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FEARLESS APPROACH: APPROACH WOMEN AND LIFE WITH UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE
Discover how to annihilate your fear of approaching Women and start living the life you deserve How many more times can you see that beautiful girl only a few feet away from you and not say a word to her? She’s absolutely gorgeous and you know without a doubt that you would love to have her in your life. Feel her body pressed against yours. Tell your friends about her. Walk into a party with her on your arm. She’s right there, and all you have to do is introduce yourself. But something goes terribly wrong… You completely freeze up. Paralyzed. Just the thought of talking to her makes your heart start to pound out of your chest. Your throat squeezes like a vice. You get a sick feeling in your stomach. Then a burning sensation rising up from your gut and you start sweating bullets. Right away you get in your head and start making excuses about why you can’t approach her. “She probably has a boyfriend” “What do I say?” “If I get rejected I’ll look like a total loser, everyone will see it” and the list of excuses goes on and on.. I decided to write this book to destroy every mental hang-up, fear, and myth you have that is holding you back from meeting girls in the real world and living the life you truly want. I can give any guy an “opening line” and tell him to introduce himself to girls, but he still won’t do it. The reason is because of his mental hang ups. We are going to destroy those hang ups so that you can have full confidence to build the same habit that I did. I want to get you as comfortable with the idea of meeting Women as it is for me. If you follow my advice it will become easy for you too. Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn... How to overcome the most persitant excuses your brain comes up with so you can blast out of your comfort zone and get the Girl you choose The best and most effective ways to meet Women so you can succeed quickly and build your confidence and self esteem Never before seen and detailed breakdown of exactly how rejection works and why Women reject us, so you can water down your fear to the point that you won't even taste it all that and much more... Grab your copy today! I've included 3 Extras you can grab when you read the book NEW* Get Started Approaching Women Video Series - I want to show you exactly what to say to get started approaching women and carry a fun and interesting conversation. I put together a video series where I walk you through how to do it! It's all included when you purchase the book at no extra cost :) Power Quotes - A book of quotes I have gathered from myself and some of the most successful people to ever live, to fire you up and get you chomping at the bit to get out there, start talking to Girls, and take charge of your life. The link to download it is at the end of the book Surprise Extra I've included another surprise extra guide you can download in the book for you when you order today.
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88 pages, Kindle Edition
Published July 9, 2017
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February 10, 2023
- A phonenomal book that's not only about dating but also about attitude of life, made me think so much of Matthew 7:7: "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you."
- In essence, things won't just happen to you. Dating app is a horrendously inefficient way to meet people. Much rather, to do anything, make a plan the most efficient way possible then improve upon your technique
- The idea that women will get turn off by you just by you approaching is nonsense: they are more likely to politely say no than otherwise. They would, however, only get turn off if upon refusal you still stick to it (speaking as someone who gets hit on by gays all the time. While I am boringly straight, I always feel flattered and not once I felt offended)
- Don't blame yourself for anything: don't be result driven, seek the process. And even failure in the process is a success because now you know which process failed and wouldn't do it again (this reminds me so much of Facebook's mantra, "fail hard, fail early")
- In terms of being rejected, know that you're not the center of the universe. Which means often times, being rejected has nothing to do with you - which is great because you both quickly filtered each other out quickly and efficiently
- Work hard to remove ego from the equation - which is what the author call the "true level of mastery"
- Stop finding meaning in everything
- Other people don't give a shit about what you're doing (author is answering the question of "what if other people would see me hitting on a girl? However such notion applies for all situations)
- Confidence is attractive, others would feel that too (author noted that guys will feel jealous of a confidence guy whereas girls innately will feel a lush of attraction)
- A good way to solve anxiety is by keep doing it, hence desensitizing it
- Feel the fear and do it anyways
- Stop thinking and just do it: thinking is just a way for your brain to find excuse to not do something
- Know that everything runs in chances: the more bad hands you get, the more good hands you will get soon. So stay invested
- "It’s not your job to make every Girl like you. Your job is to find the ones who do like you and not waste your time with the ones who don’t click."
- In essence, things won't just happen to you. Dating app is a horrendously inefficient way to meet people. Much rather, to do anything, make a plan the most efficient way possible then improve upon your technique
- The idea that women will get turn off by you just by you approaching is nonsense: they are more likely to politely say no than otherwise. They would, however, only get turn off if upon refusal you still stick to it (speaking as someone who gets hit on by gays all the time. While I am boringly straight, I always feel flattered and not once I felt offended)
- Don't blame yourself for anything: don't be result driven, seek the process. And even failure in the process is a success because now you know which process failed and wouldn't do it again (this reminds me so much of Facebook's mantra, "fail hard, fail early")
- In terms of being rejected, know that you're not the center of the universe. Which means often times, being rejected has nothing to do with you - which is great because you both quickly filtered each other out quickly and efficiently
- Work hard to remove ego from the equation - which is what the author call the "true level of mastery"
- Stop finding meaning in everything
- Other people don't give a shit about what you're doing (author is answering the question of "what if other people would see me hitting on a girl? However such notion applies for all situations)
- Confidence is attractive, others would feel that too (author noted that guys will feel jealous of a confidence guy whereas girls innately will feel a lush of attraction)
- A good way to solve anxiety is by keep doing it, hence desensitizing it
- Feel the fear and do it anyways
- Stop thinking and just do it: thinking is just a way for your brain to find excuse to not do something
- Know that everything runs in chances: the more bad hands you get, the more good hands you will get soon. So stay invested
- "It’s not your job to make every Girl like you. Your job is to find the ones who do like you and not waste your time with the ones who don’t click."
August 24, 2025
Good book to remove approach anxiety...
April 23, 2019
Not fully what I was expecting
Hey guys - this is a great read really gets your mind thinking about what isnt a reality. Its not a practical type of book where the author talks about actual pickup. This is a book and mindset shifts and definitely looking at cold approach in a different light. Would I have liked to see some actual tips on approaching more then the generic parts about the environments you can find women in.
Quick read and should get your mind in the right spot. So, get after it and go after what you want!
Hey guys - this is a great read really gets your mind thinking about what isnt a reality. Its not a practical type of book where the author talks about actual pickup. This is a book and mindset shifts and definitely looking at cold approach in a different light. Would I have liked to see some actual tips on approaching more then the generic parts about the environments you can find women in.
Quick read and should get your mind in the right spot. So, get after it and go after what you want!
February 4, 2022
easy fast read
I don’t consider this to be a book per se, more like a longer blog post. Although I say that I do think that’s the information put forward in this book is worth it. Joe does a good job of motivation you into getting out of the comfort zone and telling you that rejection is part of life so you shouldn’t shy away from it. He put its this way « what is worse being rejected by a girl and still trying or not even having the courage to try at all? »
I don’t consider this to be a book per se, more like a longer blog post. Although I say that I do think that’s the information put forward in this book is worth it. Joe does a good job of motivation you into getting out of the comfort zone and telling you that rejection is part of life so you shouldn’t shy away from it. He put its this way « what is worse being rejected by a girl and still trying or not even having the courage to try at all? »
March 21, 2019
Awesome book
I have read for the last year books about how to talk to girls. I definitely recommend this book because it really digs into the core problems most men face when it comes to success with women.
5 stars!!!
I have read for the last year books about how to talk to girls. I definitely recommend this book because it really digs into the core problems most men face when it comes to success with women.
5 stars!!!
November 19, 2022
Motivational
Joe makes you want to get out and destroy your reclusive habits. While giving solid advice and strategies to meet the women of your dreams! Thanks Joe now just to put it all together and find my girl
Joe makes you want to get out and destroy your reclusive habits. While giving solid advice and strategies to meet the women of your dreams! Thanks Joe now just to put it all together and find my girl
July 8, 2018
Best book on fear and approaching. Really helpful
April 9, 2019
Good book
March 21, 2023
This one really helped me with what I needed
January 23, 2025
Helped me rizz the huzz. Very informative on how to help rizz
July 12, 2019
Horrible and great at the same time
It’s horrible because the only advice he gave was a bite the bullet philosophy. It’s great because you can tell he is dedicated to making help us out. It’s almost like it’s his life’s purpose. I will be reading this one again
It’s horrible because the only advice he gave was a bite the bullet philosophy. It’s great because you can tell he is dedicated to making help us out. It’s almost like it’s his life’s purpose. I will be reading this one again
June 15, 2018
Approach
It is a fantastic book on approach women and don't live life alone.no one come to u and say to approach
It is a fantastic book on approach women and don't live life alone.no one come to u and say to approach
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