I expected so much better from this story and was disappointed at every turn. I'm sympathetic to Libby's situation. A single mother working long hours to put herself through a rigorous education and still support herself and her daughter is all kinds of engaging. Only, the author intruded at nearly every turn to undermine everything that was supposed to be noble or good about this character.
Libby's response to every male overture in the beginning (even innocuous ones) was so defensive that I began to suspect that her daughter was the result of an assault. Jamie even has an internal moment where he wonders as much, her reaction is so strong. So I was waiting to see how that would go and how she'd overcome that aversion only to find out that, no, she hasn't been assaulted and her reactions were a) extreme for no reason and b) went away once they were no longer useful as an appeal to pathos of the audience. This sets up a pattern of disappointment, it turns out.
The biggest example of this is Libby's repeated assurances that "I refuse to be shamed for what I do" whenever someone tries to make an issue of her being a stripper (more on that in a bit). Only, again and again, if you actually parse her inner responses, it's pretty clear that Libby, herself, is deeply ashamed by her work. She hides it from everyone. She shrinks from every conflict until it's shoved in her face and she can make some dramatic gesture to show how not-ashamed she is. And that epilogue? Yeah, it's full of how grateful she is not to have to do the dirty anymore.
And the whole stripper thing? Yeah, it turns out that she's super special girl and single-handedly turned the place that hired her into an up-scale burlesque show. So while lingerie is involved, there's not any actual nudity. Because she can bring in the crowds, and "triple the profits" with showing less because it's all gymnastic and dancey and stuff. Choreography FTW, I suppose. And that might be a thing. I don't know anything about strippernomics. Just paint me skeptical, is all I'm saying. Also: another notch in the column of stripping actually being a shameful occupation because the author has to alter it to be comfortable with the main character's participation.
And all of this is before I got to the problematic relationship bits. I mean, Jamie is clearly uncomfortable with her profession. Because he's a guy and jealousy is a thing. But he's also way older than her (on the edge of the squick formula*, but on the wrong side of that edge), and kind of a helpless bungler, relying rather heavily on apologies after the dumb things he does. I kind of liked that his family was lovely, if a bit too unstereotypical (like, Tate took the stereotype of buttoned-up rich person and just inverted it). He was pretty adorable with Rosie, but other than that, there's just not much there.
But what killed this completely dead to me is Libby's mono-response to Jamie. She's all denial, all the way. And that never lets up. She doesn't want his money, fine, though that makes zero sense to me. I mean, she's already essentially cashing in on her good looks with her "stripper" thing, so her objection is a little inconsistent on its face. But it's also clear that Jamie isn't at all that shallow (he's a bungling idiot, yes, but his attachment to Libby is clearly deep and full of important emotional support). And it turns out that she's all about appearances and shame, so yeah, let's not accept any help from the guy in love with her. That'd be silly! Frankly, what's silly is that this motivation makes no sense at all because she says, over and over, that she'd do anything to ensure that Rosie has everything she needs, even "beg, borrow, or steal" and here's the golden ticket! And turning him down over and over might have worked to show how deeply she was engaged with him because she makes this a line she wouldn't cross despite her mantra. Only, there's nothing actually morally wrong with accepting his help. So this persists until she finally pulls a stupid dark moment runner for no rational reason at all. Not a great look for a character who is supposed to be both smart and not care what others think of her choices because she's empowered and all.
So this is pretty much a failure on every level. It has too many special carve-outs to say anything about the big issue it supposedly "takes on" (stripping to support noble goals). No, it's worse than that. All the special carve outs actually serve to prove the opposite point—i.e. the moral framework of this story is that stripping is wrong and those involved should be ashamed of their profession. Because all the things that Libby does to "improve" her work and achieve success takes it farther away from its actual realities.
So yeah, one star and a huge disappointment on pretty much every level.
A note about Steamy: I let this review go too long to remember the specific count. One or two, I think, with later sexual hijinks merely referred to so on the low side of my steam tolerance. Libby is practically a virgin as she only had the bit of sex with the boy who got her pregnant and nothing since. And yet another fumble by the author is that it's all played to the tune of "discovering multiple orgasms" and missed out on any depth or emotional payload it might have had.
* The squick formula: The squick formula is where you take the age of the older, divide it in half and then add seven to find the minimum acceptable relationship age. Jamie is 33 so the formula would be 33 / 2 = 16.5 + 7 = 23.5. Libby is 22, making Jamie a cradle-robbing letch.