This book had an impact on me unlike any I've read in a while!
Here's why: As a kid, I had a lot of unfulfilled wants: computer and video games, Beanie Babies and Pokémon cards, visiting vacation destinations, etc. Sure, it's not that I never got to have those items or go to those places--seriously, where I live, there are two theme parks practically in my own backyard that people come from all over the world to visit!--but, I always wanted more. My mom--who was single from the time I was very little until around the time I graduated from college--did the best she could, but, instead of accepting what she gave me, I blamed her for not giving me what all of my friends seemed to have. Our situation was complicated by the fact that I had an older sibling who was severely disabled, and that didn't change until the day my eldest sibling died; on my seventeenth birthday, no less. You may think that my special day was forever tainted by that event, but, honestly, I saw it as a birthday present from God. If you haven't been in a relationship with a family member like my sister, then, you have no room to judge.
So...unlike most people, I don't view my younger years as "the good old days". It's not that I don't have any good memories from "back in the day"; like a lot of kids, I had fun watching television, listening to music, playing Game Boy, hanging out with friends and such...but, sometimes, I still feel like I had a terrible childhood because of my family situation...
...or, at least, I did until I read this book. My family wasn't perfect--whose is?--but at least my mom, sisters--yes, I had more than one--and brother-in-law didn't go out, get drunk, and shoot extended family members, or get checked into a mental hospital, or get married and divorced umpteen times. Jimmy Wayne's account of his childhood shows me that I have nothing about which to complain; it's a wake-up call to a generation who feels that their parents telling them to do the right thing, or refusing to buy them the latest iPhone, is some sort of abuse. Seriously, these days, people don't even know the meaning of that word.