Hygge: Discovering The Danish Art Of Happiness – How To Live Cozily And Enjoy... (Kindle Edition) [Kindle Unlimited] — Olivia Telford (Introduction + 12 titled chapters + Conclusion) June 27-28, 2020
The following is my interpretation of hygge, pronounces HOO-ga. It is the Danish form of mindfulness. Lived as a way of life like breathing, it cannot be measured or tallied on a stat sheet. Hygge comes from the culture, the way of life for the Danes. There is no English word for hygge.
This book spent a lot of the first chapters and subsequent ones trying to explain this to the uninitiated. I will admit I am one. I had never heard of hygge before and was looking to expand my understanding of a different way of life. Hygge is a calm, subconscious inter-reflective, and thoughtful life. It encompasses warmth, cozy, family/self experiences.
This book was actually pretty dull. It felt like a slugfest in reading it. However, I did learn some things that will help me maintain calm.
A lot of the book felt like us vs. them reading. The “people don’t understand but this is how it is” like feeling. Which is unfortunate. I can understand using a statement like that once or twice, but by repeating it left this reader feeling defeated before evening attempting to figure it out. It read very passively as well.
I always get a kick out of Kindle books that poo-poo many electronics…including the device I read this on. If a guide or book feels this way so strongly, why even allow it publication on such devices? I know the answer to this, but I still have a good LOL out of it.
The book/guide also repeats the fact that hygge is not seasonal, although “traditional” hygge has its roots in it.
However, there is also a section on living hygge within your means. But some of the ideas to help with expenses so that young persons can live a hygge life are again LOL. Methinks that these “cost-saving measures” are in reality more hygge than stated. I feel like hygge is living a more simple, stress-free life. Spending money does not sound stress-free to me, especially when living on a limited income.
The next chapter went on a tangent about the fear of commercializing hygge and instead works to focus on the fact that hygge is about inspiration within. Further in the book, the author tries to parallel hygge to Zen, which I believe is a mistake. Granted, I am new to hygge, and while it is similar to Zen, there are differences.
The book tries hard to explain and define hygge, but when it starts talking about the beginning practice of it, it loses me a bit. I think without being fully emerged in this way of life, it is hard to practice it. This is how it is similar to Zen. Hygge is living life without strict constraints, whether it be time, work, or money. Most people living in America, no matter how much they may want this cannot fully achieve this state if work and life are lived the way it is now.
At the beginning was a link to download a different book. Have I stated before how much I loathe self-publicity in unrelated books? /sarcasm.
Good book, but not as enlightening as I had hoped.
Two stars.