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Khwezi: The remarkable story of Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo
In May 2006 Jacob Zuma was found not guilty of the rape of Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo – better known as Khwezi – in the Johannesburg High Court. Another nail was driven into the coffin of South Africa's fight against sexual violence. Vilified by Zuma's many supporters, Khwezi was forced to flee South Africa and make a life in the shadows, first in Europe and then back on the African continent.
A decade after Zuma's acquittal, Khwezi died. But not before she had slipped back into South Africa and started work with journalist Redi Tlhabi on a book about her life. About how, as a young girl living in exile in ANC camps, she was raped by the 'uncles' who were supposed to protect her. About her great love for her father, Judson Kuzwayo, an ANC activist who died when Khwezi was almost ten. And about how, as a young adult, she was driven once again into exile, suffering not only at the hands of Zuma’s devotees but under the harsh eye of the media.
In sensitive and considered language, Red Tlhabi breathes life into a woman for so long forced to live in hiding. In telling the story of Khwezi, Tlhabi draws attention to the sexual abuse that abounded during the struggle years, abuse that continues to plague women and children in South Africa today.
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First published September 15, 2017
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September 21, 2017
This is not an easy book to read – not because it is not well written. It is. It is a story beautifully told. It is the subject matter that will break your heart.
I found that I had to read the book in fits and starts, because I ended up crying every time I picked it up. Watching a country being destroyed daily by Jacob Zuma, I can only imagine what it must be like to be the direct victim of his abuse, as Fezekile Kuzwayo was.
When Fezeka accused Zuma of rape, she laid charges against him. What followed best illustrates Zuma’s presidency. He played the victim and accused Fezeka of plotting against him. His supporters vilified her, burning down her family home, even mock stoning her outside the court. How people could put this abusive psychopath in the position they did, and still do, is South Africa’s shame.
This book tells the story of this remarkable woman who was abused in childhood, vilified by Zuma’s zombies, and exiled from her country. Redi Tlhabi‘s writing is powerful and clear. The book shows us how patriarchal South Africa is and how women who are abused have the system so stacked against them that it’s overwhelming.
Khwezi, as she was known during the rape trial, died before the book could be published, but I think she would be pleased with the result. We finally have a chance to get to know the beautiful woman she was. Redi Tlhabi has given her a long life, and through her book, she has shone the light on all voiceless, abused women.
The damage Zuma and the ANC have wrought should make them hang their heads in shame and beg Fezeka’s mother and all South African women for forgiveness. Zuma is one of patriarchy’s ugliest poster children and his tenure has set South Africa back in ways we can’t even begin to fathom.
This book is a must-read for everybody.
I found that I had to read the book in fits and starts, because I ended up crying every time I picked it up. Watching a country being destroyed daily by Jacob Zuma, I can only imagine what it must be like to be the direct victim of his abuse, as Fezekile Kuzwayo was.
When Fezeka accused Zuma of rape, she laid charges against him. What followed best illustrates Zuma’s presidency. He played the victim and accused Fezeka of plotting against him. His supporters vilified her, burning down her family home, even mock stoning her outside the court. How people could put this abusive psychopath in the position they did, and still do, is South Africa’s shame.
This book tells the story of this remarkable woman who was abused in childhood, vilified by Zuma’s zombies, and exiled from her country. Redi Tlhabi‘s writing is powerful and clear. The book shows us how patriarchal South Africa is and how women who are abused have the system so stacked against them that it’s overwhelming.
Khwezi, as she was known during the rape trial, died before the book could be published, but I think she would be pleased with the result. We finally have a chance to get to know the beautiful woman she was. Redi Tlhabi has given her a long life, and through her book, she has shone the light on all voiceless, abused women.
The damage Zuma and the ANC have wrought should make them hang their heads in shame and beg Fezeka’s mother and all South African women for forgiveness. Zuma is one of patriarchy’s ugliest poster children and his tenure has set South Africa back in ways we can’t even begin to fathom.
This book is a must-read for everybody.
September 30, 2017
The biggest disappointment about this book is Fezekile (Khwezi) didn't live to see it come to light.
I admire how author, Redi Thlabi, gave her a soul; she was more than just Jacob Zuma's rape accuser.
The book focused on her as a person, the psychology of Fezeka during her life in exile and again in hiding (another type of exile).
It also delved into the infamous incident that subsequently exposed the impact of patriarchy and power dynamics, something Pumla Dineo Gqola's book, 'Rape: A South African Nightmare' also focused on in great detail. I also appreciate that the concept of consent was prominent throughout the book.
Redi also wrote briefly of her own relationship with Zuma and how it evolved over the years from her time as a journalist at the SABC.
Zuma is an interesting person to observe, I wish more was revealed about his life during and immediately after the trial, albeit without taking away from the purpose and subject of the book. Though what was mentioned does indeed suffice.
There are some things I wish Redi touched on in more detail, but I wholly respect her editorial authority as the author of this book.
Khwezi is a must read. And a necessary one, at that . May we forever remember Fezekile and the fight she fought for so many other women. I applaud Redi for writing this book.
I admire how author, Redi Thlabi, gave her a soul; she was more than just Jacob Zuma's rape accuser.
The book focused on her as a person, the psychology of Fezeka during her life in exile and again in hiding (another type of exile).
It also delved into the infamous incident that subsequently exposed the impact of patriarchy and power dynamics, something Pumla Dineo Gqola's book, 'Rape: A South African Nightmare' also focused on in great detail. I also appreciate that the concept of consent was prominent throughout the book.
Redi also wrote briefly of her own relationship with Zuma and how it evolved over the years from her time as a journalist at the SABC.
Zuma is an interesting person to observe, I wish more was revealed about his life during and immediately after the trial, albeit without taking away from the purpose and subject of the book. Though what was mentioned does indeed suffice.
There are some things I wish Redi touched on in more detail, but I wholly respect her editorial authority as the author of this book.
Khwezi is a must read. And a necessary one, at that . May we forever remember Fezekile and the fight she fought for so many other women. I applaud Redi for writing this book.
February 10, 2018
A very well written account of Fezekile's life. She has always been "Zuma's rape accuser" but now she has a face, a voice and has reclaimed her identity through this book. This book goes beyond just the incident of he rape and trial but delves into how masculinity and patriarchy play itself out in society and dampens the pain and injustices women have gone through. We are also shown a side of the struggle which we seldom hear about; the violence and rapes that women endured whilst fighting for this country. I am most dissapointed at how Fezekile was failed by the very people who were meant to protect her. This is her story and she stands for the millions of women who have gone through sexual assualts and rape in particular. What a strong woman...
November 5, 2017
****trigger warning RAPE***
For me an excruciatingly sad story, incorporating what I term, isolated happy moments. The choir , dancing , picnics , job hopping, were just an escape. Raped by adult men at five , twelve , thirteen and at thirty one years old ; vilified, multivictimised and denied justice on all counts. At ten her dad died. Forced into exile twice in her life time . She is subjected to abuse in a marriage. At fourty one she dies of HIV related illness , induced by depression and having gone off ARVs. How I wish this were fiction and not the reality of Fezeka Kuzwayo.
Redi did an excellent and brave job in introducing the real Fezeka to us.Although she stated on page 96 that "... This book is neither an exhaustive nor an authoritative account of Fezekile's life..." She let's us in on the court transcripts and our disconnected , inhumane and patriachal justice system . She elaborates on how gender equality and gender based abuses were never a priority in the fight for racial liberation.
A book with numerous discussion points. It would be excellent for a group read, or book club setting. Politics, religion , sexuality, corruption, parenting , power , masculinity, HIV, mental illness, accessibility to health , misuse of state resources, sidelining of certain political activists , nudity, money, the role of our neighbouring countries , would be some of the areas of discussion .
An essential read that is bound to leave you morose.
For me an excruciatingly sad story, incorporating what I term, isolated happy moments. The choir , dancing , picnics , job hopping, were just an escape. Raped by adult men at five , twelve , thirteen and at thirty one years old ; vilified, multivictimised and denied justice on all counts. At ten her dad died. Forced into exile twice in her life time . She is subjected to abuse in a marriage. At fourty one she dies of HIV related illness , induced by depression and having gone off ARVs. How I wish this were fiction and not the reality of Fezeka Kuzwayo.
Redi did an excellent and brave job in introducing the real Fezeka to us.Although she stated on page 96 that "... This book is neither an exhaustive nor an authoritative account of Fezekile's life..." She let's us in on the court transcripts and our disconnected , inhumane and patriachal justice system . She elaborates on how gender equality and gender based abuses were never a priority in the fight for racial liberation.
A book with numerous discussion points. It would be excellent for a group read, or book club setting. Politics, religion , sexuality, corruption, parenting , power , masculinity, HIV, mental illness, accessibility to health , misuse of state resources, sidelining of certain political activists , nudity, money, the role of our neighbouring countries , would be some of the areas of discussion .
An essential read that is bound to leave you morose.
June 24, 2021
#Khwezi - Redi Tlhabi
#jonathanball
Khwezi was the name used to protect the identity of Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo; the woman vilified by a nation because she dared to accuse Jacob Zuma of raping her in his Johannesburg home on 2 November 2005. Most people know that he was acquitted on 8 May 2006 and that she died in October 2016 after being forced into exile, first in the Netherlands and then in Tanzania. But there is so much more behind these cold facts.
Fez (as she was known to her friends and the author) was the daughter of the struggle hero, Judson Kuzwayo and the actress/singer Beauty Kuzwayo. Because of her father’s activities, Fez mostly grew up in exile. Since husbands and fathers were often absent, communal parentage was common. Comrades of those absent would look after their families like their own; they would become the children’s Malume (Uncle); a surrogate father. Judson died when Fez was merely 10 years old and the role played by her ‘uncles’ became permanent. Malume Zuma, one of her father’s best friends, was one of them.
Sadly, Fez experienced betrayal even during childhood (she was raped on 3 different occasions by men tasked to protect her). The perpetrators escaped any substantial consequences and Fez learnt that women’s bodies often are a war zone; subject to male entitlement and domination.
Imagine then, if you can, the depth of the betrayal that she experienced before, during and after the trial. She was threatened, intimidated, humiliated. Her house was burnt down. The country that her father lay down his life for, turned its back on her. This continued after her death; a run down church the only venue available with Zuma-supporters protesting during her memorial service. The gender activist, Dawn Cavanagh, was outspoken towards those who betrayed Fez during the service: “If you did not speak then, do not speak now.”
The author’s dedication to Fez is achingly beautiful: “Dear Fez, this is not the book I had in mind. You left too soon, while we were still talking. But, in these pages you live on, triumphant, beautiful and positive. Rest in peace.”
The reader is left with the question: “…..what does it say about the man who wields power and who may not abduct, hit or tie a woman down, but uses his stature to subdue her emotionally and mentally ?” (p. 110)
It is a brilliant, heart-breaking book; paying tribute to someone whose name is reclaimed only now, in death.
5 stars from #Uitdieperdsebek
#jonathanball
Khwezi was the name used to protect the identity of Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo; the woman vilified by a nation because she dared to accuse Jacob Zuma of raping her in his Johannesburg home on 2 November 2005. Most people know that he was acquitted on 8 May 2006 and that she died in October 2016 after being forced into exile, first in the Netherlands and then in Tanzania. But there is so much more behind these cold facts.
Fez (as she was known to her friends and the author) was the daughter of the struggle hero, Judson Kuzwayo and the actress/singer Beauty Kuzwayo. Because of her father’s activities, Fez mostly grew up in exile. Since husbands and fathers were often absent, communal parentage was common. Comrades of those absent would look after their families like their own; they would become the children’s Malume (Uncle); a surrogate father. Judson died when Fez was merely 10 years old and the role played by her ‘uncles’ became permanent. Malume Zuma, one of her father’s best friends, was one of them.
Sadly, Fez experienced betrayal even during childhood (she was raped on 3 different occasions by men tasked to protect her). The perpetrators escaped any substantial consequences and Fez learnt that women’s bodies often are a war zone; subject to male entitlement and domination.
Imagine then, if you can, the depth of the betrayal that she experienced before, during and after the trial. She was threatened, intimidated, humiliated. Her house was burnt down. The country that her father lay down his life for, turned its back on her. This continued after her death; a run down church the only venue available with Zuma-supporters protesting during her memorial service. The gender activist, Dawn Cavanagh, was outspoken towards those who betrayed Fez during the service: “If you did not speak then, do not speak now.”
The author’s dedication to Fez is achingly beautiful: “Dear Fez, this is not the book I had in mind. You left too soon, while we were still talking. But, in these pages you live on, triumphant, beautiful and positive. Rest in peace.”
The reader is left with the question: “…..what does it say about the man who wields power and who may not abduct, hit or tie a woman down, but uses his stature to subdue her emotionally and mentally ?” (p. 110)
It is a brilliant, heart-breaking book; paying tribute to someone whose name is reclaimed only now, in death.
5 stars from #Uitdieperdsebek
December 12, 2017
This book feels like evil triumphed. 😥
October 20, 2017
Type of book you want to encourage South Africans to read - in pairs (at least) though - definitely needs a support structure, a hand to hold, a shoulder to cry on. Yet, it's a book you wish had not been written, a book that did not have to be written, a book that had zero case studies to draw from - because why are women being raped? Nx.
Men are Tee with a rash.
Men are Tee with a rash.
February 14, 2018
This has left me with a bad taste in my mouth! As a feminist this enraged me!! I have a few choice words for the man who is currently our president, and I am hoping in the days to come that is no longer the case!
I’m glad I read this, every South African should because it lets you understand some of the culture divides between whites and blacks but also the relationship between men and women!!
I’m glad I read this, every South African should because it lets you understand some of the culture divides between whites and blacks but also the relationship between men and women!!
April 13, 2019
Tlhabi’s book ‘Khewzi’ is a sensitive, insightful handling of her friend, Fezekile Kuzwayo’s, story. The complex, lovable and somewhat naïve Fezeka, spent her young life in exile. She assumed the pseudenym, Khewzi, when she went into witness protection after laying rape charges against the then Deputy President, Jacob Zuma. After this, his supporters subjected her to trickery, bullying and intimidation.
Judson Kuzwayo was Fezekile’s father. She adored him and was eager for his memory to be preserved in this book. His death in a motorcar accident, whilst in exile, devastated the ten year old. Fekezile was raped at the ages of 5, 7 and 12. This was a girl who was violated by her Malumes long before Zuma betrayed her, again, in the most grotesque manner.
Tlhabi is a meticulous, top-notch journalist and watchdog. She provides context for the reader, explaining abuse of women in liberation camps where umkhonto we sizwe (MK) soldiers trained. She claims, ‘The ruling party has, largely, been in denial… choosing a narrative that speaks only of the heroism and sacrifices… The war against apartheid was fought on and across women’s bodies. Many paid the price.' Tlhabi recognises the nuances of power and control in a patriarchal society deeply entrenched in masculinity and culture. It was little wonder Fezekile didn’t stand a chance at trial.
Fezekile’s many conversations with Tlhabi are recorded. Just enough interpretative commentary allows us to gain poignant and, at times, disturbing insights in the personal and social issues that shaped, and ultimately led to Fezekile giving up her fight to live. HIV positive, restless, broke and concerned about her mother to a somewhat unhealthy leave, Tlhabi tries to supports Fezeka as her life unravels in her final weeks.
‘Khwezi’ honours a woman who society did not defend. It sends a warning to all those who believe that, ten years later, politicians can still rape our girls and get off free. Khwezi took her power back before she died revealing her true identity. In 2016, ‘the country that stood idly by suddenly woke up. Activists, former Cabinet ministers, ANC elders, callers to radio stations chanted ‘Remember Khwezi,’ or asked ‘Whatever happened to Khwezi?’’ Thlabi writes. It seems tolerance is running out in the age of the #metoo movement.
The book recognises the tireless work of activists in organisations such as the Treatment Action Campaign (TAC) and the One in Nine Campaign who supported Fezekile and her mother in exile in Amsterdam. Many people reached into their own pockets and supported financially too.
Tlhabi can be proud that she fulfilled her promises to Fezeka. Her tenderly crafted narrative (supported with heavy-weigh academic clout) allows those of us who did not know her to walk her difficult, disrupted path, and feel ashamed and saddened.
‘Women and children do not choose sexual violence, and its impact cannot be determined by those who have never experienced it or been vulnerable to it.’ Tlhabi insists, again, in closing. Fezekile’s name will not be forgotten, partly due to this important story being in print.
Predators beware!
Rest soundly, brave fighter.
Judson Kuzwayo was Fezekile’s father. She adored him and was eager for his memory to be preserved in this book. His death in a motorcar accident, whilst in exile, devastated the ten year old. Fekezile was raped at the ages of 5, 7 and 12. This was a girl who was violated by her Malumes long before Zuma betrayed her, again, in the most grotesque manner.
Tlhabi is a meticulous, top-notch journalist and watchdog. She provides context for the reader, explaining abuse of women in liberation camps where umkhonto we sizwe (MK) soldiers trained. She claims, ‘The ruling party has, largely, been in denial… choosing a narrative that speaks only of the heroism and sacrifices… The war against apartheid was fought on and across women’s bodies. Many paid the price.' Tlhabi recognises the nuances of power and control in a patriarchal society deeply entrenched in masculinity and culture. It was little wonder Fezekile didn’t stand a chance at trial.
Fezekile’s many conversations with Tlhabi are recorded. Just enough interpretative commentary allows us to gain poignant and, at times, disturbing insights in the personal and social issues that shaped, and ultimately led to Fezekile giving up her fight to live. HIV positive, restless, broke and concerned about her mother to a somewhat unhealthy leave, Tlhabi tries to supports Fezeka as her life unravels in her final weeks.
‘Khwezi’ honours a woman who society did not defend. It sends a warning to all those who believe that, ten years later, politicians can still rape our girls and get off free. Khwezi took her power back before she died revealing her true identity. In 2016, ‘the country that stood idly by suddenly woke up. Activists, former Cabinet ministers, ANC elders, callers to radio stations chanted ‘Remember Khwezi,’ or asked ‘Whatever happened to Khwezi?’’ Thlabi writes. It seems tolerance is running out in the age of the #metoo movement.
The book recognises the tireless work of activists in organisations such as the Treatment Action Campaign (TAC) and the One in Nine Campaign who supported Fezekile and her mother in exile in Amsterdam. Many people reached into their own pockets and supported financially too.
Tlhabi can be proud that she fulfilled her promises to Fezeka. Her tenderly crafted narrative (supported with heavy-weigh academic clout) allows those of us who did not know her to walk her difficult, disrupted path, and feel ashamed and saddened.
‘Women and children do not choose sexual violence, and its impact cannot be determined by those who have never experienced it or been vulnerable to it.’ Tlhabi insists, again, in closing. Fezekile’s name will not be forgotten, partly due to this important story being in print.
Predators beware!
Rest soundly, brave fighter.
August 9, 2018
Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo – better known as Khwezi – is the woman who had to flee South Africa after her accused rapist, Jacob Zuma, was acquitted of her rape in 2006.
She died a decade later.
“My family died fighting for this freedom and the movement does not really care about widows and orphans.”
The movement Fezekile is speaking of is the ANC. It saddens me that Fezekile experienced such tragedies -her father's death when she was nine, three incidents of sexual assault and as a teenage girl, the rape by her 'uncle' Zuma.
She inspired me by the actions that she took - she challenged the man, the party, the country that made him president - which is to our shame.
Read my full review here.
She died a decade later.
“My family died fighting for this freedom and the movement does not really care about widows and orphans.”
The movement Fezekile is speaking of is the ANC. It saddens me that Fezekile experienced such tragedies -her father's death when she was nine, three incidents of sexual assault and as a teenage girl, the rape by her 'uncle' Zuma.
She inspired me by the actions that she took - she challenged the man, the party, the country that made him president - which is to our shame.
Read my full review here.
January 2, 2020
Reading a Redi Tlhabi is enjoyable, I love the way she writes but even more so I love her thirst for the truth. This book exposed aspects of Khwezi story and the trial which I was not aware of. I am grateful that Zuma is no longer president however I cannot wait for karma to occur so Khwezi can be avenged.
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September 30, 2017– My real names, dear. Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo. –
– In a way, the rape of some women and children in exile debunks the heroic narrative of the struggle. It also debunks dominant patters of self-glorification. The ruling party has, largely, been in denial about this, choosing instead a narrative that speaks only of the heroism and sacrifices of so many gallant comrades - a narrative that is true, but incomplete. –
–It has probably become more dangerous to be a woman than a soldier in armed conflict. –
– Society should do its own introspection and ask why it was, and is, eager to accept the version of a man who can state, in a court of law, that he has consensual sex with a child. Our societal mores have enabled this.
It is shameful. –
– The rules of the cultural beliefs that Zuma claims to hold dear dictate that your friends' children are your children. –
– In a way, the rape of some women and children in exile debunks the heroic narrative of the struggle. It also debunks dominant patters of self-glorification. The ruling party has, largely, been in denial about this, choosing instead a narrative that speaks only of the heroism and sacrifices of so many gallant comrades - a narrative that is true, but incomplete. –
–It has probably become more dangerous to be a woman than a soldier in armed conflict. –
– Society should do its own introspection and ask why it was, and is, eager to accept the version of a man who can state, in a court of law, that he has consensual sex with a child. Our societal mores have enabled this.
It is shameful. –
– The rules of the cultural beliefs that Zuma claims to hold dear dictate that your friends' children are your children. –
September 20, 2017
“Khwezi” - as she was code-named for her own safety - is the young woman who took President Zuma to court for raping her. This book is her story but Redi Tlhabi takes it much further.
She exposes the ANC’s history of machisimo and of turning a patriarchal blind eye to sexual abuse that started in their training camps and continues today in “normal” life.
“In a way, the rape of some women and children in exile debunks the heroic narrative of the struggle.”
The book made me see how a party forced to be secretive to survive continues today to use secrecy to survive. The party über alles - even at the cost of the safety of their women and children.
It’s a book about sexual violence against women in South Africa, about a young woman trying to make sense of betrayal after betrayal, about a powerful party who closes ranks to protect its president, sacrificing the daughter of one of their comrades at the altar of power. Yet it’s not a bleak read. It's written with great heart and empathy and intelligence. Khwezi comes alive on these pages - intelligent, wounded, brave and vibrant.
It’s thought-provoking and courageous and shines a brutal spotlight on a society where a judge – in 2006 – can find that having sex with a child is not considered rape because the child consented.
A very important book.
She exposes the ANC’s history of machisimo and of turning a patriarchal blind eye to sexual abuse that started in their training camps and continues today in “normal” life.
“In a way, the rape of some women and children in exile debunks the heroic narrative of the struggle.”
The book made me see how a party forced to be secretive to survive continues today to use secrecy to survive. The party über alles - even at the cost of the safety of their women and children.
It’s a book about sexual violence against women in South Africa, about a young woman trying to make sense of betrayal after betrayal, about a powerful party who closes ranks to protect its president, sacrificing the daughter of one of their comrades at the altar of power. Yet it’s not a bleak read. It's written with great heart and empathy and intelligence. Khwezi comes alive on these pages - intelligent, wounded, brave and vibrant.
It’s thought-provoking and courageous and shines a brutal spotlight on a society where a judge – in 2006 – can find that having sex with a child is not considered rape because the child consented.
A very important book.
May 14, 2018
The focus of this book is not about the rape trial or the rape itself but it attempts to tell us about "Khwezi", the person, her childhood, the woman etc.
This book successfully puts SA on trial for what it does not bother to think deeply about — the plague of rape. South African society has normalised rape and many of us are walking around carrying the pain and trying to escape it every-time. The troubling prevalence of sexual assault in the liberation movement is also explored, "Women’s bodies were battlefields; they were "taken as pieces of meat" and has me wanting to dig deeper into this topic.
The effects of the struggle on families and relationships was explored and both Mama Beauty and Fezekile expressed some bitterness about the way in which the families left behind were treated in the struggle.“My family died fighting for this freedom and the movement does not really care about widows and orphans,” Kuzwayo said. Mama Beauty, still stays in poverty.
Throughout the book I found myself getting impatient and annoyed by Fez's, she trusted too easily e.g Agreeing not too let her attorney know that their consultations were recorded, allowing one of her "protectors" to be present during such consultations and her decision to marry Thandeka are just some examples were I got quite upset. She started projects and never completed them.
My take away is that what happened to Fezekile Kuzwayo should be a source of South Africa's national disgrace.
This book successfully puts SA on trial for what it does not bother to think deeply about — the plague of rape. South African society has normalised rape and many of us are walking around carrying the pain and trying to escape it every-time. The troubling prevalence of sexual assault in the liberation movement is also explored, "Women’s bodies were battlefields; they were "taken as pieces of meat" and has me wanting to dig deeper into this topic.
The effects of the struggle on families and relationships was explored and both Mama Beauty and Fezekile expressed some bitterness about the way in which the families left behind were treated in the struggle.“My family died fighting for this freedom and the movement does not really care about widows and orphans,” Kuzwayo said. Mama Beauty, still stays in poverty.
Throughout the book I found myself getting impatient and annoyed by Fez's, she trusted too easily e.g Agreeing not too let her attorney know that their consultations were recorded, allowing one of her "protectors" to be present during such consultations and her decision to marry Thandeka are just some examples were I got quite upset. She started projects and never completed them.
My take away is that what happened to Fezekile Kuzwayo should be a source of South Africa's national disgrace.
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October 23, 2017this is an eye-opening book which outlines the reality that girls and women face daily, due to skewed power dynamics in our society.
July 4, 2019
I attended the book launch in 2017. Had a few "start-n-stops". For some reason I just could not get into the book - despite it being a well written story. A true story. Based on a woman, Fezekile Kuzwayo, who's life story is just so unbelievably tragic, horrific, sad. One almost wish it's a work of fiction. Born in apartheid SA but raised in exile in ANC camps. Lost her comrade father at the tender age of 10. Raped multiple times in those camps by "uncles" at 5, 12 & 13yo. Returning to democratic SA, a life of hardship awaits her and her widowed mother. "The movement did not take care of its widows". Raped again in her early 30's by a trusted powerful comrade and father figure (soon to be SA's next president). Threatened and vilified by his supporters during the rape trial, forcing her into exile for a 2nd time to the Netherlands and Tanzania. Only to return after almost a decade to die of an HIV related death. Powerful themes dominate the story: patriarchy, misogyny, power dynamics, sexual violence, toxic masculinity, cultural biases. Despite Fezekile's hard life the author took special care to also share with the reader beautiful insights into her bubbly, vibrant, warm, trusting, caring and expressive personality.
October 15, 2017
Such an important book that is made all the more hard-hitting by the fact that it is written by one of the most popular and respected female voices in South Africa. Well done @RediTlhabi for your courage. Let's hope you end up in politics - we saw just how popular you are at your jam-packed book launch.
October 5, 2018
I really enjoyed the story of uFezeka.
I did however find it very difficult to get into Redi Tlhabi's style of writing. She writes in a way that's really laborious to get into.
The story is so revealing of the depth of the rot inside politics and amongst men.
The patriarchy is so brilliantly highlighted in this story.
I did however find it very difficult to get into Redi Tlhabi's style of writing. She writes in a way that's really laborious to get into.
The story is so revealing of the depth of the rot inside politics and amongst men.
The patriarchy is so brilliantly highlighted in this story.
November 28, 2017
Khwezi has been returned to hold the mirror of our ugly treatment of women and children to us. We are a society that did nothing and said little when went through hell. Most importantly we get to know who she was.
December 14, 2018
An important book about the life of Fezekile (alias Khwezi), the young woman who accused Jacob Zuma of rape and was hounded out of South Africa for her courage.
This story is a scathing indictment of the behavior of ANC male comrades, while in exile in neighboring countries. Their treatment of women and children was despicable, as it continues to be in many instances until today.
Fezekile was raped at the age of FIVE, and again at the ages of twelve and thirteen; yet at the Zuma trial her sexual history was questioned. The defense tried to paint her as a woman of loose morals. WHAT ABOUT THE MALES??? The patriarchal society in which we live has one set of rules for males and another for females. We women are, to this day, accused of acting the “temptress” Eve, without whose seduction men would never fall into sin. What an unforgivable lie! Following almost every rape, the female becomes victimized and has to relive the horror over and over again. Her past sexual history is dragged up, her way of dressing is questioned, even her reason to be present at that time in that location. Are the males ever questioned in this manner, although they are the perpetrators? The answer is Very Rarely. Their sexual history is not considered relevant. Nobody questions them about their dress code. The reason for their presence in the location of the rape is thought to be inconsequential. The females take blame, even though they are the true victims.
Zuma became a victim of a predatory woman!!! If you believe that, you require psychological evaluation.
I only hope that this book, as well as being a tribute to a courageous woman, goes some way in exposing the centuries-long belief that women get raped because in some way they DESERVE it.
Well done Redi for highlighting a very relevant subject, which requires drastic action in the way males are raised here, and around the world.
This story is a scathing indictment of the behavior of ANC male comrades, while in exile in neighboring countries. Their treatment of women and children was despicable, as it continues to be in many instances until today.
Fezekile was raped at the age of FIVE, and again at the ages of twelve and thirteen; yet at the Zuma trial her sexual history was questioned. The defense tried to paint her as a woman of loose morals. WHAT ABOUT THE MALES??? The patriarchal society in which we live has one set of rules for males and another for females. We women are, to this day, accused of acting the “temptress” Eve, without whose seduction men would never fall into sin. What an unforgivable lie! Following almost every rape, the female becomes victimized and has to relive the horror over and over again. Her past sexual history is dragged up, her way of dressing is questioned, even her reason to be present at that time in that location. Are the males ever questioned in this manner, although they are the perpetrators? The answer is Very Rarely. Their sexual history is not considered relevant. Nobody questions them about their dress code. The reason for their presence in the location of the rape is thought to be inconsequential. The females take blame, even though they are the true victims.
Zuma became a victim of a predatory woman!!! If you believe that, you require psychological evaluation.
I only hope that this book, as well as being a tribute to a courageous woman, goes some way in exposing the centuries-long belief that women get raped because in some way they DESERVE it.
Well done Redi for highlighting a very relevant subject, which requires drastic action in the way males are raised here, and around the world.
August 20, 2018
The book was written like a journalistic report and Redi tried to cover Fezi's life story from many angles, even though it sometimes felt like she was taking tangents here and there. Without a psychology background it was difficult for me to understand why would a 12 and 13 year old girl sleep naked with a man, irrespective of what their relationship was, and the mother to be fine with it.
I concur that rape is not an easy thing to prove and get angry at those who make false allegations because they are ploughing seeds of doubt in every rape case, resulting in the acquittal of real offenders. Fezekile's character did not help her case at all. Her conduct and naivety left me baffled until today. Allowing "malume" to massage her with baby oil, flirting with the police at the safe house, allowing pictures of her to be taken and most importantly, not divulging any of that to her lawyer. I am not even going to comment about her marriage to Thandeka. Her inability to start and finish something and settle in one place and career was infuriating, but then again, I do not know the impact of living in exile, losing a father at an early age, being raped 4 times, being HIV positive and having an elderly mother to take care of had on her.
Could the Mbeki camp have had a hand in the allegations or benefitted from it remains an interesting question. The book however reminded us that rape, women and child abuse is real and still happening in our homes and communities, and got us worried and talking. I hope South Africa can arrive at a lasting solution for this ill.
I concur that rape is not an easy thing to prove and get angry at those who make false allegations because they are ploughing seeds of doubt in every rape case, resulting in the acquittal of real offenders. Fezekile's character did not help her case at all. Her conduct and naivety left me baffled until today. Allowing "malume" to massage her with baby oil, flirting with the police at the safe house, allowing pictures of her to be taken and most importantly, not divulging any of that to her lawyer. I am not even going to comment about her marriage to Thandeka. Her inability to start and finish something and settle in one place and career was infuriating, but then again, I do not know the impact of living in exile, losing a father at an early age, being raped 4 times, being HIV positive and having an elderly mother to take care of had on her.
Could the Mbeki camp have had a hand in the allegations or benefitted from it remains an interesting question. The book however reminded us that rape, women and child abuse is real and still happening in our homes and communities, and got us worried and talking. I hope South Africa can arrive at a lasting solution for this ill.
March 28, 2018
I couldn’t wait to finish this book. It is a harrowing tale – not really the kind of book I usually read. I read it because I think very highly of Redi Tlhabi and was interested to hear the story. It’s a really uncomfortable and unsettling read. I have read another book about how the women living in exile in the ANC camps were abused. And just yesterday there was an interview on the radio with a highly qualified woman who was a Director in one of the large accounting firms and who resigned due to a sexual predator – her boss! It’s a horrifying story, especially the way she was treated by the top people in the company!! When is the world going to change?
The other thing that struck me about this book was the fact that Khwezi was so unbelievably naive – to the point of almost being simple and childlike. For example, imagine allowing the police to tape all her sessions with her advocate (prior to the trial) and not telling her advocate! She was also an incredibly needy person which came through very strongly in the book. Just reading about it, drained my energy so I can’t begin to imagine the effect she had on the people around her. I don’t know how Redi coped during the period she was writing this book, and she was pregnant too! So, an interesting book, but not at all enjoyable. In fact, I found it really drained me – for me there was just nothing uplifting in this book. A very sad tale and I’m sure it happens elsewhere.
The other thing that struck me about this book was the fact that Khwezi was so unbelievably naive – to the point of almost being simple and childlike. For example, imagine allowing the police to tape all her sessions with her advocate (prior to the trial) and not telling her advocate! She was also an incredibly needy person which came through very strongly in the book. Just reading about it, drained my energy so I can’t begin to imagine the effect she had on the people around her. I don’t know how Redi coped during the period she was writing this book, and she was pregnant too! So, an interesting book, but not at all enjoyable. In fact, I found it really drained me – for me there was just nothing uplifting in this book. A very sad tale and I’m sure it happens elsewhere.
January 14, 2018
Brilliant writing of a sad state that we live in. To imagine that men who rape 5, 12 or 13 year olds can walk into court rooms and say the sex was consensual is beyond convoluted. The fear and humiliation women go through for reporting rape, even by fellow women, not just men alone confirms to me that so many men do not deserve their mothers, sisters, nieces and daughters. I am so angry at how far we believe wé have come as a society yet men with law degrees can stand up in court, slut shame a woman and pocket their paychecks with zero consciences. I could never do this book a just review because of all the anger it evokes in me. I remember following the trial on TV and hoped Khwezi would get justice in the end. Sadly it wasn’t to be so and to think 3 years later Zuma almost forced himself on a journalist leaves me speechless.
December 8, 2017
This book, brilliant as it is, comes with a serious trigger warning. It triggered me often and I struggled to sleep and yet, I'm glad I persisted because it is such an important work.
This tells the story of Fezekile Kuzwayo, who was dubbed Khwezi to protect her identity when she accused South Africa's then-Deputy President Jacob Zuma of rape. Zuma was acquitted, but as senior journalist Redi Thlabi shows the justice system fails victims of rape time and again.
Thlabi did extensive interviews with Kuzwayo before the latter's death in 2016. This book gives her back her name, her agency and shows the world that she was so much more than 'Khwezi'. Fezekile survived previous sexual assaults as a child but emerged a survivor, beloved by many.
This tells the story of Fezekile Kuzwayo, who was dubbed Khwezi to protect her identity when she accused South Africa's then-Deputy President Jacob Zuma of rape. Zuma was acquitted, but as senior journalist Redi Thlabi shows the justice system fails victims of rape time and again.
Thlabi did extensive interviews with Kuzwayo before the latter's death in 2016. This book gives her back her name, her agency and shows the world that she was so much more than 'Khwezi'. Fezekile survived previous sexual assaults as a child but emerged a survivor, beloved by many.
October 12, 2017
I did not know enough about Kwezi when the rape trial was going on so found the intricate details very interesting to read. Was totally shocked to learn about female sexual abuse in the MK. Found it interesting but incredibly sad to realise how apartheid affected the urban males in our community and how the youth lost respect for their elders by seeing police removing their dignity.
I love Redi to bits - she is one of my favourite journalists but I got a bit lost in the prose pertaining to the Zuma rape trial. It was quite involved.
So glad I read the book - it gave me such insight into the darker aspects of our beautiful country.
I love Redi to bits - she is one of my favourite journalists but I got a bit lost in the prose pertaining to the Zuma rape trial. It was quite involved.
So glad I read the book - it gave me such insight into the darker aspects of our beautiful country.
January 14, 2018
Particularly relevant in the light of the current #metoo movement. I would recommend this book to all South Africans, but also to an international audience. Particularly those interested in gender relations, Law, Journalism, Psychology, and the intersection of the personal and the political. The harrowing (at times) but also inspiring and funny, and moving story of Fezekile Kuzwayo. She was so much more than "Zuma's rape accuser". (And yes, he did it.) The story of how the justice system failed Fezekile is a major part of this book but I was also encouraged to read about other aspects of Fezekile's life and those of her parents. Read it. Pass it on. Let's help to end the cycle of abuse.
April 28, 2018
It is a sad and remarkable thing witnessing the strength of a woman, the strength women are forced into embodying so that they can deal and overcome all that life throws at us. In her short life Fezekile experienced insurmountable pain at the hands of those she loved, trusted, and idolized. people who should have been first in line to protect her but instead they were the ones out for her blood. I can't help but feel relief for her now that she is resting and doesn't have to fight anymore, she is at peace. Redi did an excellent job in giving Fezekile the dignity and respect she longed for while she was alive. she gave her a voice, a face and an identity. She redeemed her.
October 12, 2025
Can't recall when I started reading this book, but it took me sometime to get through because you have to pause and sit through some of the emotions. What I appreciate is so much of the context we are offered when understanding how Fezekile's case was handled...insight to the history of sexual violence to offer an understanding of power and patriarchy especially in the judicial system, which one could easily apply in every space you navigate. The last three chapters were quite emotional, but very beautifully written to truly highlight how intriguingly fascinating Fezekile was as a person. This is a book I will revisit.
October 18, 2017
The tragedy of this young woman's life, and the revisiting of the details of her 2006 Zuma rape charge, are disturbing to say the least.
Zuma's sense of entitlement to women, and the support of his followers is hard to justify, let alone understand.
In a country that suffers from gender inequality, and rape and abuse on a unprecedented scale, I salute the authoress and the broken woman, Kwezi.
Also, I am in awe of the bravery and impact the placard bearing silent protesters had, in Kwezi's name.
Zuma's sense of entitlement to women, and the support of his followers is hard to justify, let alone understand.
In a country that suffers from gender inequality, and rape and abuse on a unprecedented scale, I salute the authoress and the broken woman, Kwezi.
Also, I am in awe of the bravery and impact the placard bearing silent protesters had, in Kwezi's name.
September 2, 2021
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"I had to fight back. I have never fought for myself. If I don't fight back, this would keep happening to me. Even when it was clear that I would lose the case, I never once regretted fighting for myself."- Fezekile Ntsukela Khuzwayo
After reading this book, I feel like I knew Fezekile from a long time ago. A kindred spirit. How Redi tells her story is truly commendable. I would like to believe that this is how Redi chose to hold space for Fezekile. So many have let you down, but we will pick you up and carry you to a place of glory, says Redi.
Heartbreaking. Triggering.
"I had to fight back. I have never fought for myself. If I don't fight back, this would keep happening to me. Even when it was clear that I would lose the case, I never once regretted fighting for myself."- Fezekile Ntsukela Khuzwayo
After reading this book, I feel like I knew Fezekile from a long time ago. A kindred spirit. How Redi tells her story is truly commendable. I would like to believe that this is how Redi chose to hold space for Fezekile. So many have let you down, but we will pick you up and carry you to a place of glory, says Redi.
Heartbreaking. Triggering.
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