It’s all in the mind. Mind over matter. So toughen up. Develop the ability to continue, even when you feel like you can do no more. Every day, like the Spartans, work to develop your self-discipline. In fact, studies have found that willpower is like a muscle. One’s willpower strengthens with use.
In his book, Living with a SEAL, Jesse Itzler writes about “the 40 percent rule.” The idea behind this rule is that when you feel dead exhausted and feel like you’ve reached your physical limits, you’re really only at 40 percent. You still have another 60 percent left in the tank. It’s just that your mind has evolved to be lazy and try conserve as much energy as possible.
In addition to all that, get into shape. As the ancient Greeks and Spartans used to say, “a healthy mind in a healthy body.” These days, this sentiment has proven to be correct. It has been scientifically proven time and time again that physical fitness and health are directly correlated with the capacity for dynamic and creative intellectual activity, as well as the ability for self-discipline. Furthermore, exercise (especially lifting weights) increases testosterone. Cold showers have also been found to boost one’s testosterone. And this is key, as testosterone is the hormone that fueled such warriors as the Spartans. It’s the masculine hormone associated with strength, muscle mass, sex drive, confidence, aggression (in a good way), and the overall masculine drive that leads to victory in all areas of life.
In fact, scientists have actually found a miracle hormone that makes heaps of money and beds lots of women. That’s right, you guessed it: Testosterone.
No man is free, who cannot command himself.”
— Pythagoras
“Through discipline comes freedom.”
— Aristotle
“All Greeks know what is right, but only the Spartans do it.”
“Luxury dilutes hunger.”
“Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.”
“You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”
“The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts.”
“Today I escaped anxiety. Or no, I discarded it, because it was within me, in my
own perceptions—not outside.”
Young Spartans started military training at age seven. They were taught to endure immense pain and came to learn that, as modern day Navy SEAL instructors say, one’s strength isn’t in the size of their biceps. Rather, strength is—according to Navy SEAL instructors—90 percent mental and only 10 percent physical.
“Through every generation of the human race there has been a constant war, a war with fear. Those who have the courage to conquer it are made free and those who are conquered by it are made to suffer until they have the courage to defeat it, or death takes them.”
— Alexander the Great
“In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves… self-discipline with all of them came first.”
— Harry S. Truman
Full bellies don’t plough fields
That said, this doesn’t mean you should become a masochist. It means you need to form the habit of choosing delayed gratification over instant gratification. In the case of the Spartans, this meant choosing to become the greatest warriors to have ever lived over meaningless orgies and feasts.
So toughen up. Be like a Spartan. Block social media. Throw out the batteries in your TV remote. Tip your couch upside down. Well, that last one might not be necessary, but you get the point.
Take a freezing cold shower. Hit the gym. Read books that will arm you with the knowledge you need to achieve your goals—books such as Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.
“Everyone must choose one of the two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret.”
— Jim Rohn
“There are two kinds of pain. The sort of pain that makes you strong, or useless pain. The sort of pain that’s only suffering. I have no patience for useless things.”
— Frank Underwood
“Through discipline comes freedom.”
— Aristotle
There are two types of wants in this world. There are the wants of the body and the wants of the mind.
The wants of the body are the things that—in the heat of the moment—we feel we want. The wants of the mind, on the other hand, are the things we truly want. For example, we often feel like doing little more than sitting on the couch and watching Netflix while eating straight out of a bucket of ice cream. But is this what we truly want? No, of course not!
What we truly want is likely some variation of achieving success in the financial, physical, and social areas of our lives. We want the financial freedom to travel, live the lifestyle we want, and give our loved ones a great life. We want to be physically fit and attractive. We want to have a great social life. These are the things that most people truly want.
Unfortunately, these two different types of wants are incompatible. You either have it one way or the other, but you can’t have it both ways. You either eat ice cream or steak and veggies.
You either watch TV or hit the gym. You either mindlessly scroll through your Facebook feed or go work on generating a second source of income. The Spartans understood this. They knew that you either do one or the other. As Yoda famously said, “Do or do not. There is no try.”
In my own life, I have found this to be so true you wouldn’t believe it. If you want to accomplish something, you need to either go all in or all out. Take it to the extreme. Be hardcore. Be unrelenting. By failing to be 100 percent committed—extreme, hardcore, relentless— exceptions get made. The occasional bit of junk food. The occasional skipped gym session. And before we know it, these exceptions become the norm. They become increasingly regular until the point is reached where progress ceases. Things go back to how they were. Goals remain unfulfilled.
The highly counterintuitive secret to god-like self-discipline is to take things to the absolute extreme. It’s easier to do something 100 percent of the time than it is to do something 98 percent of the time. Serious. This mindset was one of the hallmarks of Spartan society. They were unrelenting. They were hardcore. They took things to the absolute extreme and allowed themselves no exceptions. They had the self-respect to not make excuses for themselves.
If the Spartans would have allowed the occasional exception here and there, they would have very quickly found themselves descending all the way back down to the largely undisciplined lifestyles lived by those in neighbouring city-states. Perhaps they would have allowed themselves the occasional massive orgy and some several dozen course feasts (requiring self-induced vomiting to continue eating) like the Romans. Before realizing it, Sparta’s dreams of producing the world’s greatest warriors would be little more than a distant memory. A painful regret.
As Charles Bukowski, the American poet, wrote in his poem Roll the Dice, “If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don’t even start.” And it’s not just the Spartans that discovered the value of being unrelenting and allowing themselves zero exceptions. One of my favorite modern-day examples is a personal anecdote famous motivational speaker Zig Ziglar shared in his book Over the
Top.
Ziglar recounts having made an unbreakable commitment to himself to go for a run early each morning and get in shape. However, one day, after having flown out to Seattle to give a talk and then flying back home on the same day, he found himself going to bed at 4:00 A.M. So obviously he just skipped that day, right?
Wrong. In his own words, he said he knew, “that if I made an exception and slept in because I was tired and sleepy, it would be easier to make an exception the next time, and I knew that the exception often becomes the rule. The commitment goes out the window.” Ziglar later goes so far as to say, “exceptions are the most dangerous things that we have to deal with in our lives,” and even refers to smokers and alcoholics who make an exception and have “just one drink” with tragic results.
Instead of searching for a miracle workout, focus on never missing a gym session. Instead of sporadically attempting the latest fad diet, focus on not eating unhealthy foods. Put simply, to make big gains, avoid tiny losses.
The ability to discipline yourself to delay gratification in the short term in order to enjoy greater rewards in the long term, is the indispensable prerequisite for success.”
— Brian Tracy
The Spartans were very familiar with the distinction between instant gratification and delayed gratification. They understood that short-term pain leads to long-term gain—and glory. That difficulty and hardship leads to growth (both physically and mentally) while luxury and comfort leads to stagnation and atrophy. Growth, improvement, and long-term happiness are found outside of one’s comfort zone.
Whenever, Wherever, However
The Spartans never made excuses for themselves. They fought just as well in pouring rain as they did in scorching heat. This is perhaps best exemplified by the fact that, when facing an enemy, the Spartans used to ask, “Not how many, but where.”
“I firmly believe that any man's finest hour, the greatest fulfillment of all that he holds dear, is that moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle—victorious.”
— Vince Lombardi
Spartans left it all on the battlefield. They had a saying, “Come back with your shield, or upon it.” In other words, either come back with your shield in hand, victorious, or come back with your dead body upon your shield. Victory or death. They would either come home victorious or die trying.
Here’s a secret: The Spartan’s didn’t have abnormally high levels of willpower. It wasn’t their genetics. In fact, plenty of them would have had less willpower than you. It is just that they got into the Spartan routine and developed Spartan habits. For the Spartans, although their life looks like one of intense self-discipline to outsiders, for them, it was just habit. It was normal. Just another day in a little Greek city called Sparta.
Nobody told you, that you face the truth alone
but you got the power to begin
Let yourself wonder that your spirit find a way
and reach for the power from within
you got the reason to let people keep you down
stand up and fight for what you are
and your biggest challenge
is the one in life within yourself
know what you're fighting for
hold on to the vision in your eyes
keep the fire burning bright
got to make them realized
only with this power can you rise
hold on to that vision in your eyes
never surrender, to the dark clouds in your mind
never retreat from who you are, know
love is a magic that you carry on in on, in on, in on
know what you're fighting for
hold on to the vision in your eyes
keep the fire burning bright
got to make them realized
only with this power can you rise
hold on to that vision in your eyes
hold on to the vision in your eyes
keep the fire burning bright
got to make them realized
only whit this power can you rise
hold on to the vision in your eyes