How to Text a Girl: A Girls Chase Guide

by Chase Amante

Do you know most men make texting girls far HARDER than it needs to be? And that it can be SIMPLE to text a girl you like out on a date? This easy-to-use, step-by-step guide shows you how to text a girl, what to text, and when to text it to her. If you're tired of "spin your wheels" texting advice, buy this book. Its approach draws from 18 cutting edge scientific studies on texting… And it's written by the founder of the highest traffic men's dating advice website on the Internet, GirlsChase.com. … plus tons more examples, scientific study findings, and rules to texting women most men NEVER unearth on their own… no matter how many texts they send. As a FREE bonus, only for book buyers, you'll receive the GC URL to a 93-minute bonus podcast on texting with girls. In this bonus podcast, Chase answers 79 texting questions from readers (like you)… on EVERY imaginable texting women question. This podcast is not available to the public, or anywhere else. It exists solely as a "thank you" to buyers of this book. If you'd like more dates with more girls, buy this book. If you'd like the girl you've texted forever to finally SEE you, buy this book. If you want to stop wasting time on text conversations that go nowhere… and have fun, concise text chats that get girls OFF their phones and OUT in person with you… then buy this book . How to Text a Girl won't just change your texting habits. It'll change your entire dating life, forever.

Genres: Relationships, Self Help

182 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2016

Reviews

[brian christopher · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book

I wish I read this book years ago so many numbers lost.. Giving up so many great points..It floored me to read the less u text the better..If u a man you need to read this book.Whiile reading this book met a girl , and set up the date before the number. date Wednesday, and tomm 36 hr text.. I will continue to read more books chase writes..

[Laurent · Rating 5 out of 5]

5 stars. Mind-blowing. This book is for anybody who is old school enough to ditch dating apps and to ask for a girl's number directly. It gives a healthy mindset about how to think about texting (a tool to schedule a date) and why texting girls is so tricky (because the shallow emotional context of texting leaves them with more questions than answers about how to respond).
It gives a simple, non-manipulative, healthy, unapologetic framework on what to text between the moment you get her number and the moment she meets you again on a date. It also offers a healthy mindset about what to think when a girl doesn't respond (just stay positive and persist gently) or when she flakes (don't make the situation more embarrassing for her but instead tell her that you understand).

Best book on the market. Highly recommended.

One small criticism: the book is mostly a compilation of the author's blog articles. It contains a hyperlinks to other blog articles expanding on topics that are touched superficially. As such, it doesn't work as a self-contained book and could/should have been more polished. Despite this criticism it is very much worth its 5 stars.
Another small criticism: one article linked in the book cites a well researched statistic: the vast majority of text messages are read within 3 minutes. That info should have been included in the book because it paints the picture that when a girl doesn't respond, it's never because she didn't read your message. She read it within those statistical 3 minutes (at least through the notification), acknowledged it, and took a note to think about it and respond to it "later".

[Hasbe Alam · Rating 3 out of 5]

Some tips mentioned in the book are generally applicable, such as addressing people by their names, minimizing cognitive load, and maintaining a positive attitude. These aspects are crucial in effective communication and interpersonal interactions.

Regarding the book's usefulness in understanding message etiquette, it can indeed provide insights that might facilitate initiating contact, including potentially asking someone out if you've exchanged numbers.

However, I found myself disagreeing with certain points made by Mr. Chase, particularly the emphasis on persistence in messaging. While he suggests continuing to message someone even if they don't respond, he also proposes the idea of transitioning between messaging and calling, which I found intriguing. Nonetheless, personally, I believe that such persistence, especially if done excessively, can come across as needy and lacking in abundance mindset, irrespective of how intelligently it's executed. This perspective reflects solely my opinion.

[Ghassan Samaha · Rating 5 out of 5]

طبعا الكتاب من ثقافة غير ثقافتنا لكن هناك بعض الامور العامة التي يمكن أن تنطبق على الكل:




أيها الشباب، البنات لا يحبون المسجات التي تحتوي على أسألة سخيفة، ولا المسجات اللي محادثاتها لا نهائية، ولا الشخص اللي مفكر حاله ابو العريف (بيعرف كل شي). البنات (والله اعلم) تحترم التصرفات على السجية و بدون لف دوران و ممكن احيانا صداقة بغرض الصداقة الحقيقة ليس الا. في النهاية انما الأعمال بالنيات

[Fabian · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think it defines how you really interact with somebody through text, it also points out the main mistakes like asking too many questions and how to fix that, recommend it to those who are struggling and texting

[Jeremy Theis · Rating 5 out of 5]

simple yet effective

texting should not be that hard. chase breaks down the process of texting piece by piece methodically. then gives a format to follow. my only wish was that he gave more examples and text strings.

[Mathew · Rating 4 out of 5]

good fast read

The author did a really good job of opening my eyes to what I am doing wrong in my text game. One of the biggest takeaways has to be only using texting as a way to set up a date and NOT using it to flirt and “get to know” the girl.

[Santanu Borah · Rating 5 out of 5]

Easy to understand book about mindset of texting a girl to setting up date instead of indulging in long texts or making time wasting impressions. All conversations should happen face to face for better communication and relationships, texting is for setting up dates and nothing else.

[DEMAR LEWIS · Rating 5 out of 5]

Informative and direct

This was a great how to text and communicate with women. Short, straightforward and simple are the major takeaways from this book. Thanks!

[Daniel Walton · Rating 3 out of 5]

Parts were good and parts were not

If you want short to med. length relationship,this is a good read. But long term, elevating her to prince's status. How does that work long term?

[SilverReader · Rating 5 out of 5]

Probably best book on texting

[Mark Rego · Rating 3 out of 5]

I was expecting some mind blowing content!
Even do you can learn a bit from the book!

[Markie · Rating 1 out of 5]

if you're considering reading this book then you're already far too gone to be helped

[c.p. · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent read

I liked the testing principles found in this book and look forward to applying each one to improve my game.

[Nahid · Rating 5 out of 5]

Really interesting book ! The principles in the book works right out of the bat.

[Antor Chowdhury · Rating 4 out of 5]

It was actually very helpful and I learned some good things. I give it 4/5 stars.

[Chris · Rating 1 out of 5]

0 Stars! Apply this book if you want to ruin all your chances of a connection with a real human being.
I was so nervous to text my dream girl that I decided to read a book about texting first. Never in my life have I lost a girl so quickly!

Thanks for nothing!

[Brian Rachmaciej · Rating 5 out of 5]

In depth and informative

A lot of things I didn’t know were “rules” in texting. Must be why I suck at it haha. This book was very helpful in this department for me, and I’ll definitely implement what I’ve learned!

[Medhat2 · Rating 4 out of 5]

Be Interesting, Not Intrusive