"The way I choose to live life is that I overflow my cup so much that it pours into the lives of others; that the goodness, the hope, the positivity, encouragement, and empowerment that flow out of me when my cup is poured into everyone I meet in one way or another."
There are simply no truer words to describe Krystle Bailey and the message that she delivers in this book. If you, as a woman, have ever had a moment where you doubted yourself, this book is for you. If you, as a woman, feel like you have too often heard women break each other down and were heartbroken by it, this book will heal those wounds. If you, as a woman, are looking for something to motivate you to go after what you truly want to do, give this book a shot. I'm confident that it will do just that.
This book spoke to me in ways that can only truly be explained by referencing some of my favorite quotes and what they meant to me personally:
"We see perfect moms, perfect bodies, perfect marriages, perfect kids, perfect, perfect, perfect. And most of us have found ourselves at one point or another comparing our lives to the lives on the screens. Guess what? They're a hot mess too. We're all just trying to figure this all out. Being a good wife, a good mom, or a good role model doesn't come with handbooks. We're all put on this earth with a purpose and we are given absolutely no hints at figuring out what that purpose is. I'll give you one hint though. Your purpose is not her purpose and her purpose is not yours."
It's so easy to get caught up in our flaws because we look around and see so many people that seem like they have it together so much more than we do. Sometimes, I just need a reminder that they all crack and crumble at times, too. That no one is truly perfect and that it's okay. That there is beauty in the chaos if we just look close enough.
"If there is one thing we need to fix as women, it's this false idea that we need to fix anything at all. Who you are is who you were created to be, and who you will become is still left untold but she is enough too."
This idea means the world to me. We all have our stories to tell of being told we aren't enough in one way or another. My story is probably not much different than your own. Teenagers can be ruthless. The ones in my life were no different. It took me years to be okay with the flaws they used to focus on. And that was after years of trying to correct them. I hope the message in this book allows young women to get to the point of being happy with themselves much sooner than I did.
Which leads me to what is one of the most powerful lines in the book to me: "Think for a moment if your daughter, your niece, your grandchild, your best friend's daughter could grow up in a world where women not only loved each other but they loved themselves."
I have a 4 year old, beautiful little girl who loves herself. She loves who she is. She knows she is loved, beautiful, and a kind and gentle soul. And she is in no way afraid to be her true self. At some point, there may be someone in the world who tries to steal that love from her. My biggest mission in life is to make sure that she has a tribe that builds her up enough to take those moments in stride and not let them get the best of her.
For years I told myself I didn't need self improvement books. But as I watched an amazing woman on her journey with personal development, I was motivated to give them a shot. Go figure that amazing woman accomplished writing an amazing book in that genre. 😉 Thank you for sharing your soul with us, Krystle. I have a feeling the message in this book is going to be heard widely, as each woman who reads it shouts it from the rooftop because they just have to share the beauty. ❤️