This middle grade title originally published in the UK introduces Katie Sutton, a thirteen-year-old self-proclaimed expert on parent behavior. In her notebook - which reads like a diary similar to that of Nikki in the Dork Diaries books or Julie and Lydia in the Popularity Papers books- she records not just daily occurrences but her own hard-earned wisdom about the care and keeping of parents. She identifies various modes in which parents operate - embarrassment mode, for example, or angry mode - and then offers advice on how to behave around parents in those modes to achieve the most desirable outcome. Katie also faces her own challenges, especially when it comes to boys and her mother’s new love interest.
I was skeptical of this book for the first few chapters. There were a few cliches that grated on my nerves, the biggest one being that libraries are quiet places with stodgy librarians. That image is false and outdated, and I’ve grown weary of the laziness of authors who still use it. I also wasn’t sure how many kids really believe the adults in their lives are such mysteries. Even when I didn’t agree with my parents at this age, I never thought they were impossible to understand or speaking another language. I also don’t recall truly believing that people over 40 were ancient. Sentiments like these made me question the authenticity of Katie’s character, and turned me off to the story at first.
I also found myself wondering about the book’s title. To me, Diary of a Parent Trainer implies that Katie trains parents how to behave. What she actually does, though, is train kids on how to read their parents’ moods and behaviors. The difference is subtle enough, I suppose, but I couldn’t help thinking the title arose from a desire to attract fans of other diary-style novels. I don’t think the title will turn readers away, since it does have a nice ring to it, but it might inadvertently muddle the reader’s expectations.
Thankfully, the quality of writing improves greatly as the story develops, and that saves the book. Author Jenny Smith does a great job of portraying the family’s healthy attitude toward the death of Katie’s father. This is one area where she avoids the usual cliches and develops a unique and believable set of circumstances for this very specific family. She also really demonstrates her capabilities as a writer through her descriptions of Katie’s neighbors and relatives in her small village. I really enjoyed seeing the dynamics of a small town come to life, and I thought Katie’s family’s relationships to these people added a lot to the story. I also really appreciate the fact that the American version of this novel does not seem to be completely Americanized. I have no way of knowing how much British English appears in the UK edition, but at least some of it remains, which preserves the integrity of the setting and the characters’ proper manner of speaking.
Girls already into other diary-style novels will happily enjoy this one as well. Other possible read-alikes include the Katie Jordan series, the Lou! graphic novels and The Five Lives of Our Cat Zook.