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You Are Enough: Is It Love or Your Need for Validation?: Overcoming People Pleasing And Emotionally Unavailable Relationships
Have you been trapped in a constant cycle of toxic relationships that have you frustrated with your love life? Do you feel fear, insecurity and anxiety that has you asking yourself ‘am I enough?’ Bestselling transformative author Rainie Howard is here to tell you that You Are Enough in the powerful book that examines the connection between inner emotional struggle and negative relationships. You Are Enough takes readers on an incredible journey of self-understanding to explore the root causes of negative emotions that are projecting themselves into their outside relationships. The concept that the fear of never finding true love and consistently trying to please others are major factors in engaging in toxic relationships. By addressing the fear and anxiety you feel inside, Rainie helps you discover your true self-worth, which is sure to change your life! As you turn every page of You Are Enough, you will be closer to reaching freedom through acceptance, opening the doors for amazing new relationships. The book also focuses on your relationship with God, as you learn to accept yourself in the way he made you, leading to a life full of joy, happiness and spiritual bliss. Realize that You Are Enough by reading this life-changing book that will completely transform the way you view love, relationships and yourself!
93 pages, Kindle Edition
Published June 30, 2017
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April 26, 2022
Very Insightful & Highly Recommend
I really loved this book. It helped to reaffirm some of the things that I already knew but also taught me new things.
I recommend this book to every woman on the planet. It will change your focus.
I do have to add that there are a lot of biblical references and many mentions of God. I would consider myself to be kind of a spiritual person, but I am not over the top. Don't let these things deter you from reading the book, though. If you are not comfortable with some of the references, just replace God with the words Universe, Higher Power, or whatever you choose to believe.
Very insightful. Great book.
I really loved this book. It helped to reaffirm some of the things that I already knew but also taught me new things.
I recommend this book to every woman on the planet. It will change your focus.
I do have to add that there are a lot of biblical references and many mentions of God. I would consider myself to be kind of a spiritual person, but I am not over the top. Don't let these things deter you from reading the book, though. If you are not comfortable with some of the references, just replace God with the words Universe, Higher Power, or whatever you choose to believe.
Very insightful. Great book.
February 9, 2020
Wonderful
I stumbled across this book and it was exactly what I needed. The first chapter was pretty much my first heart break. I actually cried reading that chapter because that was like reading my story all over again. I would recommend this book to anyone who has issues with falling for emotionally unavailable people. Although I’m over that phase this book has been a great eye opener for other toxic behaviors.
I stumbled across this book and it was exactly what I needed. The first chapter was pretty much my first heart break. I actually cried reading that chapter because that was like reading my story all over again. I would recommend this book to anyone who has issues with falling for emotionally unavailable people. Although I’m over that phase this book has been a great eye opener for other toxic behaviors.
April 19, 2022
Life After Divorce...I Am Enough
I'm a divorced single mom that was grappling with how to ensure that I don't fall for the same situation in a different package as I begin to date again and entertain the idea of love again. This book empowered me to reclaim the beauty inside of me that I lost throughout my marriage and once I finally left. If you are experiencing similar issues and need a reminder of how awesome you are, then this is definitely a " must read".
I'm a divorced single mom that was grappling with how to ensure that I don't fall for the same situation in a different package as I begin to date again and entertain the idea of love again. This book empowered me to reclaim the beauty inside of me that I lost throughout my marriage and once I finally left. If you are experiencing similar issues and need a reminder of how awesome you are, then this is definitely a " must read".
March 26, 2024
There's so much I can say but, let me keep lt short and sweet, it was soft and easy to digest. I don't have a sister or anyone that's close to one, but this book is the closest I have ever come to experiencing a conversation with a sister. I could feel the richness in the love in every word read. I'm definitely gonna get some of her other books and would recommend it to anyone in need of the message.
February 10, 2021
Open my eyes
This book was Amazing.. It was like she was describing my life ..I literally deleted social media before I began reading this book because u knew that was one thing that was holding me back ..comparing myself and this book confirmed. It was uplifting and helpful.. Never wrote down my fears I began to cry when I did.. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
This book was Amazing.. It was like she was describing my life ..I literally deleted social media before I began reading this book because u knew that was one thing that was holding me back ..comparing myself and this book confirmed. It was uplifting and helpful.. Never wrote down my fears I began to cry when I did.. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
August 30, 2017
Good book
I enjoyed reading this. A great self reflection guide. It's not always just what someone did to me, it's what I allowed and where my head is really at. Highly recommend it.
I enjoyed reading this. A great self reflection guide. It's not always just what someone did to me, it's what I allowed and where my head is really at. Highly recommend it.
February 9, 2018
Wow
This book is everything i really needed to hear everything that i read. I am enough!! moving forward i plan to use a lot of these affirmations in my everyday life. Start speaking more positively of myself.
This book is everything i really needed to hear everything that i read. I am enough!! moving forward i plan to use a lot of these affirmations in my everyday life. Start speaking more positively of myself.
January 7, 2019
GREAT READING
I rated this book 5 stars because it's powerful and it helped me look deep within myself and discover that I had some underlined issues that I need to ask God to help me with. Those issues may be affecting my relationships and my choices in men.
I rated this book 5 stars because it's powerful and it helped me look deep within myself and discover that I had some underlined issues that I need to ask God to help me with. Those issues may be affecting my relationships and my choices in men.
December 2, 2019
Self Love
This book opens up a whole new perspective of loving yourself. Teachs you not to compare your self to others. Stay in your own lane. Keep your focus on God not others. To whom much is given, much is also required.
This book opens up a whole new perspective of loving yourself. Teachs you not to compare your self to others. Stay in your own lane. Keep your focus on God not others. To whom much is given, much is also required.
September 7, 2020
Phenomenal Read
This book is so empowering. It really helped me to see, feel, and think about what I want for my life. It helped me to release certain things that were/are counterproductive to the progress I want to make in healing and restoring faith in myself.
This book is so empowering. It really helped me to see, feel, and think about what I want for my life. It helped me to release certain things that were/are counterproductive to the progress I want to make in healing and restoring faith in myself.
September 20, 2020
Awesome read
This book was the first read for my sisters keeper book club. What a great choice! Each chapter included affirmations and questions that made it easy to discuss, not to mention the author Rainie Howard is amazing.
This book was the first read for my sisters keeper book club. What a great choice! Each chapter included affirmations and questions that made it easy to discuss, not to mention the author Rainie Howard is amazing.
February 15, 2018
Awesome
It really help me to look see things differently. This book helped me a lot. I loved it. I see myself reading it over and over.
It really help me to look see things differently. This book helped me a lot. I loved it. I see myself reading it over and over.
December 28, 2017
Easy read. Helpful. Redundant.
December 20, 2019
♥️
There's allot to learn from. Taking my first steps starting today. My only concern is where to start in my life. Be blessed and God bless
There's allot to learn from. Taking my first steps starting today. My only concern is where to start in my life. Be blessed and God bless
February 9, 2020
Another Heavy Hitter
This is the second book I've read by Rainie and she doesn't disappoint. Great read, great information, great selection of scriptures.
This is the second book I've read by Rainie and she doesn't disappoint. Great read, great information, great selection of scriptures.
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