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278 pages, Kindle Edition
First published October 24, 2017
When Wendy Haley assumed command in 2011, she was full of anxiety. Like all commanders, she wanted to be perfect, and she was very aware that as the first female commander, people might be watching her in a special way.During my career (1984-2004), the military saw its first women on combatant ships, piloting warplanes, and on the front lines of battle and I always cringed when I saw, read, heard “female” or “woman” as an adjective I viewed unnecessary. I felt for the objects - forgive my editorial, but it does convey my evaluation of the issue - of the modifiers/qualifiers.
I’m a big believer in the idea that leadership isn’t about doing it yourself all the time; it’s also about letting people in your command practice problem-solving on their own.I believe this also. Big time. But some people want to think they're the smartest person in the room and that's just poor leadership.
Reagan was at his ranch in California when he made his famous gaffe while kidding around before a taping of the Saturday address - “We begin bombing in five minutes” - but afterward at Camp David, a giant electronic ON AIR/OFF AIR panel was added to prevent future accidents.Well... that's funny!
As a leadership challenge, Camp David is significant. Think about it. The crew that’s picked, the senior petty officers and officers, are top candidates throughout the Navy and Marine Corps. Everyone who works for you is like a gold-medal athlete, and now they’re all on your team - and that’s wonderful.On the summit between Israel and the PLO brokered by President Clinton, Clinton was to leave in the middle to attend the G8 in Japan, and the author, waiting five hours for a Clinton’s departure from the Camp (the Commanders attended every arrival and departure), got an apology from an unlikely source, Chelsea, who said “I’m so sorry, Commander, my father’s running late.” To which he replied (he said “amused”), “No problem,” because he knew the tensions, if not the details of the negotiations underway:
For me, watching Clinton roll up his sleeves and work the personalities was a striking example of leadership. I was more than willing to wait for that!
My leadership takeaway from watching President Bush engage Prime Minister Blair and Prime Minister Koizumi was quite simple: build relationships before you need them.Intuitive, but sometimes I need to see things like that written so that I can consciously recall it from my mental toolbox.
I suspect that most commanding officers, executives who have led their organizations, and anyone who has been responsible for a mission and people have had times of loneliness. The reality of “It’s lonely at the top” hits you, and it’s not a bad thing, although there’s a temptation to fall into dark, introspective periods of self-doubt, self-criticism, and self-evaluation - and these can consume your psyche. I tried to resist these and focus on what I could do to make things better the next day or week. But I couldn’t resist reflecting on the loneliness that our primary guest, the president, experienced as a constant of his job.Truman may have felt jailed in the White House, but he was also one of only two who didn’t take to Camp David.
… whenever he [O'Connor] heard the words, “The president said,” he double- and triple-checked. I [Giorgione] learned the same lesson with both presidents I served. Sometimes people around the president - I call them the handlers - have their own agenda.I learned that same lesson long ago, experiencing other people’s agendas. Sometimes simple but still problematic, they required me to, as Giorgione writes, “learn to ignore, work around, or filter some of the things they instructed me to do.” I also adopted the verify approach... as long as the upper leadership was accessible - some aren’t/weren’t- I’d confirm so-and-so said, to the usual surprise of the persons telling me such.
Leaving is like closing a book in the middle of the story. Since our terms don’t coincide with the presidents’, we don’t get the clean break that administrations experience. We’re left to look on from the outside to see how “our” presidents are doing - and when we’re lucky, we get to see them again.He and his wife were fortunate to meet the Bushes twice again and the second time, in 2005, he said he was “struck by how the presidency had aged him since our time at Camp David - before 9/11...” And CDR Bob Reuning, four COs later, was there for Bush 43’s final Camp stay. After one last “challenging bike ride” (for which Bush was famous, and always outdid everyone else), Bob cleaned off the mud, changed into his dress uniform and at the final walk to Marine One, Bush “gave Reuning a big bear hug and said, ‘You’re a good man, Bob.’”