DNF — as this book seemed to repeat over and over “we must find our purpose” yet it said so without really giving much directive on how we are to do that or even start to find our intention in this life of ours. I felt it rambled on more than anything else.
In doing additional research, I was able to do more with finding my purpose in utilizing“ikigai”, which is the age-old Japanese ideology that’s long been associated with the nation’s long life expectancy. Ikigai is about finding joy in life through one’s purpose. Ikigai suggests that having this one thing/hobby/purpose which keeps you interested, focused, and gives you a sense of satisfaction in life leads you to a longer and happier life. In other words, your ikigai is what gets you up every morning and keeps you going. I think this book was also trying to portray this type of ideology but in a much more long winded fashion.
In a nutshell, to briefly explain Ikigai, there are 4 circles that interconnect (Venmo diagram): 1) what you love, 2) what you are good at, 3) what you can be paid for, and 4) what the world needs. These also interconnect and form additional crossover points that eventually lead to the center circle of Ikigai.
*Side note: Ikigai was a 4-page article not a rambling self-help book. A 4-page article is something I can get on board with, but to be fair probably does not cover Ikigai in the depth it deserves. Also, in continuing to be honest, I have never been a fan of self-help books, so to read this book was tough for me to stay focused or even remotely interested. Lord knows I did try and maybe in the future, when I’m ready, I will pick this book back up and try again.