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Human Connection: How the "L" Do We Do That?
Our world is growing more disconnected every day.
Surrounded by virtual friends and follower counts…
…how do you develop meaningful connections?
In his book Human How the “L” Do We Do That?, Arthur F. Coombs III offers easy tools and memorable analogies to help you do just that. By taking you through five simple “Ls”, he’ll teach you to navigate a busy, techno-centric world.
You will learn
◆ Laugh in the best and worst of times◆ Learn as if you will live forever◆ Lead to unlock the potential in others◆ Love and feel the very essence of connection◆ Live Large with the beauty of balance We rely on the relationships we build with others—it’s the one aspect of our lives that technology cannot replace. With leadership guru Art Coombs’ simple formula, you can foster those relationships into deeper connections.
Begin today, take charge, and create a powerful impact on those you love with Human Connection.
Surrounded by virtual friends and follower counts…
…how do you develop meaningful connections?
In his book Human How the “L” Do We Do That?, Arthur F. Coombs III offers easy tools and memorable analogies to help you do just that. By taking you through five simple “Ls”, he’ll teach you to navigate a busy, techno-centric world.
You will learn
◆ Laugh in the best and worst of times◆ Learn as if you will live forever◆ Lead to unlock the potential in others◆ Love and feel the very essence of connection◆ Live Large with the beauty of balance We rely on the relationships we build with others—it’s the one aspect of our lives that technology cannot replace. With leadership guru Art Coombs’ simple formula, you can foster those relationships into deeper connections.
Begin today, take charge, and create a powerful impact on those you love with Human Connection.
254 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 19, 2017
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February 1, 2018
Laughing, Learning, Leading, Loving and Living Large all play a critical role in making our lives and personal relationships as good as they can be. Arthur F. Coombs’ delightful storytelling in HUMAN CONNECTION: How the “L” Do We Do That? is all about becoming the best “you” possible using these five tools.
Coombs is an excellent storyteller, weaving a very personal narrative with historical examples of how it takes connection with others to be happy and fulfilled. He takes us under his wing, and unabashedly shares the most poignant moments in his life, including both his failures and successes. He also includes motivational stories and quotes from his family and friends as well as famously wise men and women, from Gandhi and the Buddha, to Coco Chanel and Marianne Williamson.
Laughing is the first key to forming a solid connection with others and also “the only way to get through life…” quotes Coombs, adding “…laughter can kick off positive thoughts and feelings that lighten the mood and put things into perspective.” Coombs offers wonderful examples of how humor not only alleviates stress, but makes us feel good, and then he keeps us smiling and laughing throughout the book as he covers the other four L’s as well.
Whether you want to be a good Leader at work or at home, the capacity for Laughing, Learning, Loving and Living Large are all interconnected and Coombs deftly makes it all sound seamlessly doable, from loving ourselves, to unconditionally loving others.
"...the key to your happiness is not so much about the love others give you but rather about the love you give them."
Reading this book will inspire you to Live Large — abundantly, wholeheartedly, to the fullest — and also give you the tools to do so.
Coombs is an excellent storyteller, weaving a very personal narrative with historical examples of how it takes connection with others to be happy and fulfilled. He takes us under his wing, and unabashedly shares the most poignant moments in his life, including both his failures and successes. He also includes motivational stories and quotes from his family and friends as well as famously wise men and women, from Gandhi and the Buddha, to Coco Chanel and Marianne Williamson.
Laughing is the first key to forming a solid connection with others and also “the only way to get through life…” quotes Coombs, adding “…laughter can kick off positive thoughts and feelings that lighten the mood and put things into perspective.” Coombs offers wonderful examples of how humor not only alleviates stress, but makes us feel good, and then he keeps us smiling and laughing throughout the book as he covers the other four L’s as well.
Whether you want to be a good Leader at work or at home, the capacity for Laughing, Learning, Loving and Living Large are all interconnected and Coombs deftly makes it all sound seamlessly doable, from loving ourselves, to unconditionally loving others.
"...the key to your happiness is not so much about the love others give you but rather about the love you give them."
Reading this book will inspire you to Live Large — abundantly, wholeheartedly, to the fullest — and also give you the tools to do so.
June 20, 2019
A wonderfully delightful read. I laughed out loud at some of the stories and was struck by the thoughtfulness of all of them. Arthur Coombs is a wonderful storyteller!
January 12, 2018
This book shows us how to truly connect
Human Connection How the “L” Do We Do That? by Art Coombs shows us how Laughing, Learning, Leading, Loving, and Living Large can enhance our connections with others. In a world where everyone is on their phones and social media true connection is hard to find.
This book shows us how to truly connect with others. Through personal stories and lessons the author shows us how we can reconnect with others and live from a place of authenticity. My favorite chapter was on learning, because I too believe that we should never stop learning, we should always try to learn something new. He also shows us the importance of reaching for our goals by showing us how Olympic athletes often captivate us with their determination.
I also highly enjoyed the chapter on laughing is where we learn to laugh at ourselves as well as seeing the benefits laughing has on our bodies. All the chapters taken together show us how we can be better as people and also how we can connect with our family, friends, and co-workers.
I think this book is good for everyone who wants to connect to others. There are many gems of wisdom in this book and I think everyone can find something to learn from it.
I would like to thank the author and publisher for allowing me to review this book in exchange for my honest and unbiased opinion of it.
Human Connection How the “L” Do We Do That? by Art Coombs shows us how Laughing, Learning, Leading, Loving, and Living Large can enhance our connections with others. In a world where everyone is on their phones and social media true connection is hard to find.
This book shows us how to truly connect with others. Through personal stories and lessons the author shows us how we can reconnect with others and live from a place of authenticity. My favorite chapter was on learning, because I too believe that we should never stop learning, we should always try to learn something new. He also shows us the importance of reaching for our goals by showing us how Olympic athletes often captivate us with their determination.
I also highly enjoyed the chapter on laughing is where we learn to laugh at ourselves as well as seeing the benefits laughing has on our bodies. All the chapters taken together show us how we can be better as people and also how we can connect with our family, friends, and co-workers.
I think this book is good for everyone who wants to connect to others. There are many gems of wisdom in this book and I think everyone can find something to learn from it.
I would like to thank the author and publisher for allowing me to review this book in exchange for my honest and unbiased opinion of it.
January 3, 2018
A book about how to better yourself. Using personal examples and relate-able topics, to find way to make yourself a better leader, a better father, and a better friend. Arthur F. Coombs did great at putting you in his shoes and walking you through his decision making process to choose the best choices not necessarily for the immediate situation but to better your future. The author did a great job of writing an example of the old sayings "Think before you act" and "think before you speak". The topic that stood out the most to be was being a better leader, listening to those you lead or your employees, and using those human connections to become more productive and more personal.
I received this complimentary copy of the book and choose to review it. All opinions are my own.
I received this complimentary copy of the book and choose to review it. All opinions are my own.
May 23, 2019
I loved this book! I was dealing with relationship issues when I started reading it and it helped me to see things I could do to make my relationship better with everyone around me; not just my family, but also the people I work with and for. There are so many good nuggets in here I totally recommend it!
January 12, 2018
The things I liked about this book are also some of the things I dislike, if I can really say I disliked anything about this book. From the very beginning the book reminded me of all of the conversations I have with my best friend. She and I can sit around and talk about life: past, present, and future.
When reading Coombs book, that’s what it felt like. I felt like I was listening to an old friend telling me about his life. I could envision the two of us exchanging stories and laughing, all while learning about one another. Granted, I don’t know the author personally, but after reading this book, on some level it feels like I do know him, and know about his family. The story of naming his son AJ I found frustrating, educational, but also humorous in some ways. In learning and laughing I’m doing two of the things that Coombs says in this book help us with our human connections.
When Coombs started talking about the importance of learning, I was reminded of my paternal grandmother. She told me that it was important to learn two new things every day. When I was younger that sounded silly. The truth is I have made it a goal to constantly learn just as she suggested. Coombs doesn’t say you have to do book learning. You can learn about yourself, learn more about something you do, something that involves books and a whole plethora of things. The key point is to keep learning, evolving, and becoming a better version of yourself.
When I reached the part about living large, I was almost taken aback at the suggestion. The more I read the more I realized how important that truly is to do in life. I mean, we aren’t promised tomorrow. We need to make the most of our lives each and every day. Do special things, love harder & deeper, laugh more, and go after your dreams and goals, as well as leading by example. There are so many good things in this book that my initial dislike of the conversational tone subsided. I’ve already recommended a couple of my friends read this book!
When reading Coombs book, that’s what it felt like. I felt like I was listening to an old friend telling me about his life. I could envision the two of us exchanging stories and laughing, all while learning about one another. Granted, I don’t know the author personally, but after reading this book, on some level it feels like I do know him, and know about his family. The story of naming his son AJ I found frustrating, educational, but also humorous in some ways. In learning and laughing I’m doing two of the things that Coombs says in this book help us with our human connections.
When Coombs started talking about the importance of learning, I was reminded of my paternal grandmother. She told me that it was important to learn two new things every day. When I was younger that sounded silly. The truth is I have made it a goal to constantly learn just as she suggested. Coombs doesn’t say you have to do book learning. You can learn about yourself, learn more about something you do, something that involves books and a whole plethora of things. The key point is to keep learning, evolving, and becoming a better version of yourself.
When I reached the part about living large, I was almost taken aback at the suggestion. The more I read the more I realized how important that truly is to do in life. I mean, we aren’t promised tomorrow. We need to make the most of our lives each and every day. Do special things, love harder & deeper, laugh more, and go after your dreams and goals, as well as leading by example. There are so many good things in this book that my initial dislike of the conversational tone subsided. I’ve already recommended a couple of my friends read this book!
January 15, 2018
If you guessed that Love was one of the "L's" in the title then you're right! Living from a place of Love means using your powers for kindness, to make the world a better place. The author uses personal experience and anecdotes to help you be authentic and connect more with the people already in you life and the new people you meet. Each of the Ls is its own chapter. Laughing is not only free, it's scientifically proven to be healthy! Living Large does not mean living beyond your means. Quite the opposite. It means living in a way in which you accept that there is some risk in making decisions when we do not always know what will happen, but we don't let that hold us back. It means figuring out how to make the most of everyday and every situation. Learning is something that can be done throughout life at any age. The more you learn, the more of an interesting person you are and the more you have to talk about when you meet some new people. The world today needs human connection more than ever, and by using these techniques put forth in this book on Living, Laughing, Learning, Loving and Leading, you can lead a life that maximizes your opportunities to create real connections with people.
January 3, 2018
I am a fiction reader 90% of the time, but every now and then and venture into Non-fiction and I am so glad that I did for this book. This book really spoke to me on a personal level and as a leader. I laughed out loud at several parts, and found so many things I could implement into my own life on all levels. In leading I realized how I could improve, and in love and laughter I realized I could give so much more. Plus it really made me step back and assess if I was really living life and enjoying it, or just working all my time away - and for what? Art wove together lessons and stories, amusing tales and honest truths to create a wonderful book. It will apply to everyone in some aspect and I highly recommend it. I know I will be reading it again and I encourage you to do the same! It is absolutely worth your time!
I was given a copy of this book by Loving the Book and voluntarily opted to review it. All opinions and comments made are my own and were in no way influences by the author, Loving the Book, or any other 3rd party.
I was given a copy of this book by Loving the Book and voluntarily opted to review it. All opinions and comments made are my own and were in no way influences by the author, Loving the Book, or any other 3rd party.
July 10, 2019
I found “Human Connection” to be practical and down to earth. Mr. Coombs suggestions were easy enough for all to achieve, and would help not only us, but those around us, to obtain objectives that would positively affect all our lives. I saw another reviewer said there was nothing mind blowing in this book. but I disagree. While the topics of Love and the other 'L's are not new, "Human Connection" does teach the principles, and how best to apply them, in a new way that is very effective.
Learning to evaluate our goals, both short and long term, by taking corrective action in our connecting and involvement with others is attained by being more aware of everyone’s perspectives. You’ll learn how to gain more in life from ALL points of view by his entertaining, anecdotal and stimulating ideas.
Sharing with love is a talent that is selflessly apportioned to everyone who reads this book. You’ll come away refreshed and self-confident of your own abilities to inspire others, as well as being enlightened yourself. Arthur Coombs has hit the nail on the head with this book.
Learning to evaluate our goals, both short and long term, by taking corrective action in our connecting and involvement with others is attained by being more aware of everyone’s perspectives. You’ll learn how to gain more in life from ALL points of view by his entertaining, anecdotal and stimulating ideas.
Sharing with love is a talent that is selflessly apportioned to everyone who reads this book. You’ll come away refreshed and self-confident of your own abilities to inspire others, as well as being enlightened yourself. Arthur Coombs has hit the nail on the head with this book.
August 14, 2019
What I loved most about this book were the story/lessons. I could relate to everything he talked about, the stories he told, and the lessons to be learned. This is a down to earth, easy to understand, with timeless concepts that have often been forgotten in today's busy world. What a great reminder of the things I need to be doing--with my family, friends and others--especially those I work with. I found that deep down I knew most of the concepts, laughing, learning, leading, loving and living large, but had somehow forgotten them in my day-to-day hectic life. So glad I took the time to sit and read this. (well, I was on a plane, so that helped!).
This book make me smile, feel good, and gave me some great things to think about and incorporate again in my life. Thank you for that! I highly recommend it!
This book make me smile, feel good, and gave me some great things to think about and incorporate again in my life. Thank you for that! I highly recommend it!
June 7, 2018
Art is my uncle-in-law, and he is an amazing storyteller. He is engaging and as fun as he sounds in his stories. I loved reading stories about my mother and grandparents-in-law. Unfortunately the storytelling doesn’t quite translate to writing. Nothing mind-blowing, but all nice reminders!
March 4, 2022
Easy fun read
March 17, 2025
It was okay.
November 13, 2019
Stories are definitely one of the best ways to teach principles in a way that sticks with readers, and Art has got it down. The memorable insights and lessons he shares in Human Connection through his personal experiences have motivated me to strengthen the relationships I have with the people I care about. I especially loved the letter he writes to his children at the end of the book. Inspired by his example, I wrote a similar one to my adult children. I'm grateful Art cares enough about his audience to want to share the success he's found in developing meaningful, happy relationships and how we can do the same!
January 3, 2018
When I first started reading this book I was under the impression that this was a leadership book. Was mistaken. This book does touch on leadership, but it is SO much More! This book, as it states, is all about our need for human connection and how to best achieve it.
This book is straight forward touching on many subjects all starting with “L” which explains his subtitle. The L’s consist of things like Learning, Laughter, Love and others. Things that when used properly can help us connect with others. In a world where we are more and more engaged with the digital aspects of our life and a bit less with actual human interaction this book is a subtle reminder for me personally to put the tablet down and actually spend time with those in the same room as me. Feeling the love the Author has for his children made me want to spend more quality time with my own children.
I really enjoyed the author’s personal stories to illustrate his point. I often found myself laughing and occasionally feeling his pain or frustration as I read these stories. And, as he states in his book, personal stories allow you to connect to others. His stories allow you to feel a form of connection to the him which helps you better understand the concepts he is presenting to you.
This book left me with a subtle feeling that I could improve myself. I didn’t feel overwhelmed or discouraged, just hopeful. If you want to improve yourself this book is a wonderful way to get started. I really enjoyed this book and I am sure you will too.
This book is straight forward touching on many subjects all starting with “L” which explains his subtitle. The L’s consist of things like Learning, Laughter, Love and others. Things that when used properly can help us connect with others. In a world where we are more and more engaged with the digital aspects of our life and a bit less with actual human interaction this book is a subtle reminder for me personally to put the tablet down and actually spend time with those in the same room as me. Feeling the love the Author has for his children made me want to spend more quality time with my own children.
I really enjoyed the author’s personal stories to illustrate his point. I often found myself laughing and occasionally feeling his pain or frustration as I read these stories. And, as he states in his book, personal stories allow you to connect to others. His stories allow you to feel a form of connection to the him which helps you better understand the concepts he is presenting to you.
This book left me with a subtle feeling that I could improve myself. I didn’t feel overwhelmed or discouraged, just hopeful. If you want to improve yourself this book is a wonderful way to get started. I really enjoyed this book and I am sure you will too.
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