and I loved reading his interaction's with them. Especially how he handled Torey telling him her secret.
Side Character's:
Drew & Family- Loved
Brent- Childish. I didn't care for him. His wife, Anne was OK.
Ryan's Dad- I found him just as frustrating and confusing as Ryan.
Brandon- Hated him SO MUCH!
Cynthia- I didn't like her at all. I found her to be ignorant, manipulative, and not such a great mother. She allowed a man to verbally abuse her children, doubt themselves, and not like themselves very much. She also refused to listen to them when they stated how unhappy they were for her own selfish reasons. So yeah, she's definitely close to being hated in this book.
Donna- Even though she didn't have much page time in the book I ended up really liking her and how easy she took to Ryan and John and for standing up for them.
In the end I am very pleased that KH wrote a sequel for these two men. I was so pissed at the way the first book ended and that there was no 2nd book in sight to be written. So to KH I say:
If you haven't read this series
I loved the maturity of this couple. Was there jealousy? Yes. Arguments or fights? Of course, that's normal for every relationship. But the difference for me with these men was in the way they handled every situation. The arguments or fights lasted barely minutes before one of them was apologizing or coming up with a solution to help fix the many situations they had to face in this book.
Another part of the book I loved was the relationship between John, Ryan, and his kids, Torey and Marcus. John is the best father. He listens to his kids and does everything in his power to show his love for them. And Ryan... He's amazing with John's kids and I loved reading his interaction's with them. Especially how he handled Torey telling him her secret.
Side Character's:
Drew & Family- Loved
Brent- Childish. I didn't care for him. His wife, Anne was OK.
Ryan's Dad- I found him just as frustrating and confusing as Ryan.
Brandon- Hated him SO MUCH!
Cynthia- I didn't like her at all. I found her to be ignorant, manipulative, and not such a great mother. She allowed a man to verbally abuse her children, doubt themselves, and not like themselves very much. She also refused to listen to them when they stated how unhappy they were for her own selfish reasons. So yeah, she's definitely close to being hated in this book.
Donna- Even though she didn't have much page time in the book I ended up really liking her and how easy she took to Ryan and John and for standing up for them.
In the end I am very pleased that KH wrote a sequel for these two men. I was so pissed at the way the first book ended and that there was no 2nd book in sight to be written. So to KH I say:
If you haven't read this series
June 24, 2019
Audio - 5 stars. Gomez Pugh is new to me (yeah I know I'm late to the party) and I loved his performance so much, he's now a favorite.
Story - 5 stars
I read book 1 almost 3 years ago. I remember liking both Ryan and John, what I don't remember was how perfectly they compliment one another. I have a feeling if I were to re-read book 1, I'd probably give it more than the 3 stars I gave it.
This is a very domestic read. Lots of family drama, and adjusting as a gay couple. I loved it because no matter what's going on, John and Ryan remain a strong and loving unit. I don't remember Ryan being so possessive. Friggin' loved it. It was hot!!
Story - 5 stars
I read book 1 almost 3 years ago. I remember liking both Ryan and John, what I don't remember was how perfectly they compliment one another. I have a feeling if I were to re-read book 1, I'd probably give it more than the 3 stars I gave it.
This is a very domestic read. Lots of family drama, and adjusting as a gay couple. I loved it because no matter what's going on, John and Ryan remain a strong and loving unit. I don't remember Ryan being so possessive. Friggin' loved it. It was hot!!
May 18, 2015
3.5 stars
Life, Some Assembly Required offers Kaje Harper's trademark -- a well-grounded story about REAL people. It also has a setting in what I will call Kaje's playground: family. I have admired (and respected) Kaje when she writes about family.
This story is a follow-up of 2012's The Rebuilding Year. I admit that I didn't remember much about that one, but it's mostly my fault for having bad memory. I didn't have any trouble in connecting with the characters right from the get go. Ryan and John were pretty much SOLID throughout. Never for once, I questioned their relationship. However, they have to deal with the ins and outs of being gay couple when it comes to their family and friends.
We have two teenagers (John's kids) and their problems (including one who just in the brink of sexuality discovery). We have a father who doesn't understand but trying to be open-minded, a brother who not exactly welcoming but also getting there, another brother who understands and is very supportive, a future sister-in-law with bigoted and old-fashioned parents, and a pregnant ex-wife who becomes the hardest obstacle yet.
I loved how John and Ryan worked out the issues, and I was proud that Ryan didn't back down when it came to announcing that he was in a relationship with a man. Like I said, Ryan and John were solid, which helped my enjoyment level a LOT, considering the family drama. I loved John's children -- Torey most especially was a joy to read. I also loved the dynamic of Ryan's father and brothers when it came to dealing with Ryan's newly found happiness with a man.
Cynthia (the pregnant ex-wife) on the other hand, was a bit of a challenge. In my review for The Rebuilding Year , I wrote "the fact that John's wife is a b*tch and her new husband is a jerk, seems to be making it easy to tip our favor to both MCs. No contest there. Here, Cynthia's new husband was still an asshole and she was getting a divorce, all the while finding out that her baby was suffering from Down syndrome. All of this made Cynthia slightly more than just a two-dimensional villain. I commended Kaje for that.
Yes, there were times I thought that John was being too helpful and too kind -- for the sake of his children -- but nonetheless, I enjoyed reading that kind of complexity, when it wasn't too easy to hate a character. I never really like it when our hatred towards a character being served in a silver-platter as a plot device. I guess even a villain should be not too easy too hate :). I still don't like Cynthia -- and I definitely wish that John would stand up to her more strongly, but I liked how Kaje added personal issues to her character.
Overall, it is a well written and down-to-earth family story, as I know Kaje will deliver. It flows nicely with fairly sexy times (and rather mushy stuffs) in between.
The ARC is provided by the publisher via Netgalley for an exchange of fair and honest review. No high rating is required for any ARC received.
Life, Some Assembly Required offers Kaje Harper's trademark -- a well-grounded story about REAL people. It also has a setting in what I will call Kaje's playground: family. I have admired (and respected) Kaje when she writes about family.
This story is a follow-up of 2012's The Rebuilding Year. I admit that I didn't remember much about that one, but it's mostly my fault for having bad memory. I didn't have any trouble in connecting with the characters right from the get go. Ryan and John were pretty much SOLID throughout. Never for once, I questioned their relationship. However, they have to deal with the ins and outs of being gay couple when it comes to their family and friends.
We have two teenagers (John's kids) and their problems (including one who just in the brink of sexuality discovery). We have a father who doesn't understand but trying to be open-minded, a brother who not exactly welcoming but also getting there, another brother who understands and is very supportive, a future sister-in-law with bigoted and old-fashioned parents, and a pregnant ex-wife who becomes the hardest obstacle yet.
I loved how John and Ryan worked out the issues, and I was proud that Ryan didn't back down when it came to announcing that he was in a relationship with a man. Like I said, Ryan and John were solid, which helped my enjoyment level a LOT, considering the family drama. I loved John's children -- Torey most especially was a joy to read. I also loved the dynamic of Ryan's father and brothers when it came to dealing with Ryan's newly found happiness with a man.
Cynthia (the pregnant ex-wife) on the other hand, was a bit of a challenge. In my review for The Rebuilding Year , I wrote "the fact that John's wife is a b*tch and her new husband is a jerk, seems to be making it easy to tip our favor to both MCs. No contest there. Here, Cynthia's new husband was still an asshole and she was getting a divorce, all the while finding out that her baby was suffering from Down syndrome. All of this made Cynthia slightly more than just a two-dimensional villain. I commended Kaje for that.
Yes, there were times I thought that John was being too helpful and too kind -- for the sake of his children -- but nonetheless, I enjoyed reading that kind of complexity, when it wasn't too easy to hate a character. I never really like it when our hatred towards a character being served in a silver-platter as a plot device. I guess even a villain should be not too easy too hate :). I still don't like Cynthia -- and I definitely wish that John would stand up to her more strongly, but I liked how Kaje added personal issues to her character.
Overall, it is a well written and down-to-earth family story, as I know Kaje will deliver. It flows nicely with fairly sexy times (and rather mushy stuffs) in between.
The ARC is provided by the publisher via Netgalley for an exchange of fair and honest review. No high rating is required for any ARC received.
September 8, 2015
***3 Stars***
Well damn, this was an exhausting read!
I was beyond excited to get more John and Ryan, but this book was filled with so much...
Thankfully nothing relationship related, but still....a teenage son, a coming of age daughter, a pregnant ex-wife, pregnant ex-wife's soon to be ex-husband, coming out to the community, stress over bottoming, job issues, brother who has a hard time accepting gay lifestyle, sister in law's parents' homophobia, the list goes on and on and on...John and Ryan had A LOT on their plate.
That's just a lot to do deal with day in and day out, but what I really appreciated was the open and honest way that John and Ryan dealt with everything and talked things out. Nothing sat simmering for long or was kept hidden for another day...they approached and handled each situation with love, understanding, compromise and a united front.
Unfortunately, I didn't feel there was enough romance to balance out all the day to day drama. I wanted more quiet time with John and Ryan....and definitely more steam. There were way too many fade to black scenes for my liking. I needed more focus on John and Ryan, the couple.
Overall this was a nice read. Even with all the outside drama, it was refreshing to see a committed couple handle everything maturely and not let any of the outside stresses affect their relationship.
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Can't wait for this!!
August 16, 2015
What a great way to spend a nice, relaxing weekend. It was good to be able to check in on John and Ryan and see how they're doing after the eventful first book, The Rebuilding Year. I didn't realize how much I missed them! It was also nice to not have so much action and adventure this time around; instead I got delve in to their characters and witness what really happens after the HEA. I do have to say, though, that Ryan is a saint because if my husband's ex-wife ever showed up on our doorstep like Cynthia did, kids or not, I would not have been so accommodating. I didn't like Cynthia in the first book and I didn't like her in this one. She just needs to Go. Away. Like, for reals.
Still, this was the perfect comfort read for my weekend.
Recommend.
Want to read
March 24, 2015Shut Your Fucking Face! When? When? Goddamn it, I said WHEN?
May 13, 2021
re-read, couldn't rem this one but read it as it follows previous book. Feels more about getting a message across than about the characters; John is either lost to not being the pov character or simply weakly developed, while Ryan is super student, super dad, super hero, it was nice to see him a little I secure and petty along the way.
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re-read - still startling how it continues so directly from where the previous book finishes, bare minutes after.
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I was surprised to see this pop up because I liked how the first book ended and didn't think it needed a sequel. This book starts immediately after the first (so glad I re-read) and at first I thought it would delve a little deeper, add the details missing from the first. I enjoyed reading it. It's well written, they're nice men and there's a good sense of family. At the same time the story isn't anything special, I'm still not convinced it was needed.
Instead of the relationship I wanted to see more of, the book is them facing down the world, not necessarily together. Coming out to everyone in turn and covering every possible reaction. For me there wasn't enough moments of togetherness, sharing the sacred blend and talking. It was all about other people.
Wife Cynthia is developed more and though still not a likeable person she became more realistic and felt I understood her. A sad figure in some ways, victim of her own world view. She has a cookie-cutter image of what life should be and doesn't see what it's doing to her family even as it backfires on her. Her husband remains a stereotypical bad guy becoming panto-like in the effort to show by comparison how wonderful a man John is.
Her gesture at the end was meant as slap I think - the perfect cue for John to 'man-up' and make a speech. I didn't like it, mainly because the reasoning didn't make sense for Cynthia's character.
Ryan acted somewhat petty at times, I actually liked that spark of humanity because he had plenty reason for it. John's behaviour caused me some conflict though; looking out for his kids complicates matters and yet he's also oddly passive, I'd expect some anger or depression, definitely some talking to Ryan about everything considering how badly his marriage ended. Perhaps it fits with the man who gave his career and moved home several times on an ex-wife's whim but his feelings weren't explored enough.
Family member after extended family member crawls forward to react to the shock of this new GFY relationship. To the point it shadowed the actual relationship at times. It's a nice book, there's still an enticing warmth about these men being together. It doesn't disappoint and I'm not sorry I bought it, but it's not a book that has to be read - I'd re-read the first book without then reaching for this.
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re-read - still startling how it continues so directly from where the previous book finishes, bare minutes after.
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I was surprised to see this pop up because I liked how the first book ended and didn't think it needed a sequel. This book starts immediately after the first (so glad I re-read) and at first I thought it would delve a little deeper, add the details missing from the first. I enjoyed reading it. It's well written, they're nice men and there's a good sense of family. At the same time the story isn't anything special, I'm still not convinced it was needed.
Instead of the relationship I wanted to see more of, the book is them facing down the world, not necessarily together. Coming out to everyone in turn and covering every possible reaction. For me there wasn't enough moments of togetherness, sharing the sacred blend and talking. It was all about other people.
Wife Cynthia is developed more and though still not a likeable person she became more realistic and felt I understood her. A sad figure in some ways, victim of her own world view. She has a cookie-cutter image of what life should be and doesn't see what it's doing to her family even as it backfires on her. Her husband remains a stereotypical bad guy becoming panto-like in the effort to show by comparison how wonderful a man John is.
Her gesture at the end was meant as slap I think - the perfect cue for John to 'man-up' and make a speech. I didn't like it, mainly because the reasoning didn't make sense for Cynthia's character.
Ryan acted somewhat petty at times, I actually liked that spark of humanity because he had plenty reason for it. John's behaviour caused me some conflict though; looking out for his kids complicates matters and yet he's also oddly passive, I'd expect some anger or depression, definitely some talking to Ryan about everything considering how badly his marriage ended. Perhaps it fits with the man who gave his career and moved home several times on an ex-wife's whim but his feelings weren't explored enough.
Family member after extended family member crawls forward to react to the shock of this new GFY relationship. To the point it shadowed the actual relationship at times. It's a nice book, there's still an enticing warmth about these men being together. It doesn't disappoint and I'm not sorry I bought it, but it's not a book that has to be read - I'd re-read the first book without then reaching for this.
June 13, 2015
Almost everything I was thinking about this book were perfectly stated in Jewel's lovely review so I'm just going to be lazy this morning and send you there. You really do need to read The Rebuilding Year first because this picks up right where it ends and, really, because it's just such a wonderful read.
As with all of Kaje Harper's books John and Ryan are written so realistically, I feel like they could be living next door to me. Yes, there is a lot of family drama happening at once in this story, but with two teenagers, one horrible, manipulative ex and a new relationship that took both men by surprise, it shouldn't be too unexpected. Over the course of meeting each other's families and, they really do seem to face almost any possible reaction to them as a couple that they could expect.
As much as I disliked Cynthia's presence, it did force Ryan and John to really reinforce their commitment to each other and help them define where they want their future to go and I was very happy with the way things ended.
As with all of Kaje Harper's books John and Ryan are written so realistically, I feel like they could be living next door to me. Yes, there is a lot of family drama happening at once in this story, but with two teenagers, one horrible, manipulative ex and a new relationship that took both men by surprise, it shouldn't be too unexpected. Over the course of meeting each other's families and, they really do seem to face almost any possible reaction to them as a couple that they could expect.
As much as I disliked Cynthia's presence, it did force Ryan and John to really reinforce their commitment to each other and help them define where they want their future to go and I was very happy with the way things ended.
June 14, 2015
3.5 Stars
Life, Some Assembly Required picks right up where The Rebuilding Year leaves off with Ryan telling his dad that he is in love with another man. And as the book began, so it continued, with lots of family drama. Ryan's family drama wasn't a huge thing, in the grand scheme of things, but it was there and it did affect Ryan and John. John's ex-wife, Cynthia, however, just. wouldn't. go. away! I hated her in the first book and I did not come to like her, even a little bit, in this one. John's kids, Mark and Torey, though, I came to love.
The whole story, pretty much revolves around John and Ryan navigating being open about their relationship in the everyday sense while also trying to navigate the choppy waters of family issues. John and Ryan are great - I love them both and they're pretty damn solid. Even though they have been together less than a year, it really feels like they are a forever thing. They're both in their 30's and pretty well settled. And I loved that no matter what was being thrown their way, they stayed committed. There were small doubts, here and there, but nothing huge and I never felt as though their commitment to each other was in danger.
Ryan's family is a mixed bag, with his dad and younger brother, Brent, being less than supportive and his older brother being great. Ryan's dad certainly could have been worse, but his prevaricating just made me want to knee him in the balls. Brent, at least said what he was thinking, though when he had the audacity to preface some of his bigotry with "I'm not anti-gay...", well, at least we already knew he was an ass. Both Ryan's dad and Brent seemed very hung up on the suddenness of Ryan's same sex attraction. You know, as if they've always been privy to every thought and feeling that ever passed through Ryan. Newsflash - Ryan is in love with John. Get the fuck over it. I had this huge rant all ready to go, but I'll leave it at that. If you read my status updates, you'll get the gist :-)
My biggest complaint about this book, however, would be the ever constant presence of Cynthia. If you've read the first book, you know that Cynthia is an opportunistic shark (read: manipulative bitch) who has done nothing but make John's life difficult, and when she and her - even worse - husband found out that John was in a relationship with a man, well, they were downright hateful. Well, things take an unexpected turn in her life and she latches right onto John, as if she hadn't been the most hateful person to him just a few months ago. And John is a caring guy and doesn't want his kids to be negatively affected by his relationship with Cynthia, so he helps her.
But no matter how much she seemed like she was trying to 'make nice', I didn't trust her at all. Neither did Ryan and I think his concerns were quite valid. Cynthia uses people and she knows that John will never tell to go die in a fire because he is just too nice of a guy and he doesn't want his kids to feel like they are in the middle. I actually admire him for that. Thankfully, John wasn't so easily manipulated and he knew the score. She did try to pull something at the end that I really wish I could have said surprised me. Honestly, the only thing surprising about it was that she asked. The audacity of that woman...
I struggled with the rating a bit here. I, overall, liked the book. I really loved Ryan and John and seeing just how committed they were to each other, even in the face of so many things that could have torn them apart. But the things I didn't like (Cynthia and her fucking drama) were big enough, though, I'm going to round down in my rating, instead of rounding up.
Life, Some Assembly Required picks right up where The Rebuilding Year leaves off with Ryan telling his dad that he is in love with another man. And as the book began, so it continued, with lots of family drama. Ryan's family drama wasn't a huge thing, in the grand scheme of things, but it was there and it did affect Ryan and John. John's ex-wife, Cynthia, however, just. wouldn't. go. away! I hated her in the first book and I did not come to like her, even a little bit, in this one. John's kids, Mark and Torey, though, I came to love.
The whole story, pretty much revolves around John and Ryan navigating being open about their relationship in the everyday sense while also trying to navigate the choppy waters of family issues. John and Ryan are great - I love them both and they're pretty damn solid. Even though they have been together less than a year, it really feels like they are a forever thing. They're both in their 30's and pretty well settled. And I loved that no matter what was being thrown their way, they stayed committed. There were small doubts, here and there, but nothing huge and I never felt as though their commitment to each other was in danger.
Ryan's family is a mixed bag, with his dad and younger brother, Brent, being less than supportive and his older brother being great. Ryan's dad certainly could have been worse, but his prevaricating just made me want to knee him in the balls. Brent, at least said what he was thinking, though when he had the audacity to preface some of his bigotry with "I'm not anti-gay...", well, at least we already knew he was an ass. Both Ryan's dad and Brent seemed very hung up on the suddenness of Ryan's same sex attraction. You know, as if they've always been privy to every thought and feeling that ever passed through Ryan. Newsflash - Ryan is in love with John. Get the fuck over it. I had this huge rant all ready to go, but I'll leave it at that. If you read my status updates, you'll get the gist :-)
My biggest complaint about this book, however, would be the ever constant presence of Cynthia. If you've read the first book, you know that Cynthia is an opportunistic shark (read: manipulative bitch) who has done nothing but make John's life difficult, and when she and her - even worse - husband found out that John was in a relationship with a man, well, they were downright hateful. Well, things take an unexpected turn in her life and she latches right onto John, as if she hadn't been the most hateful person to him just a few months ago. And John is a caring guy and doesn't want his kids to be negatively affected by his relationship with Cynthia, so he helps her.
But no matter how much she seemed like she was trying to 'make nice', I didn't trust her at all. Neither did Ryan and I think his concerns were quite valid. Cynthia uses people and she knows that John will never tell to go die in a fire because he is just too nice of a guy and he doesn't want his kids to feel like they are in the middle. I actually admire him for that. Thankfully, John wasn't so easily manipulated and he knew the score. She did try to pull something at the end that I really wish I could have said surprised me. Honestly, the only thing surprising about it was that she asked. The audacity of that woman...
I struggled with the rating a bit here. I, overall, liked the book. I really loved Ryan and John and seeing just how committed they were to each other, even in the face of so many things that could have torn them apart. But the things I didn't like (Cynthia and her fucking drama) were big enough, though, I'm going to round down in my rating, instead of rounding up.
March 5, 2022
I don't usually like to read the second book in the MM series if the main characters are the same guys as in the first book. Usually that means tons of irritating drama and relationship problems. But while that was partially true in this case, I was fine with it.
Maybe because the potential problems that Ryan and John's new relationship have to face are quite expected. And there's really no exaggerated drama in all of this. There is, however, a real life where not everything is going smoothly. And John and Ryan have to face all these problems.
Fortunately, they do it together, and there aren't many scenes here where they argue about some stupid, unimportant things. Generally, I like how they deal with problems. I think all these difficulties allow them to build a strong relationship. And now, they are confident that they can rely on each other. I like how mature they approach all problems and how they supported each other.
There is something about Ryan and John's relationship that really warms your heart. I guess the point is how strong their relationship is. They both always let the other one solve his problems on his own, but at the same time they are there for each other.
It was a very good second book in this series. Nice read.
Maybe because the potential problems that Ryan and John's new relationship have to face are quite expected. And there's really no exaggerated drama in all of this. There is, however, a real life where not everything is going smoothly. And John and Ryan have to face all these problems.
Fortunately, they do it together, and there aren't many scenes here where they argue about some stupid, unimportant things. Generally, I like how they deal with problems. I think all these difficulties allow them to build a strong relationship. And now, they are confident that they can rely on each other. I like how mature they approach all problems and how they supported each other.
There is something about Ryan and John's relationship that really warms your heart. I guess the point is how strong their relationship is. They both always let the other one solve his problems on his own, but at the same time they are there for each other.
It was a very good second book in this series. Nice read.
June 17, 2015
Finished. I started this book as soon as I got it, only to then realize I needed a re-read of book one. Yesterday finally I got back to this one and couldn't stop reading. For the most part it was a very good and gripping read. I liked to see more of John's and Ryan's life, especially Mark and Torey. Yes, it was nice, I even liked all the appearing, interfering family members and how in the end John and Ryan became stronger and even more committed to each other. Everything would have been wonderful, all around, 5 star read - if not for the overwhelming hammering home of all things gay. Yes, I'm reading M/M romance. Yes, it's about gay men. But guess what? I think they live a rather normal life like all of us and I don't need the reminder that everything gay is much more complicated. I think, the balance in the first book was much better. There, too, was family with problems, but here it all came down to 'they are gay! No! Yes! Don't need that! But here we are and we are here to stay' and - well, don't want to spoil this but the whole storyline with the ex-wife, in the end it got too much.
Now, what to rate? Writing, pulling me in - 5 stars, I totally love both MCs and Mark and Torey. Parts of the storyline - not so much, perhaps 2 stars? So, let's go with 3 stars, perhaps 3,5. Yes, that sounds about right.
Now, what to rate? Writing, pulling me in - 5 stars, I totally love both MCs and Mark and Torey. Parts of the storyline - not so much, perhaps 2 stars? So, let's go with 3 stars, perhaps 3,5. Yes, that sounds about right.
November 12, 2019
I really loved the first book so I was excited to revisit this couple (although I did a quick skim of the first book since it had been a little while since I read it). This book was really good and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
I think what I really loved about it was that it's a book about two men and how they chose to come out at an age where most have already dealt with that. They are older and both living lives where everyone expects them to be heterosexual. They have families (kids, ex-wife, father and brothers) that are reeling from the "sudden" change. So watching them grow together as they tried to figure out how to deal with all of this was very moving. I loved that no matter how much drama there was with John's ex-wife and Ryan's brother and father the two stood firm and supported each other.
Sometimes books with every day problems and slower pace bore me - but this one never did. I thought the pace was perfect for this book and I enjoyed watching John and Ryan work through the issues they faced. I liked that the characters had depth and weren't one dimensional (even the ex-wife and as much as I disliked her she still had dimension and even made me feel a little bad for her occasionally).
I look forward to reading the 3rd book in this series that wraps up Ryan and John's story!
I think what I really loved about it was that it's a book about two men and how they chose to come out at an age where most have already dealt with that. They are older and both living lives where everyone expects them to be heterosexual. They have families (kids, ex-wife, father and brothers) that are reeling from the "sudden" change. So watching them grow together as they tried to figure out how to deal with all of this was very moving. I loved that no matter how much drama there was with John's ex-wife and Ryan's brother and father the two stood firm and supported each other.
Sometimes books with every day problems and slower pace bore me - but this one never did. I thought the pace was perfect for this book and I enjoyed watching John and Ryan work through the issues they faced. I liked that the characters had depth and weren't one dimensional (even the ex-wife and as much as I disliked her she still had dimension and even made me feel a little bad for her occasionally).
I look forward to reading the 3rd book in this series that wraps up Ryan and John's story!
October 12, 2017
I was excited to revisit John and Ryan, who fell in love in the Rebuilding Year, one of my favorite books. The sequel starts right where book 1 ended, with Ryan, John and his son Mark recovering from the school fire.
Then out of the blue, John’s daughter and his pregnant ex-wife Cynthia show up on their door step. And immediately the fireworks began.
Let me start off by stating what I loved: I loved John and his capacity to be understanding to the point of fault. While some may see it as a weakness, I saw it as strength and I admired him for keeping a cool head under pressure. I loved how regardless of what was going on, Ryan and John’s love never wavered!
What I didn't love: Cynthia and her drama. She was self centered, ungrateful and just disrespectful. Ryan and his Jekyll & Hyde responses when his family shaded his relationship.
The book was solid. Both John and Ryan were very good at not letting other people define their relationship. They were supportive, loving and tolerant of each others' baggage, which in case were their respective families.
John and Ryan will always be one of my favorite couples because their journey continues to make me feel good. They truly blended into one loving unit.
Then out of the blue, John’s daughter and his pregnant ex-wife Cynthia show up on their door step. And immediately the fireworks began.
Let me start off by stating what I loved: I loved John and his capacity to be understanding to the point of fault. While some may see it as a weakness, I saw it as strength and I admired him for keeping a cool head under pressure. I loved how regardless of what was going on, Ryan and John’s love never wavered!
What I didn't love: Cynthia and her drama. She was self centered, ungrateful and just disrespectful. Ryan and his Jekyll & Hyde responses when his family shaded his relationship.
The book was solid. Both John and Ryan were very good at not letting other people define their relationship. They were supportive, loving and tolerant of each others' baggage, which in case were their respective families.
John and Ryan will always be one of my favorite couples because their journey continues to make me feel good. They truly blended into one loving unit.
September 23, 2015
I was so looking forward to reading an loving this book.
Until-
Because it’s what gay men do shortly after being married or a few months into a new loving, “committed” relationship.
We start planning our threesomes-oh, BUT OF COURSE, not for a long, long time.
Oh Kaje- not you too.
DNF at 50%, reading about Ryan became unbearable.
The 2nd star reminds me of all the other Kaje books I love.
SPICE?
Until-
Because it’s what gay men do shortly after being married or a few months into a new loving, “committed” relationship.
We start planning our threesomes-oh, BUT OF COURSE, not for a long, long time.
Oh Kaje- not you too.
DNF at 50%, reading about Ryan became unbearable.
The 2nd star reminds me of all the other Kaje books I love.
SPICE?
September 2, 2018
Pretty much everything I complained about in the first book got addressed here and in a mostly satisfying way. Ryan and John continue to be adults who talk to each other about things - fancy that - and they're honest and understanding and caring. That doesn't mean they don't piss each other off, but it does mean that things don't fester. Even if they don't get solved right away, they're still addressed and put out there, and it's so refreshing to see that.
There was some weirdness when Cynthia showed up. She's not quite as horrible here as the first book, but that's not saying much. She's still not the nicest person in the world and she's manipulative as hell. I thought John was way too forgiving to her, even if it was for the sake of the children. Mark, Ryan and John all still have some trauma from the fire that ended the first book, but we don't see much of that trauma on page except some nightmares and some reality perception issues. The trauma for all of them just kind of fades away, so I would have liked to see that handled a little differently. It's just too convenient that they're all able to eventually more or less shrug it off. Torey is more of a focus in this book, and I understood her preteen enthusiasm for wanting to kinda sorta parent trap her parents, and there's room left for her story to continue if there's another book.
One little nitpick: section breaks! Use them please. It's very jarring to go from a sex scene to a classroom scene with no section breaks. This was an issue in the first book as well.
There was some weirdness when Cynthia showed up. She's not quite as horrible here as the first book, but that's not saying much. She's still not the nicest person in the world and she's manipulative as hell. I thought John was way too forgiving to her, even if it was for the sake of the children. Mark, Ryan and John all still have some trauma from the fire that ended the first book, but we don't see much of that trauma on page except some nightmares and some reality perception issues. The trauma for all of them just kind of fades away, so I would have liked to see that handled a little differently. It's just too convenient that they're all able to eventually more or less shrug it off. Torey is more of a focus in this book, and I understood her preteen enthusiasm for wanting to kinda sorta parent trap her parents, and there's room left for her story to continue if there's another book.
One little nitpick: section breaks! Use them please. It's very jarring to go from a sex scene to a classroom scene with no section breaks. This was an issue in the first book as well.
June 26, 2015
Gingerbread anyone?
Of course I love it! :D
I'm very much invested with John & Ryan already. I just wanna read about them having a good life as an out and proud gay couple. And it was shown in this book. It was lovely to read! It's not a perfect journey because there where struggles but they were able to overcome it.
My criticism is that it felt monotone. Happy, struggle, happy, struggle, happy, struggle... Imagine a roller coaster that goes up and down in the same height and drop. I didn't even felt the climax if there was one.
Thank God there was no murder mystery btw. Lol!
If you loved Ryan & John in Rebuilding Year, you have to read this. Overall it's a good and enjoyable Double GFY story.
4 STARS!
June 10, 2015
It was nice to see these guys again. I'm such a fan of Kaje. Great work as usual. I really liked how grown up this book was. The guys had some insecurities and they were legit with the things that happened (and that damned ex-wife). But they were always very grown up and really trusted their love.
June 9, 2015
Full review on Prism Book Alliance®
"What you made me,” he said softly, “was happy. When I wasn’t sure I would ever be again. Gay or straight doesn’t mean anything, compared to that.”
Ryan’s voice was equally low. “I’d kiss you but you have paint all over you. Go get changed.”
This exchange pretty much sums up this book for me, this sequel to one of my all-time favorites by Kaje Harper, The Rebuilding Year: a wonderful love story between John and Ryan, with family dynamics a constant companion, a heavy hand at times in regards to social commentary by way of conversation, realistic emotion and dialogue, humor, and the comfortable pace that underlies it all.
That could pretty much be my review but I’ll give you a bit more to go on. :)
John and Ryan are not necessarily trying to figure out their own identities, or how they are together, but rather how to cope with the outside world’s reactions to them, and their perception of those, and vice versa. In other words, it’s not just expressing their love to the outside world, but how they feel about sharing it out there for everyone to see. This idea runs through all storylines of the book: John’s ex, Cynthia, Ryan’s father and brothers, their shared friends, John’s kids, Mark and Torey (who are fantastically portrayed), and how it all affects this obvious bone deep love John and Ryan are experiencing.
There were some oft repeated phrases and descriptions. A few of them actually worked against the story, watering down what was probably the intended impact. As I was reading, and as you’ll find out too, John is strong, as is Ryan, in many ways. However, so many times it was mentioned that John placed his hand on Ryan’s lower back, or under his elbow for support. I understand why but I think leaving it implied or described with a reaction as opposed to the action itself would have been more powerful.
This is regular ol’ fiction about family and love and insecurities, overcoming those insecurities, the imperfections we all carry, some of them inescapable, some of them surmountable. Yep, there’s a love story here, but it’s one component, not the whole. Yep, we get intimate times twixt John and Ryan, but they aren’t necessarily the focus. I’d say the focus is more on the continuation of the building of their relationship, how family is a part of that, and not, and them figuring out how to navigate this new world they’re creating for themselves. On this particular point, I would almost say another book is necessary. For as much as we get about their relationship, it’s relayed through the prism of how John and Ryan think others will view them. I now want more of how they view each other, having been in this relationship for awhile.
John and Ryan have that solid foundation, that’s the one thing about which no doubt can be cast.
I mentioned above about the sometimes heavy handed feeling regarding some of the social issues addressed, most of the time revealed through the conversations between the characters. Most of the time, Harper’s dialogue reads like real conversation, fluid and natural, tinged with humor or sadness that rings so true. The few times it felt off involved what felt like an informational offering instead of people talking. It’s not that these things shouldn’t be included, they’re all important, and maybe it is an unavoidable thing, that they would sometimes pull me from the story, I don’t really know, but there it is.
I love Kaje Harper’s writing – smooth, relaxed, humorous -, I loved spending more time with John and Ryan, and even the kids (yep, can’t believe I’m saying that, either), and I recommend you giving this a try. Start with The Rebuilding Year and go right into this one, you’ll be so happy to spend all of that time with John and Ryan, too. :)
"What you made me,” he said softly, “was happy. When I wasn’t sure I would ever be again. Gay or straight doesn’t mean anything, compared to that.”
Ryan’s voice was equally low. “I’d kiss you but you have paint all over you. Go get changed.”
This exchange pretty much sums up this book for me, this sequel to one of my all-time favorites by Kaje Harper, The Rebuilding Year: a wonderful love story between John and Ryan, with family dynamics a constant companion, a heavy hand at times in regards to social commentary by way of conversation, realistic emotion and dialogue, humor, and the comfortable pace that underlies it all.
That could pretty much be my review but I’ll give you a bit more to go on. :)
John and Ryan are not necessarily trying to figure out their own identities, or how they are together, but rather how to cope with the outside world’s reactions to them, and their perception of those, and vice versa. In other words, it’s not just expressing their love to the outside world, but how they feel about sharing it out there for everyone to see. This idea runs through all storylines of the book: John’s ex, Cynthia, Ryan’s father and brothers, their shared friends, John’s kids, Mark and Torey (who are fantastically portrayed), and how it all affects this obvious bone deep love John and Ryan are experiencing.
There were some oft repeated phrases and descriptions. A few of them actually worked against the story, watering down what was probably the intended impact. As I was reading, and as you’ll find out too, John is strong, as is Ryan, in many ways. However, so many times it was mentioned that John placed his hand on Ryan’s lower back, or under his elbow for support. I understand why but I think leaving it implied or described with a reaction as opposed to the action itself would have been more powerful.
This is regular ol’ fiction about family and love and insecurities, overcoming those insecurities, the imperfections we all carry, some of them inescapable, some of them surmountable. Yep, there’s a love story here, but it’s one component, not the whole. Yep, we get intimate times twixt John and Ryan, but they aren’t necessarily the focus. I’d say the focus is more on the continuation of the building of their relationship, how family is a part of that, and not, and them figuring out how to navigate this new world they’re creating for themselves. On this particular point, I would almost say another book is necessary. For as much as we get about their relationship, it’s relayed through the prism of how John and Ryan think others will view them. I now want more of how they view each other, having been in this relationship for awhile.
John and Ryan have that solid foundation, that’s the one thing about which no doubt can be cast.
I mentioned above about the sometimes heavy handed feeling regarding some of the social issues addressed, most of the time revealed through the conversations between the characters. Most of the time, Harper’s dialogue reads like real conversation, fluid and natural, tinged with humor or sadness that rings so true. The few times it felt off involved what felt like an informational offering instead of people talking. It’s not that these things shouldn’t be included, they’re all important, and maybe it is an unavoidable thing, that they would sometimes pull me from the story, I don’t really know, but there it is.
I love Kaje Harper’s writing – smooth, relaxed, humorous -, I loved spending more time with John and Ryan, and even the kids (yep, can’t believe I’m saying that, either), and I recommend you giving this a try. Start with The Rebuilding Year and go right into this one, you’ll be so happy to spend all of that time with John and Ryan, too. :)
January 9, 2019
Audiobook reviewThis book picks up just after The Rebuilding Year ends. With Mark and Ryan and John dealing with nightmares from the fire. Dealing with the aftermath of it all. It's really a continuation on everything that started in the first book, and they need to be read/listened to in order. Otherwise you'll probably be lost. And you will definitely miss out on a great love story - at least the beginning of it.
This book is all about family in every possible way. The new one Ryan and John is creating with Mark and Torey. But also coming out to parents and siblings, dealing with homophobic relatives. Coming out to friends and colleagues. And not the least dealing with John's ex-wife unexpectedly showing up on their doorstep announcing she's moving back to town... Add in some teenage angst and drama and this book is packed to the brim. Though, without having the feeling of too much to it.
Ryan and John are solid together, their relationship is solid. Not perfect but not that work in progress either. They know where they stand - at least with each other. The rest of the world needs some working up to. And telling your family about your bisexuality, a recently discovered one at that is far from easy. I have to say that they handled it in a great way.
As mentioned above, their relationship is so tangible, so credible that you can't help but believe in them. They are flawed, insecure, sometimes jealous and irrational, in short, they are wonderfully human and loving them is easy. I also have to mention the love between Ryan and John... you could almost see the connection between them. It was solid and strong and almost had this fairy tale "conquer all" feel to it. I loved how their relationship wasn't perfect or always easy. It made it felt real and their struggles felt real.
I was so excited for this audiobook. I've been looking forward to it ever since finishing The Rebuilding Year. I loved Gomez Pugh in that book, he was truly phenomenal. So I had some pretty serious high hopes going into this book. And maybe that's on me; it's the danger with expectations and all that. In any case; the narration lacked some of the shine, the magic from the first book and I can't say I was as ecstatic this time around. That being said Pugh’s efforts with this book were really good, probably even great, it's just those darn expectations that mess with my head.
I loved that there is no unnecessary drama or things blown way out of proportion in this book. It was, just like the title says; Life. And a great and wonderful one at that. Now to top it off, I’m going straight to the happily ever after and Building Forever
A copy of this book was generously provided by the author in exchange for an honest review
May 12, 2017
I was really happy that this book came out. I read the first book not to long ago, so it was still fresh in my mind. I do have to say I liked the first one better. This was still really good, but the sexytimes were less and I felt like kicking John in the face.....with a chair. I felt really bad for Cynthia and her baby and all but I just hate that bitch and John was way to compasioned toward her and her belly so to say. What an ass. She was such a bitch to him and Ryan in the previous book and now he just wanted to take care of her because he felt an attraction and responsability towards her and her pregnant belly. WTF ..... no...just no, I loved Ryan though..he was awesome and I felt bad for him feeling insecure. He really made this book for me. John lost a lot of points for me...even if he did make up for it in the end, I just cant feel the same way for him anyone. He should have told the ex-bitch to fuck off !!! But that's all my personal feelings and opinion. I just couldn't feel sorry for Cynthia. Like I said...i still loved the book, but it was more about outside family than it was about them...and that was a little dissapointing. I loved how Ryan stood up to his family for John...just wish John would have done a bit more of the same. 3,5 stars for me
November 1, 2017
A sweet part 2 in the series .... I liked it, but I also got frustrated. Ryan and John seemed happy enough in their homes but it felt very “closeted” in their family / work. I wanted them to communicate a little more as it felt like much of the story consisted in the thoughts in their heads. Doubts and fears that could have been eased through talk tended to linger. I couldn’t stand the ex wife and frankly I would be telling her to fuck right off ! Clearly Johns a better person than me ! Time for the novella while I’m on a roll
February 23, 2019
Re-read: Feb 2019 - 4 stars
3.5
A nice continuation to The Rebuilding Year. John is always trying to do the right thing (and even I was scared he wouldn't know where to put his limit), Ry was struggling with jealousy and they were both struggling with the amount of changes their lives went through. I always enjoy Kaje Harper's books and this one was no exception.
3.5
A nice continuation to The Rebuilding Year. John is always trying to do the right thing (and even I was scared he wouldn't know where to put his limit), Ry was struggling with jealousy and they were both struggling with the amount of changes their lives went through. I always enjoy Kaje Harper's books and this one was no exception.
Want to read
March 22, 2015omg! this is happening!
June 2, 2015
One of the best gifts a book lover can get is an unplanned sequel about beloved characters. I’ve said my goodbyes to John and Ryan from The Rebuilding Year ages ago, left them in a very good place and carried them in my heart always. And while I saw some room for a sequel, I was perfectly happy rereading their story occasionally and thinking about them as one of my favorite romance couples.
However, when Kaje Harper announced Life, Some Assembly Required, I was overjoyed. This is an author I’ve come to trust implicitly, so I knew right from the start that this sequel would be something worth reading. I was not wrong.
We find Ryan and John pretty much where we left them, comfortable in their life together, but with some problems left unsolved. Ryan has bravely come out to his father, but it isn’t all smooth sailing. He was a womanizer before his accident and his family knew it. What they perceive as a huge shift in personality is a bit difficult to accept.
John’s son is still living with him and Ryan, but suddenly his daughter Torey wants to move in, too. Her mom and her stepdad are constantly arguing and her life in California isn’t what it used to be. Then one day, Torey shows up on their doorstep, but she’s not alone. Her pregnant mother ran from her horrible abusive husband right back to John.
Now this is where things get a bit dicey. I’m not a fan of ex wives, ex partners, ex boyfriends or ex anything, really, coming back into the picture. I’m insanely possessive on behalf of my beloved characters and this sort of thing upsets me greatly. Pregnant or not, I wanted to wring Cynthia’s homophobic neck, and I wanted to smack John upside the head for letting her get away with almost everything.
But minor insecurities aside, Ryan and John presented a united front the entire time, proving that theirs is a relationship meant to last. This book was more focused on John’s problems, but for me, Ryan was the true star. The endless patience and the faith he had in John staggered me.
Finally, if there’s one thing I can say about Kaje, it’s that she always knows what she’s doing, even when she’s manipulating me into fits of jealousy. Her characters are incredibly realistic and her stories always true to life. This is just one of her many successes.
However, when Kaje Harper announced Life, Some Assembly Required, I was overjoyed. This is an author I’ve come to trust implicitly, so I knew right from the start that this sequel would be something worth reading. I was not wrong.
We find Ryan and John pretty much where we left them, comfortable in their life together, but with some problems left unsolved. Ryan has bravely come out to his father, but it isn’t all smooth sailing. He was a womanizer before his accident and his family knew it. What they perceive as a huge shift in personality is a bit difficult to accept.
John’s son is still living with him and Ryan, but suddenly his daughter Torey wants to move in, too. Her mom and her stepdad are constantly arguing and her life in California isn’t what it used to be. Then one day, Torey shows up on their doorstep, but she’s not alone. Her pregnant mother ran from her horrible abusive husband right back to John.
Now this is where things get a bit dicey. I’m not a fan of ex wives, ex partners, ex boyfriends or ex anything, really, coming back into the picture. I’m insanely possessive on behalf of my beloved characters and this sort of thing upsets me greatly. Pregnant or not, I wanted to wring Cynthia’s homophobic neck, and I wanted to smack John upside the head for letting her get away with almost everything.
But minor insecurities aside, Ryan and John presented a united front the entire time, proving that theirs is a relationship meant to last. This book was more focused on John’s problems, but for me, Ryan was the true star. The endless patience and the faith he had in John staggered me.
Finally, if there’s one thing I can say about Kaje, it’s that she always knows what she’s doing, even when she’s manipulating me into fits of jealousy. Her characters are incredibly realistic and her stories always true to life. This is just one of her many successes.
August 25, 2015
3.5 stars
This is the second book in this series and should not be read as a stand alone. This story picks up immediately where book one leaves off. The guys are trying to recover from their emotional ordeal and get their lives back on track. No sooner do things settle down than John's ex wife shows up to throw a wrench in their plans. (And on a side note I would like to say I loathe her.) Things quickly get crazy for John and Ryan as they deal with one issue after another. For me personally there were actually too many things, too many issues going on in the story. I would have liked to see them work through maybe 2 or 3 things not all that they did.
The guys themselves though I still just love. I really enjoy the way these two are presented in their relationship. They communicate and act like real people. There are kind and loving and thoughtful but neither are perfect and sometimes they could do better. But, when those times comes they acknowledge it and try to get it right the next time. They're so solid together and they make each other stronger. I think they are one of my favorite couples in the m/m genre.
Overall a good, solid read. Just a bit too much for me with all the plotlines.
This is the second book in this series and should not be read as a stand alone. This story picks up immediately where book one leaves off. The guys are trying to recover from their emotional ordeal and get their lives back on track. No sooner do things settle down than John's ex wife shows up to throw a wrench in their plans. (And on a side note I would like to say I loathe her.) Things quickly get crazy for John and Ryan as they deal with one issue after another. For me personally there were actually too many things, too many issues going on in the story. I would have liked to see them work through maybe 2 or 3 things not all that they did.
The guys themselves though I still just love. I really enjoy the way these two are presented in their relationship. They communicate and act like real people. There are kind and loving and thoughtful but neither are perfect and sometimes they could do better. But, when those times comes they acknowledge it and try to get it right the next time. They're so solid together and they make each other stronger. I think they are one of my favorite couples in the m/m genre.
Overall a good, solid read. Just a bit too much for me with all the plotlines.
April 6, 2021
3+
Muszę przyznać, że dostałam zadyszki przy czytaniu tej książki. Bo ilość mniejszych i większych dramatów, które spadły na chłopaków i decyzji, które musieli podjąć, była powalająca. Ze strony na stronę zastanawiałam się, co jeszcze ich spotka i czy będzie choć chwila, gdzie po prostu będą mogli się cieszyć sobą i swoim wspólnym życiem... Wiedziałam, że ex-żona da popalić - i dała. Podniosła mi ciśnienie, a to wcale nie jest łatwe, bo mam niemalże zawsze podręcznikowe 😉 Samolubny, bezczelny, wqrwiający babsztyl.
Myślę, że to, co powiedział Mark, syn Johna, jest niezłym podsumowaniem:
"I’m tired of things changing. Can’t life stay put for a minute and let me catch up?"
I do tej pory nie mogę się zdecydować, czy to dobrze, że ta część powstała, czy byłoby lepiej, gdyby jedynka miała po prostu satysfakcjonujący epilog...
Muszę przyznać, że dostałam zadyszki przy czytaniu tej książki. Bo ilość mniejszych i większych dramatów, które spadły na chłopaków i decyzji, które musieli podjąć, była powalająca. Ze strony na stronę zastanawiałam się, co jeszcze ich spotka i czy będzie choć chwila, gdzie po prostu będą mogli się cieszyć sobą i swoim wspólnym życiem... Wiedziałam, że ex-żona da popalić - i dała. Podniosła mi ciśnienie, a to wcale nie jest łatwe, bo mam niemalże zawsze podręcznikowe 😉 Samolubny, bezczelny, wqrwiający babsztyl.
Myślę, że to, co powiedział Mark, syn Johna, jest niezłym podsumowaniem:
"I’m tired of things changing. Can’t life stay put for a minute and let me catch up?"
I do tej pory nie mogę się zdecydować, czy to dobrze, że ta część powstała, czy byłoby lepiej, gdyby jedynka miała po prostu satysfakcjonujący epilog...
January 30, 2024
3.5 rounded up. I liked this follow up that picks up right where book 1 left off. Ryan and John are solid throughout and face challenges together. Where there too many challenges? Maybe. They mostly centered on homophobia and the constant question of "is it safe to come out in this situation" which felt dated but at the same time not? It really showed well the everyday challenges of being openly gay in a hostile environment. There was a lot of family drama, maybe too much but it made sense and nothing was OTT. Do I hate Cynthia (John's ex-wife)? Absolutely! Did I feel sorry for her? Also yes. Did her character make sense? Absolutely. So really there isn't much to complain about here. The only thing may be the smut that I mostly skipped, not sure why. Onto the final chapter in their story.
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