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The Dream of You: Let Go of Broken Identities and Live the Life You Were Made For
Let’s be honest, the life you lead isn’t what you’ve always dreamt. And maybe the person you’ve become isn’t who you’ve always imagined. Sure, you can clean it up. You can work longer, love harder, and eat better. You can scrub the surface of your life until it gleams and still never address the fact that somehow you lost sight of who you really are and what you’re living for.
Is this the life you were meant to live?
As the child of Nigerian immigrants in the UK, author and speaker Jo Saxton knows firsthand how quickly the world can cause us to doubt our dreams and question who we are. She understands how easily we can exchange our true child-of-God selves for an identity built on lies, guilt, and brokenness.
In this powerful book, Jo examines Biblical figures and shares her personal story as she invites you to turn to the One who knows you intimately and loves you deeply. He sees all you’ve struggled to hide. He hears the voice inside you that others have silenced. He knows the potential and purpose that no one valued. He longs to redeem the story of your life and set you on the path to reclaim The Dream of You. Are you ready?
Is this the life you were meant to live?
As the child of Nigerian immigrants in the UK, author and speaker Jo Saxton knows firsthand how quickly the world can cause us to doubt our dreams and question who we are. She understands how easily we can exchange our true child-of-God selves for an identity built on lies, guilt, and brokenness.
In this powerful book, Jo examines Biblical figures and shares her personal story as she invites you to turn to the One who knows you intimately and loves you deeply. He sees all you’ve struggled to hide. He hears the voice inside you that others have silenced. He knows the potential and purpose that no one valued. He longs to redeem the story of your life and set you on the path to reclaim The Dream of You. Are you ready?
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Published January 23, 2018
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January 12, 2018
I received this book from Waterbrook, the publisher, and read it as part of the launch team.
As I read, I doubted that I was the target audience. I thought I had already "let go of broken identities," as the subtitle reads.
The closing chapter helped me see that there were still some broken identities that I was hanging on to. Then the epilogue had me crying beautiful tears of recognition that who I am, right now, is the person I was created and redeemed to be. Even with all my flaws and areas where I am still a work-in-progress.
Jo Saxton gave me permission to live my life.
Her parting words reminded me of a prayer I prayed almost 18 years ago as I finished Beth Moore's Breaking Free Bible study. That prayer has been answered in ways I could not have imagined then. I am healed, free, and my life has been transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Like a liberated oak tree, I am a strong, mature display of God's splendor, just as I prayed to be all those years ago.
Somehow, I thought I had to have every aspect of my life all tidied up in a neat little package with a bow on top before I could claim my spot in His Kingdom. I still felt like I needed to earn my place at His table, to earn my keep. That belief was the root of the broken identity I needed to shed so I could live the life I was made to live. Who knew? HE DID, of course, and this book couldn't have entered my life in a more timely season.
Thank you, Jo Saxton, from the bottom of my heart. I saw myself in the mirror today and I LOOK JUST FINE! I found the keys and I'm ready to go.
As I read, I doubted that I was the target audience. I thought I had already "let go of broken identities," as the subtitle reads.
The closing chapter helped me see that there were still some broken identities that I was hanging on to. Then the epilogue had me crying beautiful tears of recognition that who I am, right now, is the person I was created and redeemed to be. Even with all my flaws and areas where I am still a work-in-progress.
Jo Saxton gave me permission to live my life.
Her parting words reminded me of a prayer I prayed almost 18 years ago as I finished Beth Moore's Breaking Free Bible study. That prayer has been answered in ways I could not have imagined then. I am healed, free, and my life has been transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Like a liberated oak tree, I am a strong, mature display of God's splendor, just as I prayed to be all those years ago.
Somehow, I thought I had to have every aspect of my life all tidied up in a neat little package with a bow on top before I could claim my spot in His Kingdom. I still felt like I needed to earn my place at His table, to earn my keep. That belief was the root of the broken identity I needed to shed so I could live the life I was made to live. Who knew? HE DID, of course, and this book couldn't have entered my life in a more timely season.
Thank you, Jo Saxton, from the bottom of my heart. I saw myself in the mirror today and I LOOK JUST FINE! I found the keys and I'm ready to go.
December 6, 2017
I am terribly partial and not to be trusted on such matters, but if I wasn't connected with the book at all, here's what I'd say.
The topic of identity amongst women sits at the heart of so many things. How I see my identity is reflected in my parenting. In my marriage. At my work. In my spiritual life and relationship with God. Jo's a very good guide on this journey, among the best - and invites us to have a look back at the image, the dream, we had of our younger selves and find out what God wants us to see. She has walked it, she has talked it, she has sat with it and probed it - and now she shares.
Highly recommended.
The topic of identity amongst women sits at the heart of so many things. How I see my identity is reflected in my parenting. In my marriage. At my work. In my spiritual life and relationship with God. Jo's a very good guide on this journey, among the best - and invites us to have a look back at the image, the dream, we had of our younger selves and find out what God wants us to see. She has walked it, she has talked it, she has sat with it and probed it - and now she shares.
Highly recommended.
January 4, 2018
I loved this book. It is a fresh breath in the world of Christian self help literature. Jo has an amazing grasp for the scriptures and is able to bring new life to stories from the Bible. It was so refreshing to read her words. I felt as though she could see inside my soul. It is a must read for women and I would love to see her write a version for adolescents as well. I would recommend this book to any woman who is seeking God’s will in her life.
March 9, 2018
The subtitle reads: Let go of Broken Identities...
That's the reason why I requested this book from Netgalley and I thank Waterbrook Press for granting me a copy in exchange for an honest review.
I thought this book is what I need right now, I'm 25 and have been battling depression since I was a teen. My mistake was, I didn't really ask help from others until last year. I know it will take long to be completely free from this state but at least I can feel little changes, better changes, since I sought help. Depression is one way of killing a dream, especially a dream of YOU. I'm quite aware that I lost my self, along with my dreams and beliefs while struggling with depression.
Jo Saxton is an angel. She made it so easy to understand the hows and why of losing an identity and finding it again. With the help of God, and YOU. The way her words were written felt like we're facing each other in a coffee table drinking tea, I mean coffee. Hehe. What I mean is she makes it so intimate and emotional, it's easy to imagine I'm hearing her sweet voice as I read. Her encouragements and advices ring true and hit deep through me that I know they weren't just written for the sake of this book but taht she really wants to empower women by encouraging us.
And though it appears that this one's written for women, it's okay if others read this as well. Just be creative on interpreting her words. (Like what I usually do. I actually now rereading a book called LOVE DARE intended for couples having problems in their marriage. I'm interpreting it as if God is my partner and I'm doing to deepen my relationship with him. :) )
Overall, I think this is a powerful book, with timeless message and I highly recommend this to all. :)
God Bless.
That's the reason why I requested this book from Netgalley and I thank Waterbrook Press for granting me a copy in exchange for an honest review.
I thought this book is what I need right now, I'm 25 and have been battling depression since I was a teen. My mistake was, I didn't really ask help from others until last year. I know it will take long to be completely free from this state but at least I can feel little changes, better changes, since I sought help. Depression is one way of killing a dream, especially a dream of YOU. I'm quite aware that I lost my self, along with my dreams and beliefs while struggling with depression.
Jo Saxton is an angel. She made it so easy to understand the hows and why of losing an identity and finding it again. With the help of God, and YOU. The way her words were written felt like we're facing each other in a coffee table drinking tea, I mean coffee. Hehe. What I mean is she makes it so intimate and emotional, it's easy to imagine I'm hearing her sweet voice as I read. Her encouragements and advices ring true and hit deep through me that I know they weren't just written for the sake of this book but taht she really wants to empower women by encouraging us.
And though it appears that this one's written for women, it's okay if others read this as well. Just be creative on interpreting her words. (Like what I usually do. I actually now rereading a book called LOVE DARE intended for couples having problems in their marriage. I'm interpreting it as if God is my partner and I'm doing to deepen my relationship with him. :) )
Overall, I think this is a powerful book, with timeless message and I highly recommend this to all. :)
God Bless.
December 17, 2017
If you’re at a crossroads, then this book is for you. Jo delves into her journey of figuring out who she is independent of all the roles she fills. Jo does an excellent job interweaving Biblical stories with her intriguing personal journey and connecting them to what you may be experiencing right now. God spoke to me through this book, and I hope it speaks to you as well.
If you like this book, I also recommend checking out the Lead Stories podcasts that Jo co-hosts with Pastor Steph.
Full disclosure: I received an advanced reader copy from the publisher and previously worked for the co-founders of 3D Movements, for which Jo Saxton serves as the chair of its board of directors. I have not met Jo Saxton personally, but would love to if the opportunity arises.
If you like this book, I also recommend checking out the Lead Stories podcasts that Jo co-hosts with Pastor Steph.
Full disclosure: I received an advanced reader copy from the publisher and previously worked for the co-founders of 3D Movements, for which Jo Saxton serves as the chair of its board of directors. I have not met Jo Saxton personally, but would love to if the opportunity arises.
January 23, 2018
As a recovering perfectionist, this book was the perfect read for me! My favorite part was the letters written at the beginning of each chapter - I related to all of them!! This book is both is engaging and inspiring. The perfect book to read as I look forward to beginning a new year.
January 26, 2018
With the heart of a leader, Jo Saxton has illuminated a path for us to walk toward the partnership we are created for. Her premise is important: that God has given each of us an identity and a purpose, but our environment and experiences have distracted, damaged, and robbed us of our knowledge of who and Whose we are.
Each chapter begins with a very personal and intimate letter from Jo to the reader, introducing the topic about to be covered. These little personal notes quickly became my favorite part of the book. I truly felt that I had opened a note from the author addressed to me alone, and she actually understood the expectations and experiences which have done their best to shape who I have become.
The thing is, and Jo is quick to point this out, who I have become is not always who I was created to be. So step by step, we addressed social and environmental pressures and looked at how these pressures were met by men and women of the bible.
Each chapter concludes with reflection questions designed to personalize our experience and allow the reader to explore and apply principles to their own stories. Later chapters give suggestions for moving forward in new relationship with our Creator.
Thank you Jo Saxton for giving us a wonderful vision for redemption and restoration, a hope for a better way of walking through our lives.
As part of the release team, I received an advance copy of this book. And I look forward to gathering a few people and working through Jo's wisdom again in the coming year.
Each chapter begins with a very personal and intimate letter from Jo to the reader, introducing the topic about to be covered. These little personal notes quickly became my favorite part of the book. I truly felt that I had opened a note from the author addressed to me alone, and she actually understood the expectations and experiences which have done their best to shape who I have become.
The thing is, and Jo is quick to point this out, who I have become is not always who I was created to be. So step by step, we addressed social and environmental pressures and looked at how these pressures were met by men and women of the bible.
Each chapter concludes with reflection questions designed to personalize our experience and allow the reader to explore and apply principles to their own stories. Later chapters give suggestions for moving forward in new relationship with our Creator.
Thank you Jo Saxton for giving us a wonderful vision for redemption and restoration, a hope for a better way of walking through our lives.
As part of the release team, I received an advance copy of this book. And I look forward to gathering a few people and working through Jo's wisdom again in the coming year.
January 2, 2018
I appreciated Jo’s willingness to dive in on the ethnicity/race conversation as she wrote about her identity in Christ. She was candid and real with the struggles and pain caused by others. This is important especially as the church scrambles to be a part of this conversation (when we should be leading it). I also appreciated her explanation of the covenant partner we find in the Lord. There were a few really great points in the book, as mentioned, and overall it was helpful, gospel centered advice. But i still felt there was something missing, hence only 4 stars. I received a free pre-release copy of this book.
December 11, 2017
This book is an emotional powerhouse! Jo begins each chapter with a personal note to the reader based on the issue the chapter covers, and it sets the tone for this to be a welcoming friendship. I laughed, cried, learned and was stretched by the topics addressed. If you've ever listened to any of the Lead Stories Podcast with Jo Saxton and Pastor Steph,you will hear Jo's voice as you read. (If you haven't, go look it up! You're missing out on her great accent!)
Sharing her experiences with topics that we all can relate to, this book challenges you to seek what God truly wants for you. It encourages the reader to look past the labels the world has given us and press forward into our God given identity. We can't progress if we stay in the past. We can't move forward if we continue to believe what others say of us. We can't do better in leadership of our homes, jobs or families if we are content to be stagnant.
Be ready to be encouraged and challenged. You will be blessed from this book!
*I was given an Advanced Reader copy in exchange for my honest review. All opinions above are my own*
Sharing her experiences with topics that we all can relate to, this book challenges you to seek what God truly wants for you. It encourages the reader to look past the labels the world has given us and press forward into our God given identity. We can't progress if we stay in the past. We can't move forward if we continue to believe what others say of us. We can't do better in leadership of our homes, jobs or families if we are content to be stagnant.
Be ready to be encouraged and challenged. You will be blessed from this book!
*I was given an Advanced Reader copy in exchange for my honest review. All opinions above are my own*
March 17, 2018
I received a pre-released copy so I could provide an honest opinion.
I've had the pleasure of hearing Jo Saxton speak on several occasions. That same energetic, supportive voice comes through in her writing. She created great word pictures in my mind. I could see a young Jo taking on the world in her red Wonder Woman boots and I was a part of her Nigerian family gatherings.
Having not been encouraged to dream as a child and teenager, I was a little nervous about the subject matter. Some of it was hard to read and feel. Jo gently introduces each chapter with a letter to the reader and herself. She weaves lessons from the Bible with lessons she has learned throughout her life.
She has dared me to dream, told me it's okay and used scripture to get me to a place where I can accept it.
It's a solid book.
I've had the pleasure of hearing Jo Saxton speak on several occasions. That same energetic, supportive voice comes through in her writing. She created great word pictures in my mind. I could see a young Jo taking on the world in her red Wonder Woman boots and I was a part of her Nigerian family gatherings.
Having not been encouraged to dream as a child and teenager, I was a little nervous about the subject matter. Some of it was hard to read and feel. Jo gently introduces each chapter with a letter to the reader and herself. She weaves lessons from the Bible with lessons she has learned throughout her life.
She has dared me to dream, told me it's okay and used scripture to get me to a place where I can accept it.
It's a solid book.
October 11, 2021
I enjoyed reading parts of this book but I will admit I did struggle. There were parts I felt that I couldn't relate to. The best part was the songs on my heart chapter. I could see myself doing the same thing when a song comes on.
February 8, 2019
Jo has yet again written a powerful and thoughtful book. She mentors the reader by sharing experiences from her own life..what she learned, and how she grew through the struggles.
She begins each chapter with a personal letter to the reader that is encouraging and yet minces no words when it comes to the challenges and work required when we want to change. Jo weaves scripture throughout her book, reminding us that God's Word provides us with the same encouragement and challenge.
And what Jo also does that many authors don't include, is to provide practical applications that can lead to change. She doesn't just tell us change needs to happen, but helps us create a plan so change can actually occur for each of us.
Knowing Jo, I could hear her voice as I turned the pages and often smiled as I read some of her asides found inside the ( ). Her writing is honest, true and can be trusted. It is a book I will not only purchase for my adult friends but also for high school graduation gifts in the spring.
*I was honored to receive and Advanced Reader's Copy of this book, but all opinions provided are my own.
She begins each chapter with a personal letter to the reader that is encouraging and yet minces no words when it comes to the challenges and work required when we want to change. Jo weaves scripture throughout her book, reminding us that God's Word provides us with the same encouragement and challenge.
And what Jo also does that many authors don't include, is to provide practical applications that can lead to change. She doesn't just tell us change needs to happen, but helps us create a plan so change can actually occur for each of us.
Knowing Jo, I could hear her voice as I turned the pages and often smiled as I read some of her asides found inside the ( ). Her writing is honest, true and can be trusted. It is a book I will not only purchase for my adult friends but also for high school graduation gifts in the spring.
*I was honored to receive and Advanced Reader's Copy of this book, but all opinions provided are my own.
September 14, 2021
My first book by Jo Saxton. I like the message to remember whose we are and Who we belong to. Young women definitely need to read this book because of the society we live in. She’s a dynamic speaker, would love to hear more of her teaching. I always enjoy books that contain personal stories.
October 14, 2021
There were many good things about this book. I dog-eared 14% of the pages and underlined much more!
I was a bit disappointed, however, in the scope of the book. First of all, the main title is a bit vague. I didn't exactly know what kind of dreams she would be talking about. One of my charismatic friends asked if it was about dream interpretation. The subtitle is absolutely essential to understanding the premise, but I felt that the book really focused on the “Let Go of Broken Identities” part and barely touched on the “and Live the Life You Were Made For” part in the last chapter.
Maybe it's because I, for the most part, have already begun the journey of letting go of my “broken identities” and am now ready for finding my purpose. I have been searching for my unique purpose for at least 4 years now, and I was hoping to get a clearer idea of how I could be used in the Kingdom. Jo touches on that in the last chapter, but I want so much more! I hope she writes the rest of that journey next. For those of us who were saved early in life, “where you were before Jesus redeemed our identity” isn't very revealing, if we can even remember what we were like before Him. I can't. That doesn't help me in knowing which kind of ministry or niche to “share my story” in, as my story is boring compared to Jo's and others with dramatic childhoods.
However, for what it was, it was good. Jo invites us along her journey – sometimes a bit unrelatable to me – to realize some of the lies we've believed about who we are. She invites us to step into our God-given identities of a child of God and a work in progress. Perfectionism and abandonment are the two main broken identities Jo worked through, but she mentions Bible characters who struggled with other things, too.
I'm not sure how applicable this book by itself is – I understand that the study guide is where that comes in – boy, I wish I had bought it! But I can still recommend this book as a starting point, especially for newer Christians or those still struggling with their pasts.
Favorite quotes:
“When you are uncertain about who you are, you will believe – wrongly – that your value has to be earned. You will try to prove your worth through achievement.” (p. 5)
“For many of us, knowing Jesus has not pointed the way to finding out who we truly are. How can that be possible? … we assume we now have to overachieve in the realms of spirituality and faith. As a result, our identity in Christ becomes yet another task to add to an over-crowded list of jobs to get done.” (p. 12)
“ His redemption of your life has transformative implications for your identity.” (p. 19)
“[Like Jacob,] It has been a long, hard session of wrestling with God to come to the end of myself and yet not let go until God blesses me. Moving forward has meant walking with a limp, aware of my weakness and vulnerability.” (p. 38)
“Fortunately, it is not your job to manufacture peace and hope. It's not even your responsibility to understand God. It is God's joy to get it through to you. God is willing and able to redeem every part of your life, even your picture of Him.” (p. 89)
“[A mirror] might reveal a glimpse of how you feel as revealed in your facial expression and body language. But it can't tell who you are or determine your value. It's a mirror. It doesn't know you.” (p. 98)
“[J]ust because I wasn't feeling changed didn't mean I wasn't being changed.” (p. 106)
“God is present with us in the wilderness because this stage is essential to our faith journey.” (p. 125)
“Wandering in the wilderness exposed the truth that in order to be fully free, the Israelites didn't just need to get out of Egypt. They needed to get Egypt out of them.” (p. 135)
“At all times, God was there, walking through my valley of dry bones... When grief left me gasping, He was my air.” (p. 151)
We, like the Jewish Pharisees, are “always pushing, driving, and striving yet never arriving.” (p. 161)
“Practice not only transformed their skills but also transformed them. Practice created shared passion, connection, and fun... practices such as prayer, Bible study, worship, and service” (p. 188-9)
“[A] key place He sends us to is the life we already have.” (p. 213)
(I received a copy for free from Proverbs31. I was not compensated for this review. All opinions are my own, as was the decision to write this review.)
I was a bit disappointed, however, in the scope of the book. First of all, the main title is a bit vague. I didn't exactly know what kind of dreams she would be talking about. One of my charismatic friends asked if it was about dream interpretation. The subtitle is absolutely essential to understanding the premise, but I felt that the book really focused on the “Let Go of Broken Identities” part and barely touched on the “and Live the Life You Were Made For” part in the last chapter.
Maybe it's because I, for the most part, have already begun the journey of letting go of my “broken identities” and am now ready for finding my purpose. I have been searching for my unique purpose for at least 4 years now, and I was hoping to get a clearer idea of how I could be used in the Kingdom. Jo touches on that in the last chapter, but I want so much more! I hope she writes the rest of that journey next. For those of us who were saved early in life, “where you were before Jesus redeemed our identity” isn't very revealing, if we can even remember what we were like before Him. I can't. That doesn't help me in knowing which kind of ministry or niche to “share my story” in, as my story is boring compared to Jo's and others with dramatic childhoods.
However, for what it was, it was good. Jo invites us along her journey – sometimes a bit unrelatable to me – to realize some of the lies we've believed about who we are. She invites us to step into our God-given identities of a child of God and a work in progress. Perfectionism and abandonment are the two main broken identities Jo worked through, but she mentions Bible characters who struggled with other things, too.
I'm not sure how applicable this book by itself is – I understand that the study guide is where that comes in – boy, I wish I had bought it! But I can still recommend this book as a starting point, especially for newer Christians or those still struggling with their pasts.
Favorite quotes:
“When you are uncertain about who you are, you will believe – wrongly – that your value has to be earned. You will try to prove your worth through achievement.” (p. 5)
“For many of us, knowing Jesus has not pointed the way to finding out who we truly are. How can that be possible? … we assume we now have to overachieve in the realms of spirituality and faith. As a result, our identity in Christ becomes yet another task to add to an over-crowded list of jobs to get done.” (p. 12)
“ His redemption of your life has transformative implications for your identity.” (p. 19)
“[Like Jacob,] It has been a long, hard session of wrestling with God to come to the end of myself and yet not let go until God blesses me. Moving forward has meant walking with a limp, aware of my weakness and vulnerability.” (p. 38)
“Fortunately, it is not your job to manufacture peace and hope. It's not even your responsibility to understand God. It is God's joy to get it through to you. God is willing and able to redeem every part of your life, even your picture of Him.” (p. 89)
“[A mirror] might reveal a glimpse of how you feel as revealed in your facial expression and body language. But it can't tell who you are or determine your value. It's a mirror. It doesn't know you.” (p. 98)
“[J]ust because I wasn't feeling changed didn't mean I wasn't being changed.” (p. 106)
“God is present with us in the wilderness because this stage is essential to our faith journey.” (p. 125)
“Wandering in the wilderness exposed the truth that in order to be fully free, the Israelites didn't just need to get out of Egypt. They needed to get Egypt out of them.” (p. 135)
“At all times, God was there, walking through my valley of dry bones... When grief left me gasping, He was my air.” (p. 151)
We, like the Jewish Pharisees, are “always pushing, driving, and striving yet never arriving.” (p. 161)
“Practice not only transformed their skills but also transformed them. Practice created shared passion, connection, and fun... practices such as prayer, Bible study, worship, and service” (p. 188-9)
“[A] key place He sends us to is the life we already have.” (p. 213)
(I received a copy for free from Proverbs31. I was not compensated for this review. All opinions are my own, as was the decision to write this review.)
January 24, 2018
I had really only heard Jo speak a few times but I knew that she brings the Truth with passion and intensity when she speaks and I was pretty sure that would translate into a book that I would want to devour! As soon as I saw the title and subtitle, I knew I was in!
Because here's the thing: Even when we have discovered our true, God-given identities and have been walking with Him and have learned His ways and have experienced partnering with Him in using our gifts... Gah! Sometimes we STILL forget, right?
This book is full of Jo's personal journey... full of ups and downs and testimonies of how He came through but also testimonies of how she got through in the in between times!
As expected, she draws from the Bible and unpacks Scripture and familiar stories in a way that gives you a different perspective, --or at least a refresher that shows you that there are a lot of kindred wanderers and wounded warriors in the Word. A reminder that truly, we are not alone... and whatever we are facing, there is purpose in it and through it and even the hard, dark parts (maybe especially those!) He will use!
I loved that while reading her words, I could 'hear' her voice... sometimes reading with an accent (because - of course!) and sometimes reading in a slightly shouty font because of the excitement!
I also loved the combination of Letters to the reader, with Scripture/Bible teaching, testimony, and space to write and to answer some great leading questions to help us discover (or re-discover) the parts of us that may have gotten lost or broken along the way, too!
Because here's the thing: Even when we have discovered our true, God-given identities and have been walking with Him and have learned His ways and have experienced partnering with Him in using our gifts... Gah! Sometimes we STILL forget, right?
This book is full of Jo's personal journey... full of ups and downs and testimonies of how He came through but also testimonies of how she got through in the in between times!
As expected, she draws from the Bible and unpacks Scripture and familiar stories in a way that gives you a different perspective, --or at least a refresher that shows you that there are a lot of kindred wanderers and wounded warriors in the Word. A reminder that truly, we are not alone... and whatever we are facing, there is purpose in it and through it and even the hard, dark parts (maybe especially those!) He will use!
I loved that while reading her words, I could 'hear' her voice... sometimes reading with an accent (because - of course!) and sometimes reading in a slightly shouty font because of the excitement!
I also loved the combination of Letters to the reader, with Scripture/Bible teaching, testimony, and space to write and to answer some great leading questions to help us discover (or re-discover) the parts of us that may have gotten lost or broken along the way, too!
January 13, 2018
I was immersed from the very first chapter in the new book by Jo Saxton. Her humor and truth kept me turning page after page, wading deeper into a journey for my soul. The "Dream of You" brought out the stories we each have, some are unique and some are shared experiences. Jo's book then gives the space to explore the stories while discovering God's really big dreams for each of us.
Saxton invites us into her life to experience joys and struggles, weaving personal stories with biblical truths. She willingly shares about life in foster care, harm from bullying, cross-cultural challenges, racial tensions, along with the sadness of church politics. Through it all, her heart for the Lord emerges. We get to walk alongside Saxton as her relationship with the Lord develops and her understanding of purpose takes shape.
To help process the introspective topics, each chapter concludes with journal prompts and leading questions. They effectively guided my reflection time. "Dream of You" is the book read to when dreams seem far, far away. Saxton brings hope for the life you were created to live.
I received an Advance Reader Copy from the publisher.
Saxton invites us into her life to experience joys and struggles, weaving personal stories with biblical truths. She willingly shares about life in foster care, harm from bullying, cross-cultural challenges, racial tensions, along with the sadness of church politics. Through it all, her heart for the Lord emerges. We get to walk alongside Saxton as her relationship with the Lord develops and her understanding of purpose takes shape.
To help process the introspective topics, each chapter concludes with journal prompts and leading questions. They effectively guided my reflection time. "Dream of You" is the book read to when dreams seem far, far away. Saxton brings hope for the life you were created to live.
I received an Advance Reader Copy from the publisher.
April 4, 2018
I have really liked the teaching style of Jo Saxton at the past two If:Gathering conferences and was excited to receive her book to read and review. I was not sure what to expect but I ended up loving it. Isn't it awesome how certain books "find" you at the right time? I was struggling with my own worth and identity after feeling like I kept making mistakes and was not measuring up. This book was a great tool in working through that. It may have a light, airy title but it does deep work. Saxton uses Biblical stories, solid Bible-based truth, and her own experiences to dig into why many Christian women still struggle with finding their worth and identity in perfectionism, overachievement, and the names and labels others stick onto us that threaten to mute the song of our hearts, rather than finding it in the character and work of Jesus. She exposes the lies that keep us from pursuing the dreams, purposes, and God-shaped personality and abilities God has given us as well as helping readers navigate through the seasons of wilderness and valleys when it seems like God is a million miles away. Her wisdom is encouraging, her practical advice is helpful for processing the things God is working in hearts as they read this book. She is funny, honest, encouraging, and relatable.
July 30, 2019
Oh my! I am a big fan of Jo Saxton and have been significantly impacted by her leadership material, and in particular her book ‘Influential’. I confess though that I wasn’t particularly drawn to this book at first - I thought it might fall too much in the category of Christian self help. Instead I discovered a book that is part autobiographical, part Christian identity and part discipleship. Jo has an engaging, honest, delightful writing style that is easy to read (the audio book is author read, even better!) and her content is biblically sound and highly applicable - at least to me. ‘The Dream of You’ paints a powerful picture of a discipleship journey, and encouraged us to become all that we are created to be. Glad I bought the hard copy to return to after a speedy listen! 4.5 stars.
January 9, 2018
Wow. I read and like a lot of books. But this book spoke to my soul.
Where has life, unsolicited advice, well-meaning (but unwanted) criticism, or your own battered self broken you? It's so easy to lose track of who you really are while the world is screaming who it wants you to be. Prepare for a journey of rediscovery.
Dive into this book with your heart and mind open to finding those parts of you that are worthy and valuable. Finding your identity in Christ while working at shedding the identity the world has given you is not necessarily easy, but having Jo Saxton along for the journey makes it easier. Written like she is speaking to you as a friend it feels as though her words are meant just for you.
This is a book to read and then read again.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher.
Where has life, unsolicited advice, well-meaning (but unwanted) criticism, or your own battered self broken you? It's so easy to lose track of who you really are while the world is screaming who it wants you to be. Prepare for a journey of rediscovery.
Dive into this book with your heart and mind open to finding those parts of you that are worthy and valuable. Finding your identity in Christ while working at shedding the identity the world has given you is not necessarily easy, but having Jo Saxton along for the journey makes it easier. Written like she is speaking to you as a friend it feels as though her words are meant just for you.
This is a book to read and then read again.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher.
April 21, 2022
Ok, lets face it, these aren't my kind of books. I listened to it as a book on tape and it was read by the author who was born in Africa. I loved listening to her voice and her story. If she wrote a memoir, I would devour it. However, she sprinkled her story into a Christian self-help style book about not letting other people or circumstances define you. I'm sure other people would find this helpful, but I just don't have that struggle so I got bored and stopped listening about 2/3 of the way through.
April 24, 2018
I saw an opportunity to join the launch team, and I love reading pre-release books and sharing my opinion. I didn't know much about Jo Saxton and haven't heard her speak, but Ann Voskamp is a book mentor I love and she wrote the forward, so I jumped in. After reading her book, I feel like I can refer to her as my friend, Jo. She has the knack of making the reader feel known, seen, and visible in the book, as she encourages you (maybe some would view it as a pretty direct push) to think, process, pray, and seek God's dream of you, and be an active participant in living it. I have the utmost respect for Mrs. Saxton, but since she told me I'm her friend, it's natural to call her Jo. (even if I don't really know her in person.)
In her book she mentions she likes lists (and she also directs us that some parts of life a list doesn't fit!), so I think I will share a list of things I like about the book:
Format/Content- Super engaging and personal, you feel like you are sitting with your friend or mentor Jo, learning from life together, and seeking God's dream of you.
*the book is very practical, clear, and approachable. We all need to learn the lessons Jo shares.
*Each chapter opens with a letter from Jo. She writes as if we are friends, shares her heart, empowers the leader, and engages us in the journey of thinking through the lessons she's learned in her life.
*Most chapters end with a task, a question, or a prompt to process and review the main idea presented.
*Chapters have titled section breaks that help keep you focused.
Jo is vulnerable and shares her own experiences, thoughts, doubts, and struggles, but often caveats them with parallel issues others may deal with, so we all are forced to recognize we need to mentally evaluate our thoughts, hopes, dreams, and what has influenced them, or slowed, or separated us from them.
Scripture- Jo makes her points clear as she teaches us how to find our true identity in Christ and let go of our broken identities, to live as God would direct us. It's personal with her stories, but it's truthful with her excellent examples in the Word of God. She has us thinking about Jesus, life, teachings, perspectives and how heroes of the Faith lived their real identity- Esther, David, Paul, ....
Style (shared a bit in format.)
*Her style is culturally relevant, and embracing each woman where she is.
* It's authentic, and she pushes us to transform our minds and renew our thoughts with the help of the Holy Spirit.
*She is a direct shooter, she doesn't mince words, she's clear, to the point, and easy to understand. Some may not like this, as you can't ignore easily thinking and applying the strategies to yourself. (Some of us may like to read about how to grow, but we prefer a distant, less internalized approach, so we can believe we are growing, but not really be confronted directly.)
* But her style embraces a guilt free, where you are, one step or moment at a time, she even talks about how to move ahead little by little.
The last few chapters were practical strategies, tips, ideas with room for you to add more of your own, to really find your identity in Christ and learn to live in it.
I enjoyed this book, some of the struggles mentioned were not mine, and I didn't feel like every aspect or perspective fit me, but that really didn't slow me down or turn me off because she so often mentions that all her struggles, might be very different than our own, and that's okay. It also may be that I've walked the process Jo talks about, as a woman older than her, and those are seasons or stages that I've made it through and don't break me any more. So that gave me hope, that i am growing!
And I believe this book will be beneficial to many, many women who are seeking to find fulfillment and transform their lives to the life that they were made for, a life transformed, led, and directed by a loving, gracious, all knowing, glorious God, who is ready and willing to direct our steps, we just need to stop and let Him.
Blessed to get an ARC from the publisher, but the opinons and thoughts are my own, not influenced by the ARC.
In her book she mentions she likes lists (and she also directs us that some parts of life a list doesn't fit!), so I think I will share a list of things I like about the book:
Format/Content- Super engaging and personal, you feel like you are sitting with your friend or mentor Jo, learning from life together, and seeking God's dream of you.
*the book is very practical, clear, and approachable. We all need to learn the lessons Jo shares.
*Each chapter opens with a letter from Jo. She writes as if we are friends, shares her heart, empowers the leader, and engages us in the journey of thinking through the lessons she's learned in her life.
*Most chapters end with a task, a question, or a prompt to process and review the main idea presented.
*Chapters have titled section breaks that help keep you focused.
Jo is vulnerable and shares her own experiences, thoughts, doubts, and struggles, but often caveats them with parallel issues others may deal with, so we all are forced to recognize we need to mentally evaluate our thoughts, hopes, dreams, and what has influenced them, or slowed, or separated us from them.
Scripture- Jo makes her points clear as she teaches us how to find our true identity in Christ and let go of our broken identities, to live as God would direct us. It's personal with her stories, but it's truthful with her excellent examples in the Word of God. She has us thinking about Jesus, life, teachings, perspectives and how heroes of the Faith lived their real identity- Esther, David, Paul, ....
Style (shared a bit in format.)
*Her style is culturally relevant, and embracing each woman where she is.
* It's authentic, and she pushes us to transform our minds and renew our thoughts with the help of the Holy Spirit.
*She is a direct shooter, she doesn't mince words, she's clear, to the point, and easy to understand. Some may not like this, as you can't ignore easily thinking and applying the strategies to yourself. (Some of us may like to read about how to grow, but we prefer a distant, less internalized approach, so we can believe we are growing, but not really be confronted directly.)
* But her style embraces a guilt free, where you are, one step or moment at a time, she even talks about how to move ahead little by little.
The last few chapters were practical strategies, tips, ideas with room for you to add more of your own, to really find your identity in Christ and learn to live in it.
I enjoyed this book, some of the struggles mentioned were not mine, and I didn't feel like every aspect or perspective fit me, but that really didn't slow me down or turn me off because she so often mentions that all her struggles, might be very different than our own, and that's okay. It also may be that I've walked the process Jo talks about, as a woman older than her, and those are seasons or stages that I've made it through and don't break me any more. So that gave me hope, that i am growing!
And I believe this book will be beneficial to many, many women who are seeking to find fulfillment and transform their lives to the life that they were made for, a life transformed, led, and directed by a loving, gracious, all knowing, glorious God, who is ready and willing to direct our steps, we just need to stop and let Him.
Blessed to get an ARC from the publisher, but the opinons and thoughts are my own, not influenced by the ARC.
February 8, 2019
I had the privilege of getting an advance copy of this over a year ago. Jo captures the spirit of our Dreams that we have let go or forgotten because "LIFE" happens! When we are young we are dreamers and the are limitless. Do not let the World conform you. Dream Big and do what makes your heart happy!
May 19, 2020
4+ stars. I really enjoyed this book as part of an online women’s Bible study group. I loved Jo’s accompanying videos (available on RightNowMedia.org). I would like to go through it again and spend more time working through each chapter. I am very thankful for Jo’s willingness to be transparent in her struggles with her identity—it helped me be more honest with my own struggles.
November 1, 2021
Jo Saxton does it again! In this book she reminds us to keep our own dreams. Keep your hope and dreams alive and don’t forget to stop doubting yourself and stay strong, in turn, this will strengthen you for everything else you have going on.
May 15, 2018
This book addresses identity issues in such a beautiful and nuanced way. I love how she wove her story with examples from the Bible in a really clear manner. I highly recommend this ❤️
January 24, 2018
Jo Saxton is an incredible speaker, teacher, and writer whose personality and passion fills the pages of "The Dream of You." Jo's books offers an unobtrusive companionship to her readers who are wanting someone to walk with them as they re-discover their God-given identity despite life's pain, challenges, and distractions. This is an empowering, uplifting book that will make you want to put on your wonder woman boots and fight your giants!
October 15, 2021
A good study of Biblical truths and the ways in which we lose sight of our identity and calling, along with suggestions for how to find our way back.
February 4, 2018
If you are new to Christian women’s “self-help” in Jesus, this is a nice addition to the collection.
I think I’ve just read too many Jennie Allen, Lysa Terkerkhurst, and other Christian female authors and everything is starting to run together. The author who stands out to me is Jen Hatmaker as being more differentiated in the group but maybe that’s because I started with her.
At the end of the day, trust God to be who He made us to be. Jo’s story twists from the American girls in that she hails from a Nigerian family in England. Her adaptation to the US added context for foreign-born citizens adjusting to a “new” English and our American -isms.
Hearing HER story made this captivating in parts and her love for Wonder Woman (the 70s one) also kept me intrigued.
My primary take away is to spend more time in the source of these books - God’s Word - and then continue to use them as a complement/devotion throughout the day source. Other perspectives on His Word are awesome, but my relationship will grow stronger with more depth to my 1:1 time with Him.
I think I’ve just read too many Jennie Allen, Lysa Terkerkhurst, and other Christian female authors and everything is starting to run together. The author who stands out to me is Jen Hatmaker as being more differentiated in the group but maybe that’s because I started with her.
At the end of the day, trust God to be who He made us to be. Jo’s story twists from the American girls in that she hails from a Nigerian family in England. Her adaptation to the US added context for foreign-born citizens adjusting to a “new” English and our American -isms.
Hearing HER story made this captivating in parts and her love for Wonder Woman (the 70s one) also kept me intrigued.
My primary take away is to spend more time in the source of these books - God’s Word - and then continue to use them as a complement/devotion throughout the day source. Other perspectives on His Word are awesome, but my relationship will grow stronger with more depth to my 1:1 time with Him.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
September 23, 2021
DNF. I started this book as part of the Proverbs 31 Ministries online Bible study for the fall. Three weeks into the study and it isn't grabbing me and I keep lagging behind the group because I just cant get into it. I liked the study videos that go along with the book, and I think the discussion questions (in the OBS Facebook group) are helpful. Maybe in another season I'd be able to keep up, but just the book on it's own is meh. Too much Jo, not much God or scripture. Maybe I should just read my Bible?
June 17, 2021
Truly adored this book. I would have listened to it all in one day but I stopped myself and portioned it out in such a way that I could take it all in and let the words impact me.
I know Jo is an 8 so hearing her voice being so strong in my ears was what I truly needed in my current season. I had no idea how much I needed it until so many of her stories and lessons made me nod, tear up, fully cry and rally for myself.
I know Jo is an 8 so hearing her voice being so strong in my ears was what I truly needed in my current season. I had no idea how much I needed it until so many of her stories and lessons made me nod, tear up, fully cry and rally for myself.
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