Recently I was reminded of the communication gap my ASD daughter and I sometimes experience. After several days of my coming in to the room and asking if she minds if I change the channel on the tv and having her say yes only to find out she meant no, she finally told me that was a confusing way to phrase the sentence. We then decided it was best if I ask, “Can I change the channel?”
Now, how does this tie in to why I read this book about ASD and the church? Well, church and Bible concepts sometimes seem to be as allusive as the question of “Do you mind if I change the channel?” It’s not always clear to a mind that thinks differently as to the intention behind it….maybe it is more figurative than a literal mind can grasp. So, I was really looking for ways to reach her on the importance of following God’s plan laid out in the Bible. This really isn’t that kind of book. It is good, however, at helping people who don’t have much experience with ASD to know what it is and how to offer a welcoming atmosphere for those with ASD and how to involve those with ASD. I, personally, wasn’t crazy about the formal Individualized Spiritual Plan (ISP) suggested but do recognize that I could’ve been more open about her situation and the best way to handle her as an individual…though we all fear being THAT parent…Still, her advice is good that those running programs such as youth leaders, elders, ministers could benefit from knowing that ASD individuals tend to be very literal, can be overwhelmed by too much stimuli, can have language processing difficulties or delays, prefer one-on-one rather than whole group activities, etc.
At the writing of this book around 1 in 100 people were being diagnosed with ASD. That number has changed to about 1 in 68 now. So, if you think that a congregation of 300 people might have 3 or 4 people with ASD, you might see that efforts should be made to include and educate this population to the best of our abilities. The author refers her readers to 1 Cor. 12:21-26 to see how God would have His people treat one another.