I appreciate that the author aims for "humor", but it comes at the expense of having to read the thoughts (perspectives) of two extremely stubborn, prideful, immature people - the main characters. I found myself actually rooting for them to split up! They're not good for each other. I enjoyed the supporting characters (minus the obvious villain) and reunion between Jesus and a "lost soul" way more than any of the interactions between the main characters, William and Hanna.
There is literally no difference in the responses of the "Christian" female and the "lost" male who has turned away from God ("He'd effectively given God the finger years ago, telling Him off and going his own way.", pps. 232-233). They both consciously leave God out of their daily decision-making process (she "prays" before doing whatever she wants to do, while he skips the pointless-prayer part) and, therefore, lack the ripe fruit of following the Holy Spirit. Consequently, they're either fighting or making out. Neither activity is love.
Of the two, the (allegedly) Christian female is the bigger hypocrite, though, because she can hear God correcting her yet she still doesn't obey Him...until He literally threatens her life (she chokes on food, blacks out, gets saved by guess who, and recovers ready to reluctantly obey God's most recent order 😂). She allegedly "accepted Christ" at 4 years-old and never officially rejected Him, so she's had decades to mature...yet is no more mature than the guy who purposely stopped following Christ at 15 years-old. I respect William for admitting that he's mad at God more than "Holy Hanna" who pretends to care about her relationship with Jesus yet she acts just like (often times, worse than) William! Something ain't right, here...
She frequently and openly judges and accuses people of doing to her what she has done - and continues to do! - to others without repentance. Then she has the self-righteous nerve to judge Christians who point out her hypocrisy (see Matthew 7). She must've been absent from church on the days that the Golden Rule (again, see Matthew 7) was taught. I adore her best friend who repeatedly confronts her about her "blind" self-righteousness and hypocrisy, though. Carly (along with the couple's parents, the man's personal assistant, etc.) is worth suffering through this "love story" in which the people aren't actually loving each other.
For example, the "Christian" female consciously withholds forgiveness as retaliation against the apostate male for more than 95% of the book. She somehow believes that the guy must prove that he's worthy of her (she's no prize!), but he actually shows more loving patience and kindness towards her than the other way around. He at least tries to make amends for his wrongs while she denies that she's wrong AND refuses to make amends. Many people must be tagged in to show her that she is wrong before she kinda accepts the truth. What the woman feels and demonstrates is lust, not love. Even at the end.
SPOILER ALERT: The man literally sacrifices everything that he values for her...but she sacrifices NOTHING for him. And we're supposed to applaud her for FINALLY forgiving him (something that she should've done BEFORE page 1)??? A Christian's forgiveness is obligatory because we have experienced God's forgiveness of our sins, not conditional! Her "love" is literally the opposite of Jesus' love, which leads me to my final - yet most important! - point...
It seems to me that the author is confused about God's purpose for extending grace: to convict and lead the sinner to REPENTANCE, so that he or she can be forgiven and reconciled with Him (and others) - not so (s)he can keep the same sinful mindset, attitude, behavioral patterns, etc. until (s)he gets his or her way like Hanna. #spoiled
I finished reading this book only by God's grace. I wanted to quit by page 3. The 3 stars is a gift of grace from GOD (I would give it 1 star!). I only recommend this book to romance-lovers who are unbelievers or "borderline Christians" (people who claim Christ as their Savior, but aren't actually living a holy lifestyle) as a step up from what they usually read. If you want to read a true love story, then open the Bible instead. ❤
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NLT
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
JESUS: "Pray like this: Our Father in heaven, may your name be kept holy. May your Kingdom come soon. May your will be done on earth, as it is in heaven...and forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us...If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins." (Matthew 6:9-10, 12, 14-15 NLT)
JESUS: “Refuse to be a critic full of bias toward others, and judgment will not be passed on you. For you’ll be judged by the same standard that you’ve used to judge others. The measurement you use on them will be used on you. Why would you focus on the flaw in someone else’s life and yet fail to notice the glaring flaws of your own? How could you say to your friend, ‘Let me show you where you’re wrong,’ when you’re guilty of even more? You’re being hypercritical and a hypocrite! First acknowledge your own ‘blind spots’ and deal with them, and then you’ll be capable of dealing with the ‘blind spot’ of your friend." (Matthew 7:1-5 TPT)
JESUS: “But what do you think about this? A man with two sons told the older boy, ‘Son, go out and work in the vineyard today.’ The son answered, ‘No, I won’t go,’ but later he changed his mind and went anyway. Then the father told the other son, ‘You go,’ and he said, ‘Yes, sir, I will.’ But he didn’t go.
“Which of the two obeyed his father?”
They replied, “The first.”
Then Jesus explained his meaning:
“I tell you the truth, corrupt tax collectors and prostitutes will get into the Kingdom of God before you do. For John the Baptist came and showed you the right way to live, but you didn’t believe him, while tax collectors and prostitutes did. And even when you saw this happening, you refused to believe him and repent of [STOP] your sins." (Matthew 21:28-32 NLT)
Romans 2:1-6, 12-16 NLT
You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you are condemning yourself, for you who judge others do these very same things. And we know that God, in his justice, will punish anyone who does such things. Since you judge others for doing these things, why do you think you can avoid God’s judgment when you do the same things? Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?
But because you are stubborn and refuse to turn from your sin, you are storing up terrible punishment for yourself. For a day of anger is coming, when God’s righteous judgment will be revealed. He will judge everyone according to what they have done...
When the Gentiles sin, they will be destroyed, even though they never had God’s written law. And the Jews, who do have God’s law, will be judged by that law when they fail to obey it. For merely listening to the law doesn’t make us right with God. It is obeying the law that makes us right in his sight. Even Gentiles, who do not have God’s written law, show that they know his law when they instinctively obey it, even without having heard it. They demonstrate that God’s law is written in their hearts, for their own conscience and thoughts either accuse them or tell them they are doing right.
And this is the message I proclaim—that the day is coming when God, through Christ Jesus, will judge everyone’s secret life.
Galatians 5:13-26 NLT
For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love. For the whole law can be summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you are always biting and devouring one another, watch out! Beware of destroying one another.
So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. But when you are directed by the Spirit, you are not under obligation to the law of Moses.
When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
Those who belong to Christ Jesus have nailed the passions and desires of their sinful nature to his cross and crucified them there. Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of our lives. Let us not become conceited, or provoke one another, or be jealous of one another.
Colossians 3:12-17 NLT
Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.
Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.
Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts.
And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.