Last Seen, the story of brothers Alec and Harold, is the best evocation of grief and grieving I’ve ever read. It’s tragic and human, even funny, and it deals with universals –what’s more common than death? Yet it doesn’t lay out grand themes to do its work. Its accomplishments don’t lean on clichés about spiritual meaningfulness or on hokey sentimentalism. This book is very specific. And it’s poetry! Beautifully written. Its significance throughout is embedded deeply into its characters, events, words and pages. And this, I think, is why I have ended up writing about it in a way that seems almost like a cataloguing of story details. I hope this is more than a clumsy précis of Last Seen, but if that’s all I’ve been able to write, it’s probably because Matt Cohen is such a good writer (and I’m not), and I’m unable to encapsulate or unravel his artful/artless telling.
Alec, the primary narrator, once planned to achieve greatness at the feet of his thesis advisor, the renowned philosopher and author of White Men Dying, Herr Meyser. But he now teaches at a university in Toronto, is known as a “journalist,” and his dreams of intellectual cachet and critical acclaim have won him little more than a makeshift office that’s actually his laundry room, and a book commission he doubts he can fulfill (to produce a downer of a work – on the death of European culture). “Herr Meyser” is now just the name Alec gave to a hat he bought for himself but then presented to Harold when it proved to be too large.
Harold, a dashing, debonair man-about town, is Alec’s younger brother. He’s the kind of guy who attends family parties armed with a kit that includes a bottle of grappa and magic tricks for the kids. He’s a charmer, perhaps a trickster, whom few can resist. Certainly Alec is drawn to him, again and again, even though it doesn’t always work out as Alec would like. Harold’s an advertising man, and he’s “in the coin,” i.e., rich. Somehow you get the feeling that the product Harold sells most successfully, with the most dazzling panache, is himself.
Francine is introduced to us, and to Alec (by Harold), in a scene that Alec, narrating, identifies as the moment this story really begins: in the parking lot of a liquor store, on the day of their father’s funeral. Francine is a fun girl, and a nurse by profession. She seems to be Harold’s some-time girlfriend, but also functions as a kind of spirit guide. In Harold’s final days, as his caregiver, she eases his pain and his journey toward the end.
For Alec, Harold represents what he himself might have been, if academia, self-doubt, and regret had not been his lot. And while Alec wants to still play the role of big brother, he also resents the sleight of hand with which Harold apparently achieves his worldly ease and the dismissive way that he quickly loses interest in Alec’s endeavors and the things Alec holds dear. On the other hand, Alec’s pessimistic bumbling and intellectual airs irritate and sometimes insult Harold, who believes that Alec is the smart one and the darling of their parents. Yet the two are essential to each other. When Harold is in the final stages of cancer, his agony is more than either brother can bear. And when Harold is first diagnosed with cancer, Alec’s first reaction is to vehemently forbid him to die: Harold’s dying is unthinkable.
And that’s the gist of this story. Death is unthinkable, impossible. Harold and Alec are the ground of what’s real for each other; Like the siblings of any given family, they alone share the unique, even if not unusual, culture of their childhoods, the assumptions upon which all else, finally, is built. If Harold can be not-there, then rationality is similarly at risk; Nothing is reliable – neither the difference between life and death, nor self and other, nor past and present. When Harold dies, Alec and the story ricochet through time from memories to vague projections of a future that his children might inhabit, to a foggy present where his domestic life, his work, and his life in general are a fiasco. Even Harold, it seems, sometimes stumbles around the streets of Toronto, having not quite figured out he’s dead. And Alec, in a mist of tears and Scotch, finds himself in a mirage-like club devoted to celebrating not only The King of posthumous appearances, but also appearances of the disappeared. Here he runs into Harold and Francine. Harold is even harder to pin down in death than he was when he was alive, but he seems to be the same old Harold. They go to a beach; Harold and Francine disappear. Reappearance, disappearance. Slowly, as Alec’s world seems to crumble, Alec and Harold negotiate with death, after death.
If there is any sense of future here, it lies with the next generation. But it won’t be Francine’s baby, who might have been Harold’s. Or Alec’s. But who will never be anything, will never emerge from any underworld into the light of day. Only Alec’s kids, Simon and Emily, seem to bob to the surface of the muck that the adults around them are mired in. “Only they,” Alec says “were uncorrupted by the sudden ugliness death had splashed over the rest of us.”
The story of Harold and Alec, and the story of Alec’s mourning are specific, as I’ve said. Alec wonders how he can write about cultural theories that talk about the possible demise of mankind when all he really cares about is the loss of this one particular human being. Aren’t the painful, niggling details of a single life just boring trivialities compared with the grand sweep of history? But the details in this story are important and necessary. Without the mess and the pain and confusion, you’d have nothing. Even the order of things hardly matters, because, by the end, it’s all there, and simultaneously, not there. And if anyone can take a lesson away from all of this, perhaps it’s only the Herr Meysers of this world. For the rest of us – for anyone who’s ever lost someone they love, as we all have, the collecting and mulling over every single moment, every look, every what-if and if-only, the regretting and denying and maybe, eventually, accepting, is the work of mourning, the way we do it. As Emily protests when Alec tries to excuse himself for having told her and Simon an unusually truncated bedtime story by saying he was leaving out the boring parts, “there are no boring parts! … If you don’t tell the whole thing, you wreck it.”